₦airaland Forum

Everyone, just disregard Mr Cork. We all know he is part of a dying species. Men like you would be the laughing stock of my family. You'd be such and embarrassment that we wouldn't even want to acknowledge you as family. My father has three children, my brother, my sister, and I--- And he cannot stress enough the importance of a woman being educated and independent. And the reason my father stressed this so much is because of men like YOU. You my village fool Niaraland thread contributor, are the exact type of man that my father wants us [his daughters] to avoid. He doesn't want use to end up being dependent on ignorant men like you. Once again, you disgust me. Your lack of sense ceases to amaze me. You are nothing more than a sexist pig. I've seen farm animals treat their partners better than way you describe treating women. Have you no shame? When will this stupidity stop? Next time I am in my anthropology class, I'll introduce this thread in the discussion just to give the class a good laugh.

Arrgh, Mr Cork you disgust me. I almost threw up in my mouth reading what you wrote  Its hard to believe that men like you aren't extinct yet. And who told you that a woman's duty is to submit to you?? Tufiakwa

lmao

@Last two guys you're talking rubbish. Not surprised two would say something like that.

SA Goddess:
NEVER, I still don't. . .I come from a pretty liberal family so there was never any pressure to get married, instead my parents were happy to let me travel and "find" myself!   

For me it is about happiness first, I would rather be a happy single than an unhappy married woman. . . I have seen too many unhappy people in marriages, for some reason, the woman becomes the property of the man after the ring and she has to mould herself into that which is "expected" of her while most men remain their old selves, I fail to understand how someone can make another happy while they are unhappy themselves,

@SA Goddess, its very refreshing to see an African woman as liberal as yourself. Unfortunately for me, I don't come across African women like you too often. The whole living to please men crap really irks me. The things you wrote about women molding themselves kinda reminds me of when I talk to my mom, sometimes she may see something on tv and say something along the lines like "When you have kids, ". The idea that I'm expected to have children just makes me go  .

Did you feel pressure from your family to get married?

Marriage is only good for legal purposes, aside from that I wouldn't do it.

When you point things like this out to men especially Nigerian men, they pull out the feminist card and say your "too westernized". It really gets on my nerve when I hear that

arrgh, omg what's up w/ this yahoo thing?!?! Can't download Yahoo messenger and my MSN is jacked up right now so right now I use AIM.

^^^ This is the best response I've heard. A lot of men fail to realize that the world doesn't revolve around them.

Hahahaha and who told you that? And might I ask you how old you are Mr. Virgin officer?

Bad officer. Did you even answer the posters question? If not, then answer right now, Oya chop chop. Wetin de hold you??

Ok, fine officer 5p1naz,

(1) I don't know why you said "na waoh", so I don't know how to respond to you

(2)

I wasn't being sarcastic, I really meant it when I said good for you to her.

^^^ Errgh, wrong answer genius.

I agree with femmy2010. Call her a fool is a bit much and out of line. Poster, personally I think you should follow your heart. But before you go running off with this other man, talk to you husband and tell him what you are feeling. Tell him how unhappy you are in the relationship. Perhaps he will see that the communication/connections is not the same as it was before. You need to very vocal about what your feeling and if he is able to see that there is truly something that is bother you, then perhaps both or you can find creative ways to reignite your broken relationship. See professional help if you have to. If that doesn't work, then I think you should go with my first suggestion by following your heart. No sense in being in a loveless relationship.

It feels magical. Its a very passionate experience. Kissing very personal to me, so if I'm gonna kiss someone I make sure I really care about that person.

Ladyjide:
I will say the same thing for men as well, Men tend to be out chasing women, untill they realize the younger ones no longer want them, and their D%ck doesnt work the same as they did when they were 25 and your head is full of greay, then yall decide to settle down and come to your "senses"!

loooool, I agree.

There aren't enough "good black men" to go around so they hold out until later on. Also because a lot of women now are very career oriented. Who wants to marry a man when they've got nothing to offer as well?

^^^ SMH, nasty boy

OMG, no offense to any Caucasians on this site but they age like dogs!!! When they're 20 they look 25, when they're 25 they look 35, when they're 35 they look 60-- Good Lord!!! [i]Thanks God I'm black. Like they say, black don't crack. [/i]My cousin wants to marry an Caucasian English girl and his mother is still having a heart attack at the thought of her son not marrying or dating an Igbo girl. The girl that he wants to marry is a very sweet person but I couldn't help but think to myself 35 yrs from now when he starts to wake up in the morning to her drooping face then he'll realize what he did to himself. I support their relationship though. And he's already got his British citizenship so please don't say he's using her.

Mobo has gone into hiding since you all are catching on

^^ Good for you

Hahaha. Wow MOBO444, everyone's really sh**ing on you today.

blacksta:
three years

Did you take on an oath of celibacy?

2,3, or 4 months I'm not exactly sure but its along those lines.

^^^ looooooooool