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GIDIBANKZ:
Have sent you a direct mail to ya gmail bro

Replied.

Thanks

GIDIBANKZ:
It is well Bro ✅… can we have some private conversations please if you don’t mind

Check mail.
Or send email here.
Mannet erry@ Gmail. Com
Remove the space

Mrreal69:
1. Stop having sex with her
2. Start making plans to send her back to Naija

Don't destroy your future before it even starts my brother, think hard!

Because one day when you have got a mortgage and built a life another man will come and buy 6 bags and move into your house....

6 bag Kwa.
To collect a whole house. 😂🤣
Wàhálà

GIDIBANKZ:
OP i feel your PAINS SHA…. So sorry about the betrayal from your WIFE….just that you didn’t know her that much before you brought her with yourself to UNITED STATE….

Can we chat privately, i have fee questions to ask you. Thank you

It's United Kingdom oh.
Not the state.
The betrayal is bound to happen.
I just felt, you can't monitor a woman, she is the one to teach herself self discipline

penultimatee:
Hmmmm,I hear about this story yesterday by a sister to the OP who happened to be a lawyer. The said lady is from edo state.

Hmm.
Una don reach here.
Edo kọ́, Imo ni. 😔😔

gemini35:
my brother the op is immature ,how could he even allow his wife to take a stroll only her when her husband is at home,why not stroll together.

Yẹn yẹn yẹn.
That is how you come online and cap shit.
I should stroll with her cause am around.
Does that stops her from doing what she did if am not around?
Does that stops both of them seeing after work hour and go wherever they wish?
Cause you go dey talk with your mouth instead of using your brain. Hiss

Obim555:
Pls get in touch bro if you need any moral support. I live around Salford(not true location)

Wàhálà. 😂😂😃
You self Don dey disguise?

luminouz:
You are angry at me?

I'm the last person in the world you need to even bother with bro. Channel that anger to the woman who disrespected her marital vows and fuqed another dude for 3 BAGS!!!

N.B: Your premise that all naija guys in the UK are on NL is not true.

OK. Thanks.
For someone to confirm a club is under renovation tell you the tales are not of moonlight.
It is a real event. If you don't believe it, that's your cup of tea. Cheers mate

luminouz:
You keep repeating that the guy is on NL. How do you know? Unless your story is just cruise and banter.

Is he not in UK?
Are we not all getting help on NL?
Àbi someone mentioned the exactly club up there and you're spitting trash that is it all cruise.
Mr or Mrs. Face front, no push me to the edge of doing what am not supposed to do. Like I said I gave out too much info already. So help me God.

luminouz:
How low can a married woman sink to fuq another guy for 3 bags?

JUST 3 MUDAFUCKING BAGS!!!

she lied to her husband, went to meet a random guy in his apartment and got fuqed!! Nobody go tell me say to that guy no touch am and freely gave her 3 bags!!!


I mean, how lower can a woman sink for fuq sakes?

😂😂😄
Well, Las las she go dey alright.
All the bags sef no reach £200
I for snap am but the guy go know na him I dey talk about. He is around the corner. 😔😔

For those that tried to mail me.
I don't have access to that email
Cause I created this account for the soul purpose of sharing this story with everyone.

You can drop your email or details below and I go reach you when I can.

Thanks

einsteine:
Mumu man. Dem dey carry woman wey never born like 4 for you go UK?

So you as a man or woman can marry someone that just came into the UK àbi?
Cause you be mumu

winner37:
Brother, is a rain that falls everywhere..since morning I have nothing eaten because of a girl whom I Love . Things didn't work out and money didn't flow as I expected to pay her school fee this, girl change all of a sudden no calls no chats .

I really wish it would be possible for a man to live his life without involving a woman.
Sorry I have no advice for you even me am not on the right state of mind .........
Women are evil ...

Lol. Go on vacation.
Las Las, you go dey alright.
That is abroad for you.

Antyxx:
you guys would see good girls, leave them to marry slay queens. You call good girls dirty, ugly, and now most Naija girls have become slay queens bcx slay queens are more successful with rich guys.

Are you single?😂😃

Konjiboii:
But you sef why you no dey fvck her, Omo I can't imagine say I go dey date woman and I no go fvck her tonton, me when be say dem use fvck swear for me. Where she wan get strength take cheat on me, when her kuntus go dey sore for one week.

Fvck till you die 😂😂
No be every time you go dey jogo.
Focus. Make money, go on vacation.
No be everything be woman woman.

Konjiboii:
Omo you be small pikin? Must you marry before you born pikin, what is wrong with you. Men dey give you better advice you still dey form strong head, if you knew you weren't going to heed to any advice then why post this gist. Omo no make me vex oh I no dey like men when dey behave like odoyo. Behind dey find girl back home, no promise any girl marriage or say you go take them abroad, whenever you return give am belly and dey support from abroad.

Like I said,
I won't agree or disagree with anyone,
Cause the guy dey here.
But I know what to do.

Omotaday:
I guess the club that was under renovation was LA lounge. Beware of Manchester boys.


I will advice you not to divorce her yet as my guess is that your lady might not have had sex with the guy yet. Your wife is materialistic, the guy is trying to lure her with money & lifestyle hence she went to visit him before they went to the mall. Your wife is trying to play smart with the guy but trust me if she continues, the guys and many others are going to drill her real bad. She is highly undisciplined, you married a slay mama.

Try and talk it out with her, report her to her parent at home, give her another chance and start studying her. If you see any other sign later, please divorce her.

Edited cc: Insultme

I Don see the guy in question.
For you to know the club. 😂😂😂😂.
Talk true, náà you àbi?

ikelords:
Dear insultme. I don't know if you will see this write up but anyways I will drop it.
A cheating woman is a dangerous woman. Now that you know her secret once you let it out she might end up coming for your life. I will advice you to play along, gather all the evidence you need to satisfy your conscience that she is having an affair outside. Evidence I mean are very strong evidence, when presented it can't be disputed. So play along and pretend you know nothing. When it's time you pull your strings. If her present stay is still dependent you,I will advice you file for divorce and send her sorry ass back to Nigeria. May God be with you.

💯. That is how a sensible man talks.
Not all those spitting jack shit up there.
You're weak
You're simp.
You're this and that.

marcopollo:
I don't really blame them sha. I blame the men who take such nonsense from them. My wife can never try that shit. If she does... She know now!!! No matter how mad man mad reach, he must look road well before crossing the road.

Yinmu 😂😂.
Na your type they give vegetable at home to pluck and would come online to spill trash. In what way is she helping me? Is it the tuition fee that have sorted before leaving or the food that I buy regularly? Like I said, I have my game plan. Just informing you guys and waiting for the perfect time.

felixxy:
How do u know the guy is here

Are you the guy?😂🤣.
Even if he is not on this thread at the moment, someone is going to narrate the story to him one way or the other, that is the reason I tweaked some things in the story, although I gave out lots of information already but still, it can be anyone.

Hambivert:
I sparogatively like the way you are handling trolls. Please don't fall for their negativity and that their simp line they are accusing you of. The UK is not Nigeria, and I must assert that you handle this situation with wisdom.

Read Jeremiah: 13vs23 (NIV) to understand your wife. I do hope you have screenshots of the chats she had with the other guy to be able to prove your point. I wouldn't advise you to divorce your wife or stay with her...cos I've made it my duty not to shook mouth for husband and wife matter.
However, just know that any decision you make now would influence your future notwithstanding.

Am not bothered about the trolls.
I know most of them have not stepped out the shore of Nigeria, hence the reason they're saying it's weakness

NwaliE01:
Hmmm, i am planning of bringing mine abroad this year. This your story is instilling fear in me.
What can we do to women to truly please them?

Nothing my dear brother.
The worst part is, most people think there is love abroad. Every man to himself ni. Nothing more.
But I want to believe their are few that are still faithful.

I have met one that the husband is late going to 3 years now and still she won't date any man. Na still same uk.

Richhard:
Just curious, what's your final decision, and you've kept some proofs right?


P.S. I'm impressed by the way you've handled this matter, and also people posting rubbish.

Most are Nigerians and don't understand that things are done differently over there.

So you know, you're handling this well, well done bro.

The fellow guy might be up there sef saying marriage is divine. So I won't play into their hands to know what have decided but surely. I hope to update the thread on how it ends.

FireUpNow:
OP if no kids between the two of you, threaten her with a divorce paper from lawyer and give to her to sign make sure the reason you giving for your divorce is infidelity but you should have a very strong evidence that she is truly fvcking a man

I have all the chat, that is why I could narrate all this stories. So no way she can lie about it.

hustla:
Did she have her own job while in Nigeria?

Nothing major back home.
More or less I do everything.

SweetyZinta:
Ask her sincerely if she still wants to be married to you and watch her body language.

What do you also want as a husband? Try and make your marriage work. Good luck

Do you expect her to say she doesn't want to stay married? Of course she go claim náà Devils work and I should forgive. But do you think she can repent? No I don't think so

Robinson155:
Don’t be the next victim
Look for one excuse
Bring her back home
Give her one excuse and file a divorce petition
Japa leave her

Or look for someone
And file a divorce petition


Did same thing

Thanks for the advise.
You're all going to hear the end of the story when the time comes.

LaReinaa:
The marriage isn’t going to work.. you have to divorce her now before she ruins you..

Thanks.
The reasons am not saying anything now is that the guy is here and if I should agree or disagree with any advice here is that, she might be informed before I can execute my plans.

ZINNYBANKS:
insultme have you confronted her ?if yes what did she say.?

Not yet.
I know she is going to plead and find a story.
But my decision is final. Just waiting for the right time.

BigdaddyPR:
I don't think you need any further advice since you've made up your mind already. You just have to know that she won't stop cheating, and depending on the level of respect she still has for you, she can decide to cheat discreetly or all up in your face.

Since the man lives alone, he'll still need your wife to cure subsequent 'konji'. Ensure you have enough supply of condoms, and just slip a few into your wife's handbag everytime she leaves home.

You don't want to be having oral with your wife and tasting another man's 'emission'.

Women pray to get married to weak men like you.

😂😂. It's just funny though that am laughing.
And the reason is because when you get to a certain stage in life ehn, and you're comfortable, you will understand everything no be gra gra. You need to be diplomatic about things. That by the time you call a family meeting, you have all the Ace's with you. If I confront her now and it turns to argument and she calls the police, and I was sent packing. It is same you that would say I should have waited for a perfect time. UK no be Nigeria that you can just send her packing no questions asked. Think think and think.

Karlifate:
This is a case of see finish;

1. The OP has a very weak (masculine) frame.

True.

2. The OP fell for the "I'm lonely" trap — Doesn't she have family members, trusted friends etc in Nigeria — You failed the shit test, because you should have proffered a better alternative.

It was not a trap. I believe in equality, and just because am comfortable on my own does not mean I should now enslave her or I should restrict her movement.

3. The OP is passive-agressive & can't take decisive actions.

I have made a decision already but I just want to know if the decision is too harsh or if it needs a legal backup.

4. The OP has already made up his mind to continue with this situationship due to sunk cost fallacy — He's scared of losing his "investment"

Am not scared of my investment, cause from all I wrote, I did everything myself even when I knew she is capable of supporting me. So it is not about the money or investment.


5. In conclusion, no matter the advice you give him here, he won't adhere to it, until he gets burnt 🔥 in reality.

Please what is your own advise?
At least you're going to know you've advised the OP, it's left for the OP to get burnt. 🤷🏽‍♂️🤷🏽‍♂️

@ OptimisticK, I can see you're trying to send me an email but unfortunately I don't have access to that email. If you can drop yours, then I can reach you back if need be.