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...Or think that I am in love.
Dunno.
But I know that my heart is melted and feels like butter right now

'Don't know how long I can hold it all together. I really do not want to embarrass myself in front of this guy.

I have always known that when a guy wants you, he wants you.
But I also know that when a guy does not want you, there might not be anything in the world you can do about it to get him. If you scheme and even get him to marry ya, you may be in for one HELLuva ride!

This mindset is the reason for the confusion I feel right now.

There is this guy...
He looks like all I have ever wanted.

The first time I noticed him was when he offered me a cup of drink as i walked into the venue really late.
He was looking into my eyes...the whole time.
He excused himself afterwards and left.
This has been the pattern.
It's gone on for months.

He comes around, exchanges pleasantries, small talks and that's all.

He got to know my name after a while but he keeps forgetting it.
One moment he's calling me Favour, the next time Gift, another Joy!
I find it funny, and I have corrected him again and again.
Everyone around me tells me the names he calls me are nice names too.
And this got me thinking.

The confusion now is:
I have now developed feelings for this guy.
I really like this guy but do not know if he likes me too.

If he likes me, then why isn't he taking it further?
And if he doesn't like me, why does he keep coming around and staring into my eyes like that?

I don't think I can handle keeping the way I feel about him hidden any longer.

But if I share it with someone or show him some green light and then get to know he's in a relationship, I'd just die of embarrassment!

If he wants me, why isn't he pursuing?
And if he's just being a friend, why that look in see in his eyes?

He finds excuses to sit by me and all that...
Or is it all just in my head?

For him, I wouldn't mind giving up Freedom for Companionship.
This guy is killing me softly and if we don't date, I'm going to really feel heartbroken for a while.

*(...And no, I haven't seen him "scratch".)

The truth is I don't even know what I am saying right now.

haywire07:
If I use the aggression from npower take slap u, I swear u will die

Loool..what did he do?
Issa very brilliant write up

Jupxter:
I'm not concentrating jare...Maybe later

You're sound theologically. What church ?

The Holy Spirit.
HE teaches me all things and reminds me of everything.

HE is for real.
I ask HIM questions, HE answers.
You probably know this already but HE is actually The One that taught me, as well as recognise it when others speak it.

emmayayodeji:
didinrin ni e sha!
Ur papa no dey scratch balls??

Back to sender!!!

Chuknovski:
its possible ooo, depending on the environment you are doing the toasting

Haba! Clean tarred streets, cute fences everywhere. Nah, if it were ants, he'd have reacted sharply. I no gree.

Zenithpeak:
You are the one that is wrong here and anyone who believe the 7years tribulation heresy.

Show me 7years tribulation period from the Bible.

Note; I am a Christian...... I'm sure that is not in the Bible

You're right.
There's the woe and plagues.
Not "years".

adelee777:
She got it spot on. Let me help you out:Apostle Paul stated dat d first to go by rapture will be d dead saints. This is d first resurrection. Now read Rev 20:4-5. Those dat partook in d first resurrection were killed during d great tribulation. How is dis possible if d rapture had taken place before d great tribulation?

Thank you so much.
The world has been deceived!

Jupxter:
Wait a minute this is true oh. There's a rapture of the saints in between

Have you forgotten?
The trumpet sounds not only for rapture but to reveal Jesus is His glory. His revealing is what "magnets" us to Him in the first place.

Jupxter:
I believe the whole world will go through a " testing ", which should the be son of perdition, who will work like a sieve to sieve out people who aren;t for God and does who stand for God. It's going to be the end of the age, so it stands to be the period of maximum trial and tribulations. So, yes, the sone of perdition is revealed first, he deceives many, many are led astray, while many christians will stand in their faith, some will teach during this period and will win souls, and at the fullness of time Christ comes, and immediately rapture takes place, followed by judgement, followed by the new heavens and the new earth. This is the sequence, let's not be deceived. So blessed is he who washes his garments continously.


But on the otherhand, if we take the scripture where two grinders will be at a mill and one will disappear, it means there will be moment of instant taking away of people that aretrue Christians without any form of warning, leaving the rest behind. A lot will happen, the sequence doesn't matter, as all preachers still struggle with accuracy of how the events will unfold.So we shouldn't watch the times and seasons only, but our own very souls.

My brother The Good LORD bless you real good.
The devil has deceived his very own agents; what a betrayer

deafeyez:
You are sending mix reactions which is good for love.

About first impression, you know so many things could be responsible for that.

I like his persistence.
But that first impression of seeing his hand move behind the his fabric really ruined it. So he wants to add me to his list of conquered cheeks huh??

You gehh me now?

MrCross:
Who Toasting You Epp?

Lol...

Chuknovski:
ooo come on don't be myopically bewildered, what if at the point of toasting you an Ant crawls up his balls

Haba ant??

Collinsedeghe:
Goodmrn,
Here's my new single. #FFM

Okay, 'will do.

deafeyez:
U liked him

Bring your ear let me tell you the truth,
"I don't like him one bit!"
But I can like him o.
But that first impression......

Phinity318:
So now any guy comes at Yuu na him balls area Yuu go just dey look be it stylishly, codedly, swayingly or outright ba?

See, humans have what we call compound vision.
..and I am human

femi4:
I might be counting the money I want to spend on you


If I come do am after you don say yes nko?

You understand what amtalking
Counting Money fa?

Nagging galore for you o

benzion72:
Some women also scratch their center point. after along day wearing paint, tight and under skirt and cloth. Thank God you even get people to approach you the other day that i went to church the Pastor ask all those looking for a hook up should come out, if you see crowd outside beautiful ladies. Even ageing ones. I beg seize the right opportunity you have now, before your future hubby waka pass you

Yes Sir.
I pray this my mind cooperates o

Dimples129:
Hmmmmm, that just sounds like a pervert touching himself sexually while chatting to you

I'm talking about when it was a style for gangsta lads to walk around with their hand down their pants, some thought that was swagger back in the day...

This is no pevert manoeuvres o

Sammiel:
I know you like it but let's just assume you hate it. In fact you really do.

Lol...I hate seeing the stylish manoeuvres and what it represents.

righthappenings:
Nice one OP, you hardly find people read, and comment on this kind of post.

You're welcome

Barzinime:
you are a slowpoke...im sure you dont know anything in school...you cant even comprehend
op never made mention of women being lazy..and you are the lazy one

Thank you!

Jupxter:
Excellent.


I'm recommending this to everyone that has ears. Excellent

Thank you o jare, my brother.

TheManofTomorrow:
If ur man does all that and still scratch him scrotum when talking to you. will you divorce him?

Ahahaha...
Well you said my man, right?
I can't get out of the relationship because of that but, he will be nagged out of that habit I assure ya. It's either he gives up or forfeits he's peace of mind

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[quote author=lefulefu post=62604874]back in the late 90s and early 2000s..if teenage boys want to approach a lady they will grip the underside of their jeans trousers and walk with a swagger towards the lady.i dont know if they do such nowadays.

I don't think that's what she meant.
A guy has his hands in his pocket, and you can see the hand moving in there slowly like a snake.
We see these things!

Right dimples129?
Or am I wrong?

Tastemoney:
Upgrade ur class bebe

No. You just stop scratching!!

deafeyez:
She had a lonely night.

Not a lonely night but an incidence last night.

ifex370:
Somebody just woke up from sleep, created a thread.. And the first thing that came to her mind.. Is balls

How I feel about it is that bad

Alwaysking and 912 please let a girl be girl

Epositive:
your own better

Lol..oya talk to me, whatagwan whicha?

Baromontesquie and Lefulefu at least you agree there are men who do it and you have chosen to call them touts.

Dimples129:
Boys approach you

I hate when they keep their hands warm, under their pants, then thinking he could touch me

I tell em straight that shi is unhygienic

Thank God I have a witness.
Then that annoying thing they do, doing a quick bend in the knees, what's that for?

Scratching your balls!!

If you scratch your balls while toasting me, be it stylishly, codedly, swayingly, thigh-rubbingly or outrightly, you may as well look forward to a life without me in it!

Like guys, seriously?
Scratching means you're promiscuous!
Scratching means because of your promiscuity, you have contracted an infection so viral that you can't hide it.

I...I...don't want to be a part of that

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