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MadeINchenzen2:
Who did this to Africaaaaans !!!

same question I asked but the answer is..... WE DID IT TO OURSELVES BY TRYING TO COPY THE WESTERN WORLD AND ITS "FREEDOM"

softguy1:
Ignore the errors and focus on the message.. and pls no insult. Thanks in anticipation

I am 23years old planning to marry soon. My problem is that i always find it difficult have sex with a lady, I have a girlfriend when ever she visit I don't get hard untill she leaves, I try all my possible best including tough romance but all seems abortive,

Note: I have been battling with this for 2 years now not only this my present girlfriend and I lost many girlfriend bcuz of this....

In case you ask I am not an impotent i get normal morning erection regularly, And I get hard if I see my girlfriend and other lady outside but different is the case in the bedroom... Thanks for ur understanding.

YOUR MIND is the problem..... maybe God is protecting you or maybe your RELIGIOUS background is blocking your mind.


Either way, MARRY HER FIRST before having sex.

MadeINchenzen2:
trust me when I tell you it is morally wrong and lacks regards of a persons sacrifices during the course of that relationship. unless a guy or a lady lacks proper manners, ethics, etiquettes and good sense of reason then breaking up on social media won't be a big deal.

A relationship started on SM and should end on SM is an idea that oozes of sheer thoughtlessness, insensitivity and ignorance!

lol, you forget that these are MARLIANS.....

90% of what you may call relationship are just sexual/financial benefits..... PROPER RELATIONSHIPS START THE RIGHT WAY AND END THE RIGHT WAY....


Nothing is proper anymore, you can not follow Naira Marley, davido, etc and have a proper relationship.... look around you.... culture has changed o.


being RUDE, SAUCY and MANNERLESS is the new normal

MadeINchenzen2:
show some damn respect... we are in a techy world @ the moment and virtually 75% of our lives revolves around the likes of Fb, Twitter and the rest ... when it comes to relationships...the status quo remains desame... from toasting chats to dating chats and then the break-up chats.

If a guy or a lady has gifted you that privilege to be in a relationship with him or her then you should IN-THE-LIFE-OF-ME show some respect and do it the right way.

WELL in the same techy world.... NO RULES APPLY.... so your opinion does not really hold.


What if the relationship started on SOCIAL MEDIA before it led to physical meeting, sex and outings.... it is normal if it ends through a 4 line msg on whatsapp then a BLOCK


You seem to ignore the fact that this generation is GONE already.... social media made kids disrespect those as old as their parents... NAIRALAND is an example, the art of respect is LOST... and as the years progress it will get worse... because everyone breaksup according to how angry or fedup as they feel at the moment.

So its sad, very sad BUT really the only rule is DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU.

emperorsversion:
I haven't .. This question is a direct reflection to my struggle to addiction on gambling... I find it hard to stop

I thought you had stopped o, I was seeking help too... I noticed you didnt post anything about it since 2019, so I felt to learn how you broke the habit.... cos my own is playing video games and its freaking HARD to stop

Paulot001:
Praying Against Our Enemies (Rigth or Wrong)

STRICTLY FOR LEARNING PURPOSE

Obviously we all have enemies, but our real enemy is the devil. Though the devil manifest through humans.

In the write up i will focus on our human enemies.

Let us read what Jesus said about what should be our response to our enemies

Matthew 5 :43-45
Mat 5:43  Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 
Mat 5:44  But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; 
Mat 5:45  That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. 
Mat 5:46  For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same?

It is clear that Jesus is talking about human enemies here and what is expected of us (HUMANS)

Luke 6:27-28
Luk 6:27  But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, 
Luk 6:28  Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. 

Jesus teaching about our response to human enemies (HUMANS)

Romans 12:19-20
Rom 12:19  Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord. 
Rom 12:20  Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirst, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head. 

Paul teaching about our response to our enemies (HUMANS)


JUDGING FROM ABOVE SCRIPTURAL PASSAGES

(1) IS IT RIGHT FOR WE CHRISTIANS CURSE OUR ENEMIES? (HUMANS)

(2) IS IT RIGHT FOR WE CHRISTIANS TO PRAY DEATH FOR OUR ENEMIES? (HUMANS)

(3) IS IT RIGHT FOR WE CHRISTIANS TO PRAY EVIL TO BEFALL OUR ENEMIES (HUMANS)


I will appreciate good scriptural response for NEW TESTAMENT CHURCH. Thank

NOTE FOR LEARNING PURPOSE

no HUMAN is an ENEMY... but EVIL SPIRITS ARE THE ENEMIES AND THE ENTER HUMANS OR MANIPULATE POROUS HUMANS TO EXECUTE THEIR EVIL WILL on Earth.

Scripture: LUKE 22:3 Satan HIMSELF entered Judas

Matthew 12:43-45 NLT -
“When an evil spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, seeking rest but finding none.
44 Then it says, 'I will return to the person I came from.'...


so SPIRITS THAT LEFT A PERSON CAN RETURN once the person does not FILL THE SPACE THEY ONCE OCCUPIED WITH A BETTER SPIRIT.



So WHEN WE PRAY AGAINST ENEMIES.... our focus is not HUMANS but the Spirit Entities sponsoring them.

Only an Illiterate Pastor or leader will direct prayers at a human being as the enemy.

emperorsversion:
I've decided to open up my emotions and heart to reveal things about myself... It may get bitter in the process but this is a faceless forum.. So we can title this Truth or Dare... Ask your questions

First question: WHEN DID YOU QUIT BETTING?

Solomonudofia:
Some guys here are sharing this link : https://join.cashcrates.co/Saucyn ; they claim people are being paid here...

Please who knows about this ... how legit is it ?

really? you think we do not know that you are trying to deceive people into joining your link?


pls have sense and do something better... STOP PATRONIZING ALL THESE FAILED PROMISES ONLINE

NEXT TIME, PAY ON DELIVERY...... never ever pay any Nigerian Market site ONLINE.... always pay on delivery.

Hopefully, Jumia will sort this out for you.

ChizzyBuna:
My Grandfather was a polygamist, try again next time..lol

I DONT NEED TO TRY, IF YOU WANT TO BE LIKE HIM AND HAVE A SCATTERED FAMILY THEN BY ALL MEANS.... enjoy your time. My grandfather too was polygamist but TAUGHT US NEVER TO BECOME LIKE HIM...

The next generation should show more sense and repair the errors of the previous ones.

my2chains:
*NIGERIAN CHURCHES MAKES PEOPLE TO BE LAZY*

*CAPITALISM AND THE CHURCH... THE WAY FORWARD.

* please kindly read and share until it get to all the general overseer of churches in Nigeria.

There is a work side to prosperity. It is the works of your hand that God blesses.

*People are in farms planting yams and you are busy sitting in church, when it is harvesting time; don't expect yams to fall from heaven. When it is eating time; people are eating and you are "believing" God for yams.* Faith doesn't work that way!
Faith without work is dead. There should be a corresponding action in line of faith.
When the gospel came to Africa, the missionaries saw two vital areas of deficiencies; *hospital and school*. They filled these gaps. Today, directly or indirectly, we have all benefited from it.
Today, we have a major problem;

*unemployment*.
Instead of filling this gap we are taking advantage of it.
We gather the unemployed and *"prophesy" jobs to them. We give them stickers, sell "holy water", tell them to sow and expect harvest, convincing their gullible mind to "work" for the lord, that breakthrough is coming...* All these we do to exploit and explore the vulnerable.
We travel abroad. We have gone to Isreal and seen the agricultural exploits there. But we are not willing to bring them home.
When we sow, instead of our money to be invested into ventures like agriculture that would alleviate the sufferings of the weak ones among us, we channel the money to an atheist in Germany who designed MOG's customised car.
We channel the money to Buddhists in China where we buy our building materials. We channel the money to a gay in America who produced the sound system and lighting system.
We channel the money to a Muslim in Dubai who did the interior decoration of our "magnificent" church building...what a Capital Flight!
*Why are we crying of poverty and for breakthrough? The God that I know responds to work wherever he sees man doing something to advance humanity, be it a Hindu, Gay, Buddhist, atheist etc.*
I don't want to start mentioning names, neither do I want to indict any person. But just imagine Living Faith Church going into rice production, RCCG going into Cassava production, Foursquare into Pepper & Tomato, Christ Embassy into Maize, Lord's Chosen into Yams, Catholics into millets, MFM going into plantain, etc. What will become of this great nation?
The land is there, the man power is there, the money is there, like the missionaries, who saw a problem and filled it, we can also fill this problem of unemployment and food security.
Just imagine a church sending hundreds of trailer load of food to evangelize the north. *No man can resist love. Feed them in love and watch how their hearts change*. That was how the missionaries changed the hearts of our forebears.
The missionaries have tried for us, and instead of us to keep pressing northwards, we have resorted to building empires. We have commercialized the gospel. *It is all about breakthrough, money and less of Jesus, His Person, His Sacrifice and Finished works.*
We have the manpowers to feed Nigeria and Africa, generate employment by adding values to farm produce and exporting them.
It is time we convert our exotic cars in our garages to tractors and other mechanised and modern agricultural tools. By doing what government cannot do, *"THE GOVERNMENT SHALL BE UPON IT'S SHOULDER ".*
When we roar, the government is supposed to quiver, not because of our large bank accounts, but because of our intimidating exploits.
It is time to wake-up... I see a day when we shall be holding our numerous church services in farms and factories. It is time to take the government upon it's shoulder. It is action time!
The Voice of One has spoken!Selah!!!
.......I think we should pass this on! Loads of youths in churches HAVE NO JOBS! The church should think of ways to create jobs for them.

Thats why you need to invest in my2chains farm today!

My dream is just to be a big time rich niggar farmer!
Invest 100k in okro farming today and get 250% in just 4 months!
My2chains farm

My dear christian brother, please stop wasting your time posting stories on NL.... even scammers do better.... and CHRISTIANS ARE NOT GULLIBLE TO GIVE 100K TO SOMETHING THAT DOES NOT LOOK AUTHENTIC AND VIABLE.

Here is what I mean.

1) where is your website?
2) where are your social media pages?
3) are you INSURED?
4) which company are you insured with? So we can know we are SAFE.
5) physical location of the farm, your office location too
6) has anyone here on nairaland done business with you? so we can be sure it is REAL?



Pls these season are very trying times... and it is not easy for us to just DROP 100K like that without some good fate.... Stories will not convince us o.

Pls understand

ChizzyBuna:
Just remove your dick and sell it on jumia
If you are not going to use it, because how can a full grown man say he won't have sex until marriage?

Are you not sexually attracted to ur partner?
Because me I cannot stand that crap
If we dating, we are fucking..period!!!

But seriously how can you share the same bed with your crush and you don't Bleep or do anything until marriage??
It has never made sense to me tho.
Don't you have sexual feelings
Sex make 2 people bond stronger
So Why avoid sex with crush until marriage??
Who raised these type of people sef??

Your grandparents who kept the biblical rule of NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE, did their marriage not work better than what we have these days?

Sex does not make anyone BOND STRONGER.... it is an emphatic psychotic LIE. So, you mean you do not know that after sex many many guys loose interest in the lady?

WHAT PLANET ARE YOU FROM? You are giving so many unreasonable points that socially has been proven wrong.

YOU MAY NOT ACCEPT IT BUT DO NOT MAKE IT A GENERAL RULE.


MATURITY IS SELF CONTROL, Our parents taught us to eat meat or fish after we finish the food because it is bad mentality that makes us want to get REWARD before WORK..... SEX IS A PLEASURABLE REWARD BEST GIVEN IN MARRIAGE.... when it is given outside marriage and marriage does not happen, it makes both parties EXPOSED to many vices of uncensored sexual encounters.


Sadly this generation has lost moral values and PHONES ARE NOW MORE PRIVATE THAN PRIVATE PARTS

Houseofglam7:
No loitering here... keep moving
President Helpers Worldwide Association(PHWA)






















I’m wicked?
You’re heartless and possessed

Nuff said, Okay BYE

You are on your period abi... so you have words to spare... pls enjoy your sunday

Will it help you? or you just want to make a case from it?

EVEN YOUR JESUS SAID LAZARUS WILL NOT DIE, AND YET HE DIED..... go and argue with that first before coming here looking for who is accurate or not....PROPHESY IS NOT A FINAL VERDICT..... It is just a prediction of what can happen if all forces are aligned.

John 11:4
When Jesus heard this, He said, “This sickness will not end in death... (yet he died o, and it didnt make him false...)

A TRUE PROPHET CAN GIVE PROPHECIES THAT WILL NOT COME TO PASS.... because we are human.

Houseofglam7:
You became interested in his “story” because you read 550k huh?



Dude, swerve
@OP, you’d better not DM no one for business opportunities.....the 550k you mentioned is making em convulse
Good luck champ!

I actually have helped him and you can ask if I asked him for a DIME.... pls next time check a person's record before opening your mouth to say what you do not know.... The OP himself will tell you I helped him.... I gave him simple rare opportunities and little wisdom of how to save his money without loosing it..

You are wicked for casting aspersions on me but your time will come.

What goes around always comes around.

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you guys are GOOD

hmmmm, I read your story thrice and I truly understand your pain.

First before you go I suggest your mother(may God bless and keep her to see you become a superstar) should pray for you.
Kindly listen to PRAY FOR ME BY DARE ART ALADE.... it will help.

Also, please why not use the money to start a business that will give you income monthly.... INBOX ME AND I WILL TEACH YOU WHAT TO DO.... pls do not travel yet.

I am doing this because your story touched me. I am doing this only for you.

Christthesaviour:
be ye perfect even as your heavenly father is perfect.i will modify my reply tomorrow thanks.

hmmmm bros, you are right... PERFECTION STARTS FROM PHIL 4:8 our thoughts, first, before it goes to JAMES 3, our words.... ONCE THOSE TWO DIMENSIONS HAVE BEEN ARRESTED BY GOD, everything else will work out naturally.

Christthesaviour:
Happy sunday guys,you know,everything that has original also has a fake,so i'm creating this thread agains sunday.
who is a christian? a christian is one who is christlike in nature, one who identify himself with christ and have made christ lord over his life.
There are over 2.5 billion people who profess to be christians today.
but seriously out of this number some are only pretending to be a christians but they are not accepted by God.
Many nairalanders thinks going to church,paying tithes and bearing christian names qualifies you to be a christian,but no! it doesn't many nairalanders still post insultive comments,despise government,wished evil on mods who ban them,well if you are still living in sin great or little,you are not a christian.
if you want to be a christian you must ask for grace from God to be one.
Christians are:
Loving
Kind
gentle
humble
peaceful
generous
cheerful
and most of all holy.
if you don't posses all these,u are not christlike and certainly not a christian.

Pls go and sleep, your life on earth is not to be the INSPECTOR GENERAL OF CHRISTIANITY, biko.... no one is called to do that.

Even peter who was physically with Jesus was not having all these criteria that you are listing here.... IT IS NOT BY WORKS oooooo, it is by GRACE.
Peter lied before Jesus died, denied Jesus and even in the book of Acts this same Peter still showed the same character again.

No one is PERFECT, we are all saved by GRACE, not of works(the things you listed above)... so that no man can BOAST.


You really do not understand the gospel yet you came here to post like a pharisee... MY DEAREST BROTHER, NA ONLY GOD KNOW WHO GO MAKE AM.


Even in your church when people come out to RECITE THE SINNERS PRAYER, do you know many come out for different reasons? THEY CAN RECITE IT BUT WILL NEVER GET BORN AGAIN UNTIL THEY COME OUT FOR THE RIGHT REASON. So chill and go and pray and ask God to teach you THE REAL GOSPEL.

CHRISTIANS ARE NOT PERFECT PEOPLE..... when you understand this, you will stop criticizing pastors and bishops and others.... rather you will have LOVE in your heart for everyone.

[quote author=Kelvin581 post=89629729][/quote]LOVE THAT LIES IS INFATUATION, SO MAN UP AND TELL THE TRUTH

Kelvin58:
This my funny gf is asking if am a virgin...what would be my best reply to her... Abeg

Is your love really true, if you find it hard to tell the TRUTH?

Better be honest with yourself and know if you are just dating her for sex,

Donbrig:
For over two decades, I have personally observed that majority of our big comedians in Nigeria are either from Edo or Delta state. Is there anything about Edo/Delta indigines that makes them more funny, full of life and be very successful in comics?

yes, that region has so many strange things happening daily that epic folklore stories can be created from them.... those two states have very deep tales that are so mythical and at the same time very deep. So it is often taken lightly just to survive.

ifetexing:
WhatsApp me 08138334248

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syncssin:
While growing up, I was told education was the key. I remember vividly how I was chanting the poem "Parents listen to your children, we are leaders of tomorrow...".

I sacrificed pleasures and studied upto postgraduate degree hoping I would be better off after school yet a lot of disappointment here and there.

I was advised to intern with a company so as to get my foot on the door but it was always met with inability to make the ends meet.

How can a graduate survive on 50k monthly when transport fare gulps 70% of the salary. Everyday I am faced with temptation to quit 9-5 and put my laptop to good use by doing romance scam.

Is it the fault of the youth we are like this. Has this country not failed us?

I was once a victim like you way back in 100 level I discovered that ALL NA SCAM... so I had to plan my exit strategy.

So what you need now is to
UN-LEARN the old ideaologies, they told us readers are leaders THEN GAVE US THE WRONG BOOKS... its time to flip the switch.
RE-EDUCATE yourself about making money and what skills are relevant to this COVID ERA
RE-INVENT yourself about your about your values and understanding about LIFE.
Make good associations with inspiring friends, mentors and idealists.

IT WILL ONLY TAKE YOU MONTHS.... 2020 is not yet over.

micox:
Please I need ur help n advice on what to do with that capital.hoping to hear 4rm u guys

BUY BIKE and be a dispatch rider

ScamAdvise:
I have tried everything within my power to add weight for the past 1 year (although I have not been consistent). Initially I used to go to fast foods like Mat Ice, buy wedding cake, buy chicken or buy six eggs with a whole loaf of bread. I do this in order to add weight

Although I do alot of treking because of our poor transport systems in Nigeria and I hardly sleep because no NEPA light at night. On my street which is far inside people use their private cars for public transport without painting it with the specified colour code which is yellow. This makes it very hard for me to know if a car that is approaching is for public trnasport or not

I noticed some of my juniors who are fat look older (i.e bigger) than me. Some of them who are 21, 19 or even 17 (minimum). I am actually in my late twenties but when I went to register my sim I lied that I was 18 years and they believed me and this makes me feel sad. I went for HIV test twice because of this problem but I tested negative. I just laugh at people in my mind when they say they are depressed that they are overweight and that people are making fun of them

It is better to be a fat lerson than to be a thin person! In such no one is good. Somebody told me I might have intestinal worms or parasites that are eating my food or I might have hyperthyroidism. Anyway I went to see a nutritionist to rectify the problem and carry out some tests just before the corona virus outbreak but I could not complete the appointment because it was that same week that the lockdown started

While I am waiting for the lockdwon to end I have come to consult all the fat people in the house to teach me some things they did or how their lifestyle was like that made them the way they are? It must be noted that I am not that thin (like a skeleton or AIDS patient). It must also be noted that I don't want to be fat I just want to look fresh and look my age at that

you need serious MONEY...
you need REST WITH PEACE OF MIND
you need GOOD LAUGHTER SESSIONS

then take CORDLIVER OIL tablets... see, you will get fatter in less than 3 months of taking it.

Michealky:
Hello people, i've been a blogger for two years now using and posting amazing content. But i wasn't doing it for the money, just for fun. Now i want to venture into full time owning my own blog and monetizing it. But do one earn with just Page views per post without ads.
Eg. If i made a post and generate 20,000clicks,do i make money and are page clicks unique clicks, can one person click the link multiple times and it will count?

Pls help, this information will be helpful

Sorry, NO ONE PAYS FOR VIEWS unless you are doing CPA.... then that is entirely different from blogging.

Also, adsense VLOGGING pays for views...

Apart from these, none other.

Masturbator2020:
I am actually not narrating this story to attracts sympathy or anything of sort,I just want someone somewhere to learn from my mistakes..

Before I begin, I would like to appeal to our English professors here to kindly ignore my errors. I am not not an Artist of any sort,so I don't have the creative spark to perfectly reinterpret my experience into a reimagined form in a English formats.

I was born into a Christian home,very God fearing family.... Countless numbers of time we were told about how sexual immorality would make us lose God's favor...By nature I was one(not anymore) who consider God's views on anything before embarking on it.. So this teachings both from my dad who was an elder in the church and the Bible teaching from the church painted in my subconscious mind an unpleasant picture of how things would turn so badly in future if I loose God's favor as a result of formication.

But It was not easy as nature kept calling lol,I guess u know what I mean.

One day,I was offered one Christian book that throw some light on masturbation.According to the book masturbation is less of a sin than formication, so I capitalize on that to start a journey I never imaging would be detrimental to my health and by extension ruin my life...


Yeah masturbation is not sinful i said to myself, so I have got a foundation to build on.I would masturbate twice or more daily for so so many year.few years into this habit I started noticing some health challenges,from constipation to back pain,to eye problem,to being so Moody and regretful each time I finished the act, Etc...One day after i just finished the act somewhere around 2008,I became so moody like I have never experience before.my dick shrank, I lost my apatite and i was so empty inside of me..It was as if an orgern was taken way from me.I could sincerely feel the emptiness in my heart..

My happiness, my joy,my feelings all disappeared that moment.Immediately I rushed to my elder sister who in turn sent me to a family friend (lab
scientist) for diagnosis.. The moment I narrated what I was experiencing then he said"you're suffering from DEPRESSION",that was the first time I heard that word "DEPRESSION " ..He encouraged me to visit psychiatric hospital. mehn that was too difficult, people were going to think I am running mad I said to myself ,so I never visited, though I went for alternative anyway watch never worked for me..Since then my life has been a complete mess....
I am in my early 30s,I have got no degree despite my love for education before I got depressed...

Recently I bought some course online on computer programming, but I don't have the urge or concentration to seat and watch the entire duration of the video.

The above is just the highlight of my predicament,there are more not captured in this write up.If you are a masturbator, pls kindly look for alternative means of satisfying ur sexual urg,I don't wish my enemy experience depression.......

hemmmm it is with a heavy heart I say bros you are suffering NEEDLESSLY.

First, am not against Jesus or Church but in Nigeria we create sins by our doctrines.

Your wrong information about masturbation is what led you to depression.

Do you know it has its HEALTH ADVANTAGES TOO?

Do you know the greatest sex organ is YOUR MIND?

Do you know that fear is the first cause of depression?

Am not defending the act... you are well above 30 and you should have been married or be doing good in business by now... School is not Education.

Stop living your life like a spare tyre and TAKE CHARGE OF YOUR DESTINY.

Too much of anything is bad, that is for all habits.
If you still decide to be a church goer, you may need to change church.

PLEASE STOP TRYING TO QUIT MASTURBATION IT DOES NOT WORK

Rather focus on more productive activities and gradually it will replace the NEED to feel a RELEASE.

Get a girlfriend and together start planning marriage, LIFE WAITS FOR NO ONE.