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amefi:
Drags Nerd into his bedroom/boardroom and teaches her a lesson with his 18'' cork.

Isoke:
I definitely like a man who smiles, but it can't be one of those big, fake or cheesy smiles that border on being creepy. lol

Isoke:
@ Inked Definitely not judging him, just considering every angle. I'm just going to see what happens as we continue dating. Thanks.

amefi:
Hw many of them u wan marry or is it polyandrous marriage?

Dont tell me u actuallly signed in on NL just to  report Naija guys. Ok just marry anyone that says he hate[/b]s u.

Pls place your pic let's see if u  pretty, cus i wanna luv u too.

Isoke:
Jay and Inked, those are the OTHER thoughts I was having.  I was not exactly sure who in my personal circle to bounce this off of, because my sister-friends who have dated/and or been married to Nigerian men have so much to say that is NEGATIVE.  And I was going, damn, I cannot just judge the man by all my friends experiences.  I don't want to be silly and judge a group of men just based off their tribe or where they come from.  Just like I would not want to be judged for being an American Black woman.  But I am definitely thinking about everything, and as much as I like him, trust I have my own hesitations.   Thanks for the insights everyone.

Ranoscky:
Since you know that it's up to the individual to determine, why saying her engaging in a sectual act does not make her a lesbian (as if it's her 1st time doing do act). She might be a les for long but, hidding it from her man cos, she knows he wont proceed with her if find out ( just as the case is now)!

Isoke:
Honestly, it was not so much a question I'm looking to have answered, just some insight or advice outside my own.  Sometimes it takes the hardcore opinions of others to really bring a situation into focus. There are things I might not even be thinking about (clearly) that I really should be considering.  Thanks for the insight Nekai.

Isoke:
Inked Nerd, definitely not taken as an attack.  I do understand where you are coming from.  It would seem a bit hypocritical to disdain an illegal drug dealer moew than the person who sells alcohol and cigarettes.  It's just I have seen how much more damaging (up close and personal) illegal narcotics have been versus alcohol or cigarettes (though these too cause pain and death) so my decision is more personal than about general moral rightness, if that makes sense to you?

Isoke:
I have been faced with this decision before, and have left.  I cannot be with a man that will push poison to other human beings, especially his OWN PEOPLE.  My conscience won't let me do it.  I definitely would not marry a drug dealer.

obowunmi:
Naija babes will marry any dumbfcuk as long he has Money ---- they even bang blood sucking politicans

ITbomb:
yea the guy could be a bf or sugar daddy -anyone they have no special attachment other than sex. As for 'coming to the house' ask around.

Ranoscky:
How do you tell that one is a lesbian?

ITbomb:
i dont mean the ones who goes outright to sell their body for money. I'm referin to the ones that sneak out to meet a guy who promise them some allowance if only 'they come to the house'

pereze:
First two response don't seem to get the gist.
How do I get rid of her? I know she is a lesbo!

dominique:
you can use the search for users link

@topic
oh mi gosh!!! didn't know there was high demand and low supply of uncircumcised guys
all they have to do is check out this thread and feel like some kind of hugh hefner