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dingbang:
Next time don't steal ftc in ur own thread!

ok sire i will not. for reasons like these i have always advocated for NL Psychiatric section so that such post can be moved their with ease

How frequent is it when you notice that your anger and emotions are getting out of control that's driving you to commit all sorts of inappropriate, reckless, crazy behaviors?

To the majority of us, it's undeniable that life is tough, challenging and stressful these days. However, it is still important to learn how to control your temper.

One critical thing to remember is that you are always 100% in control of your emotions.

While you should never find yourself in a situation that you can't control, you always have choices as to how to react to any kind of situations.

By allowing yourself to even think that your temper is controlled by other people or circumstances, you are just making an excuse for yourself!

To a certain extent, anger is actually a powerful emotional response.

It reminds you what you don't like about your life, other people and what matters to you. It allows you to freely express your frustrated feelings, but it should never overpower your self-control.

If you find that you are turning into a violent beast when anger hits you, you have an imminent dangerous problem to fix. If you really find it difficult to handle, you might as well consult some anger management experts for advice.

Remember this powerful paradigm shift: It is not how you are feeling that is wrong. It is what you do with your feelings that become the issue.

If you allow yourself to throw a tantrum and fling your arms around, ranting wildly like a lion king, this is obviously not a good sign. You are liable to hurt other people's feelings as well as possibly causing them physical harm.

When you let your temper get the better out of you, you may face serious consequences like:

1. Detrimental to your unstable mental health

2. Severely damaging your physical health, some may even trigger heart attacks or latent diseases

3. Ruining your professional career because you're confronting your boss, colleagues or even clients in a mindless way

4.Destroying relationships with friends, family, lovers and co-workers

5. Failing to create the kind of impact you want in the world because no one wants to help you with your vision and mission

Luckily, there are solutions to this problem.

Your first step is to seek out help and learn to manage your temper in a more effective way. This can include group discussion on possible solutions with family and friends or it can consist of you learning how to manage your anger by yourself either in books or online.

Learning to control your temper will take time, energy, effort and patience. One of the first things you should do is to try to determine what the root cause of your anger is.

Did you grow up in an angry household where you witnessed a lot of fights and dramas?
Have you experienced a traumatic event in the past about people?

Sometimes the root cause of anger can be hidden deep inside. It is only with a lot of self-reflection, soul-searching and meditating that the answers will be revealed.

Find a quiet place where you won't be disturbed and start making a list of all the things that make you angry. Then put them in order of importance - which one lights your fuse first. Once you know what your root cause is, you will be able to devise a better strategy to deal with it and slowly change your behavior.

As for me, the single root cause that lights my fuse the most is "people getting angry and reacting with anger for no justifiable cause." i have identified mine and i am already working tirelessly towards accommodating it. lets hear yours

good morning to everyone on the thread

BiafranBushBoy:
Because I don't want to derail the thread.

All the same, I am sorry!!

#bye

after being sorry you are still derailing the thread. why not stop being a parasite and create your own threads? it will earn you more respect and credibility.

BiafranBushBoy

telling people to contact you is what you call contribution?

remiproxy:
good

thanks

BiafranBushBoy

why not just create your own thread and market whatever it is you want to market instead of being parasitic on other people's thread?

Elkay3:
Kudos sir.

kudos to you too bro. thanks

Have you ever thought about how to make money on the Internet for free? I'm sure you have! Just like many thousands of other people, I'm sure you have at least thought about it once or twice in your life. Well, in this article, you're going to learn about amazing ways to make money on the Internet for free.

Method 1: Article Writing

Writing articles for profit has become a very popular method to make money on the Internet for free. Anyone with decent writing skills can become an online article writer and bring in a regular income every month. There are a few ways to profit from article writing. The first method is to write articles for merchants and companies who require content for their marketing campaigns. The second method is to promote your own products to make a sale or affiliate products to earn a commission.

Method 2: Blogging

Many people are blogging and earning hundreds and thousands of dollars per month. How do they do it? All they do is to take a free blog from WordPress or Blogger, create content and market it. These bloggers then monetize their blog through affiliate links to earn a commission, or contextual ads such as Google AdSense ads that make them money every time a visitor clicks on one of the ads.

Method 3: Paid-To-Complete Offers

Paid-to-complete offers pay you for filling up a form, survey or signing up for trial offers. The reason why companies will pay you for filling up a survey form, for example, is because they are doing market research and they want to learn more about their market. Sites that offer paid-to-complete offers include Cash Crate and Treasure Trooper.

Method 4: Brokering

If you noticed, the methods described so far do not necessarily require you to have a product of your own to sell. Brokering is another method that does not require you to create a product. With brokering, you match buyers and sellers and get paid a commission fee. You can broker buyers and sellers of digital information products or even eBay products just by sending a few emails to both parties.

Method 5: Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketing is perhaps the most popular and viable way of making money online without busting your guts trying to create products that the market will buy. You simply find proven products that are already selling well on the market, sign up as an affiliate, and promote the products. When you sell the affiliate products, you earn commissions. This method can be combined with methods like article marketing and/or blogging to create a well-oiled online money-making machine.

add yours. your questions are welcome

Young03:
ex z ex

it should not be allowed to come back

like on Saturday oshiomole will be tagged ex

and nothing will make him come back again

ha, bro. i pray that you will find your old school members that both of you attended Night school together. hhhhhh we are talking about a relationship you are talking about governorship that constitutionally has a FIXED number of years. but going by your context, remember that many governors came back after their first tenure

jh

I recently created a thread about getting your ex-girlfriend back https://www.nairaland.com/3437160/break-ups-some-tips-how some ladies on the thread indicated their interest about getting their ex-boyfriend back. so, that is exactly the reason behind this thread today. Ladies In the house today is your day just do SHAKARA

Relationships are great until one decides to leave the other for some valid (or invalid) reason. Girls, being sensitive and emotional than men, often take the blow of the break up pretty hard-unless they're the ones who initiated the break up. But of course, girls are also more hopeful than men. Below are some tips that will speed up the process for you.

1. Try your best not to call him

Don't seem desperate by calling him every hour. You will not succeed at winning him back by scaring him. desperation is evil to your relationship. don't even bother to call and ask him if he is fine or not. If he'll call, he'll call. It may take some time but that's why patience is a virtue.

2. Learn to compromise to make the new relationship work

Try to delve into your past relationship's issues. Were there recurring problems? Is it because you're quite selfish and do not want your man to go out with his friends? Is it always your way or the highway?

Because if it is, then maybe that's one of the reasons why he broke up. If you and your man are ready to have a heart-to-heart discussion about trying to fix the relationship, then go ahead and be ready to make compromises.

3. Never beg or plead, please

Begging and pleading is so out of fashion. pleading for your man to take you back will only make you look pitiful and believe me nobody will accept and appreciate you out of pity. let him feel that you are just toooooo competitive to think about him and you are already a foot ahead of him. in this case, he will plead to get you back .

4. Give time to yourself

Now that you're not in a relationship, you have all the time to go to the salon to have your hair fixed. Check your bookshelves for the titles you haven't read yet. go out to jug, register for a jim. Just anything to take your mind off the breakup.

5. Re-assess your value in the relationship

Not being a part of the relationship allows you to look at it from an outsider's point of view. What were its strongest points, its weakest? What role did you usually play - the boss, the superior or more dominating one, or the receiver of all affection and care?

Reassessing your role in the relationship will give you the leverage you need when talking about it with your former partner.


6. Have your friends stay out of this situation

Some men are very private and would rather have his personal issues kept between him and his partner. Even if you're not together anymore, don't blab about your problems and your plans to get him back to your friends. While friends can help you patch things up, he may be more grateful if you stop having your friends set you up on dates.

7. New girlfriend, no problem!

Sure, the news of a new girlfriend will stupefy you, no matter how many times you say it's all right. But don't fear. If their relationship came right after yours without any time gap, chances are, she's just a rebound girl-someone who can accompany him while he nurses his broken heart.

conclusion

with patience, if he is yours you will surely get him back with the help of the above tips. please never push too much. the harder you push the more you repel and push him away. rather, stay afar and attract him to you. your comments and ideas are most welcomed.

Snow5:
Dear importexpert pls reply to the email I sent you..
Pls

i have replied your mail a couple of days ago and i still replied it now. so check your mail. but please do not reply to the mail. call me or ask your questions on the thread. your success is my pride

Joseid:
pls, How can one get clients for writing jobs? An easy and efficient way if possible. I think I need one of such jobs urgently.

upwork and freelance are your best bet. kindly contact me via phone. i might have something for you.

Abcruz:
alright thanks for the recommendation.

you are welcome. feel free to reach me if you have further inquiry.

lexaydfg:
@importexpert.. .. I have a product that I will like to sell online but outside countries like the United States etc please how do I go about it.?

set up a sales page and a squeeze page. advertise with a site of your niche via buysellads. you will get the best deals their. set up a foreign paypal account for receiving your payment. this is just in a nutshell. feel free to reach me whenever you need me. i wish you success.

Abcruz:
pls how can i go about creating a squeez page for my affiliate marketing?

their are many ways to do that bro but i will recommend youtube for easy to follow guide. if you have a challenge following the guide let me know

feel free to ask your online business related questions.

cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Davash222:
And you didn't add the Baba nla..

Online Betting.. The only legalized youth empowerment program.

that was why i said add your own ideas

BiafraBushBoy:
Make I book space...!!

But oga importexport, do you know that

freelancing is overcrowded.

Affiliate marketing is non- profitable without a blog or website of your own

Mini- importation now is wahala due to forex!!!

What do we do

freelancing is overcrowded when we have limited number of freelancers in Nigeria? Nigerian market needs freelancers. freelancing can never be over crowded. if you cant find jobs you should see it as a blow on your face to improve your skills. i have freelancers that offer unique freelancing services and today they employ workers to help them because they cant handle their orders. all that you need to succeed in affiliate marketing is to understand email marketing, have a squeeze page and know where to source hungry customers from. for mini-importation read what i said about it above

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It can be difficult to find the right legitimate online businesses to start with so much misinformation and lies being spread and peddled on the Internet. So how do you decide which online business to start? Well, you need to be diligent and do your research to ensure that you find the legitimate online businesses that can actually make you richer, not poorer. After all, when we learn driving, flying or any other skill, we need to spend time learning it first and practicing it, before we actually do the activity. Online business is no different.

So what kind of online business can a Nigerian start in this recession? Here are 3 business models you can consider:

Model #1: Freelancing

Freelancing is the art of working for yourself and also for others. In freelancing, you provide a service to others that need it, while being able to choose who you work for and work with. If you can write, create graphics or coding skills, you can provide these services to companies and individuals who are looking for experts to do work for them. Even if you don't have the skills mentioned, you can provide services such as managing social media accounts, posting links for companies to help them boost their search engine rankings, provide customer support and so on. There are many possibilities in this business model.

Model #2: Affiliate Marketing

Affiliate marketing is probably the easiest and quickest business to start online because all you have to do is promote your affiliate link, and when customers buy a product or fill in a form, you earn a commission. It is truly one of the best conceptions ever created for online entrepreneurs. Merchants love it because they only have to pay affiliates when they produce a sale or a lead, which means all their costs in this model creates a profit. While for affiliates, they don't have to deal with the hassle of creating products, shipping and dealing with customers.

Model #3: Mini-importation

This is one of the most misunderstood business models in Nigeria today. it is the act of buying from foreign online stores around the world and selling for profit here in Nigeria. most people today feel that since dollar is on the high side this business model should die. but people often fail to remember that it is demand for foreign items that has always sustained this business model and not dollar, demand is still the factor that sustains this business model today. the increase in dollar has filtered the wheat from the chaff or let me say As a result of very low competition the market is experiencing boom from ever demanding Nigerian quest for foreign items. individual sellers selling non-stop on our ecommerce sites like konga, jumia, dealdey and jiji are a pointer to this fact.

their are many items that range from $0.2-$1 that can be sold for over 2k here in Nigeria. a typical example is a simple product called "stop snoring" the product is sold around a single dollar but i found the same product on a different site with graphical illustrations selling for $99. other related examples are key finders, artificial tattoos, tooth whiteners, lips lighteners etc


CONCLUSION

all the above business models are profitable and can all be integrated with your current work life. you need to be well informed and researched before you embark on any of the above to ensure your success. you can add your ideas or ask your questions.

your success is truly my pride

cocoberry:
3. He hates the thought of being tied down

Most men have a morbid fear of being tied down to one woman all their life! These men are the types that want to enjoy dating different women before they make up their mind. They are generally those who are concentrating on just having a good time instead of being serious and thinking of the future. i know many Nairalanders in this category but i will allow seun and other audience to list the "soup testers"... TJ falls into dis category

who is tj ? the guy that you have been expecting his proposal ?