badesco: I met a matured lady about 2 months ago and we had sex just once, now she phoned to tell me dat she is pregnant 4me. Can dis really be possible. What do i do? I nid your advice on how to get out of dis logjam.
Yes, it is possible. Take a paternity test. If the child is yours then be a man an take care of your child. If the child isn't the wish then the lady good luck and move on with your life.
2buff: ^^^ nah I was refering to pweetypire not you. I enjoy our verbal jousts. And the my argument still remains, after what I see to be a "woman's life", I'd rather not live it. I'm happy God sent me down here as a man.
2buff: It gives me enough knowledge to know I don't want to live it, hence the crust of my argument.
^^^^ Why is this still talking?
Why is this still talking? What is it you're trying to say?
Anyway, you're knowledge is still not experience. I hear men talk about how good it feels to cṳm and the sensation they feel in the testicle region but that doesn't mean that I have experience what a male orgaṡm feels like.
2buff: The evidence is in the experience of mine and in the observance of the entirety of yours. Periods/ leakings etc You know, all that stuff. Let the hate begin if it must.
You observance is still not experience. You observance of my experience as a woman doesn't in any way give you the knowledge of what life is like as or for a woman.
2buff: The evidence is in the experience of mine and in the observance of the entirety of yours. [size=5pt]Periods/ leakings etc You know, all that stuff. Let the hate begin if it must[/size].
Skimpymoi: Thanks so much for your concern, anyways i dont think i'll take Biotin as a supplement by itself, i'v got enuf acne to last me a life time
For your acne, you can buy an ayurvedic Indian soap called Medimix. I recommended it too another Nairaland member [Timi1990] and it helped his acne situation.
2buff: Ah yes. pweetypire. Your kind was bound to roll up in here and talk sh1t eventually.
I said a terrible life, not an unnecessary one. Naturally, I am grateful for those whom God bestowed this burden on. Life as a guy is much more . . . focused
And you'd know this because you lived as a woman as well abi?
Well, I think you need to go see a dermatologist so you can get a clear diagnosis on what is going on. In the meantime, you can take some biotin. Be warned though, biotin can cause acne for some people.
Skimpymoi: I started wearing weaves more frequently after i saw that givin my hair a long break from relaxers and weaves didnt make much of a difference,
How do you wear them? Do you sew them in? Fuse them? Glue them?
Atreides: No be me and you. I'd rather be like a goat. Goats are mischevious,funny,troublesome,smart,independent,trailblazers,etc etc. Sheep are steewwwpid. Goats have all the fun! Goats rule,sheep drool!
lol lol lol, nice one. I'll use that line next time my mom calls me a goat
scottN: @OP Baby i know u r spewing hot and all blazed up 4 d guys out there with spittle on your lips and chin bt please take it easy on the english grammar!
Lmao, its crazy how everyone been ṡhitting on Hotie Tima because of her grammar
Pornostar: she said she drank some moet when she visited her friend who always ask her to UnCloth anytime she went visiting but that when she got drunk.the friend took advantage of her. . .she is so devasted and i felt really bad about it.
Well, based on what you just said it seems like she may have drank the Moët willingly. . . Anyway, this is rȧpe. All you can do at this point is comfort her and show her your support.
andromida: It is amazing how we as black people take the easy way out with everything- We don't demand reparations for slavery because it has been so LOOONG AGO, yet till today the German government has special grants and scholarships for people of Jewish decent.
Oprah Winfrey built the first all girls’ high school in an impoverished neighborhood (aka black) in South Africa. Noticed I said FIRST, because you see after the apartheid was abolished, the black people did not demand that the White people build up their communities.
Now the same foolish excuse is chimed by black people everywhere, “Our natural hair is too difficult to maintain that’s why we perm it." How many black people stop to ask themselves what can we do to make our hair better? How many black people ask themselves what can we do with reparations? How many ask ourselves what can WE do to build up our communities? Because white people and companies haven't volunteered to do so; we roll with it. We black people avoid investing time in things that better the quality of life for our people. While white people are investing millions into skin and hair care research, amongst other things; we just fold our arms, and hope they throw a bone our way, because research takes a lot of time and money, and unfortunately, a lot of black people think of "Now" and not long-term. Research is being and HAS been done for hair and skin care, but it is not for us. They figure out what works for white people, and cross their fingers in hope that it works for us. But guess what, it doesn't!! So what do we do? We try and make our hair more like theirs to make up for it!!!
Why am I venting? I was tired of my perming my hair. Moving to yankee, for some reason my relaxed hair failed to adjust. It always grows, and sheds back up to shoulder length. I decided to go "natural", Something other women from other cultures take for granted (white people have their own perm), and I realized how anti-black hair the world truly is. The products don't work for your hair, lots of hairdressers only know how to take a hot comb to it, braid is practically your fail-safe option, and interestingly enough, turns out that white people are more interested in natural black hair than blacks. Hopefully one of those white people will become dermatologists in future and do some research and invest some money into it, because I don't see too many people black out there that give a dam%.
true talk. This is soooo true.
Yupp, that is so true. Black people generally think that white people don't like our hair but based on what I've experienced, they're oblivious to the supposed plights of 'black hair', don't care, or actually have no problem with it. Its one thing for us to have these feelings because of post colonialists views, its another thing to keep holding onto those views due to some sort of inverted disdain for ourselves. Most black people don't even realize this but a lot of those product that are created for caucasian consumers actually do work on natural hair. People don't realize it because their too busy sewing, relaxing/perming, fusing, or bonding hair pieces to their hair. People need to start being aware of the dangers in the of these products.
Pornostar: help me. . . .my girlfriend told me her girl friend forced her to make love with her.i have been very angry with her.please what should i do ?
And? What's the problem? Is she suffering emotionally from it? Is your relationship on the rocks because of this? What's the issue?
Generally, I like older men [usually 4 to 8, 9, or even 10 years older]. I've flirted with men old enough to be my father but it was all for the sake of flirting. I see nothing wrong with a longer guy or girl dating an older person. If they are of legal age and care for one another then I don't see the big deal. You, I, nor anyone else has the right to tell those individuals not to be together solely because there is an age difference.