₦airaland Forum

dabrake:
i never knew perx. never knew what she looked like, never saw any of her post but i found my self crying so hard that people had to converge around me inside BRT. you were a victim of our national negligence in the health sector, a victim of our healthcare workers. the world needed you to advance. we were watching, waiting for you to rise and rule the world in the nearest future. you were the catalyst nigeria needed but maybe it wasn't destiny. maybe God needed you more than hell, maybe it was already written. can i say it was the will of God 'cause to me, it was sheer carelessness. If only . . . i am totally lost of words. We have lost another youth, a creative and intelligent one for that matter. a brave girl who, despite her travails, was determined to live. we have lost another heroine, another future leader. i can't say more 'cause tears are escaping from my eyes. RIP. if only the tears could bring people back to life, it would have done it since but since it can't, we all have top live with the sad reality. RIP Perx. forever will i remember you

Flashaldrin:
alrighty! you slept all day and night??

today is the last free day before the rigors of the next school week, trying to do everything i've been putting off during the week in one day.
assignments, visitations, some projects and most importantly gaming
sadly i couldnt even conclude like 30%, i even missed lotta events i've been invited to, just to catch up, so many things on my hands . . .
there's this girl that asked me to help with her assignment, been putting it off for one month now, told her today would be the last day, but here i am.

werepeLeri:
Madam - I am not your dear. I understand what you wrote perfectly, dont try to play on words that dont say much. I made a quick reference to other countries and I concluded those are jungles as well, based on your assumptions or statements about happenings in Nigeria. Where I come go wrong?

Madam. Haba. Paragraphing is a virtue. Let us be able to read your words. Introduce paragraphs. I stopped reading midway because you have failed to introduce paragraphs - you score zero, nada, nuffin, so, we need more English Language lessons.

Mu hehehehee.

Pukkah:
^^^There's really no point wasting precious time on those who throw insults at others without batting an eyelid. I'm ready to engage well-bred and intelligent people and not irredeemably pessimistic souls who perpetually see nothing GOOD in Nigeria.

They claim that Nigeria is a jungle yet they are the ones employing foul and uncouth jungle language just because another person's opinion is different from theirs. Of course, it's those who have come to the end of their intellect that resort to abuse.

@werepeleri, spare no further breath on them for they shall not waiver in their utter pessimism and jaundiced views.

I have a number of issues against Nigeria and those who follow my posts know that I'm not pro-establishment by default. But in bringing out the problems with Nigeria, people should be balanced, reasonable and realistic.

Like I said earlier, the issue with Nigeria's is really not the absence of laws but their implementation.

@OP, hope you've taken note of this. Again, I wish you well.

1000samu:
I was discussing with someone today and he said and I quote,

"beating is the only language some women understands, they can bring out the beast out of the most gentle and most cool-headed men. Sometimes even as much as possible, some men try to avoid confronting their wives to avoid conflicts, they tend to take them for granted and they constantly destroy their ego, disrespect them in from of third parties and make the home a no go area for them. He said he has seen cases where a wife who is beaten once by his husband after taking all the insults and is at the break point tend to start recognising and respecting the authority of the man in the house".

So, what do you people say to this, I know it is not right for a man to beat his wife but what if that is the only language the wife understands to restore peace in the home. The floor is open for discussion,

sauer:

werepeLeri:
Even all the above things you mentioned happen in your so called developed countries - Police victimisation is common in America, Britain etc - so, you can as well call those countries jungles, no matter what you or anyone else says. Are you saying politicians in America dont eat public funds and go scot free? Go to Britain and ask what the lawmakers did during the expenses scandal - I guess Britain is a a jungle then no matter what you or anyone else says?

There is no country where laws are not circumvented - show me that country- off course you will say, some countries punish those who circumvent the law while others like Nigeria dont, so whats the difference?

Thus, your assertion that Nigeria is a jungle is meaningless, irrational and outright nonsense.

And the bolded statement makes me laugh. So the person who sits down and talk crap against his or her country without offering any meaningful solution is what, a blessing to humanity? LOL. This is classic Saturday Night Joke on TV.

bakila:
You are angry or suffer diasporan mentality of thinking that all the bad news feed to him makes no iota of good available to him. The fruitseller has better access to the Appeal courts than in US. IFwhat you wrote is true the case is one that will make an average lawyer shine. If he is guilty he will not enjoy symphaty cos of his trade.
Check also news of damages awarded in nigerian Courts you will find many. One thing why polithifcians get away with a lot of corruption is out tribalism of your brother stole dont talk of that of mine eventhough non of the so called brothers enjoy the loot. What happened to Joystick Cheny?
Stop NEOCOLOMENTALITY.

nice4life:
there is these babe I just got connected to.We've been getting along so well that I wouldn't have thought she's is in a relationship until I decided to ask her.She is in one but then I really like her personality and I think she likes me too.We are always in touch by phone, fb msgs etc.She is just what I have been looking for in a woman, I can talk and chat with her for so long which I find hard with other ladies.By all standard she is a good girl just that this guy met her before me.I want to forget about her but what if her present guy is not the right guy for her and shes just tied down by the relationship?I want to do the right thing but in this case I really don't know what is right.Should I forget about her? If I do am I going to be a looser because she just happen to be my type? she not engage to the guy yet and the relationship has been on for about 1.8 yrs.Please advice is needed.


Thanks NL

Ijogz K:
She's just been a typical Naija babe,  So am not surprised.
They all wanna east deir cake and have it.

But 1 thing you need to understand about Naija gurls: Whatever they do to get you into a relationship with them, is the same they would do to get you out of their life.

The guy probably might be busy trying to make money or may not be financially capable of handling his responsibilities, without the babe thinking about d past good old times, she might start picking unneccesary fights with d BF, just to get on with d OP, 

But good news, a time would come that d OP wuld also be on d receiving end.