₦airaland Forum

Paulianfa:
All these talk cannot solve any problem except one learned to understand what is happening in people's lives and home.
Some of these domestic violence are cause by women themselves cos they seems not to understand the ways of life.
I don't think a man with a right senses can lay a finger on his wife without something behind, u see all these women wen they have more than u, they wants rule over u, they want to control and becomes the head of the house, they will insult and abuse u the way they can.
And wen u stood ur ground, the whole world will be blaming you for defending ursef, they will now turn against u.


One needs to investigate and asked questions about domestic violence.

Randy100:
I don't believe your story. You are a liar

zexy2030:
Make she just fear God, but is that achievable? Even eve no fear God.

Conner44:
What kind of advice is this

Breast that I paid for in full?

Even before ‘bomboy’ came ... I have been

Bomboy can’t just come and overthrow me. Highest I can borrow him the breast for maybe 5-7 months but after that I’m collecting it back before he spoils it for me

Imagine me using my gentle tongue to be licking and massaging my property at nights then bomboy will just come from nowhere and start using his big teeth to be dragging the thing while squeezing life out of it with those his strong hands.

Bomboy can never be allowed to depreciate my property anyhow lie lie. Highest we go fight for ownership in court or I kuku disown am on time. Nonsense

oche2020:
100k buying and selling of okirika

Mogajunior:

Banditry and kidnapping. Currently the most profitable business here. 100k should be enough to register with Gumi.

colorsofrainbow:
Any child you see score over 190 these days,please hug him/her...He/she is the genius of this generation.
The children we produce these days don't have any business with school again.
Just arrange an exam about #nairaMarley, boyfriend,girlfriend,taking pictures,pornograhy,bbnaija & you will see them come out in flying colours...
You will be seeing headlines like "out of 1,033,729 who sat for the examination only 2,966 scored less than 400 in jamb"

KesoMyGuy:
The truth may hurt , but our society has never moved on from polygamy. We may hide under the disguise of religion and civilization, but deep down, we are Africans. And our value system condoned and celebrated polygamy long before the white man came with his ways.

My take is not to say polygamy is either good or bad, but that our deep rooted African norms cannot be easily erased just because the white man gave us a book and some set of laws.

Its the same way our so called democracy , even though copied from the white man, looks nothing like what they taught us.

Lets remember that a lot of us are just one generation away from polygamy being the norm in our society, my grand-parents both had multiple wives, then white man brought bible and the norms changed. Society norms may have changed , but the black man remained the same.

For every side chick , there is a married man and a wife involved. The so called wife , may have once upon a time been a side chick , and the present side chick will one day be a wife.

Its truly a mans world in Africa; it has always been. Change may come , but not today.