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ceo247frolic:
Have you seen this Police woman on Herbert Macualay way,Yaba?

We are celebrating her here today....who knows her name?




''Those who use Herbert macaulay way in yaba will know this woman. She's so energetic, vibrant and hardworking.



And that smile....is so contagious. I see her everyday on my way back from work and was so happy when I saw people appreciating her on a post on Facebook yesterday. Even when other officers are under the shed, you will see her carrying out her duty under the scorching sun.
If we can criticize corrupt police officers, why not praise this vibrant and hardworking one''.



If you read this today and run into her,please tell her we celebrate her today as she does what she does best under the hot sun!


http://www..net/2015/07/photo-celebrating-policewoman-with.html

MORE PICS PLS OF HER IN ON DUTY

davidylan:
You're just going to throw away a good girl and 2 yrs of love just because she was too insecure to tell you her real age?
What about you look at it from another perspective . . . if i were you i'd be more worried that for 2 good yrs she didnt trust me enough to handle the truth about her real age. How free is she with you? Can she trust you enough to know that she can tell you anything in the world and you will stand by her through thick and thin?

All through the 2 yrs she must have respected you and treated you as the leader in that relationship for you to have been unaware she was older for so long. This is your fault dear, dont let your ego get in the way of something wonderful . . . she loves you and is willing to submit herself to you not minding the fact that she is older. . . can you put that fact behind you and encourage her to be more open to you?

One thing you also have to be mindful of is that by your actions you have just shattered her confidence . . . even if you take her back she'd be even more afraid to share anything with you not knowing how you will react.

I have always believed one thing, my girl must be able to trust me enough to tell me ANYTHING under the sun. If truly you love her, you'll be willing to correct her with love and let things go.

Take her back asap, i dislike men who seem to enjoy watching their women cry and grovel at their feet to take them back. that's not the sign of a real man.

MAN! WHAT PLANET ARE YOU FROM? A RARE GEM AS YOU, COULDNT POSSIBLY BE IN THIS COUNTRY.... UR PHILOSOPHY, ITS ATTRACTING. PLS KEEP IT UP

Seun:
1) Lies
2) Losing virginity in a very cheap way.
3) Behaving in a way that attracts players and repels responsible men.
4) Insincerity.
5) Being a girl and not a woman - not having direction in life.

U R A MAN, I GIVE IT TO YOU. THUMBS UP

perez019:
will u return his phone or not?

CC: lalasticlala

FOR THE SAKE OF CHRIST N FOR CONSCIENCE SAKE, ON THE CONDITION THAT I GET BACK MY 2000

[quote author=aleniboro post=33856188]I feel like making a contribution to this: How many of our leaders left the office willingly and peacefully? Tafawa Balewa was killed in a coup, Aguiyi Ironsi was also killed in the counter coup, Yakubu Gowon was overthrown while away for a meeting in Uganda, Muritala that took over from him was gunned down less than a year. We can not say Obasanjo willingly handed over power in 1979 because the Northern people, who were the nation's major coup plotters, were in powerful positions in the military and they wanted the power to shift to the North. Shagari was also overthrown, followed by Buhari who was also overthrown by his chief of Army Staff. Babangida decided not to leave power by not handing over to the President elect, Abiola, which caused anarchy, destruction of lives and properties throughout the country. Shonekan who was later overthrown by Abacha was used as part of game plan to allow the military in power. Abacha died in office, Abdusalam was able to leave office peacefully because at that time it was obvious that if the power was not shifted to the south there wouldn't be peace which made two southerners to compete for presidency then. Obasanjo won and he wanted third term! We all know the story. Yaradua died in office before Jonathan took over.
In summary
President that died while in Office were five: Tafawa Balewa, Aguiyi Ironsi, Muritala Muhammed, Sanni Abacha and Musa Yaradua
President that were overthrown from the office through coup - General Yakubu Gowon, Shehu Shagari, Muhammadu Buhari, Earnest Shonekan
President that left office honorably and Peacefully are Olusegun Obasanjo, Gen Abdusalam Abubakar and GOODLUCK JONATHAN, we have just three people in this category are just three. Obasanjo wanted to digrace GEJ out of office but he has only succeeded in making him an Hero in his own category of ex-leader that handed over power.

It is a thing of joy that Goodluck Jonathan, an incumbent President conceded defeat even while the vote was still being counted. If the power had been entrusted to people that hold on to power, he would have use the instrument of state, through some Nigerian, to turn things around. In the long run, he might suffer for it but the masses will have suffered. Properties and lives would have been destroyed
The plan of Obasanjo was to disgrace GEJ out of office. However, Jonathan earned his greatest honor both nationally and internationally in defeat. He is so young that a great future lies ahead of him and he has become an indisputable Niger Delta leader and a force to be reckoned with in Nigeria.
HUNDRED GBOSA FOR YOU. INFACT. U R NOW ONE OF MY HEROS...U HAVE SAID IT ALL.

pedel:
Alright Mr. Abati. I am sure you also realise that you will be out of job in 10 days time. Anything you write after that will not attract anyone's attention. When your boss finally settle down to write his memoir we will see how the likes of yourself misled him.

THAT MY FREND IS WHAT WE CALL TRUE FRENDSHIP, HONESTY , STANDING BY YOUR HERO EVEN WHEN HE SEEM TO BE DOWN, THAT IS TRUE HEROISM. ITS NOT ALWAYS ABOUT MONEY.

VOICEOFTHEMASES:
Seriously this madness going on in the church has got to stop. What are we Nigerians turning the body of Christ into?

Why on earth will a Pentecostal Church not let its members to marry a Catholic person. The moment a wedding announcement is made in the church and one of the member is from a different church denomination, you start hearing murmuring going on. Seriously this rubbish has got to stop.

Look at a church like Jehovah witness, there is nothing on earth that will make them marry an outsider, never. The same thing with Deeper Life yet these same people want to come preach for you. Seriously, we have got to stop all this.

In the book of 1 Corinthians 12:27 & Romans 12:5, the bible talked about we being the body of Christ. So it is an error for any pastor to tell any member of his denomination not to marry an outsider. We must put an end to this madness for there is no where in the bible that says a person cannot marry outside his or her church. The bible never talked about denomination, the bible only talked about the church as the body of Christ.

And to you out there that wants to get married and you are letting this issue of church stop you, I sorry for you because you be original mumu.

In case you don't know, God will not judge you on judgement day based on the church you attended but he will judge you based on your works. So don't let anybody deceive you in the name of religion. Christianity is not a religion but a way of life.

So dear pastors make una talk the one una see.

VOM

PLS STOP SAYING WHAT YOU DONT KNOW.....(Look at a church like Jehovah witness, there is nothing on earth that will make them marry an outsider, never. The same thing with Deeper Life yet these same people want to come preach for you.) MY PARENTS ARE STUNCH DEEPERLIFERS, YET MY ELDER SISTER WAS ALLOWED TO MARRY A LIVING FAITH MEMBER, I AM MARRYING NOW TO A NON DEEPERLIFE AND THE MEMBERS ARE HAPPILY ATTENDING THE WEDDDING, PLS BE CAREFUL OF YOUR UTTERANCES, ANGELS MIGHT GET ANGRY AND PUNISH YOU, YOU GO AHEAD INSULTING CHURCHES YOU HAVE NEVER ATTENDED COS YOU LISTEN TO GARBAGE PEOPLE SAY ABOUT OTHER CHURCHES. IF YOU DONT ACCEPT THEIR TRUTH, ITS YOUR PROBLEM, BUT SHOULDNT BE SAYING WRONG THINGS ABOUT PEOPLE YOU DONT REALLY KNOW

shirazlova:
Im a regular contributor here on Nairaland but have had to create a new profile for the sake of being anonymous

My problem is that all my life I've struggled to make or maintain female friendships due to one reason or another. Distance, change of location, falling out/unresolved conflict, jealousy, fake friends etc.. It's something I'm ashamed of and I often feel sad that I don't have my clique of friends especially now that I'm about getting married. It saddens me that at this time of my life where I'm supposed to be joyous and be surrounded by girlfriends helping me with wedding preparations, choosing a dress etc, I have no one to call on. I've had to shop for my dress alone which was quite a depressing experience. Everytime my parents or aunties ask of my friends I come up with one story or another or just change the topic completely.

My fiancée is very much aware of my lack of friends but he's not bothered by it at all. I'm in my early/mid twenties and I feel so saddened to see other girls my age with lots of girlfriends. I have a big family however most of my cousins are male.

How do I go about doing my wedding with no bridesmaids whatsoever! It'll be such a mortifying experience for my wedding guests and family members to notice I have no friends.
What do I do about this?
I'd appreciate matured responses pls.

I UNDERSTAND UR PLIGHT DEAR BRIDE TO BE, WUD LIKE FOR US TO HOOK TO HELP AS AM ALMOST IN SAME DELIMA WITH U RIT NOW. DONT KNOW HOW TO GET TO YOU PRIVATELY COS DONT WANT TO DROP MY CONTACT HERE. WE COULD HELP EACH OTHER..


WE CAN NEVER GET PERFECT FRIEND, REALLY FRIENDS CAN BE SUCH A PAIN IN THE NECK, SO MUCH FAKE FRIENDS AROUND, HARDLY HONEST, ONLY SMILE WITH YOU BUT HARDLY AROUND WHEN YOU NEED THEM... YOU CAN ONLY KEEP THEM AT BAY, BUT NOT COMPLETELY COS YOU MIGHT NEED THEM SOMEDAY,
BUT THEN AGAIN, WHO SAYS YOU CANT DO A WEEDING WITHOUT TRAIN, ANCO AND ALL THAT STUFF, FOR ME ITS EVEN STRESSFULL, IF I CAN I WUD AVOID IT, THERES SO MUCH TO DO TO START WORRYING ABOUT TRAIN, FAMILY CAN HANDLE YOUR WEDDING PREPARATIONS MORE THAN MOST FRIENDS, FRIENDS CAN DISAPPOINT YOU JOOR, SO HAVE A BLAST AT YOUR WEDING

emusmith:
Would you agree to "start life" with him in a self contain?

Be sincere.
Open up.

AM ABOUT AND GUESS WHAT! HE'S LIVING A ONE ROOM APARTMENT, AND AM VERY COOL WITH IT. ITS NOT ABOUT THE ROOM
SO ITS NOT AN ISSUE OF IF I CAN, AM DOING IT....

Ezego1:
Bro I really want to tell you that if you love her and you really want to be happy with her then you need two things. 1: You need God. Through prayers you can stand in the gab for her to be changed by a define intervention. 2: You. Like seriously You! You need to act as a leader, husband, head of the family, a confidants and above all a friend. As a leader you must as a matter of fact define the path you want your family to go and carry her along. As a husband, love, care and provide for her. As the head of the family you have the final say.... no matter whatever input any member of the family have to offer. As a confidant, you need to be close to her and make her so free to discuss any issue with you having at the back of her mind that you will not act as a judge to condem her. And last but not the least, As a friend you need to forget the fact that she is your wife and take her as a pure friend.... I want to belief that you know how friends treat each other on a platonic note.
Having said all the above, I have a piece of coin I will like to lend to you; sit her down when she is in a good mood and ask her the following questions: 1: How do you want our family/marriage to be seen from the eyes of the outsider? 2: What kind of role model do you want us to be to couples that has been married before and after us. 3: What is it that annoys you must about me and what do you suggest I should do to meet you half way. 4: For the period we have lived as husband and wife can you really say you have been a virteous woman. 5: Do you know why some men cheat on there wife and do not even border to come home let alone eating what they cook? Pls share them with each other. 6: Do you want me to be one of those men? Or do you want a broken marriage? Do you think your parent will be happy to see you back to their house? Answers from this discussion will definatly open your eyes more to the kind of a woman you have married. Lastly, don't miss her calls any more as that annoys so many people expecially when you don't return the call or send a message to apologize with a cogent reason because she is part of you and you should treat her as that. Don't allow malice in your home, make sure you settle it before dawn. Settle it with sex if possible and don't see her as someone you can not control because if you do then perhaps you are right. I do wish you all the best in your marriage, Shalom brother!

MAN! WORD (A MILLLION TIMES)! THIS IS THE BEST PIECE OF ADVICE AV SEEN SO FAR, IMAGINE A MAN SITS ME DOWN AND ASK ME THESE QUESTIONS, MEEEEEN, MY BRAIN GO CORRECT BY FORCE, I MUST RE-ADJUST NO MATTER HOW STUBORN I AM, IT WILL MAKE ME RESPECT MY MAN A WHOLE LOT, MAKE ME KNOW HE TRULLY WANTS TO MAKE IT WORK AND IS DOING EVERYTHING HE CAN, MAKE ME KNOW THAT HE IS TRULLY A MAN. AND I WILL LOOOOOVE HIM EVEN MORE. MEEEEEEN, I ENVY YOUR WIFE ALREADY. GOD BLESS YOU FOR YOUR VERY CREATIVE AND WISE OPINIO.

Kobeje:
Its obvious you love her, and you must remain loving.

Don't try to prove you are the man of the house by saying so. Let your actions do that. Like dont just apologise anyhow, but do when you are wrong.

It seems to me that some external influence is involved. Let her know that she would be the one to smart for it. Reinforce the trust issue that someone mentioned.

There is time for everything under the sun, a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing. Like its been said severally, you need to learn to ignore some of her actions. It may be difficult cos you may feel like your love for her is going down, but NO, its not. In ignoring, you will not get into malice with her at all, just ignore some actions and words that are getting you down and talk about other things as if there is no issue. You will also mature along.

In subsequent communications, let her know she's trying and frustrating you but that you intend to enjoy your home and marriage. So when she starts such behaviour, you could excuse her or if possible take a walk.

As much as possible, don't involve third parties. Also don't get physical.

Lastly, your marriage is not crashing and will not crash. Some have gone through worse and have overcome. You also will.

U R A REAL MAN, I LUFF U ALREADY..

multicast:
thank you very much, i know a lot of women say men dont like settling down this days but i must confess, this experience is enough to pack the bag and leave, if you love a woman and all that u get is a recurrence of what u abolish, its not worth it. but i love her so much, its why her manners and ways are affecting me so badly. i have an exam on the way and i cant focus. i told her about this and she dint say a word...still on malice episode

you sound like you are not listening to these advices YOU ASKED FOR... as much as i empathise with you, i dont know the whole story, am sure if she were to tell her side of the story, it might be different from this..my point? agreed you seem like a good husband, what will make you a better husband?is not to give up, this is a phase as someone up has told you,if you value marriage and your home plsssssssssssssssssssssss let it pass, i believe she is stil acting childish, i understand the weight of pressures when you have exams, am going tru that myself, much as you need her now,take your mind of the issue and concentrate on your exams....... A REAL PERSON OF WORTH, DONT GIVE UP TOO EASILY, IF ANYTHING, NOW IS THE TIME TO PERSIST N PERSEVERE. PLS DONT JOIN THE TEAM OF FAILURES. GOOD LUCK BRO.

johnydon22:
These pictures were taken by the Mars Curiosity Rover. A mobile robot launched into mars by NASA.

imagine that tiny dot is EARTH....ISN'T GOD GREAT..

Cutehector:
I trust our nigerina ladies will not be so wicked to use this.

U WISH!!!! BRING IT HERE NA N SEE...METCHEEEWW

UnimkeAk:
Stop being petty

Nigga I never said I was GOD, Everybodys destiny is in their hands, surely with GOD and a little luck here and there.

That baby could turn out to be a great or gunned down by a firing squad.
Nobody knows.

Life isn't all about being a president or a cabinet minister.

But I bet cha, if any 20 sumtin year old was to be nominated, that will be me

Finally, if u wr brought into the world by error, me I wasn't , I can boldly say my parents we're so ready, infact over preparedness was their case.

ITS NOT WHERE I CAME FROM OR HOW I CAME ABOUT THAT MATTERS, ITS WHERE I AM GOING TO THAT COUNTS OK? SO LET THIS SINK.

Justfollowit:
So everyone keep having unprotected sex and so not worry about having an unplanned pregnancy because somehow God will make provisions for the baby

There is a fine line between having faith and being stupid. My dear, you are the latter.

MY DEAR YOU DIDNT HAVE TO BE INSULTIVE OK, the point i was making is, this has happened, do you now throw away the bad water with the baby? get solution then come back later to spank whoever you wish to spank, spanking him now will not solve the problem, he isnt a kid and knows fully well both he and the lady the effect of unprotected sex,man may be stupid and all, but God works in mysterious ways, he uses situations we dont think fit to glorify Himself whether we like or yes. i am not saying anyone should even indulge in it before marriage, i believe in marriage before sex, but we cant rule out the fact that the norm in our society or "modernisation" as some will call it has commonise everything and thrown morality to the dustbin, tell someone dont have sex until you are maried and all you get is scorn and a hard laugh at your expense. BESIDES: HE WHO KNOWS HE HAS NO SIN SHOULD FIRST CAST THE FIRST STONE ON HIM........SWEAR TO YOUR GOD THAT YOU ARE INNOCENT OF THIS SAME ACCUSATIION YOU ACCUSE THIS PERSON OF? OYA........

UnimkeAk:
WHAT ARE THE ODDS; THAT CHILD COULD ALSO GROW UP TO BE THE "BANE OF HIS SOCIETY".

The OP is not ready and he should abort that cluster of blood while it is not yet late.

Or will u link him up or give him a job.

YOU ARE NOT GOD, YOU DONT HOLD THE FUTURE OF THAT "CLUSTER OF BLOOD" AS YOU WILL CALL IT. AND WHO TOLD YOU HE IS NOT READY? DID YOU READ HIS TEXT AT ALL? HE WANTS THE CHILD ( HE IS MENTALLY N PSYCHOLOGICALLY READY), THE ONLY PROBLEM IS MONEY(WHICH IF VIEWED FROM THE RIGHT PERSPECTIVE IS NOT A PROBLEM) , YOU ARE NOT GOD, SO PLS SPARE US THIS NARROW/ONE SIDED POINT OF VIEW. HE IS A MAN WHO IS NOT HANDICAPPED AND CAN WORK, CAN YOU BODLY SAY YOUR PARENTS WERE FULLY READY FOR YOU BEFORE YOU CAME? WHAT THEN HAS BECOME OF YOU NOW? HAS IT MADE YOU WORLD BANK PRESIDENT OR EVEN A NATIONS MINISTER OR ANYTHING OF THE SORT? (NO INSULT INTENDED PLS? JUST STATING FACT) MY POINT IS WE CANT DECIDE ANYONE'S FATE COS WE DONT HOLD THE FUTURE OF OURS TALK LESS OF ANOTHER.

UnimkeAk:
Don't mind all those self righteous and over careful peeps blaming u 4 hitting it raw. Shii happens.

But u and ur babe sef; condoms, morning after pills even this safe and unsafe period issh d work sef.

No blames !

U guys are not ready !
Abort the baby, lyk u said, tis just a cluster of blood and just 3wks.
Ur gf will hate u, her fam will hate u wen the tym comes to provide funds and u cnt.

TRASH, MY BROTHER NO BODY WILL HATE YOU, RATHER THEY RESPECT YOU EVEN MORE KNOWING YOU HAD THE PRIVILEDGE TO GET RID OF IT AND DIDNT, THEY WILL RATHER HATE YOU IF THEY LEARN YOU ABORTED THEIR GRAND CHILD, COS ITS A SIGN OF IRRESPONSIBLITY, A CLUSTER OF BLOOD THAT MOST LIKELY WILL BE BETTER THAN EVEN BOTH THE SITTING PRESIDENT AND INTENDED PRESIDENT OF THIS GREAT COUNTRY.

emmykk:
House of easy said than done.all nairalander saying keep it.

There is nothing like a baby planned for.since you know you are unemployed why did you not use prevention?
Now you want other people to bear your responsibility.

Well keep the child but be ready to work times2 to keep up or you have just succeeded in bring another society's nuacanse

MY DEAR, THEY MAY NOT HAVE PLANNED FOR THE BABY, BUT GOD HAS, AND HE IS THE ONE WHO MAKES EVERY PROVISION POSSIBLE. GOD HAS PLANNED IN ADVANCE FOR THE BABY AND WILL TAKE CARE OF THE BABY, HE KNOWS HOW TO MAKE PROVISIONS FOR MOTHER AND FATHER. WHETHER YOU PLANNED YOUR LIFE OR NOT, LIFE STILL HAPPENS, COS GOD IS ALWAYS UP THERE WATCHING OVER HIS OWN

Karlman:
I need some sound advice from sound minds. My girlfriend is three weeks pregnant as I am typing to you. From the depth of my heart and soul I want to keep the pregnancy but I am unemployed and really broke. And when I think of my financial status and what would be required to nurse and deliver a babe, I am tempted to think of doing the unthinkable. But I am so drawn to this pregnancy and the baby in it. The way it came to me and the time it came to me and how I can already feel its presence even when its only a three week old cluster of blood, left me in perpetual amazement. This is not the first time a girlfriend would be pregnant for me, but never at any of the times have I felt as connected with them as I feel with this particular one. In the past cases I have always done the otherwise and moved on without blinking an eye but now I can't even lift a finger against this child. But how will I weather the storm of unemployment+pregnant babe+baby on the way? Already I can't sleep no more, staying up all night and day thinking on how to get all the miles covered.

Thanks for your time!

FROM WHAT YOU HAVE TYPED, THOUGH I DO KNOW, BUT IF YOU WOULD TAKE MY ADVICE, KEEP THE BABY, IF YOU FEEL SUCH STRONG CONNECTION TO THIS ONE, HMMMMM, THERE'S SO MUCH U R MOST LIKELY TO LOOSE IF YOU LOOSE IT, AND SO MUCH MUCH MORE U COULD GAIN IF YOU KEEP IT, THIS PREGNANCY MIGHT BRING YOU GOODLUCK BEYOUND YOUR IMAGINATION, IT COULD BE THE BEST THING THAT WILL EVER HAPPEN TO YOU LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR GENERATION, BESIDES, NO MATTER HOW BROKE YOU ARE, YOU WILL ALL SURVIVE THIS, YOU THREE WILL NOT STARVE TO DEATH,AND WHEN YOU DO, YOU'LL LOOK BACK AND WONDER HOW YOU GOT THROUGH THAT PHASE AND YOU WILL BE GLAD YOU DIDNT MAKE A MISTTAKE BY REMOVING IT, THISE PHASE WILL ONLY MAKE YOU STRONGER AND MORE WISER. BELIVE ME TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE SUCH STRONG FEELING TOWARDS IT. I WISH YOU MAKE A WISE CHOICE.

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if i understand u correctly, this is a "cell braodcasting" problem you have to go to message setting, look for cell broadcast and off it, as long as it remains on, those messages will keep popping out until you off it.

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

WORD!

searching4love:
Going by the trend of cheating mostly found among the female folks especially Nigerian girls, one begins to wonder if there is still hope for we the unmarried men. Where are the women of virtue and dignity why has promiscuity become a norm and way of life among our ladies Are there still good women out there Are there still ladies who stick to just one guy irrespective of your financial situation?


I have been scammed and taken for granted by ladies who took advantage of the love and care i had for them. It saddens me to know that most Nigerian men have the same story to tell about our females. How and where can one really find the love of one's life in this our immorality filled society?

Your opinions are needed

truth be told, immorality has eaten too deep into us, its EVERYWHERE, dont just genderlise it, it not just women, everybody is involved, men, women, married and unmarried, infact it seems like the married are competing and taking over tihis trend, there's no decent human being believe me, that man/woman you see as a saint.... hmmm wait you get to see the skeletons he/she has in his/her cupboard, you think you are decent and moral and honest n you want to avoid this? then here's a little advice for you, .....dont get into relationship, dont ever get married. the heart of man is DESPERATELY WICKED

donigspain:
We've read a lot about the "gold-digging" and "materialistic" tendencies of our ladies nowadays especially from broke guys.

So here is a little test for your girlfriends:

- Get the snack/food below ready in a fancy plate.

- Cover it up to hide content

- Act like you specially prepared the 'meal' for her (or both of you) to enjoy

- Allow her open the cover

- Watch her reaction (first 3 seconds matters)

- The first reaction is usually the NATURAL (and often inhibited) personal character.

oh my! i have so missed this (salivating)

is it me or my eyes why is osinbade () sorry osinbanjo sitting like a frustrated man? them force am?