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Stevenbright:
I can see. She is your fvckmate but you don't like her but been deceiving her that you will get married to her once she finishes school. The time is near and you want to discharge her by linking her up with another person while you may still be by the side as a fvckmate. Hmmmm

lol one of the problems of Nigeria sported. That's why the country is like this. Think above Bleep nairaland is like Quora of Nigeria it's sad that you just comment foolishly cause it's faceless forum.

ecolime:
Cool

So, what are the things you want that she doesn't have? That would give prospective suitors insights as well. Please highlight her desired qualities as well.

No need putting the qualities here if she's also a Nairalander who is probably reading this comments.

she is a good girl. If you go through my post am looking for a professional lady or a career type. Other than that she is good to go.

ecolime:
Marry her na

You are in a better position to help her condition.

good one. But we all have what we are looking for.

Dickcap:
Tired of what exactly?
No complete guys out there

you dey answer this one?

Ok quick one. I know how difficult it is to meet people this days cause of many factors like tough economy situation or too much phone attention. I have a friend she is 27 final year in one of the universities, she is a fashion designer and she is hoping to settle down soon. So Guys you can send me a mail and I would link you up.

NB. She is from Edo state a Christian and she is slim.

OlawaleBammie:
mu²

Kilo late?? Ode


The more doctors japa, the more our varying universities produces another set

and the new set jakpa too. Simple as that instead of them to make the salary more attractive.

Go ahead and extend a helping hand. It makes you better than her. Please do help her.

Holluwhakemmy:
already collected because you can't do anything without consulting us in Ile-Ife

oke enjoy use am buy bag of rice.

Holluwhakemmy:
Oba of Benin don't know history the entire Bini territory belongs to Yoruba

come collect am.

superCleanworks:
the way una go just open mouth dey ask yeye question.
what can you save from that amount? please tell me.

20k a month na something. People earn 80k and they manage to save something.

englishmart:
I couldn't do any of those successfully since January, but all of a sudden I should be able to somehow do them in just about a month.
My salary is 127k, from Abuja to Enugu is already 35k. By December 20 it would have risen to 50k. Only transportation would take 100k or above. Na to sell my iPhone 15 for 200k take enter motor come house.
Next year, I don't care what happens but I'm moving to the US before Tinubu kee me

through out the year did you not save.

9jatriot:
Wait, I non understand. For a job that has the potential of giving you a revenue of around 3 million, that was how you replied a potential client. Abi non be 3.1 something million I see for that chat?

Some people pursue one job for years, while pursuing that job it does not stop them from doing other businesses, yet this one is just one month and see how your replied a potential customer.

Na wa

mumu people full this world sha.this idiot now go manage use agbero enter one office and u would be wondering why things are bad in Nigeria. Very useless moronic idiotic. Dingbat

ahnie:
He wasn't really specific....he could have also spent it on other factors.he doesn't look like a heavy drinker to me.
But he's a big fan of gambling.

that's the culprit there. An addiction. E fit don go carry 2 sure odd. Lol omo that na husband from hell. But she could am stayed and forgive him. It's not Greener at the other side. On a serious note it's a spiritual problem.

We4all:
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Baby daddy was never married to her and probably missed out on a good woman. But the man's wife left him after many years together. He is a rejected stone.

you win.

4.5 mill on girls? Abeg na Kim Kardashian?

Umadam:
I just dont get it. Even a single mother still even select husband, I just de read post de laugh. People eeehhhh

omo na wetin i talk wen one of them one mention me die.

We4all:
Ask his ex.

ok so as the baby daddy.

Daddyyin:
But the Swedish are not cursing their country and their leaders.

na dem be this. But they still have all the basic amenities.

We4all:
I read the story and your comment as well. You demeaned a single mom because her mom had reservations about her getting married to a divorced man.

wats wrong with a divorced man?

We4all:
Is it a curse to be a single mom? You can't marry a single mom but can marry a woman who has slept with tens of men and probably also slept with an animal. Change your mindset. Tueh!

did you read the story at all or body just dey pepper you?

Puss360:
Lols wahala for who dey find fu:ck.... You want to fu:ck you no get money...

Who initiated the meeting?? If it's the guy, then he has to send transport and it must cover to and fro...

You tell babe, make Una meet...
She no get transport...
You no send transport...
Babe no come... She rest back...
Instead of you to rest, you say lai lai, you come online dey rant....

If no be fu:ck you dey find, why body come dey pepper you...

And you talented321, what do you mean by "Normal" in Ur post

na Dem be this. Hookup president.

Babaken:
Imagine i inviting my old time friend a Lady I know her very well she's a working class lady whom I respect so much she cook or sorts of stories that she don't have transportation when she know that if she come there's no way I won't multiply her transportation by 4 or 5 .

As that one is not enough she call me 3 days after that she and her sister that's staying with her is admitted at the hospital that the money she's having is not enough I should send her some money for my mind I say see this one you don see ATM machine since then I haven't call or chat her again before she will tell me her house rent is expiring next week she already told me her television is not working haba.
Some ladies should try to package themselves small.

lol

oldienavie:
A single mother that has been looking for who to marry for 10 years, she con see divorced man you say make she nor marry am. Oya now, provide man for her to marry.
Some of you on this forum just write like kids.

I wonder the way people think. So na single man go come marry baby mama.

RoyalRoy:
Hmmm,quite revealing. My girlfriend is exactly like myloveforhim described herself. Exactly. It has made me hit i once or twice. Realy not proud of that. But a choleric woman can push you to the extreme. I made a decision to be extremely patient with her. She talks b4 thinking, she's always on the defensive,a bit bossy, and above all she wl ask you to come and beat her. Patience was a virtue i learnt the hard way. Now,after all her trips,i call her, tell her i love you. Then take time to explain what's going on. Most times she ends up crying and feeling bad. I believe ONLY WITH PRAYER AND PATIENCE can a choleric woman be managed.

you hit her once. Lol lol 😂 guy u never understand woman. U think you can stop hitting her . What made u get to that point you would continue u better leave that girl and find another woman. She is not ur type

Pastorjohn2:
I married at 26 and divorced after 3 months.

I'm currently 43 with 3 churches and 2 houses and am already currently building another church to boost myself.

Some marriages are chains and most women are daughters of Satan's child (jezebel).

A man that marry in his 20's is a fool.

bros abeg which type of pastor are u?

You should have gone deep investigating why she refused your marriage.

Lightieness:
hello, do you have some baby things you can help me with?

nope. Wanted to pay for waybill for whoever have.

westlius:
My dear given him a link for job I tried oo.
Apart from me don't he has close relatives.
I have never seen him since 2020 but I still find am job when he called

guy you wicked. Forget stories. Which kind human being you be. Do make we clap for you?

Cowbell521:
Leave am. He doesn't know women are problems in men lives.

Saying you need a woman is like saying you need a problem

necessary problems.

All the once Dem dey show for tv since Dem no dey see am?

tommy589:
No. We were together for 10 years

and you think she would look back.

Stevenbright:
The major problem you are having is that you see yourself as the problem as if your ex. wife was a saint. Before you can get her out of your mind, you must come to terms with the fact that she has her own shortcomings too. If not, the marriage would have survived because she would have complemented your efforts to make things work for the family.

Realizing the above will help you forgive yourself, help you to heal and free you from the bondage of adoring her.

multi million advice.