₦airaland Forum

ibkonekt:
maybe you should do your research before spitting fire online.
1. a high value man is an established man that really doesnt need a woman to elevate him in society. take for example dangote, Jay Z, Jeff bezos, otedola etc either way their charactteristics are tall, dark, handsome, super-rich, good physique, intelligent....you get my point. and women kill (literately) to marry these type of men (it happens all the time).
2. you should really learn more about feminism because you sound ignorant of what it has accomplished in today's society.
3. a woman can strive to achieve whatever she wants and her self worth thats not a problem and that is not feminism...go and do the research. if you want to be educated feel free to quote me again. but otherwise go and learn from society reality and not fake talking points
4. nobody wants to see your posterior.

you quoted me first and you are telling me am spitting fire online? see me ooo
high value women don't kill to marry"high value men"as u think get my point?
obviously you are very ignorant and shallow in ur thinking. no one said a woman who is establish and become high valued to compliment her man is feminist. alot of feminist who know what feminism is are established and successful in their marriage.
mind you I know well enough what the fight for feminism has accomplish and I can see you need mental freedom.Mr researcher and online educator.
it's my posterior I will see it whenever I want to.

I do not need you flexing muscle to educate me online,I know where to get knowledge when I need it.channel your energy to be "high valued" please
abeg no quote me again.

Galactico4ever:
TELL THEM!Especially those ladies that think that not get married equals failure.

no bi our fault oooo....patriarchal society has made ladies think marriage is the highest achievement for a lady...u can see some shallow pple even women join are still throwing the marriage thing on her.

people who think they know too much know nothing

Arrewa:
so ones you're a Christian you're no longer a Hausa or fulani abi??

We have other minority tribes in Nigeria...

Saying that all southerners think that all the north is Hausa or fulani not knowing there are Christians in the north is a very fat blunder!!

We have Hausa Christians and Fulani Christians in every part of the north...

Being a Christian doesn't change ones tribe

the day I told a colleague of mine here in KD oooo that der are Christian's in Kano,sokoto,katsina,gombe,maiduguri,yobe n other states the guy no gree ooo...I had to call two of my friends who are Christian's and from Kano and katsina for him...he was so surprised...my friend Tanko went to serve in enugu n was speaking his porsh English they said he is not from the north "day said a Fulani man can not speak good n fluent English

slimmax:
When this development go reach kaduna south, places like sabo, gonin gora etc

help me ask pls

Djex614:
Young man could you just keep shut. Yakowa was doing a great job in Kaduna south before he died. He even developed Kafanchan. It was his "untimely death/ murder" that made it seem he didn't do much

..

murdered is d right word...almost every street in northern kaduna is tarred come n see narayi,karji,mahuta,television n other residential areas in southern kaduna ....hmmmm

icuminpiss:
Governor el rufai you are very partial, have you do any better thing in kaduna south? Potholes from beginning to end.. Only Muslims you concentrate on.. I sha miss late governor yakowa, R I P Sir!!!

.

very pathetic

Patrioticman007:
You want him to develop wailing Wailer's poverty ravaged area ?.
Why would he develop the people that rejected him for PDP ?.
Why should he develop areas that PDP choose not to developed for 16 years ?.
The Christian terrorist had Yakowa as governor but, he failed them as usual because he is a fake Christian abi ?.

my God how can an educated person talk like this....is the office of the governor a one man business now?or only for pple that you claim voted him?are you saying that there are no pple that voted for the governor in southern kaduna?are u talking abt d governor as a man or as an office in a country....u hv been destroyed by one sided politics and religion ....SMH

you hv jazz n ua getting men to give u petty money not even millions...shame on d girls Sha....use d energy in looking for jazz to develop urself n make ur own money no fulfilment and pride better than that .

Jeferious:
Guy I don start to dey fear una. Seriously. Before coronavirus came into Nigeria, were people not dying en masse before? Have Fulani herdsmen gone into extinction? Have Boko Haram being wiped out absolutely? Are there no longer cases of ethnic violence and clashes? Is Coronavirus now the only factor contributing to death in Nigeria

Henceforth, I will stay on my own. If you don't reason properly, that is your problem. But what I know is that I will not allow someone else's insanity to affect my sanity.

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/150-people-die-in-kano-in-3-days.html

u can go and read for urself....

Jeferious:
Guy I don start to dey fear una. Seriously. Before coronavirus came into Nigeria, were people not dying en masse before? Have Fulani herdsmen gone into extinction? Have Boko Haram being wiped out absolutely? Are there no longer cases of ethnic violence and clashes? Is Coronavirus now the only factor contributing to death in Nigeria

Henceforth, I will stay on my own. If you don't reason properly, that is your problem. But what I know is that I will not allow someone else's insanity to affect my sanity.

https://www.dailytrust.com.ng/150-people-die-in-kano-in-3-days.html

you can now go and read for urself...

this pple are not giving us real information....I watched a video of 43 pple buried in Kano between Friday and Sunday and they are giving us 21 death...every day they are discharging patients without follow up.it is said that Kyari's health deteriorated days to his discharge so how are we sure the pple they have discharged are completely healed..the way I see this if our govt does not take charge of this pandemic, our case will be worst than Italy (God forbid).people still go to isolation centers to see relatives (for God's sake),they said social distance but look at what we saw at Kyari's burial and places whr they are sharing food.....this pandemic should teach our govt to have proactive measures and not to be risking pple lives with emergency responsive measures.

this pple are not giving us real information....I watched a video of 43 pple buried in Kano between Friday and Sunday and they are giving us 21 death...every day they are discharging patients without follow up.it is said that Kyari's health deteriorated days to his discharge so how are we sure the pple they have discharged are completely healed..

1stola:
What the fûck is Tayway?

Tagwaye..means twins

1stola:
What the fûck is Tayway?

Tagwaye..means twins

madam....what do you want us to tell you now....deep down you already know the answer to this your question....but maybe nice and neat house dey blind your eyes....Listen...men study girls they are attracted too to know the type of girl she is before deciding how to conquer.he told you what you want to hear obviously you're the " a serious relationship before sex(assurance)"type of girl and he gave it to you. thank your God that he did not rape you next time u will not be lucky...or maybe you like to be rough handled too if not y do you still have his contact or answering his call?

bluefilm:
Just look at this one.

You want your husband to invest in your looks because the return on investment in your looks will add a lot of money to his bank account or what?

Tufiakwa.

Nonsense reasoning everywhere!!!

he won't take care of his wife to look good,the woman who is giving him her all but he will spend so much on the side chick who is not taking care of his home and children or even give a care when things start to go bad for him an look for the next available irresponsible man to move on with right? will that one add money in his account? for an Igbo man.... you're a disappointment.... when I was growing up you know that an Igbo man is wealthy by the comfort he provides for his wife and children in dressing,food and otherwise..and he earns the respect of his fellow men and people around....if that is not an investment what is it?

Adgideon:
I just wonder ur level of reasoning, maybe you are into it nobody desires a broken home not the man or woman

I wonder who all this ladies supporting the side chick are trying to impress by body shaming the woman and giving excuses for the man's infidelity

NiCurious:
Hm. Scenario: The wife bears and raises the kids, looks after her husband, looks after the house on a small allowance, takes care of herself with what little is left...yet the husband rewards a side chick, who has done nothing for his family or household, sacrificed nothing, with money and gifts. This is the thanks the wife gets, for devoting her life and fidelity to the marriage?

Sure, the wife could take a lover, but what if that goes against her beliefs about marriage, and she doesn't want to stoop to her husband's level?

Not saying the wife in the video isn't making a fool of herself in public with the wrong target.

Such a shame to see that our moral standard has decayed to this point...even ladies are dragging and body shaming the woman.....

SMH....it's such a shame to see fellow women dragging and body shaming this woman and blaming her for her husband infidelity,who are you girls trying to impress?you will even do worse, wait till you have 2 or 3 kids with your hands full then come back and tell us about keeping fit for your husband.yall should remember the pain that pushed the woman to have to go after the lady...am sure she's not the first side chick the man has or will be the last.. nonsense excuse....so it should also be said that when the man does not fulfill the sexual fantasies of his wife,she should also go out and get a man to satisfy her abi?or you think all women get satisfaction from their husband? No but they endure it with all the changes that comes with the man... weight and pot belly.there is no excuse what so ever for a man to cheat on his wife....and all this proud side chicks....you are truly chicks with chicken brain continue and wait for karma

Its simple,am scared of marrying a man i love and end up having the kind of marriage my parent have,....it has affected and changed my whole orientation of marriage and love....i know one can not be too careful but i will take my time and wait on God ....no rush my happiness is sacred and paramount

I can relate dear.....i once made the mistake of telling a guy i live alone the first thing that came out of his mouth is that "i now have a place to eat my dinner hope you can cook"....the other one wanted to turn my house to a hotel where he brings his girlfriends he lives in their family house,my neighbor that goes to pay light bill collects 500 from every one but 1000 from me....Chai....the day i found out hmmm...one plumber guy fixed my sink and came back the next day that he came to visit me and several other things i've noticed since i started living alone.some of my male neighbors and male co workers say i'am not friendly i stopped telling guys i live alone.i don't do things i know i wont do in my parent house.its really frustrating but you need to be focused and be true to your self

Am beginning to like this man.....may the cabals and god fathers never get to you

these lovely couple never waste time in taking every opportunity to take new love inspired pictures

Let me draw you people's attention to something that has been happening and no one is paying attention to....CHILD SWAP... nurses mistakenly swap children while cleaning them up after birth..this almost happen to my sister....we hear stories of stolen children from the hospital by a nurse or doctor to sell to someone else.instead of people always believe or think that a woman cheated y not also make sure that the mistake is not from the hospital...think about that .....

na wa oooo....some people still blame the woman...SMH,....a woman should do this,a woman should do that to keep her man....what happens to the ones that hv done and are doing all that yet the husband still has side chicks?

why did he marry her if she had stretch marks and big Tommy before he met her?

if she didn't have any of those before he met her that means he's part of cause of her having it,so he has no right to do what he did.

so he wants to tell us that nothing has changed on his body?...no pot belly,no shrink penis or skin on him? he is perfect then.

to all side chicks.....karma is a bitch watch your back

Freehuman:
I would divorce my wife and marry the side chick and send assassins to kill my wife.

the side chick becomes wife and the circle continues.....

[quote author=Ifyjos post=85596404]She doesn't care about me because if she did want the best for me , she would would support me and my guy to be together and establish a business for us instead she wanted me to break up with him to become a single mom as if she would have marry me or even take care of my child the way her father does. That's something she cannot do because theres nobody that will take care of my child like her father. He has better plans but things are just difficult for him. He is a good man he can never ask me to kill any of my relatives because If that was the case then it would have kill my sister long time ago and I'm not stupid to do such things. Yes I know what we did was wrong but we only wanted revenge for her to feel the pain that she has been causing us but I just realised that it was the wrong path to take , which I'm regretting but that doesn't make us bad people please


You are the most stupid and heartless human animal,from all the trash you are writing to justify you action here shows you are not even remorseful.You not only disrespect and disgrace your sister but you whole family they show disown you sef.you have done every thing wrong and still say you deserve her support (which she even supported your child and feed you too am sure) you already destroyed your future and you still want to remain there Gosh "Open a business for you?"come to think of it are you not already a single mom? "you only wanted to revenge" what wrong did she do to you?for loving you and wanting the best for you?he will tell you to sell you fathers house too and you will see nothing in it...Idiot SMH...You both are just irresponsible and wicked...and you will meet you loo soon..