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BlueAir:
You're seriously an inferno of stupidityy. If u get tickled,wont u jerk? And u still get mouth tobdey ask how penis will stand even when the brain is psychologically charged by unwanted body contact .ode

Gang leader of olodo.

E get wetin Musa Never see for gate?

Na because you nor get money na him make you dey feel heartbroken, when money dey, women go yakpa yanful yanful.

Chase the dough bro n leave woman alone.

They have started ooo

Twice is a charm, she's ratchet, a hoe and a thief.

SmellySperm:
Your peni.s might stand when they show you kpekus and big ass with good titties. It's nature but when your mind wasn't to have coitus with them and they seduce you to it, it's Rape.

Still balls down to sexual interest.

Not only those that fly at night are witches and wizard. If you know, you know.

Behind every couple, there is always a side nigga/chick

Woman.

You are the husband, I guess. Why will a man even leave a woman unattended for 4years? What was he expecting to happen? She should wait eternity for him, when she doesn't even know if he is alive or dead, beside them say body no be fire (not that I am supporting her). I believe if she had better job or something doing, she won't go about fucking for money. My advice, you both made mistake, so own it, as far as she was honest and told you what happened, forgive and have a fresh start, is not like you or the man is less guilty.

Peace. One love.

I still don't understand this men rape, how penis want stand if the man nor get mind for the thing?

Please please please, spare me the bullshit.

Modified: you can't tell me a sane and Normal man will be raped by a woman. All the olodo when dey mention me just dey yarn rubbish without good argument. All the rape/assault cases I have seen, read and heard about had to do with drugging the man or tying him up and feeding him Viagra or sexual stimulant, or rape by a fellow man. But a woman forcing a man to Bleep her when he is not a child is bullshit. So before you mention me with your baseless argument, research.

Peace

She get load pass the bride

If your woman can tell you that, who am I to say otherwise. You look irresponsible.

Olumighty123:
Abeg, still dey try drop games for me, make I dey risk am too as I no Sabi forecast

Weekend. Post me you whatsapp number to my mailbox, everestjoah66@gmail.com

I hate, dislike, disband, disband, detest, loathe, abominate, abhor, despise and many more my ex cos she cheated and had a baby for another man. I forgive her though but we can pass same road (that's what I think) but I know deep down I will still Bleep her.

Forgive, and you will be forgiven. (Luke 6:37)

If God had brought some good influences into my son’s life, this tragedy would not have happened.

I blame the youth pastor for my loss. He failed my son.

If I had affirmed my son more, he would not have taken his life.

Those were my blame statements. Some of them anyway. I blamed God, others, and myself.

Blaming God

God’s sovereignty (which means all things are under His control) and power usually encourage the believer. When we add the fact that God loves us, we can rest in His care. But when life is difficult, the once-comforting truths become painful.

Why didn’t You stop this disaster? we ask God.

Questions can lead us away from God and our faith if our attitude is accusing and not humble.

When my 20-year-old son died by suicide, I questioned God. Some days I stopped asking questions and ignored Him. I was angry and resentful. I did not understand why He would allow such an awful thing to happen.

Over the months and years, God has worked in my life. One day I realized, I don’t have to understand. This loss in my life does not mean that God is not in control, or that God is not all-powerful, or that God does not love me. It means I live in a broken world and I don’t understand everything.

Because I did not want to live in anger and bitterness, I set aside my blame. I decided to trust God. My faith cannot be based on my life experiences. Faith must be based on the Bible, even when life doesn’t make sense from my limited perspective.

I still question God sometimes. I even give Him the silent treatment. But I will not walk away from Him. He is my life.

Blaming everyone and everything

I blamed everyone for my son’s death. I never expressed it, but I kept a long list of blame in my mind. I blamed others for not being more kind, or not noticing he had depression, or making life difficult for him in some way.

Eventually the burden became too great, so I focused my blame on one person – the former youth pastor. I knew I should forgive him. When resentful thoughts came, I prayed, “God help me forgive him.” This went on for months. Mentally, I tried to forgive, but the grudge never left.

God used scripture to change my heart — to help me be ready to forgive both emotionally and as an act of my will. I contacted the youth pastor. My husband and I met with him. I asked his forgiveness for resenting him for what I thought he should have done.

Thoughts of blame toward others seldom come to my mind anymore. I realize those I blamed did not intentionally hurt my son. They were imperfect and therefore failed. Even had they not been negligent, the outcome may not have been different.

Blaming myself

Besides blaming God and others, I blamed myself. In my son’s childhood, I was attentive to his needs and alert to threats to his safety. When the ultimate form of harm – death – came, I searched my memory for clues — for what I may have missed.

Comments and conflicts, when taken individually, did not concern me when they occurred. But in hindsight, they clearly pointed to the fact that something was wrong.

My husband and I knew next to nothing about suicide. We started reading and learned most suicide victims have an underlying mental illness. Later, we learned our son had been struggling with depression and suicidal thinking. If we could do it over, we would pay more attention to the area of mental health. But, at the time, we had done our best.

These memories of self-blame still attack. I can block some with the thought I did my best with the resources I had. But for many of my failings, I did know better.

How do I handle justifiable blame? By admitting I am imperfect and need forgiveness. Accepting the past and moving on to the present. Resolving to learn from my mistakes and love others better as a result. Receiving God’s forgiveness. Forgiving myself. In the end, to not forgive myself when God has already forgiven me is saying I know better than God does.

Blame, even after a tragedy, whether the blame is toward God, others, or yourself, is no way to live.


Used with permission by Global Media Outreach from Lynelle Watford, [url]ForeverWaters.com[/url].

Pray this week:

Father, I trust You even when life is difficult. Please give me a forgiving spirit toward others and myself.

Are you blaming God for the pain in your life? Do you need to set aside the things you don’t understand and trust that God is good and that He loves you? In what areas of your life do you need to extend forgiveness to others and to yourself?


https://www.godlife.com/en/devotional/how-blaming-harms-everyone

Akanimoh113:
The last 5 games were gonna play at what time
Because you can still cash out before the game cut...
You would have checked the games to see available cash out then... Cash the money out

My mind don't go until after the game. If I had played it with my account, I would have been able to monitor it.

Akanimoh113:
Y didn't you cash out before the last 4 or 5 games

Played in store.

See this one.

I bet to make money along side having fun. Although I don't use to take it hard when I lose but this period had been crazy for me so I took it serious and it hit me hard this weekend. I lost and I cried.

That's my evidence..

She will turn maruwa rider. All na part of the hustle

Tyrant Presidency.

He must increase, but I must decrease. (John 3:30)


What is true humility -- and what is not true humility?

This really is part of the challenge: understanding what humility is… and what it isn't. I went a lot of my Christian life thinking that humility meant denying any compliments that anybody paid, or pretending that something I'd done well had not been done well. The last thing I wanted to be was proud. False humility takes those two forms. One is dishonesty: someone says, "You did a great job!" and you find some way to demean the job, pretending that it wasn't as good as it was. We all know isn't really true. But we don't want to be proud.

The other way is to be deceptive and is to pretend to be humble when we're really not. Inside, we know better. And others really know better as well. We use humble language, but we're really pretty proud of what we've done. (And very proud that they've told us!) There’s an old joke about the guy that writes the book, "Humility, and How I Perfected It." It's a sense that we're proud of our humility. That's obviously not what the Bible has in mind when it calls us to humility.

This Is True Humility

Peace

Keep trying hard

Until then Fem

Na 1bar remain for Nigeria life.

Attention seeker. Anything to stay relevant.

This girl again.

They were supposed to be the leaders of tomorrow.