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Politics › Re: Tunji Disu: Era Of Impunity Over, Police Under Me Will Respect Human Rights by Immatex(m): 7:40pm On Feb 25
Shut-up!

Go and loot in peace and don’t make promises you know nothing about!
Nairaland General › Re: Nigerian Army DSSC List: My Name Is There But I Didn’t Register by Immatex(m): 9:38pm On Feb 11
Your name and surname is not exclusive to you.

There might be another person from your LGA that bears your name and surname exactly the way you use it.

It’s pretty common in Nigeria.
Politics › Re: Policeman, 16 Villagers Killed In Benue Market Attack by Immatex(m): 3:34pm On Feb 05
yemre:
It won't be out of place if you can lead by example by donating yourself for a medical experiment in a country like Iran or South Korea. Then we will know you're serious.
Already doing that here in UK for 4 years now!

Better than a free death in the shit hole!
Politics › Re: Policeman, 16 Villagers Killed In Benue Market Attack by Immatex(m): 2:52pm On Feb 05
Jakumo:
Put yourself in the shoes of Nigeria's president. An Islamist insurgency has been smoldering in northern Nigeria since 2009, erupting into spot-fire flames of terrorist massacre spreading from the north due south over more than a decade before you were elected as the Nigerian Head of State.

Over a lifetime you have forged solid ties to the Nigerian military's top echelon, that paid off when a coup poised to claim your very life was reported and preempted. In response to the coup plot you overhauled the Nigerian military top command to remove the moles and Islamist traitors disguised as top brass. With new service heads in place, your administration collaborated with international partners to repulse the Islamist invasion that has now grown into a clash of conventional military forces that MUST be tamped out swiftly. Oh, Nigeria will get by with a little help from her friends, of whom Uncle Sam bears honorable mention.

If you can imagine yourself as a head of state who has done all that he can to revamp the military for the task at hand, while reaching out to The USA and other Western democracies for military assistance as a wiser alternative than blundering into any alliances that might be proposed by China or Russia, then now think how you would feel if your name and your political party's name are parroted and berated following every single attack launched by Islamist guerilla forces in Nigeria.

If you couldn't be bothered to read my hypothetical musings, the upshot of my rambling is that guerrilla warfare and Asymmetric Warfare in the newly dawning Drone Age, are inherently unpredictable and prone to confounding the expectations of even the most technologically informed military intelligence analysts in existence.

Thanks be to Great Almighty God, American military boots are on the ground in Nigeria, meaning the tide will visibly turn against the Islamist hordes swarming the Nigerian hinterland, in a manner that will please even the most jaded critic of Nigeria's President Bola Tinubu, the nation's diplomat-in-chief known for his eloquence of few words, each imbued with hard-earned wisdom.
Your hope in the so-called American boots on ground is misplaced, sorry to tell you.
At most, America has sent a small contingent of military advisers but will not expose their troops to frontline fighting in Nigeria’s jungles.
The outcome of America’s lies on the shoulders of the Nigeria’s weak and Islamic compromised military just the same way Islamic religion played a key role in the outcome of America’s intervention in Afghan.
America is wise not to allow their troops die needlessly for a country whose own citizens will sabotage military and intelligence operations by giving terrorist advance warning of operations.

The only time terrorist operating in Nigeria experienced a semblance of defeat was in the Jonathan military mercenary days. An arrangement that Buhari, a terrorist apologist quickly ended.
Only that sort of arrangement with America’s military advisers behind the scene will provide effective deterrence to the plague of terrorism in Nigeria not a reliance on the weak and compromised military and police forces.

But this won’t happen with Tinubu whose only interest now is elections.
Politics › Re: Policeman, 16 Villagers Killed In Benue Market Attack by Immatex(m): 2:28pm On Feb 05
Jakumo:
Put yourself in the shoes of Nigeria's president. An Islamist insurgency has been smoldering in northern Nigeria since 2009, erupting into spot-fire flames of terrorist massacre spreading from the north due south over more than a decade before you were elected as the Nigerian Head of State.

Over a lifetime you have forged solid ties to the Nigerian military's top echelon, that paid off when a coup poised to claim your very life was reported and preempted. In response to the coup plot you overhauled the Nigerian military top command to remove the moles and Islamist traitors disguised as top brass. With new service heads in place, your administration collaborated with international partners to repulse the Islamist invasion that has now grown into a clash of conventional military forces that MUST be tamped out swiftly. Oh, Nigeria will get by with a little help from her friends, of whom Uncle Sam bears honorable mention.

If you can imagine yourself as a head of state who has done all that he can to revamp the military for the task at hand, while reaching out to The USA and other Western democracies for military assistance as a wiser alternative than blundering into any alliances that might be proposed by China or Russia, then now think how you would feel if your name and your political party's name are parroted and berated following every single attack launched by Islamist guerilla forces in Nigeria.

If you couldn't be bothered to read my hypothetical musings, the upshot of my rambling is that guerrilla warfare and Asymmetric Warfare in the newly dawning Drone Age, are inherently unpredictable and prone to confounding the expectations of even the most technologically informed military intelligence analysts in existence.

Thanks be to Great Almighty God, American military boots are on the ground in Nigeria, meaning the tide will visibly turn against the Islamist hordes swarming the Nigerian hinterland, in a manner that will please even the most jaded critic of Nigeria's President Bola Tinubu, the nation's diplomat-in-chief known for his eloquence of few words, each imbued with hard-earned wisdom.
Sorry but I won’t put myself in the President’s shoes!
Go back and watch his pre-election interview at Chatham House, for every question he answered, he was playing god, and overconfident! He knew he will win the election by hook or by crook, he also knew that Nigeria was plagued by insecurity which he heavily criticised as an opposition politician but was mute in the dark days of Buhari, yet he had and has no robust plan on how to better police and secure Nigeria and Nigerians.

He might be a sneaky politician but he is a failure in almost every parameter of governance, currently managing a pantry 4/10 score of effective leadership.

I won’t put myself in his smelly shoes because I am not the president.

What’s most disgraceful is the government’s response everyday when known bandits kill helpless Nigerians, they act like nothing happened.

America will not solve a problem will refuse to solve!
Politics › Re: Policeman, 16 Villagers Killed In Benue Market Attack by Immatex(m): 1:25pm On Feb 05
In any other sane country except in Africa, the present political class including the weak President should have packed up or been thrown out by brunt force.

The primary responsibility of government is the security of lives and property, the maintenance of order and security, Nigeria has a very weak and inefficient government.

Instead of dying like flies in Nigeria, isn’t better Nigerians donate themselves for medical experiments in serious countries, at least they will be dying for a good cause!
Education › Re: FG did not Approve Textbook Excluding Igbo History For JSS Class - Tunji Alausa by Immatex(m): 12:06pm On Feb 03
So which book is approved for Igbo History?

Or none is approved?

So if books are not submitted for Igbo History, the subject will not be thought? Because this minister is non-the-wiser.
Foreign Affairs › Re: He Is Satan’: Malema Blasts Trump After Court Appearance by Immatex(m): 10:32pm On Jan 27
Trump might be Satan but Malema is a short-man devil.

He and his violent political party hunt and kill other Blacks in South Africa and promote racism.

Should Malema accidentally become president of South Africa, then corruption, violence and racism will become official policies.
Sports › Re: Lucas Hernandez Charged With Human Trafficking by Immatex(m): 1:21pm On Jan 23
E get level wey you go reach for life, you consult professionals for everything you want to do before you attempt to do it otherwise you’ll burn yourself.

Why should you employ family to work?
Cheap labour equals exploitation and modern slavery.

This guy is playing with jail-time, suspended jail time, huge payout and a criminal dent all because he wanted to save some money, how foolish.
Family › Re: Beer Drinkers, Are Breweries In Nigeria Reducing The Quality Of Beer? by Immatex(m): 8:33pm On Jan 08
Dogalmighty17:
I understand now. But isn't this taking consumers forgranted? Why change the taste of a product when you have won people over? I understand that businesses need to maximise profits but when it begins to affect their customers then it is counter productive.
Good question. Taste engineering is not a crime or simply about profiteering.
You see, taste evolves and so needs modernising or updating to fit with consumer preferences. Take Gulder lager as an example. The taste has undergone many purification or engineering, so it’s now appealing to young drinkers, has no after taste and breath smell and hangovers.
Every product goes through some modernisation over time to increase its appeal not simply to reduce production costs.
Life lager beer is another example of a reengineered product in taste.
Family › Re: Beer Drinkers, Are Breweries In Nigeria Reducing The Quality Of Beer? by Immatex(m): 11:43am On Jan 08
So the Brewery I once worked for in Nigeria started something called Taste and flavour Engineering/re-engineering.

I understand it’s an ongoing experiment to use substitutes in place of ingredients and still arrive at the same taste. These experiments are for production purposes in the event of lack of certain ingredients or as a means to cut production costs for some products and maximise profits.

Each reengineered product goes through lots of tasting by beer tasters and can go into production if the taste can match taste with the real product.

Keen consumers can however notice the taste difference.

Taste engineering is very common practice in the beverage industry.
Celebrities › Re: May God Deliver Rev. Chris Okafor: Apostle Constance Friday Exclaims! by Immatex(m): 10:27am On Jan 06
That Chris of a man needs to be thankful he’s not resident in the UK, or accused by a Brit.

They would have bankrupted him and still jail him.

Nigeria favours criminals!
Education › Re: Dr. Iloh, Sunny Nwankwo Has Been Appointed As Deputy Vice Chancellor Of First Af by Immatex(m): 10:19am On Jan 06
Poor quality = poor quality graduates.

That’s if this shock of a university even exists!
Politics › Re: Obire Condemns U.S. Over “kidnapping” Of Venezuela’s President: Warns Of Dangero by Immatex(m): 10:32pm On Jan 03
Who be this again?

Hope he paid for this advert of a post?
Christianity Etc › Re: Aunty Esther Dies After Cancer Battle & Refusing Blood Transfusion by Immatex(m): 11:35am On Dec 28, 2025
duduade:
Religion will forever be one of our problems in Nigeria
This is a generic comment.

Death is inevitable.

Would the blood transfusion have reversed the cancer?

How long would it have put away the end result of the cancer?

Would it have been best she goes against her conscience especially as she has the full knowledge of her chances, and still die?

All of us would die, irrespective of our efforts, but how will die - the state of our spiritual life - matters.

Being realistic means living without self deceit!
Romance › Re: “i’m Better Off Alone” – Man Says After Spending Over 100K On A Date by Immatex(m): 11:28am On Nov 30, 2025
goody1shoe73:
You a Witness?
Certainly!
Politics › Re: Soludo Presents N757bn Budget For 2026 To Anambra Assembly by Immatex(m): 4:54pm On Nov 25, 2025
Soludo - the man that dealt IPOB a knockout punch in Ihiala LGA!
Politics › Re: A 12-point Letter To Ndigbo, By Valentine Ozigbo by Immatex(m): 4:52pm On Nov 25, 2025
This court judgement came as both a huge shock, blow and surprise to my fellow Igbos.

They actually thought the arrogance will go on unchecked forever.

Now they have even renamed the convict, Obi Cubanna now calls a whole Supreme Leader ‘Oche’.

Pride really comes before a catastrophic fall.
Family › Re: Pastor Tells Of How Used Marriage To Deny Wife Of Dream Of Becoming A Doctor by Immatex(m): 10:57pm On Nov 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
But longsuffering or patience as used in that Galatians 5 vs 22 - 23 was not used in reference to marriage but rather to a life for those who are part of the Kingdom of God of Israel. (And according to the one whose Kingdom it is — Jesus Christ of Israel(and he condoned abuse of his being, mind you)— your marriages are not a part of the Kingdom of God that he represents.) So, why invoke a definition from outside of the context that is marriage? undecided

2. I am suggesting that you cannot say that, but I am trying to ascertain what the parameters one has to meet to come to that conclusion, since, again, even the Pastor indicated in the OP of this thread here, a man who literally hates his wife, also claims that he is happily married. undecided
Suit yourself!

No use wasting precious energy on you!

By the way, I am not a Pastor and never claimed to be.

If you have evidence to the contrary that I am unhappy in my marriage, please feel free to supply or otherwise hold your peace!

I won’t dignify you with another response!
Family › Re: Pastor Tells Of How Used Marriage To Deny Wife Of Dream Of Becoming A Doctor by Immatex(m): 10:48pm On Nov 23, 2025
It’s no surprise that you and persons like you hold a very pessimistic view of marriage.
I am not sure if you are male of female however your pessimism is really deeply rooted and so responding to you might actually be a waste of my time and energy or simply and academic exercise.

For your point number 1, I will ask you: are humans perfect?, do you know anyone who is? Are you perfect?

If you seek perfection with no tolerance for errors, you bring needless frustration on yourself.

It is wisdom for a man to overlook the small errors of his fellow men because you are not blameless.
The Bible correctly says: love covers a multitude of sins.


Happiness is relative not absolute. It’s also a personal decision to choose happiness which comes from contentment- the knowledge that you can’t achieve absolute happiness in this world.
Modesty is also key to happiness, modesty is the realisation that neither or others are perfect and that expectations should be within human abilities.


It’s your choice to dwell on the negatives but to insinuate that there are no fulfilled marriages is a dangerous conclusion. So speak for yourself not for everyone.

Separation and divorce is allowed where there clear cases of infidelity, abuse and intolerance etc.
Being happy in marriage today does not mean being happy forever, it’s a work in progress except you’re being unrealistic or just want to ridicule others.

Plus if you unhappy, don’t insist others are.




I don’t suppose this part has anything to do with me even as it’s your right to be pessimistic.
But my happiness is based on tangible evidences rooted not on being fault-finding but endeavouring to see the good in my wife and appreciating the efforts she makes. The Bible which I believe you despise enjoins husbands to love their wives as they love themselves adding that since no man ever hates himself but feeds and cherishes his own body, husbands must likewise love their wives and wives in return show deep respect to their husbands. Here’s the secret to a happy and fulfilled marriage.
Given you selfish and unforgiving disposition, this is beyond your comprehension.

Endurance as used here is same as long-suffering or patience as stated at Galatians 5:22,23 and denotes calm endurance, forbearance, and slowness to anger not an acceptance of inhuman abuse.

Conclusively, I must say that I am happy in and with my marriage. I do not require your permission or advice to reach this conclusion.

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Family › Re: Pastor Tells Of How Used Marriage To Deny Wife Of Dream Of Becoming A Doctor by Immatex(m): 10:45pm On Nov 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
I sense the reason why you keep needing to throw in the term Imperfect — if perfection is impossible with humans then the word itself is meaningless when discussing human relationships— has something to do with needing to provide some excuse for what you privately consider an acceptable level of evil or abuse within this idea you refer to as a happy marriage. Am I wrong? undecided

It’s no surprise that you and persons like you hold a very pessimistic view of marriage.
I am not sure if you are male of female however your pessimism is really deeply rooted and so responding to you might actually be a waste of my time and energy or simply and academic exercise.

For your point number 1, I will ask you: are humans perfect?, do you know anyone who is? Are you perfect?

If you seek perfection with no tolerance for errors, you bring needless frustration on yourself.

It is wisdom for a man to overlook the small errors of his fellow men because you are not blameless.
The Bible correctly says: love covers a multitude of sins.

2. Life itself is full of challenges— every human being, whether married or single. You rarely find single individuals declaring their life to be happy because there needs to be an extraordinary situation that makes a life a happy one. I am interested in knowing exactly what it is that makes a marriage a happy one. 🥱🥱🥱

Happiness is relative not absolute. It’s also a personal decision to choose happiness which comes from contentment- the knowledge that you can’t achieve absolute happiness in this world.
Modesty is also key to happiness, modesty is the realisation that neither or others are perfect and that expectations should be within human abilities.

3. 10s of millions of married Christians make the same claims, yet the divorce/spousal abandonment rate, domestic violence/abuse rates, etc, among married Christians is no different than that of those who don't even believe in a deity. So, how do we measure this How do you measure the presence or absence of these things, given that there are no clear visible differences to be seen between those who claim to have a happy marriage and those who don't, on the most part? 🥱🥱🥱

It’s your choice to dwell on the negatives but to insinuate that there are no fulfilled marriages is a dangerous conclusion. So speak for yourself not for everyone.

Separation and divorce is allowed where there clear cases of infidelity, abuse and intolerance etc.
Being happy in marriage today does not mean being happy forever, it’s a work in progress except you’re being unrealistic or just want to ridicule others.

Plus if you unhappy, don’t insist others are.




The OP on this thread clearly depicts a pastor who used marriage to debase his wife(he was a doctor himself before he became a pastor, and then chose to snuff out his wife's dream of becoming a pastor by using his marriage to her against her and then recently went on to humiliate her for ending up with an online masters degree after all her fuzz). He too pretends to be happily married and would deploy that same slosh of words about love, joy, patience, kindness, and holyspiritzz when asked about it. So, I really want to learn why the use of the word happy to express even a damaged situation.

I don’t suppose this part has anything to do with me even as it’s your right to be pessimistic.
But my happiness is based on tangible evidences rooted not on being fault-finding but endeavouring to see the good in my wife and appreciating the efforts she makes. The Bible which I believe you despise enjoins husbands to love their wives as they love themselves adding that since no man ever hates himself but feeds and cherishes his own body, husbands must likewise love their wives and wives in return show deep respect to their husbands. Here’s the secret to a happy and fulfilled marriage.
Given you selfish and unforgiving disposition, this is beyond your comprehension.

Also, you probably need to look up the meaning of the word "Endurance".
Endurance as used here is same as long-suffering or patience as stated at Galatians 5:22,23 and denotes calm endurance, forbearance, and slowness to anger not an acceptance of inhuman abuse.

Conclusively, I must say that I am happy in and with my marriage. I do not require your permission or advice to reach this conclusion.

Politics › Re: Eruku Worshippers Rescue: How Many Abductors Were Killed? - Falz To Tinubu by Immatex(m): 8:44pm On Nov 23, 2025
Question that demand honest answers but expect only lies!
Politics › Re: Endsars:Nnamdi Kanu Ordered Attack On Sanwoolu And Lagos State Institutions. by Immatex(m): 8:42pm On Nov 23, 2025
ImpartialGuy:
I don't know why you guys are posting all these for a case whose judgement has been passed, but you don't exhibit the same energy when nor...thern isl..amic terrorists are involved.
Go and stop them from posting na.

So Kalu should only be punished after all criminals have been arrested and convicted?

Hypocrisy!
Politics › Re: Endsars:Nnamdi Kanu Ordered Attack On Sanwoolu And Lagos State Institutions. by Immatex(m): 8:40pm On Nov 23, 2025
They said he is innocent and no weapon was found on him neither did he kill anyone himself.

Worst is that those defending him were directly or indirectly affected yet for political correctness have now pronounced him innocent.

I have taken my hands and mind off anything Nigeria.

Let it happen to them as they desire!
Politics › Re: See How Tinubu Is Looking At The Chief Of Army Staff . He’s Tired ! by Immatex(m):
Nifemy4:
No doubt , this is not the best of time for Tinubu , he’s facing the heat ! multidimensionally .
The look here says it all
The real underlying issue is a government and its institutions that are both weak and corrupt.

Not just this regime but all those before it.

Relative security is possible but justice must be swift and unbiased. Equity and justice must prevail against political and ethnic considerations. No persons or ethnic groups must be allowed free rein of terrorism.

Withdrawal of police escort is not enough, swift and very severe punishments must be handed down to all terrorist.
Family › Re: Pastor Tells Of How Used Marriage To Deny Wife Of Dream Of Becoming A Doctor by Immatex(m): 8:20pm On Nov 23, 2025
Kobojunkie:
How do you define what it means to be happily married? undecided
A happy marriage is attainable even though there no perfect marriages.

A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.

Marriage is the union of two imperfect persons from varying backgrounds and with different personalities yet if they make the effort to live by the golden rule- treat each other like they will like to be treated and closely follow God’s marital guidelines as set out in the Holy Bible, they will be truly happy.

My marriage has not being without its challenges but by continuing to show unselfish love for one another, by cultivating and displaying fruitages of the Holy Spirit like love, joy, patience, kindness, long suffering and endurance, we are not only happy but prospering in our marital lives.

Yes you can be happy and fulfilled in your marriage even with occasional challenges.

Do not demand perfection from your spouse, respect the marital headship arrangement, love your spouse unselfishly, remain faithful and loyal- don’t scheme to leave your marriage, speak truth to one another and allow God and word be your guide then your marriage will surely succeed!
Romance › Re: “i’m Better Off Alone” – Man Says After Spending Over 100K On A Date by Immatex(m): 7:47pm On Nov 23, 2025
Being happily married to a loyal woman (SPDAZZY) for 10 years and I will always count my marriage a blessing from God.

Never being insensitive to her demands but has proven to be Godly, virtuous, loving wife and mother, something now quite rear about this generation of women.

Our commitment is for happily ever after!

By the way, she’s also very brilliantly and only recently became a phd holder from a UK top university.
Romance › Re: “i’m Better Off Alone” – Man Says After Spending Over 100K On A Date by Immatex(m): 7:41pm On Nov 23, 2025
Being happily married to a loyal woman (SPDAZZY) for 10 years and I will always count my marriage a blessing from God.
Politics › Re: Xpress Payments: 'Your Assertions Incorrect And Misleading' - FIRS Replies Atiku by Immatex(m): 6:31pm On Nov 23, 2025
This FIRS response seems to create more confusion than clarity and completely avoids Atiku’s questions.

Even though appointing another payment pathway is not a crime and may as well create employment opportunities, Atiku’s questions borders on the process employed for this appointment as to whether it was transparent. He also wanted to know how much the new company gets for its tax collection services, FIRS sounded like they do this for free.

Atiku is also a businessman and recently his son-in-law was embroiled in a corruption scandal with the government, so he might also have a business interest in this.

In any case FIRS’ response is unsatisfactory’
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu's Attire Begins To Sweep The South East- Picture by Immatex(m): 9:24pm On Nov 22, 2025
Next, they should surrender themselves to prison and self-jail themselves until any day he is either released or he dies, whichever comes first.

Any other support short of this is sycophancy!

Give them just 1 year of his absence from court appearances and they willl be begging people to remember him.

He will go the same way of others before him - inglorious end!
Politics › Re: Life Imprisonment: How Nnamdi Kanu Played Smart On The Judges by Immatex(m): 9:16pm On Nov 22, 2025
As in many of una boast, this too will be futile and wishful.

The sound judgement handed out will be upheld up to the supreme court.

His only option is to open defence, plead for more leniency otherwise sorry will remain his surname.

Every other calculation will simply be hallucination!
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Sentenced To Life Imprisonment by Immatex(m): 4:34pm On Nov 20, 2025
A very lenient and merciful judgement!

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