Mamarockzie:
I have only said these words once in my adult life, and I said them to the person I loved more than anything. As embarrassing as it is to admit, it was my most recent relationship, and I'm well past the age where I should be telling anyone I hate them. But I did. Michael had knowingly hurt me on a level that elicited so much pain and anger, hatred was the only way I could describe it.

The details of what happened between us are complicated, and they usually are. But essentially, he launched an emotional warfare that ended in utter destruction of the kindness, love I had. It was absolutely heartbreaking to watch someone I love so deeply treat me in the most degrading way ever yet I stayed hoping for the best.

In the end though, it wasn't how bad he treated me that hurt the most, because I (stupidly) was still in love with him but him intentionally hurting me all because of he knew I genuinely loved him.

I had to create a diary for it too, at least to read how I unknowingly allowed myself to love the wrong person genuinely.

bigpicture001:
.....Me what I know is that girls are not patient people...they run away at slight provocation or impression there might not b money around the guy.....

No matter their Kevel of exposure,education or understanding..they are the same

Valkan:

 When love given is misused
 it evolves to hate⚫

lilvicky68:
The line between love and hate is very thin..when love is not reciprocated or taken for granted it turns to hatred..I hardly say I love you these days..because there's no gain in deceiving a lady with love when you only lust after her.. Also ladies these days likes the bad guys and are being taken for granted neglecting the good ones like us.

1F30M4:
I may not truly understand how you feel but what I do know is that you're deeply hurt.. I'm sorry you found yourself in that situation.. Your feelings are valid, nobody has any right to tell you how to feel cos only you wear the shoe, you know where & how hard it pinches..

That pain, I have experienced it, many others have.. It's how you deal with it that truly matters cos be it as it may, even if you hate him for as long as you want, it doesn't really do you any good rather it somewhat holds you back, you're only giving him a chance to still have control over your emotions despite you two not being together.. You need to heal my dear, you need to move on.. You need to know your worth and not let people like him walk on your mind with their dirty feet, you shouldn't let them do that to you.. You didn't see that he wasn't the right person for you, it's fine, stop beating yourself up over it, you can't get past this if you do not give yourself a chance to heal..

You've got your whole life ahead of you babygirl, don't lose focus please, work, keep the grind up & going, secure the bag, have fun with friends & family, go see a movie, read(if you love reading), listen to music, dance(release bad energy, let it stay farrrrr away), sing, play games(if it makes you feel better), just do anything & everything that makes you happy & sane.. Treat yourself to nice stuff ever so often, you deserve it and more.. Don't go jumping into another relationship so fast(e get why), give yourself time to heal okayy.. Good yeah, I assure you that's the best thing you can do for yourself now.

AishaYesufu:
Only you created a whole diary for same "Michael", yet it isn't enough for you. Now you have graduated to creating a thread on Romance section for him. Your obsession towards the gentleman and attention seeking is legendary. One thing I know for sure is that he will kpansh you over and over again if he so desires...

Mamarockzie:
I have only said these words once in my adult life, and I said them to the person I loved more than anything. As embarrassing as it is to admit, it was my most recent relationship, and I'm well past the age where I should be telling anyone I hate them. But I did. Michael had knowingly hurt me on a level that elicited so much pain and anger, hatred was the only way I could describe it.

The details of what happened between us are complicated, and they usually are. But essentially, he launched an emotional warfare that ended in utter destruction of the kindness, love I had. It was absolutely heartbreaking to watch someone I love so deeply treat me in the most degrading way ever yet I stayed hoping for the best.

In the end though, it wasn't how bad he treated me that hurt the most, because I (stupidly) was still in love with him but him intentionally hurting me all because of he knew I genuinely loved him.

I had to create a diary for it too, at least to read how I unknowingly allowed myself to love the wrong person genuinely.

chiommy123:
He will soon realize himself and come back begging