₦airaland Forum

Richfella:
Without the slightest shade of doubt, I think you're still very young and consequently idealistic. On this side of utopia, you can't always walk away. For how long?

Dr Cork:
Anyways Nigerian females always look like men, but majority of them have lesbo tendency (NTA Wes report: 1972,  Article 5, page 6)

Dr Cork:
INRK NERD , swetie its ok. I love chicks like you who look like a  men

U very sexxxsy

Dr Cork:
I love lesbos, my kinda women

davidylan:
maybe i too shld trip for inked nerd. what say she?

darkman200:
No , not business but a matter of the heart, he just needs a little bit of convincing

skillero:
No need for any crazy settlement plans it aint gonna work! Abeg she is not a piece of chattel!! Aight hon. I'm not breaking

queeneve:
Hmmm

How can someone slowly realize they are gay or heterosexual? By the time a child reach five years of age they have a concrete personality and identity then again that is a research report. I do believe puberty only a stepping block to the next level, however it does not mean that by puberty they are aware of their attraction.

We can simply dissect the apple FIVE WAYS TO SUNDAY, it still an apple. There is nothing complicated about sexuality as people claim it to be. I have several courses in biology including human sexuality. It is as straightforward as an arrow. We as human make things complicated then what necessary. I still say as human we make excuses and we need to accept things for what it is,

I will play devil advocate on this one,

If homosexuals DO NOT CHOOSE TO BE GAY, and we shouldn't judge their actions, What if a murderer or a womanizer say I didn't choose to murder or cheat and it part of who I am naturally, Do you think it the same thing as a homosexual not choosing to be gay? It doesn't make sense,

No action is greater or lesser than the other, ALL ACTIONS are placed in the same bag,

queeneve:
Inkie,

My cousin said something to me one that was so profound that I will never forget,

She said that sexuality is like choosing what sock to wear the next day, she even added that if she wanted to experiment with a woman she could without hestitation

Once again, it goes to show you that sexuality is not complicated as people claimed it to be, That is the mystic of sexuality that it has no boundaries nor conflictions. Society plays a major role on how a person sexualize and choose their partner. However, a person raised in a HOMOSEXUAL enviroment does not always means the person will be homosexual because if the person does not desire the same sex then the person will not become homosexual. In order for a person to be homosexual they must first have the desire before anything. You can ask any man in this forum if they desire to be with a woman that is not up to their standard they will tell you no, without desire the latter can't happen.

Desire is the same as choosing, they both have the same impact as the other,

Anyway, back to the thread, Women who are dykes, don't want a man because they do not desire a man@poster

Good night people

queeneve:
Okay,

Let follow your reasoning for a second,

No one chooses to be GAY, so basically you cross-referencing that no one chooses to be straight,

So you saying I DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE heterosexual? How do one determine their sexuality without freedom of choice? IF I have sexual intercourse with a male, which makes me heterosexual and if I have intimacy with a woman which will make me homosexual by the standard of society,

Sex and relationship is a choice just like a nun signing a contract vowing chastity and celibacy for the rest of her or his life. But then again you saying, No one chooses to be gay which like saying a man not choosing to eat, it doesn't MAKE SENSE,

A wise woman once said, IF IT DON'T SOUND RIGHT, IT AINT RIGHT,

I am sorry that making excuses for someone's choice in their sexuality, I made a decision to be HETEROSEXUAL because I like men, just like I made a decision to wait to be married to be in an intimate relationship, BOTH A CHOICE, anything that we do or say is a CHOICE,

SEXUALITY ISN'T THAT COMPLICATED, we humans make it is, if you can look down and tell whether you a woman or man, YOU CAN TELL IF YOU whether you like same sex or opposite gender,

Everyone has their own opinions and I based mine off logic, IF IT don't sound right, IT AINT RIGHT,

darkman200:
Skillero is a big boy, he will be just fine, and beside, i will settle with him amicably and make him understand that my love for you is stronger than his love for you

darkman200:
oh No Inked! it's time you worry about my heart too , my heart breaks when i see the coziness  between you and my main rival Skillero .

darkman200:
Not so fast Skillero!!! I have been away for sometime fasting and praying about this issue, now i am back filled with the spirit of undying love for inked_nerd. I saw a vision that she is mine!

Tosinville:
^^^good, these are the kind of questions i want you to be answering.

queeneve:
Well,

I wonder if homosexuality isn't a choice because I have seen women CHOOSE lesbanism after THEY ARE ABUSED OR MISTREATED BY A MAN, now If it a natural thing then why wouldn't they gear toward something they are naturally attracted to?  It doesn't make sense to me for someone who is naturally attracted to one sex having intimacy with another. 

I have always said people CHOOSE who they are intimate with SO THEREFORE the attraction has nothing to do with it.  There are men who WOULDN'T DARE have intimacy with an ugly woman, but chooses to sleep with pretty women.  Therefore it becomes a CHOICE,

I am sure you have something that you are not interested in so you chooses not to partake something that you are not interested in. 

People need to stop dumbing down what it is and ACCEPT IT FOR WHAT IT IS,