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microbilo:Ok thanks for sharing. I'll take a look at it. Rocktation:Ok, first of all, this sounds like a threat and I'm pretty sure that violates some rules here on Nairaland. Secondly, why do you care what he [microbilo] does with his sexuality? Is it not his life? |
sexylogan:lol, no I don't. Its just that some people here think that I do. And fyi, if I derail the thread others will be upset. . . Just thought I should mention that . I'm sorry, I don't wanna sound rude or anything. I appreciate the compliment though . |
Thank you . Abeg o, please no trip. They go say I get big head . |
Ndipe:Yes, your right Ndipe. I remember my African History professor discussing it in class. @OP: I can see where you husband is coming from and I agree with him. My father is kind of like a blend of you and your husband. My father grew up in a house with many siblings. And although he isn't the oldest in the family, everyone knows his as the oldest therefore a lot of the family responsibilities falls on my father. In fact, when he was younger, he paid tuition for his brothers and sisters. Till this day, the man is still paying tuition. . . Just not for his brothers and sisters. Now its for their children in university. So now he's paying for me, my cousins, and by next year my sister. I understand why your husband would feel the way he does, once you get married those other members of your family become you extended family therefore your primary focus should be your immediate family. Everything else is secondary. This reminds me of when my father was younger. . . My father's side of the family likes to have family meetings and when my father first married my mother, the family wanted to have one of their weekly family meetings. When the meeting started, my grandmother [father's mother] told everyone that the meeting couldn't start unless my mother left because she wasn't an immediate family member. So my father said to her "If that is the case then you need to leave because last time I checked, we were all married and that now makes you an extended family member. Once a child is married, the family they grew up with is no long considered their immediate family." Anyway, there is nothing wrong with helping extended members you just need to keep in mind the needs of your immediate family. They are the most important. You mustn't allow the needs of other supersede your immediate family's own. |
She said that they do occasionally. Read the bottom half of her explanation as to why she suspects he is cheating. |
sexylogan:Who knows. . . Maybe it slipped his mind. I'm not trying to make excuses for the dude, but this seems like something she may never find out. Personally, it sounds like the dude might be cheating. |
Have a good night daduke2k. |
Its not a matter of being a free giver. Its a matter of fairness. |
ice234:Because, it wouldn't be fair to share it with you and not the others. |
ice234:Lmao, now if I grant you access then I'll have to give everyone access as well. daduke2k:Translate please. My Igbo reading skills isn't that great either. |
tensor777:I don't lounge around the house all day. I am a very active person. I just have a tendency of eating a lot of oatmeal. |
BoboYekini:Stop being such a naughty boy. Skillero no go like am. Wait a minute, were you not the one who was mad at me yesterday? 1759:Hi, 1759. Feeling better? 1759:Trouble? No be me o. 2buff:lol, it wasn't me. They started it. |
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