₦airaland Forum

Samantha125:
Some women are just not meant to be mothers and there's nothing spiritual about it.

Raalsalghul:
Or you move first, get settled in and bring in your family later.

erico2k2:
There is nothing like the narrative you described above, upgrade yourself in whatever field you are into and see how you get rushed. If you think its easy to open a business and employ people who aint realistic, try open one yourself.

illicit:

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Ofadaman:
Most jobseekers aren't good enough for the job, no employer is frustrating them, this way of thinking is what makes applicant find ways to justify their incompetence ,instead of looking for ways to upskill and do better at interviews they find ways to throw the blame at the employers, just to feel good about themselves. Most of them will respond positively to this post as a way to confirm their bias and feel good about themselves.

WordMetrix:
The devil always goes for the best of men/women. He knows the kind of havoc they'll bring to his kingdom if they remain in faith, and so he does everything to entangle them until their lives becomes so miserable that they wont see the need to stay alive, he then terminates them

Goodman2023:
I see nothing wrong in that since that's the only way the poor benefits from the government...no road, no employment, no electricity, no infrastructure...

What else does the poor enjoy in nigeria

Doremii:
You just said it all. I'm in a fix right now because I moved from one job with 100k pay to 200k. 4 months into d job,now my live is in a helll and I am even about to loose the job cos of conspiracy against me. It is like a trap. It is the greatest mistake I have made in my life. I'm so traumatised right. I pray God see me through.

Kimjongun:
Since my job is very demanding, I couldn't start a business by myself. Instead I look for a cool headed babe, dated her for like a year then I encourage her to start a business. I put some money that I won't regret too much if I lose into the business and I have being watching her.

So far she has done well and the business is booming gradually, the next step is to marry her, register the business do some paper works and then use a year worth of my earnings to scale the business.

I hope to retire early and manage the business together with my wife.

AdsterraLord:
"being too NICE to people". Do you know that NICE means a stupid and a foolish person?

sulaak:
They probably overworking her to the point that she has to steal a holiday by lying about her family

Bahamas95:
A young girl could also possess the aforementioned qualities.

Nor be every adult get sense, I also see "adults" everyday on social media flaunting big bumbum. I can't get married to an old cargo because she's a wife material. I don't joke with a woman's looks, I wanna come home from work everyday and smile by just staring at my princess..... Everybody will definitely get old someday, but I must enjoy her beauty while it lasts.

Persephone1:
Men aren't afraid of successful women perse most men can't relate with successful women because they come with lots of compromise men can't afford. The traditional man wants a woman who will always be available, who won't question his opinions and decisions ( right or wrong) a woman who will cook, do house chores, be a "yes sir" etc. A successful woman may not be able to meet up with all these.

For most Nigerian men money is their bargaining chip in a relationship, there ability to provide a woman's need give them surge of control, relevance and power. Dealing with a woman who can take care of herself can be very difficult for a man who is yet to realize that his existence is more than ability to provide.


Successful women demands more, for the everyday woman, her wants in a man may be limited to "being taken care of" but for a successful woman she will demand more varying from accountability to loyalty to having a say in decisions, sharing responsibilities etc. Her demands are higher and sometimes impossible to meet for average men.

Of course, some successful women can be proud, unruly and difficult to relate with but trust me, all these stem from "see finish" i.e what can the man offer but truth is when they finally meet the right one, they submit.

nony43:
My own is they should bring the boy back to 9ja. That boy went to the UK with Medical visa . So he knew what he went for.

sonature1:
In all this, that Dr. Obinna Obeta deserved to get the worst jail term. That dude ought to get at least 15 years imprisonment. He's the perfect definition of wickedness and greed.

Bedotfarms:
There is this my Ex we dated for more than six years before she finally ended it immediately after orientation (service year). The dating started during extension days in our final year, secondary school.

We literally went to the same secondary school and University.

So many things happened during our course of being together:

We had many differences mainly and only on men. I was a big time simp then, was insecure with temperament issues in the relationship.

The complexity of the insecurity became clearer when she confessed that she dated someone while we were apart.

I lived in the South-West while she stayed in the Northern part of the country.

While together, she aborted three times for me. I was 69% true to the relationship, I loved her so much then and I really wanted to settle down with her. My family knew her and vice versa, including friends.

Like I stated, she ended the relationship and I accepted it in good fate, even though I wept.

What will I even have done since she initiated it. it was more like I shock to me.

After more than a decade, I was surprised to hear from my sister's hubby all the bad things that happened between us, that she aborted three times for me, that I beat her in camp, etc. That I went ahead to toast her friend (this is true but like she was 6 years in marriage).

I've tried arranging for meeting with her and husband but it never worked, for us to discuss and that I may apologize sincerely to her, since she still took it to heart.

All she kept saying she had moved on and sebi I have moved on too?

Please, what can I do in this situation?
My wish is for us to meet, and discuss intensively together.

Chrisbillakings:
Application closing tomorrow 20 March 2023. Apply now before it closes

Angelfrost:
Nigerians are one of a kind!

This level of widespread Stockholm Syndrome needs to researched!

That some actually thumbprinted for APC for the third time in a row is beyond belief!

Worst part is that in the midst of this suffering and crisis, some still come online to defend these leaders and politicians!

Guy, abeg... No wonder my friends and family make it a point of duty to avoid community of Nigerians abroad!

There is something really unnaturally wrong with the average Nigerian's brain! I swear!!!

InvertedHammer:
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Some jobs are for young people. In some skilled jobs, advance in age is an advantage. Would you rather have a 28-yrs old doctor or a 55-yrs old doctor? The young doctor may be intelligent but age limitation will cast doubt on his experience.

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BigMamaNaija:
How can a well brought up child flaunt pregnancy outside wedlock? Like how??

Saifullah01:
Slavery 2.0.
They are no longer forcing us across the sea to work on their plantations. They entice us through rag tag offers designed to perpetuate your slavery to their schemes