If you spend less than 350k for traditional marriage, the marriage list plus bride price in today Nigeria is very ok,,,exclusive of food, drinks, music, hall etc

one day u go take again pass der go heaven........

every body is after money and power....who go get money go get money irrespective of the means you introduce...........The issue is that ladies will never learn from other ladies negative experience...........20k, 30k, 50k go make person lose him life......we all need to be very careful irrespective of gender

congratulations Daddy...
Thank you sir, you are a blessing to me and my generation. May God continue to uplift you and your ministry in Jesus name....

Good development, but hausa men are not encouraging when it comes to their women and female child.......but with what is going on, I believe it will librate them from their ignorance......Good luck ladies

And next time, no b everything u go carry come online, some people will advice what they don't practice in real life making u a scape goat........

Mr Man, as long as you are not yet married to her I don't see any wrong in she telling you about guys crushing in her.....infact if you are a lady in a serious relationship and nobody is asking you out, something is wrong with you....
single ladies most have at least a new toaster every week, then an average lady should have two, den a beautiful lady will get one everyday...
For your girlfrnd to tell you about guys crushing on her or even asking her out is not a bad idea, what if she no tell you....
Even some married woman still dey get toasters, the only thing is that they don't exchange numbers...so my guy stay calm, your babe na ur babe, after she no like you u can't force her to stay

The ex husband wised her well......if na Nigeria the man for say, how comes you were know me and my former wife, na you wan marry her....... Congratulations

I just want to say thank you for the informative role this thread has created through Neo, nd Ema an co. Although I discovered the thread today.
last year ending I went into poultry of which I made total lose, due to no solid ideas, high cost of feed and most importantly no good mentorship......but I will b starting afresh after Easter and I hope to continue learning from experts ideas I came across on this thread.....I just want to say a very big thank you.....God bless all your hustle

money will never be enough if you want to consider money first before getting married. marriage is like a ship untop a high sea, the success of the journey will depend on everyone inside the ship.
The truth about life is that some people don't have money before they got married, but after the marriage things begin to work for them.
some after they gave birth to children, while others their children brought wealth to the home.
As long as their is a source of income, the size of the income should not be a blockage to marriage if really both parties are ready.
most guys are ready to date, but few really want to settle down, but if u try to talk some sense into him and he insist on his old decision, my dear end the relationship and give another person a chance.

A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. marriage and relationship are done base on interest.
you really need to have a re-think before ending the relationship, will the break up give you rest of mind, nd secondly a man at 31 who is not ready to settle down because he feels he is not financially buyount should have nothing to do with a lady of 26. A man can decide to settle down even at 40, but how about the lady in today Nigeria society? my dear do what you will not regret later, since he is not ready to settle down den I will advice u to find someone more serious to avoid bitter stories