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Shibaraba:
No be lie

I hardly trust ladies but sorry to clear ur doubts. she's far from that.

adewumiopeyemi:
Bro Go and make money

Wen you have money
She will be serious and anxious to get married to you

Bro for ur information, I have a good government job and am well paid so don't t think U're talking to a broke a$$ Nigga

Gettreadyy:
your 21yrs old babe just want your money, she clearly isn't interested in Marriage for now and to be honest with you she isn't ready for marriage she neva mature, to her you are like a sugar daddy with the spending. I'm very confident to tell you she has younger lovers in her life. my advice to you is to remove the thought of marrying her and look for some one a bit more mature 24yrs + .
my brother wise up

Thanks alot

sweetonugbu:
thank you my sister, my annoyance is that the girl is 21, and they have been together for 5 years, remove 5 from 21=16

I never did anything outside the consent of her parents OK? Asking her out at 16 doesn't mean I was sleeping around with her. Besides we stay far away from each in different states. And I may not even see her up to 2 times in a year. So don't crucify me biko

yanabasee:
If you come here to look for help and you can't ignore little flings of banters on you.... I think, you are the real problem the first girl isn't really into you.....


Perhaps, she just want to milk you until you get a sense......

Ride on

Classyuniquebae:
Dear OP

At 21, most Nigerian girls are still confused as to what they exactly want. Secondly they are still in a character forming stage which means that aside the upbringing by their parents , it's going to take a lot of pratical mistakes and experiences for them to truly understand how to properly behave and that trial and error method would take a lot of years .

Regardless though, it's obvious she does not love you nor your family and has no interest in having a future with you . She is with you for what she can get and all the qualities you just listed are that of a gold-digger.

Break up with her ASAP and don't look back if you don't wana regret for the rest of your life . Go ahead with this second one and go on to be happy cuz she is ready , she knows what she wants and she is not bringing money drama.

In situations like this , you shouldn't be confused . It's cristal clear who would give you peace of mind .


That 21 would cheat the hell out of you if you succeed in marrying her and by the time she is 25/27, she will accuse you of denying her her youthful blah blah and being possessive . Don't go down that lane .


Good luck

U have said it all... Thanks a bunch

2special:
You don't need any advice...just do the right thing which you already know... the First Lady is not for you... And let all this mumu attitude with the opposite sex stop this year.

Thanks

vikkimimi:
OP please follow your mind and preference... cause when the whole thing come crashing down after marriage you alone will feel the heat.

At 21 I was damn sure I will not be married in 3 years time, allow her enjoy her youthful age, and move on with the one you think is ready for you.

From your write up she's got plenty faults, pick one and dwell on it, then boom, break up comes calling.

P.S Refusing to apologise to your mum is enough reason to break up with her if that's what you wanna do, cause it's disrespect.

Thanks so much. I appreciate this little piece from u. My mum was on phone with her mum and was asking her mum while my babe will do such thing to me. Booom, next was ur mum is saying rubbish and my mum heard her from behind.

I met this lady in 2015 though she was very young and still young. She's 21 while am 28. I love and cherish her so much and despite her flaws she's the one I find comfortable to spend my days with. We have been having a lot of relationship issues which we do settle.

There are many issues she puts on which I won't want to mention here cuz I overlook her flaws and focus on her good side.

The problem is it seems she's not ready for marriage at all or maybe because she's still young and want to fulfill her youthful desires. Always want to be a slay Queen, contesting for beauty pageants even without my knowledge.

I have talked to her severally about my desire to marry her but only nod her head in affirmation but I think she's really not ready.

OK, last year we had a serious issue which we broke up cuz it was a real family war. But we later came back to together again despite I was not at fault and cuz of the love I have for her, I went to her mum to apologize over the issue so we can be one again. I told this lady to also visit my mum and apologize too but she has been procrastinating for a year now. She has not visited my family house over the year. Whenever I confront her on why she don't want to reconcile with my family, she will give flimsy excuses of been busy. How can one be busy for a whole one year to say sorry even if it's on phone.

Now, I met a lady few months ago, and I love her so much and she's ready to settle down with me next year December. And I knw this my stubborn babe is a very jealous type and I don't knw how to handle the issue and let her go since I have seen someone who's ready to settle down with me.

My babe is only interested in u flexing with her like taking her out to eateries, lodging her in a hotel for fun, buying her gifts without spending her own kobo on u (I can swear to that). Last year, I spent alot on her birthday but wen it was my birthday, the total of what she got for me was N700. N200 perfume and N500 Nivea Roll on. But that's not my business sha.

For example, this new babe requested me to give her 2k to make her hair for an event in Church which I bluntly ignored her just to test her, not that I don't have the money. Can u believe that this babe have even forgotten she asked me the money? And she talks to me perfectly on phone. She was like babe, if u don't have money don't stress urself ooooo, I'll repackage my hair and still look good to Church. If u don't send my babe money before the due time, she'll stop calling u.

The new babe is not after money or material things. Though I'll send her a reasonable amount today. Unlike my babe, who will bring down hell if u don't send her money before the deadline. Can u believe that in August, she had already brought her christmas list to me to check?

To cut all these short, I need mature mind on what to do on this cuz am confused. U can pour ur insults cuz I don't even bother abt that as far as I get the advise I want.

Stay blessed my beautiful NL family.

Happyguy201:
are you not the idiot that quote me saying Hypocrite get a bicycle first before you criticize a car owner why are you now giving advice . monkey banana

Stop insulting and be ashamed for once jare

ProfessorBerlin:
Which kind grave be this,

Are u human?

ceeroh:
Most female students are in their 'Hoeing Phase'.

Waste of time and emotions.

Heoing sounds like a German aircraft

OcMichaels:
She still preaching to the masses sha.....not the Gospel though.

Bros, I swear, u no well oooo





No kill me abeg

Dreiwizzy:
Somebody wake me I'm dreaming

U will never wake

OcMichaels:
Pastor!!..lwkmd

I swear, I was like pastor?






She even said I shld start addressing her as Pastor. But her new pastor life is in Night clubs

Chibabe005:
na wa!!

Tacha did a special appreciation posts for all the support she received.. she tagged all of them..I wonder, if Tacha should remove her head from her neck,to show how grateful she is..

all these eye service people sef.

you could imagine the level of entitlement this akpa nzuzu,would have had, if Tacha had won the show.


seeing how well tacha is doing,despite the disqualification, she's out from the blues looking for glory to claim.

Angela, no free job..this is not the Tacha of yesterday.. whatever you want, go through her management..if the deal is fair enough, Tacha will accept..

Everyone wants to use Tacha to clout chase..

And she even made top 4 oooooh

He might have also learnt wat happens in za oza room 4rm u

Ulrich01:
Story. Na because people never start to dey use am. Which 2000Mbps

Only Lagos alone go slow am

Inside Life







Is another Life

Mark my words







The guy go knack that babe in a bit

damosade:
Where them wan see them now ooo...

1992...haaa

What of if the names are the same with other persons?

ID number can't be the same

That she wants to become a pastor...






But now a glorified Olosho

If u don't want poverty to finish u, don't envy this with hatred

Are u telling us that the doctors advise are not mature or what?

This man behind her on white sha

decatalyst:
Exactly!

His conscience isn't dead and buried, that's why he felt the pain every now and then.

Op, you serve a living God. Don't forget your offerings and bless people...

The blessing and sacrifice he made is more than enough biko don't wreck him again

Spman:
I swear am serious.. It happened to me today

I once expressed it. It's over anxiety. U be like, na me Wan f*ck this fine babe"? Ur mind f*ck before ur real self.

Perfectdanny:
so they are both in the military i guess?

My God defeated them and put them to shame

Ginaz:
Kemi is trolling but she’s right . Tasha pack your breasts up next time .

It's Tacha not Tatashe pepper