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For clarity sake, attach a picture of a garment of divers sorts, as of woollen and linen together.

whippersnapper:
Bad wives are given from the devil. You attract what you are. You cannot sleep and disvirgin all the girls in your locality and expect to marry a faithful woman.

"You attract what you are." This is your own statement. It means that a man's effort determines the type of wife he gets. It means that God does not choose wife for a man, rather, a man chooses his own wife.

Sunnyshinylight:
You mean fruitless effort? You think those with bad wives never made great effort for the good? Rest! It's HIM that shows MERCY!

You have not answered any of the questions I and one other commenter have asked you. If God is the giver of good wives, who gives bad wives?

Olu omo tactic or a natural cause? Could it be that the broom is sweeping?

May the departed souls rest in peace.

Sunnyshinylight:
You came around again, and so you now have agreed with me that it's a gift given, right?

Every man has the potential for both wisdom and foolishness.

Getting a good wife is by effort, likewise getting a bad wife.

Sunnyshinylight:
Who makes you wise? And give you the ability to choose?

And also remember wisdom is a gift...

Who makes some men foolish to choose bad wives?

Unprofessional bloggers are worse than politicians, deadlier than Boko Haram.

Stephen0mozzy:
Who brings the evil ones?

Or all who have terrible spouses (husband or wife) rejected the good gifts and insisted on the bad?

Would make a good conversation

Don't mind him.

A wise man finds a good wife. A foolish man either finds a bad wife or finds a good one and influences her to become bad.

Ulo omo syndrome is real but may this report not be true.

Hmmm!

They don't know the president of one African country.

The lintel is not chained, yet they put parapet. Hmmm!

Everyone knows that the country is not independent.

In Eedris Abdulkareem's voice, it could be a political armed robbery.

Wetin be jigsumur? Na drink abi wetin? Abi na detergents since the other one na Cleansumur?

In Eedris Abdulkareem's voice, it could be a political armed robbery.

May his soul rest in peace.

Nothing has happened to those that have been exposed. Even some exposed terrorists are now baptised and recruited...

So, this news is just for the media to be active.

This is the first time I find Jennyclay's statement right. She is absolutely right here. I'm surprised. Did she repent or replace her brain?

Any man who does not trust his wife enough to support her business should admit that he was stupid in his choice of wife. If you don't choose a gold digger as a wife, you won't be scared of sponsoring her business.

A good wife is submissive and respectful to her husband even if she is richer than him. Ngozi Okonjo, Late Dora Akunyiri, Chimamanda Adichie, Oby Ezekwesiri are examples. A bad wife disrespects her husband even if he is richer than her.

Jennyclay:
When you see a situation whereby a married man was a millionaire, but along the way he lost everything and became completely broke it’s actually because he never had a plan B.

The best plan B you men don’t know is investing in your wife’s business. Once you are making enough money as a man and your wife is also into business, please kindly pump money into your wife’s business, expand the business, give her enough money to grow her business.

The reality of life is that No one knows tomorrow, you can lost everything you once had at any point and Trust me, you can never get to a very bad stage with this backup plan B.

jaephoenix:
Where did this happen, or is it yet another 'dem say'?

I'm the very victim that neither died nor got paralysed. I could not sit. I could not stand. I was using diapers to poop. I was urinating in bed. But today, I walk and can even run. I myself didn't know that I would survive. I didn't know that I can walk without crutches. I contemplated euthanasia for myself.

mascot87:
Seen seen seen. I will take you seriously if you have EXPERIENCED

I will take you seriously when you use your experience to tell us the difference between the joblessness of a fair woman and the joblessness of a dark woman.

mascot87:
You have seen, you have seen. If you haven't experienced what the OP said, keep quiet. I have seen is different from I have experienced. You can only counter the OP if you have experienced it.
The OP is making is recommendation from experience. W
Let those that have contrary experience counter him and not you that have seen

I have seen light-skin ladies who are lazy. I have seen light-skinned ladies who are industrious and even do dirty works to make money. I have seen dark-skinned ladies who are lazy and do not like to work. I have seen dark-skin ladies who are industrious and even do dirty work to make money. So, what exactly is your point?

The narrative the poster is pushing is clearly false.

Sirchiboy:
Hey you little man of faith.
Hold your breath.
1) Her skin colour is more important than anything inclusing her kids
2) She will invest on your money on her skin health routine.
3) She will put you in Chronic debt for the rest of your life.
4) She will invest heavily on her self to maintain her looks so people wont laugh at her
5)very numerous..
As I am typing I am crying heavily.

You are probably inexperienced, unexposed and narrow-minded. I have seen light-skinned ladies who do dirty jobs and even farm to provide for their homes. I have also seen dark-skinned ladies who do not even cook in the kitchen or wash clothes and their arguement is that stress is no good for their skin.

Nteogwuija:
I also said it could be a rare case. Maybe the first time they're experiencing that rare case. Besides you don't know the success rate / % of the machines and the doctors' methods.

Let's assume the success rate of the machine and the doctor's analysis/diagnosis is 99.9%. There's still a 0.01% failure chance. It's rare but not impossible to occur.

That 0.01% can be explained maybe not by them, but someone else.

It was a rare case? It was the first time? But other people who later had similar accidents, sustained similar injuries, were rushed to the same hospital and got examined by the same doctors either died or got paralysed.

Let me just paint a picture that describes your mentality. Imagine a situation whereby a power generator goes off and light goes off each time the generator runs out of diesel. But on a particular occasion when power generated by the same generator is being used for a surgery, the generator ran out of diesel but continued to generate power. If engineers describe it as a miracle, your type will be arguing saying that it is not a miracle but there is probably something that engineers do not know about the power generator. Your type will call it first time or rare case instead of admitting that it is a miracle.

Any beggar that has the time to join beggars association and is able to get a membership ID card has all it takes to not be a beggar. Such a person is a beggar by choice.

Sirchiboy:
Are you married to a fair lady or not.
I guess you are not

Tell us how the joblessness of a fair lady is different from the joblessness of a dark-skinned lady.

Nteogwuija:
I said just because those doctors at that particular hospital couldn't explain what happened doesn't mean there aren't explanations anywhere.

There are cases where someone was certified dead at a hospital but was revived at another.

You'd be shocked by the amount of knowledge from experience that's available out there. You'd think u know a lot, and then that thing you think you know alot about is just 20% of what someone else knows.

What exactly could the doctors not explain? The same doctors understood and explained all the results produced by the same machines used to test all the accident victims.

Your logic would have made sense if the machine is inconsistent or unstable in examining the bodies of the accident victims. And if the machines malfunction, the case of that particular accident victim wouldn't have been the only case that would shock the doctors.

Sirchiboy:
If you are struggling in life and you want to go far in life or want the best for your unborn kids never marry a fair lady without skill, education or trade.
This simple advise will save some many men in future.
These set of women are the downfall of many men in the society

This your statement is senseless. It is senseless because marrying a dark-skinned lady that has all the bad qualities you mentioned here makes no difference.

Nteogwuija:
Well, there is something called a rare case. Just because it's a rare case doesn't mean it doesn't happen. And just because the doctors at that hospital couldn't explain doesn't mean there's no explanation.

There are certain procedures with a 10% success rate and 90% failure rate, mainly as last resorts. Would you say the people who were classified under the 10% success rate had a miracle?

The same doctors that used the same machine to evaluate the conditions of the accident victims that died and the accident victims that are paralysed are still the same doctors that are shocked that this particular accident victim is alive and not paralysed. This is not a case of 90% failure and 10% success. The doctors are saying that based on the level of injuries, the victim should be either dead or paralysed, which means that that any human that sustains that level of injuries has zero chance of of escaping at least paralysis. So, what exactly is your point?

Purpose defines need.

Someone that needs a phone for contents creation that involves capturing of footages should choose camera over battery and use power banks to support the battery of the phone.

Someone that is not a content creator and does not live in an area that enjoys steady power supply should choose battery over camera.

The guy's reaction, "My pleasure", is correct.

6 more characters needed.

Any mistake that affects the public but is not made in or noticed by the public should be corrected privately. If your partner makes a mistake but the public fails to observe it, correct your partner in private.

Any mistake that affects the public and is made in or noticed by the public should be corrected publicly. If your partner's mistake is witnessed and criticised by the public, correct the partner publicly.

It is wrong for you to support your partner's mistake in public in the name of being romantic and you then go in private to tell the partner that what he or she did in public is actually wrong. That is hypocrisy.

Politeness does not depend on whether the conversation happens in private or in public. You can be polite in giving corrections in public. You can be harsh in giving corrections in public. You can be polite in a private discussion. You can be harsh in a private discussion.

Continue until you are satisfied.

It is your life, your decision and your choice.

You are telling us that you reject marriage proposal but you are not telling us how many men you date.

You don't even know that those ones that propose marriage to you may not be serious about it. It might just be their pick up line to get in between your legs. I wonder how many men will be sincerely interested in marrying you.