Osasnidas:
wow... absolutely true.. No.9. am guilty of it..
I don't attend parties even if my friends are going to b there. I might b forced to dance and I don't like dancing publicly..

I can't dance in public to save my life

tosyne2much:
OP, you described me perfectly.. I'm guilty of everything

You too

enniewest:
Nah.Let's just say you have never met an interesting introvert. Some introverts could be fun to be with.

You're been sarcastic abi?

Interesting introvert

firstking01:
Introverts full nairaland i swear...they have an awesome personality online but offline they are nothing to write home about...very boring set of creatures...i just dislike introverts esp the female version...dating them is an herculean task...you'd be the one to do almost everything in the relationahip, mtcheew.

I can't date an introvert like me, never

enniewest:
Wow!
Am in shock because have never seen myself as an introvert but I exhibit all the traits you mentioned except no 7.

Sweetheart, you are an introvert

U1:
Honestly, ilotriouzAY, I must say most of the points made were on point! This is unlike some fabricated or one-sided write-ups I read here this evening. You be introvert ni?

Introvert, yeah 80percent

Divay22:
They enjoy their own company
They are their own bestie

But
Can two introverted people date?I wonder how the relationship will be like

Date kee, it ain't going to work

otipoju:
I am an introvert... confirmed.

Lol

JeffreyJames:
I hate going to parties and number 8 I can totally relate with lol.


No.1 is so on point. As an Introvert,I tend to create the conversations in my head and explore all possible outcomes before I engage in the Convo

Nice one OP

Thanks

In this age and time, being an introvert does not seem to be what anyone easily admits to....readily, everyone is trying to prove they have the requisite social skills of an extrovert.

Between, here are funny but real reasons why you just might be an introvert...do read on!

1. You think before you talk and check before you chat

Sort of the right thing to do huh?...You have a consistently running internal monologue that screens every word before it drops from your mouth. Not a fast speaker there...You screen your chats too severally, before you send them...lol.

2. You go to parties -– but not to meet people.

Nooo...you may not necessarily be hanging out alone...but meeting new people is rarely the goal of attending a party. You simply get in your safe harbour- looking out for your friends and hanging out with them.

3. Great speaker, fearful mingler

You may not be shy...infact, you can give a great speech in front of 500 people but mingling with them one-on-one afterwards is a huge problem.

4. You hate idle chatter

You can be in a room with room mates with them discussing on a topic without necessarily making a contribution...you hate small talk not because you hate people but because they seem meaningless to you.

5. You are self conscious

Since you are not doing most of the talking, you are doing most of the observing and hence, assume that everyone is observing you in the same way...judging the way you speak, your accent etc....whereas, they might not necessarily be doing so,

6. You like extreme sitting positions

When you have to sit at a bench, you don't sit in the middle because you don't like being surrounded by people on all sides. In church, you prefer the extreme rows of seats to the middle ones.

7. You dread audience participation

You prefer a talk or a lecture to a discussion or interaction. If you must be involved in the latter, you must have been informed earlier so that you can "compose yourself".

8. You've been accused severally of not keeping in touch

The funny part is that you cannot fathom why someone who called you three days back would call you and say something like; "You have forgotten me abi..."and you're like, "Are we supposed to be talking everyday"?....you also do not like midnight, except its utterly the last resort. For you, it's too much time to waste on "nonsense talk".
You screen all your calls and you may not pick up your phone even from people you like only to call them back as soon as you’re mentally prepared and have gathered the energy for the conversation.

9. You're a Writer

...a good one at that. Or sometimes, a poet. You prefer to put your ideas in writing than to speak them because the former gives you the opportunity to perfectly choose your words and structure your thoughts.

10. Friends made you and not the other way round

Check out the list of your closest and distant friends and you'd realize that they made more efforts at being your friend than you did at the initial stage before you settled into the friendship.

If you can boast of some of these qualities, then check again...against your initial judgement, you just might be an introvert!

Cc lalasticlala, Seun, ishilove

Dickson080:
So whats the meaning of sweet 16? Have u seen a 16 yr old girl? Actually they are sometimes bigger than 22 yrs old girls Just asking o. As long as its not rape and she get boob not chest op forget that one.

You need help....

Optional2:
lolz
and if they see an older guy around their little sisters they can pull the trigger..

Like seriously, they fit kill that person

pizzylee:
amen....I don't knw how dey find it interesting n not abusive

No shame at all

professorfal:

I'm not advocating the act but dude have you seen the asses on those minors??

Perv , that's what you are

KissChrixx:
That last part got Me

It's true now

I noticed that some guys are now going after under age girls. They have thrown away shame, and no longer hide it.

You see some guys who are above 20, wooing a girl of 15, 16. for what?

guys, where are our pride?

cant they go after their mate?

They keep corrupting these girls, messing with their lives.
and these little girls no longer have respect for elders. you see them shouting at you, talking back at you. why? because some guys have thrown away their self worth.

If you are a guy, and you go after an under age girl. below 18. you are one of the problems we have in this country. and God almighty will visit you with his wrath.

Cc. Lalasticlala, Seun ishilove

Attraction simply means having the power to attract.

1. HAVE A HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM

People will always see you the way you see yourself. They will never place you beyond what you place yourself.
"Don't depend on the relationship", Instead have confidence in yourself and God.
VALUE YOURSELF.

2. MAINTAIN A JOYFUL ATTITUDE

"It is better to be happy and hungry than to be hungry and sad". If you are always angry, you will not make much progress.

3. GET A LIFE

Get a purpose for your life. "When you don't have a purpose; abuse is inevitable.
THERE IS A GLOW THAT COMES WHEN YOU ARE PURPOSEFUL.

4. MENTAL DEVELOPMENT - INTELLIGENCE ATTRACTS YOU .

i. Ask question
ii. Read - know something about everything; you don't need to know everything about something.
iii. Observe
iv. Choose your friends wisely.

5. S S S - SELF SUPPORT SERVICES .

i. Eat health.
ii. Exercise.
iii. Look good - look for clothes that fit you. Use the right bra size. No/ Light make up - don't be excessive, don't be fake. Make a good hair style/ Cut if bushy.
iv. Smell good - have a bath. Use good perfumes and body cream.

Cc lalasticlala, Seun, ishilove

Ishilove:

These two are the only challenges that bother me. The rest can be easily handled.

Hmmmmm... Issorite

Sister ishilove, Na you modify the thread?

mofeoluwadassah:
so are u saying being busty is bad or wht?cos i dont understand

. Read again

habby51:


Hmmmmm
Hw u take no
Ashawo

You no see the Bobby abi

Amarabae:
It depends on how the busty lady present herself.

Ma'am can you please pm me

habby51:
Mine is portable and I like the shape

I can testify

vedah:
Why don't you cut the boobs off? The pains are unbearable I think?

Cut am

Twaci:
Thank God I ain't busty

Lol

CliffordOrji:
We Igbos support the PDP Chairmanship position of Senator Ali Modu Sheriff. Ali Modu Sheriff must rule us in Igboland in Jesus name.


Ali Modu Sheriff is greater than ojukwu

Ali Modu Sheriff is greater than china achebe

Ali Modu Sheriff is greater than nnamdi azikiwe

Ali Modu Sheriff is greater than nnamdi kanu

Your name says it all

No brain at all

Fayose fayose Wehdone

Like your opinion matters abi

Go and lock PDP headquarters now

Sheriff is PDP chairman

If you have a different opinion, the lagoon is there....

A busty lady is like every other lady, but guys never see her as every other lady.

A busty lady gets guy's attention too easily, and she can't present herself as a platonic friend.

She is very limited to the kind of clothes she can wear if she doesn't want to be called a whoooree

She can't go into lots of sports like running, jumping, swimming if she doesn't want all eyes on her.

She can't receive gifts from guys without the guy wanting goodies from her.

She can't easily establish platonic relationship with guys, they will want to have sex with her or smooch her bust.

She can't hug to avoid making the guy Hot

She can't sleep face down to avoid pains and falling of boobs

She hates her body and is usually shy and ashamed of her big bust

She doesn't like the fact that they are too big while other girls pray they have more.

Why do guys always feel the urge to squeeze it, what exactly is responsible for this,
what is that force that's pushing a guy to want to touch it,
even when we know its just fat and flesh and muscle that's in it?

Why do guy's eye always wander around that area?

I am saying these from the perception of a guy.

If u are a busty lady, tell us what you go through.

BlackDBagba:
No. Jealousy and possessiveness are part of insecurity or fear of loss, not part of true love.

If the love is real, nobody will tell you before you protect your interest

Papykush:

No. It is a sign of stupidity, insecurity and immaturity.

So you can't protect your love?

Iamdmentor1:


You know nothing. The media is attacking him because he stood out and spoke against Islam.

History has always continued to repeat itself. Algeria, Turkey were once Christian states. The process of islamization in those countries is being adopted now in Nigeria.

These Islam idiots tried it in Spain. But a reverend father at that time said he'd rather protect Christianity, fight and go to hell than to allow Islam penetrate Spain.

Apostle Suleman is being blackmailed. It's no surprise that this is coming after the DSS saga.

And mind you, some idiots just come up with lies to be on the lips of everyone.

Lies you say? If he didn't walk along those lines, nobody will accuse him of such.... Even though I don't really believe the accusations totally, there is still some level of truth in it

To some people,Jealousy is a sign of Love because you won't be jealous at some extent if you don't love a person.On the other hand.If you love and trusted the person,there's no way to be Jealous, hmmm a bit confusing isn't it? Would you share your thoughts about this?

onos1979:
make that your big mouth no put you for trouble one day.

Which trouble