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Bitablet:
@Ink, why are you asking me those questions? I do not approach women and diss them

Bitablet:
@Ink, you have to understand I do not condone that behaviour but the way you dress can affect the way men approach you or the words they might use on you.

I am sorry but this is silly, I am trying to make you understand that dressing inappropriately can bring on negative reactions whether it was your intention to attract male attention on the road or not.

In the Uk-black boys call summer the Ho season because it is the time when girls show everything and they see that as an easy catch.

MzDarkSkin:
Some black men are sorry.  
I have been lucky thus far not to meet such creeps.
Guys 'holla' at me and say disrespectful s3xual things but never
have I been called a 'btch' or what not for ignoring them.
I have however witnessed it and it is very distasteful. I think
someone had a point that sometimes our attire can bring on such
wanted attention however I still believe a man can admire and not
touch or call out. There is a difference between a man and a shell of
a man.

Bitablet:
Well I am giving my opinions, you just don't worry about who I am to tell a woman to dress. If she wants to dress with 2% clothing let her do it but  if she gets called a "ho" no crying from her. We just have to accept the fact that if you wear revealing outfits you will attract the wrong attention.

hunkyjohn:
No matter how a woman dresses, she should be respected. In fact men need to learn how to adore the beauty of a woman. If she dresses "revealingly", then the guy should sit back and feed the eyes.

Bitablet:
@Ink, I am not telling anyone how to dress but if women wants respect from men on the streets the least they can do it cover up.

Bitablet:
I am not supporting the act but when dressed revealingly expect to get men on your case. For a unclothed woman on the streets well she gets whatever she asked for.
There are respectable ways to dress with a few bits on show but it should not be all at once.

tosyne007:
serves the guy right but i could see u didnt mention if he was a white or black guy. wateva the coulor, wat he did was wrong and he got wat he deserved. we are all saying thesame thing that ladies should be treated with utmost respect but it has nothing to do with the skin colour. this goes out to all men.

Bitablet:
@Inked, I understand what you are saying but if you are going to wear tiny clothes that just covers 2% of your body men will think you want there attraction.

What they do not understand is most women who wear revealing outfits are not wearing it so men can go around and do whatever they like. They wear them because they have confident in their body and just to please themselves.
Although that is case they need to see that whether dressed to impress men on the roads or to impress themselves men will see it their own way.

Bitablet:
I remember watching this video of a few black men and a black girl. I think it was those spring breaks they have in Miami or something. The woman was walking down the street when this guy tried to toasted her but she was not interested and  she continued walking. The guy followed her and tried to tear off her dress and the poor girl just  got flogged on the floor.


Black men and their egos especially the ghetto/hoodlums are the ones who will try and embarrass a girl like that.

tosyne007:
i understand all u've said. some guys could be naughty really but it does not mean all guys are like that. i just pray u guys meet the right ones. moreover, i think i love your last line "Ya never know". that's preety cool.

Igwe419:
Some women who wear provoking clothing, you can't treat them with respect, if a woman is showing her a55 all over the place you are supposed to greet  how, in the South you don't hear men whistling to women from the Northern regions, but they whistle to women from southern regions why? because of appearance, some women demand respect for not showing themselves respect and then compl ain

Igwe H.S.O.F.N

tosyne007:
though i hardly do such, i dont think i'ver ever done it anyway but the general notion dat ladies dat answer cat calls are seen to be cheap is wrong. There are so many relationships today that the parties involved got to knw themselves by meeting at parks, in a bus, on a train, on a plane and even on the streets.\

personally, i dont see anytin wrong with sayin hello to a lady that attracts my attention and if she refuses to answer me, i will move on. that doesnt mean i will think less of her. some ladies like it, some dont.

my advice is dat u ladies should be open-minded to cat calls cos u can never tell if the so-called mr right will resort to such tactics.

that's wat i thinnk.

OgidiBoy:
Why are you such a perv

bingils:
@op:well said bro. These gurlz don't know love anymore that's why u find a lot of unmarried girls "women" roaming in big cities in search of their mr. Right " the wealthy lads" who end up sleeping wit dem and not marrying dem! Gone are the days wen our parents fell for each other knowing fully well that our fathers were broke asses, but nw its a different ball game!

aminalib:
lmao , niice, also Direct deposit has a ring to it

bikokwe:
lol i will prefer bankruptcy

M M M:
can some1 pet name be money?
Dat what my GF calls me.

monos:
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why most pics you have posted are for light guys who are not average
most of them are brown or black

ogbeche77:
@ inerd,u can laugh it off,ij happend ova a yr ago,@ keniro,hw u know say luv charm dey make mad mbn chase person? U don do research well o.lol