₦airaland Forum

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Lol ave u come out yet?[/color]

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Eww not those type of girls men

Now i understand your defense behind homosexual people [/color]

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]Can i meet him?i like MEN LIKE THAT [/color]

ezeagu:
Here

ezeagu:
What about circumcision?

contracult:
@Ink_nerd
You believe that human beings are not monogamous by nature and should have the right to sleep with whoever they want, whenever they want in whatever context they want. I believe that human beings are designed to desire love and companionship. I also believe that sex should be dessert to this balanced meal of love, companionship and commitment (read marriage). I think that the societal practice of indulging in sex outside of this framework of commitment leads to a great many social and emotional problems - hence this thread. As an illustration - icecream is not bad if consumed in the right quantities after a meal just for a taste of something sweet. But if you have it in place of breakfast, lunch and dinner, then it can run belle.

Sex should not be divorced from love and commitment. I do not believe that it was designed to be that way. My views are conservative and I don't expect you to agree with them. I just strongly believe that society has not benefited from all this "sexual liberation". Instead we have very broken people who have lost their way, who have no idea what they want and why, and who keep telling themselves that its okay to be just a warm body with a cold heart. I find it hard to believe. But to each his/her own.

kokoye:
The ring is as important as you want it to be.

To me, it is just a piece of round metal.

jay bee:
hahahhaahh dat was some mad video
hmmmmmm thinking

jay bee:
^^^^
Really where have u been hiding all thsi while?
gggrrrhhhhhhhhh 
This was me thinking i have to save 3* ma salary

contracult:
@ink_nerd
Oh I don't in any way doubt that there are people who are unemotional and casual about sex. The question is why? Is it normal? And is it something to aspire towards? What are the consequences of that kind of lifestyle?  I say that it is not a good thing,  It is not a normal thing,  it is not the right thing, and the consequences are usually negative. My opinion.

jude33084:
YOUR LEADER OSAMA BIN LADEN IS DEAD WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR KEEP LIVING IN THE DENIAL STAGE

SOME OF YOUR MEN EVEN SAID THAT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE TO CARRY OUT A MISSION IN PASKISTAN AND WATCH IT LIVE IN WHITE HOUSE

WHAT YOU GUYS SHOULD BE DEMANDING FOR IS AN APOLOGY FROM THE WHITE HOUSE FOR BURYING OBL IN THE SEA AS AGAINST THE ISLAMIC LAW?

YOUR BOTHERS IN THE NORTH HAS STARTED REVENGING OBL'S DEATH WITH BOW AND ARROWS

contracult:
@Ink_nerd
No need to get combative. I really did mean that I do not have the time to do a good job on the subject as I have other stuff going on. I do want to correct one thing though:

You sayas if its a fact. Hmmm! I completely and totally disagree with you on that one. What is apparent in this discussion is this - your worldview is very, very, very different from mine. That is fine. However one thing must be clear - we are not discussing abstractions here - but people and real lives. You can romanticize casual sex as much as you want. In the real world, with real people and real feelings, it almost always leads to heartbreak. And for people who are so hardened that sex is meaningless and emotionless, there was an event that led to that decision - usually something negative. No girl grows up to say - I just want to be screwing around without some underlying traumatic event leading to that decision making process.

I am not trying to convince you of anything, I am just stating things as I know them to be.

Enjoy!