₦airaland Forum

Wisfem:
Am not truly attacking you, but you can't call this one election now!!how can someone sit in his house and compile figures and be announcing to learned persons and expect me to clap for him as if am a fool

But it won't stand. They have played their last card in 2019, unfortunately they did not know.

Wisfem:
You are a very useless person in real life and I know people around you will even hate your shadow..

Calm down buddy, why is your body hot? I am a very strong Obidient and I asked genuine questions so that answers can be found. Like what's happening right now. So calm down and don't be quick to attack people online because you don't know who is behind the keyboard.

ForG:
This was the one doctored the worst.

It's harder to cross-check 30,000 votes than 3,000 votes.

For 3,000, all I need is 10 polling units result. For 30,000, I will need 100.

Exactly what I mean. These politicians know the herculean task on unraveling this frauds, so they dare you and went on with their evil acts of rigging. It will take a very strong will with huge financial and human experts resources to unravel this menace. May God Almighty help this country.

Is like it's only Obio okpor LP won in rivers, can we get other ones, I have seen this over and over again

Originakalokalo:
.I tried using hose, it didn't work.

How can I get fuel from my fuel line in the engine?
Is it safe?
Q10

For most of these new generation cars, it's nearly impossible to do so.

I don't buy the word MUST WIN. instead we should insist on a free, fair and transparent electioneering process. Not must win.

RealLordZeus:
I don't know why the noise about this, you already know what you counted in your polling unit, why not wait till inec uploaded rubbish on their server

That's true. But remember we are talking about 176846 polling units in total. To gather all these unit by unit is an herculean task.

I was impressed by the simplicity of BVAS in yesterday's poll. BVAS was excellent, though needs more improvement.

However, one thing that was widely reported was inec adhoc staff not uploading the results as soon as counting is done and registers signed by the various polling agents.

The excuse was either there was no code, or they forgot the code or password, or network.
THIS FOR ME WAS THE GREY SIDE OF THE EXERCISE. This was intentional. As an IT Professional, I understood immediately the game plan.

Unfortunately, it seems inec is not ready to give Nigerians credible elections because they suppose to keep to their terms of uploading results immediately after counting and entering of registration.

This is my take: BVAS is a great way for our election, but until results are uploaded as soon as voting is done, we will keep electing selfish leaders and wrong leaders which means japa continues.

altteemy:
The slayer of structures
First of his kind

Miracle no dey tire Jesus ooo

Obi the destroyer or better put, Obi the giant slayer

Faithful servant I am. LP Lokan.

OK, I then, by the power conferred in me, command all APC voters to vote Obi so that APC can win.

No for Atiku

Because it was based on personal interest and not love for the country. I stand with PO

Kobojunkie:
Are you yourself of good character and god-fearing? Or are you instead looking for a slave who you will use that to cajole into accepting your lot?

Continue to argue with this. I am 13 years in marriage and counting.

HanisahZuwy:
What is or are the most important then?

Character and God fearing.

Na so, me sef wan sponsor my entire family Obi is a goal

My first day of attending lecture in LASU those days was my last. My friends begged me tire, I no gree. What!!! Unfortunately, Nigerians are stucked in it, no other options except the expensive private ones, which are not accessible by many.

This short man is having serious painment, please what is the cure before it generates to madness?

Buldozarous

OgaMadam:
Wonders shall never cease.

I need help to decode especially from the masculine side why a man who is married and comfortably cheating on his wife would then almost die when finding out that his mistress also tied the knot.

A mistress who has created options for herself, rightfully moving on with life and getting out of the way so that the married man and his real wife can resume a healthy normal family life - now the married married man wants to die.

Do men really think they can comfortably own both wife and mistress? It cant work oh. Mistress must go and solve her issues and allow the man to continue with his life.

Law of karma is loading. Believe me.

Norah199:
Good morning guys. I need some matured minds and married men and women in the house to look into this matter and give me an ideal way to go about this. Would be a long read pls bear with me.

So late late 2021, I got married to my long time girlfriend. Before the marriage, my mom had a little reservation about the girl and her family for some odd reasons due to her tribe. She’s Igbo. Everything was funny because the first day I introduced my wife to my mom. She liked her and everything was cool. They where going on well until my mom started telling me she’s having some dreams about the girl and her family. She’s white garment member. I think her dislike started growing when she told my wife about her church and she said she can’t go to her church for any reason. I was a former member of the church when I was a teenager but with time as I grew I stopped going to the church not because it’s a bad church or something wrong with it. I just don’t fancy going there and also not a church type of person. My mom believe it was the girl that made me stopped going to the church which was funny. She has said that several times.

For the record, I’m an only child of my mother, my dad is late and she’s yet to marry again. I do everything for her like her rent, monthly upkeep, and also got her a good car. Initially I thought she was doing all these because she felt she hasn’t enjoyed me yet and another woman is coming into the picture which is normal for most parents. So I did everything I could to make her comfortable before my wedding.

We did the wedding and everything went on smoothly aprt from some normal family disputes and all but the wedding was successful. Deep down I know my mom still doesn’t like my girl because of her statement s most times but I don’t always give her that room so she’s always quiet and rather not talk what’s on her mind.
Later on, my mom started complaining of the money I give to her. She seems not to be ok with it. Trust me guys. I do more than enough for my mom. I just tried my best to handle everything well and sometimes allow her have her ways with her demands so she doesn’t see my wife as a stumbling block to her.

To cut the long story short, my wife took in and was due for delivery and her mother came like a month before the delivery. Actually my wife had a false labour that made us rush to the hospital and doctor said she has very high maleria and was in serious labor. I called the mother immediately and she started coming the next morning because she lives in the East. The doctor gave her some injections and drugs for the maleria and the labor stopped. Doctor told us it wasn’t the right time for the baby to come out because it was 8 months.
The next morning when she was strong, we went back home with the mother that was already in town.

The mother decided to stay till the delivery instead of going back and coming again when she delivers which I supported.
Two weeks the doctor gave us turned to 1 month and labor didn’t still come. All these while I never knew my mom was so bitter that my mother inlaw was in my house for that long. She once asked me why the woman didn’t go and come back. It was that bad. To make matters worse, I lost my child after a CS was done on my wife. It appeared the baby was in distress which the doctors failed to notice and came out with birth asphyxia. After about two weeks, she died. I opened a thread on that.

Problem started after I buried my child. Everyone was in sorrow and so much pains especially my wife. A day after the burial my mother called my mother inlaw and asked her why she hasn’t gone yet. Started accusing the woman of killing the child and all manners of things. How she had turned her husband to vegetable and now she wants to teach her daughter how to turn her son into vegetable too. It was really bad. They both insulted each other and quarreled seriously on the phone just a day after the lost of my child. She also called my wife and told her “shebi she doesn’t want children” my wife was quiet and didn’t utter a word.

I was in so much pain and so pissed at my mom for everything she did and didn’t even speak to her for like a month even though I still sent her upkeep money. I reported her to her uncle and a few respected people. I don’t know if they talked to her but nothing was done. No body called for any meeting even her own pastor that I reported to. Instead he told me it’s woman talk. That they both insulted each other and the rest..

After that incident till date. My wife, mother, and mother inlaw haven’t spoken to each other even though I have had more peace since then but the fact still remains my mom and wife are not in good terms. I have long forgiven and moved on with my mom even though that closeness is not there but I don’t fail to send her money for upkeep every month. My wife is cool with it and said she doesn’t want that closeness with my mom even though she has forgiven her too.

My mom and I talks once in a while and never for once has she asked about my wife since that incident and my wife hasn’t called either which I don’t blame her. The last time I visited my mom. She said some ill things about my wife and her family and even told me my wife is not my rightful wife and some other things. I usually don’t listen to her talks because I know how religion has turned so many people into something else.

The question right now guys. What do I do in this situation. The truth is nothing can change my moms mind about my wife and her family. But still as a husband, I still feel somehow knowing my wife and mom are not in good terms. My mother inlaw the last time told me she wants to make peace with my mom that they can’t keep fighting forever especially because of her daughter. But deep down I know the thought my mom have about them. So I just told her it’s not the right time and with time everything will be fine. I can’t force my wife to call my mom because she didn’t do no wrong. At the same time my mom won’t even listen to me for any peace making. There are more things to say but I will end here. Sorry for the long write up.
Your opinions would be deeply appreciated.
Thank you 🙏

You are doing well. Sorry for the loss. God will give you another one. I loss my first child too, but I have 2 kids today. Keep it up. However, try to talk to your wife to keep showing love to your mum. It is a hard advice, but it works. She may not call her for now, that should not be done grudgingly, but with love to show your mother that she is not happy with her.

Lastly, be prayerful and commit both families to God's hand for HIM to have HIS way. Serve also in HIS vineyard faithfully and do not take no for an answer. It is well with you.

Workch:
Yes, and I am voting for Ogbeni Peter Obi

Yes and my family for PO

Stephen2324:
Dear men
Please explain to us why ladies who are responsible, hardworking, earns her pay, who pays her bills and not asking for urgent 2k are still single?
Open discussion

Because all that put together do not make you a wife or mother.

Modified:
Those things you listed are added advantage and not the most important....

That's why you are there

A little advice for INEC. Please let us know how long it will take BVAS to capture per person because there will be a great turn out which may force alot of voters to do vigil with your staff because they must vote.

Solution is that each polling unit must have minimum of five (5) BVAS machines all functioning and in top notch condition, plus extra 3 to 4 as backup. I have spoken.

God bless your hustle.

Frank25:
Let's gather and discuss

What did you do with the 90% of the money that you could not give the poor from it, only to consider the sacred 10% meant for the levit for the poor.

If you are a Saint considering this, then note that the devil is after your financial heritage in Christ kingdom.

No, it should be Confusion Bank of Nigeria =CBN

I know Tinubu's plan. E no go work. Obi is a goal!!!

He is sounding like a loser. Why?

Sensible Nigerians votes for Obi, leave those ones.