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So we expect him to be perfect all through his career?

alexvic12:
The policemen actually collected the 3k?

God!!!!

If na ur preek be ur last hope, Nigeria Police fi collect am as bribe.

But the driver must be very short

Danelo:
I'm still baffled.

The gate has padlock how d hell can a sane man wish to gain entrance through such little space?

How were they able to snap him from the inside

Wen ur time is up, u become a fool?






That's his case

Two players from Liverpool is not "JUST"





How many Manchester united and Chelsea Players?

Mind u, even after this, many gals will still be lured and killed cuz they will never learn their lesson....







Fish brains
Hanty, dnt take it personal oooo.... Yes, u!!!

smartsk:
These SAs are confused. You said African nationals should leave, now that they are willing to leave, you're trying to stop them. Smh. Inside life

Pharaoh kind of people I swear.

Witches:
Why not have the guy connect you to any of her sister, u can explain your pain and understand what is going on.

Have told him to help get his brother's number. From there, I'll knw the whole truth.... Thanks so much

ednut1:
blur her pic out na

Completely removed already.... Thanks

extremelygolden:
Better. Even at that, you still have to thread with caution so she wouldn't emotionally blackmail you.

Discovered she has removed me from her friend list on Facebook

extremelygolden:
Point of correction, though, I am a sister not a bros.

I think someone somewhere is confusing her. Just get your acts together and be wise.

Take care.

My mum has warned me to stay clear till she comes out openly

extremelygolden:
Point of correction, though, I am a sister not a bros.

I think someone somewhere is confusing her. Just get your acts together and be wise.

Take care.

Am sorry, didn't check well. Pardon my manners ma

Witches:
@Innobee99 Speaking from Experience ,

Money
Marriage.

which of the above could she be after ? If None then she is not sure who the father is . Probably she's waiting after birth to know who the baby looks like.

My advice . check her social media and try and establish contact with her family/best friend .. be connect with then and am sure you will discover what she is something u don't knw.

One thing am sure of is that You don't truelly knw her. And many secret might be discover futher on. Bookmark my words.

Have done that and the guy is willing to help me source for more info

extremelygolden:
Don't let her dull your sparkle sha because not all that glitters is gold. Calculate the dates and make sure she's not transferring another man's pregnancy to you ooo.

Shine your eyes wella.

sis am just folding my hands and waiting to see how the movie unfolds. No kobo is coming from me to her until she gives birth and paternity test is done.




I cannor come and carry another man's headache

Just checked her Facebook wall now and discovered she had removed me from her friend list.





Make guy man go rest jare. If it's for me they will return the baby even after 50yrs.

extremelygolden:
@Op. And that girl fine sha.

I want to date a fine babe, See wetin fine babe done put me now?

Juliaann:
the truth is this I can't tell why she did that, you might be responsible if only she is sleeping with you alone,there's is possibility that she tried to give the pregnancy to the original father but maybe it didn't work for her hence the reason why she came back to you again, so I will advise you

Try and see her people maybe through her sister
Then wait till she put to bed,, do a test if possible to confirm the paternity of the baby

The truth is even right from wen we began dating, I have personally been pleading with this lady to knw her people atleast her home but she keeps telling me wen it's right she'll let me knw. I don't have any contact of any of her family members. I followed an advice from a guy here to spy on her through someone she might be close to among her friends on Facebook. So I got a guy which she claimed he haven't seen her for awhile now. But promised to source for information for me.

Juliaann:
I disagree with you because from march till sept is likely 5months to 6months the op didn't say the exact day she called in that month of march it might even be the last week of march

Some pregnancy are carried for 45weeks while some 41 to 42weeks or even more so do the maths

And about you saying a woman can't detect she is pregnant until one month gone that one isn't true, some can detect a week old pregnancy because you will probably start getting the early signs by then

Thanks so much. Does it mean I could be responsible? And why keeping the pregnancy away from me when I didn't deny it initially wen she told me that she's pregnant by March. Is it right?

Mays24:
Why will you be telling her she doesn't have sense?
She's contradicting herself, she wants to cut contact with you and she's saying she's 5 month pregnant, one thing is sure, she has a man that she's ready to marry even with the baby and all her family member are aware of that.

Bro, u don't understand why I told her that because the screen shots is half baked. I personally told this babe she's taking the wrong step by not informing me and the parents in time. And her response was "Tell ur family u're no longer responsible foyr the pregnancy again". That's why I said she doesn't have sense

Witches:
@Innobee99 Speaking from Experience ,

Money
Marriage.

which of the above could she be after ? If None then she is not sure who the father is . Probably she's waiting after birth to know who the baby looks like.

My advice . check her social media and try and establish contact with her family/best friend .. be connect with then and am sure you will discover what she is something u don't knw.

One thing am sure of is that You don't truelly knw her. And many secret might be discover futher on. Bookmark my words.

Bros, u have just finished the whole thing. How can a guy be begging a lady to knw her family and she declines? Lemme just pretend nothing even happened. Time shall tell.
Just check some of our chats

tayo60:
Did you bother to ask her how many weeks or months was the pregnancy when she told you in march? If you can know it then you should be able to calculate it with the expected due date to know if the pregnancy is yours or not.

Nice Idea.... Thanks

mankettle:
Bros chop ur popcorn and move on. She wants to pin another man's kid on you. She conceived sometime in March or April. Relax bro

Bless u bro

Katier00:
I don't understand a thing, you and your girlfriend are set of confused people. I don't think she is pregnant, maybe she is just playing pranks with you

She's pregnant that is certain. The only prank here maybe the paternity of the child.

mankettle:
Go and do a comprehensive scan, pay for it. They will tell you the Expected date of delivery (and in some cases the window of conception). Now from there you can do the maths to know if you are the father or not. If you are the father step up by taking care of your child doesn't mean you have to marry the mama.

Thanks, she sent me a scan she did in the hospital and the expected date of delivery is December 7th. Help a brother cuz am a novice here biko

LewsTherin:
I have never been able to understand the unwillingness of people to use simple protection once they have decided to have extramarital sex. I mean 50 card Goldcircle would have saved all this drama. (It is N50, isn't it?)

Well, if all what you have said is accurate, then it is just too obvious that someone is trying to trap someone with someone else's baby.

Thanks but u knw Konji na bastard.... Beside she can cut off ur neck if she sees CD on u.

sisisioge:
Hmmm....I don't think the pregnancy is yours if its the initial one.

1. If we are still talking about the one from march, then it should be at least 7 months old now. A woman can't confirm that she's pregnant until the pregnancy is at least a month old. So it can't be yours unless she's not sure of the age of the pregnancy. Also, it is fishy that she supposedly lied to you about terminating it and then unterminating it and rehooking up with you on a one time basis without declaring her status or insisting on protecting a reoccurrence...it is well.

2. If she got preggers from the May trip. Then that is more like it...pregnancy should be at least 5months old now.

3. In May, you were with a girl that's 3 months pregnant without realizing? This is someone you've been with severally before? The boo.bs were not like huge stone in your hands? She wasn't a bit bloated? Hmmm


Well, if pregnancy is yours, then you need to talk to her about how to go about it. This shouldn't be too hard fa. It is silly to expect her parents to call you first...you should make the call! Good luck.

Thanks so much for ur concern.
1. This is a lady I have been begging to know her parents and all she does was postponing till date. Even after she told me she's pregnant, I insist I meet her parents but she said not now. I can't call her parents cuz I dnt even knw any of them or have their contacts.
2. When we had sex by May, I realized her boob and ass was a big bigger which I complimented with play with having that thought of being pregnant.

adetoroamos:
Get her sister no and try to toast or invite her for a date so they can know you are a bad boy if you don’t want the pregnant

I dnt get u pls.

Hello NL peeps,
Sorry to bore u with this piece that's eating me up. I met a lady December last year and she's loving and a woman of every man's dream. Nice and very caring. She doesn't demand anything instead she gives me wen am in need.
Fast forward to the main issue. March this year, she called that she's pregnant, I wasn't scared cuz atleast I earn something I can rely on to feed a family. So I told her never to touch the pregnancy which she declined with excuses that her parents will be mad at her and besides her dad is an elder in the church. Mind u, she doesn't leave with her parents but stay close to her elder sister though not same house.
Despite all her excuses to terminate the baby, I stood my ground never to allow such thing happen. She was still adamant about the situation, so I told her she can abort it if she likes but my money will never be part of such act. She agreed that she doesn't even need my money to do that, that all she needed was my consent before she goes ahead. Few weeks later she called that she has terminated the pregnancy. I wasn't happy with her so I cut my communication with her, though she calls once in a while.
I lost interest in her cuz of what she did though I still love her so much. We didn't see for a while until May this year when I was returning from an official trip from Abuja and I called her I was in the state capital, she told me to book a hotel to sleep over so she can come and join me. That day she came and we had sex. After that day we stopped talking cuz of different issues everyday. We concluded that maybe we're not just compatible with each other. From that May till this August, we didn't speak.
Only for her to call me few day ago that she's 5months pregnant, that she didn't abort the pregnancy then, that she lied to me. She sent me pictures of her pregnant state which is real. I was mad cuz how can a lady be pregnant for a guy for 5 good months without telling him about it. I have never had such thing in my whole life.
I now said, OK have u told ur parents abt it? She said her parents are yet to knw too that she pleaded with her elder sister not to tell them.
My people, who does that? While dating this lady, I'll be the one begging her to take me to atleast knw her family but she keeps postponing it everyday. She later told me she has told her parents about it and uptill now nobody has called me to ask me if am responsible or not.
Am just confused here cuz I can't father a child that's not mine at this age.
And wen ever I tell her that what she did is wrong and no guy would accept this attitude, she gets angry and tell me to denounce the pregnancy if I like. I have cut communications with her waiting for wen ever her people invite me and my family for questioning.
What do u think I can do at this point? AM CONFUSED
Help a brother pls
SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY AND AVOID ANY BAD COMPOSITION PLS.
THANKS

Alaniyiokorausa:
Tomorrow you will tell me Igbos dont love themselves. God bless Igbos and those who wish them well.

Am not an Igbo, but from today till eternity u guys deserve my respect.






God bless AirPeace

slivertongue:
Thank u but we no force u sha

U deserve to die in SA bro

deltateam:


I hope he's not beating his chest so early?

Anyway how much is a trip from SA to Nigeria? I feel he exaggerated.

If its free, why bore us with figures or is he expecting something in return? Concessions, future political position, patronage of the airline, compensation

He should state it categorically.

I pray I don't help u type in life cuz nothing will mean anything to u.

Can u afford a trip to Ghana?