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Forgery is very easy to detect in Nigerian documents because the people are very lousy and lack finesse. Common chronological order of events, a "renowned" lawyer like Ozhekome cannot perfect. They probably thought that a Nigerian judge will be handling the case.

Have you seen CVs or resume' from an average Nigerian? I am not talking of the ones prepared by paid professionals.

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It makes sense.
Both chores must be divided equally.
If the woman is pregnant in year 1, the husband must be pregnant in year 2.
If the man carries the refrigerator the first time, the next time it will be the wife's turn. Even fighting outsiders should be turn by turn.
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She missed one ingredient ---the germs from her legs when she mopped the pot barefooted

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Keep your Jesus or Mohammed out of public discourse. The same goes for your pronoun.
We can also say the same for political opinions...well unless you are your own boss. Even at that, people are out for who to cancel. Apparently Charlie Kirk means different things to different folks. But we can't murder people for divergent opinions especially if expressed with openness to honest debate. In such trajectory, nobody will be alive.


In this wokeism charged environment, if you are a footballer, play your ball and go home. If you are priest, say your prayers. And if a nurse, treat your patients and go home. Life can't be any simpler.

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Why is Israel going to war? It doesn't make sense.

Perhaps they should learn a thing or two from
Nigerian Christians by letting the God of Israel fight for them. It doesn't matter if Hamas is decimating
her citizens. Isn't that what "god of men" in Nigeria preach to their gullible followers against
the menace of herdsmen? Oh I forgot. Israelites practice Judaism. They even crucified the saviour of Christians
for blasphemy. Aren't Christians very forgiving? A typical Bible-clutching bonehead in Nigeria cannot differentiate between
Christianity and Judaism. So why bother?

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Basicend:
That is not correct sir.

Every govt is significantly influenced by an alter. It's a battle of alters.

The core purpose of Elijah's calling was to establish the reign of the alter of God by eventually influencing the government of the land tru the King.

Elijah was unable to understand that essence unfotunately.

The anointing is only made available to a man if the man continues to engage it's purpose, otherwise, it will be taken away.

God anointed Elisha to continue the essence of that anointing. You will observe that Elisha had so much control over the king that the king always refer to him as "My Father".

Prophet Samuel was controlling the Kings in his time and many others. A king is supposed to submit to a true prophet of the Lord for checks. That's the way God balances it.

If God raises a mighty prophet, and his hands are continuously clean, he will have influence over the govt. It happened severaly in American history and even here in Nigeria severally.

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You don't seem to see God as "Almighty" and omnipotent.

It is an insolence to opine with your limited understanding that God will stoop low to be bargaining with
his creatures and in some cases, let human desires overrule his intention. What manner of omniscience and omnipotence is that?

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The only sensible thing out of that State in recent times.

What Nigerians cannot abuse does not exist. They have really bastardized religion especially Christianity.

Any lunatic, out of frustration, can wake up any day with Bible in tow and start spewing rubbish.

With millions of morons out there, it is a matter of time before s/he comes up with crazy doctrines with
eyes on underage girls to plunder.

The only innocent pastor is the one that has not been caught.

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idaga:
If you have opportunity to look good
In the presence of GOD please do.

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So God only exists in the church and one must visit a church building to be in his presence? Interesting! This can only come from a Pentecostal ---a watered down and adulterated Christianity.

Yet they tell people that God is everywhere.

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Mindlog:
All Soludo's public projects has a tag of Solution to it, the beautiful thing about this display of narcissism is that those projects will be renamed few years from now. 😂😂😂

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Narcissism?

I think it is something worse.

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That's his truth. They have their target audience.
The message is not intended for everyone especially those with functional brain and common sense.

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There is no lesson there.

He fled from the government in power.

No matter how powerful your Daddy G.O may claim, Tinubu can render him useless by a single pronouncement. We witnessed how churches and mosques were shut down by government during covid and heavens didn't fall.

A case study is in Anambra state. Three notorious babalawos are languishing in detention for months now. All their powers failed them against the government. Go figure!

The only thing religion propagates is FEAR to keep people in check.

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Lazy Nigerian youths are waiting for them to finish fighting for Uk, then migrate to leech and still complain. I bet you some are
already asking Google how to port to Nepal.

Hilda Bacci brought out 20k youths because of a pot of jollof rice. Ask the same youths to join the protest for their future,
they relax to watch BBN and only 200 show up. They behave like those that are psychologically and mentally tranquilized.

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No uniforms. Long beard. Dreads. Tattoos. Multiple rings on fingers. Why won't they be mistaken for criminals?

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NotOfThisWorld:
46-year old divorced man. He should find a divorcée like himself or single mother. Good luck.

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I feel sorry for his inbox. E go don full by now.

Have you applied? Una go yab for public but go apply in private

Charlie Boy misfired. He should have attached an application fee of N10k each.

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xjiggy:
Oxygen is in compressed cylinders. There's not much wrong with the vehicle. The condition of the cylinders should be of concern rather.

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Oxygen in a cylinder is the closest you can get to a bomb. It is an explosive like a cooking gas cylinder. Anything involving its storage and transportation is handled with extreme care. Don't waive potential hazard. That vehicle belongs in a junkyard.

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Coming from a university in Lapai, Niger State; I am impressed. At least they didn't spell convocation as "kwonvokation". I am sure they didn't include it because they don't know how to spell it. We should applaud their effort.

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Ekwunife has people beating drums for her. It may seem that people are happy that Soludo is having a taste of his own medicine especially from a woman who is firing from all chambers. The ever loquacious Soludo has been silent lately. Hygiene, DNA, paternity? Ekwunife is hitting below the belt. Mrs Soludo shouldn't have replied her in the first place. It was a bait! And boy! Do Nigerians love gossip?!

There is nothing anyone would say about Ekwunife that people don't already know. The juicy details is on Soludo's family expose'. The son hasn't come on the crossfire yet.

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Is it not the molded "Virgin Mary", Jesus on the cross and the Bible (all three are available for sale at Eke Awka) that politicians use to swear oath of office before plundering state resources? Nonye knows that it doesn't work. Ekwunife shouldn't bother herself.

True or not, Soludo should have known that who throws pebbles should expect stones in return. Instead of campaigning on achievements, he is known to write letters, throw jabs and cast aspersions on perceived opponents. Is he a victim now that he met an equally uncouth woman?

If a Governor's wife could be slapped in public in Anambra, Soludo should understand that decorum is not a watchword in Anambra politics.

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The mind of an African!

They call it refuse. The Chinese will call it a gold mine.
Once a Chinese company comes in to run a recycle business, they will turn around and complain that foreigners are taking juicy contracts. Ever wonder why they have many unknown mineral resources until foreign miners show up? Does it mean that they are teaching them different things in universities?

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Another false narratives to set Dr Maduka up for a second missionary journey. He should hold his wallet well. His name only rings bell in Anambra circle whenever election is nigh.

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RevenuesBoost:
Marriage Is Not for the Weak, Selfish, or Irresponsible Man

Let’s speak truth:

You can marry beauty.
You can marry loyalty.
You can marry a woman with a heart of gold.

But if you’re immature, emotionally lazy, or careless with her trust—
You didn’t marry a wife. You took advantage of a gift you weren’t ready to receive.

Because most marriages don’t fall apart from the outside—
They fall when the man inside the house stops showing up fully.


1. WEAK MEN AVOID HARD THINGS

A weak man shuts down in conflict.
Avoids tough conversations.
Runs from responsibility.

He calls her “emotional” when she just wants clarity.
He calls her “too much” when she just needs effort.

A real man leads with humility, not ego.
He doesn’t just provide—he protects emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

If pressure makes you disappear, you’re not leading—you’re escaping.



2. SELFISH MEN DRAIN THEIR WIVES

Marriage is not a one-way street.

If you expect peace but bring chaos…
If you demand respect but give none…
If you want her to submit while you do nothing worth following—
You’re not a husband. You’re a tyrant in disguise.

A selfish man wants a servant, not a soulmate.
But a great man? He lifts, leads, and listens.

Marriage requires sacrifice. If you're not ready to give, don’t expect to receive.




3. IRRESPONSIBILITY KILLS SECURITY

A woman can handle tough seasons.
She can handle less money, long hours, even failure.

What she can’t handle is instability—
– Financial recklessness
– Broken promises
– No vision, no plan, no consistency

Her respect dies the moment she realizes she has to carry what you keep dropping.

Responsibility isn’t glamorous—but it’s godly.
If you can't be trusted with pressure, don’t ask her to follow your lead.




4. MARRIAGE REQUIRES CHARACTER—NOT JUST CHARM

Being good to her when things are easy is the bare minimum.

Real character shows when: – She’s struggling
– You’re frustrated
– Life gets hard

If your first instinct is to withdraw, blame, or cheat—
You're not ready to lead. You're not even ready to love.

Marriage isn’t about control. It’s about commitment.
And that takes more than a smooth tongue and good intentions.




Final Thought: Women Don’t Leave Because They’re Cold—They Leave Because They’re Exhausted

Fellas:
If you think love is maintenance-free,
If you treat submission like superiority,
If you demand loyalty but give instability—
You’re not ready for marriage.

Because a woman doesn’t need a perfect man.
She needs a consistent one.
One who protects, provides, and pursues—with humility and honor.

If leadership to you means dominance—not service—
You don’t want a wife.
You want a servant.

And that’s not marriage—it’s manipulation.



Marriage is for men—not boys in grown-up clothes.
Show up.
Take responsibility.
Lead in love.
And build something worth keeping.

Have a blessed day.



Note: This write-up focuses primarily on men. Check out my thread for the perspective on women.

https://www.nairaland.com/8516244/wwww-marriage-not-unteachable-combative

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That's why there are more widows than widowers from men trying to play superheroes to insatiable Jezebels.

"Gone too soon" is a thing and it is en vogue

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Nsiehi:
Dear Nairalanders and property owners,

I wish to seek your kind counsel on to how deal with a problem posed by a tenant in my property.

I rented out a unit of 2 bedroom flat to this my tenant some 3 years ago. He is in the habit of owing bills (electricity, security, etc). House rent payment is also delayed. I do not live in this compound but do pay weekly visits to inspect the house. There are other tenants living in the compound too.

About 8months ago, I noticed an unusual absence of the tenant's wife and their 2 year old son. Some of their household items they usually kept in the balcony were gone too. I thought at this time that they may have gone on holiday. A few weeks after, he had another guy living with him whom he introduced as his brother. A Month later, I did not see the tenant nor the person he introduced as his brother. That flat has been locked for 7 months now and every effort to contact them through their 3 phone numbers have been unsuccessful. His electricity and security bills have piled up since April last year. The compound uses the estimated billing system for electricity and at the end of every month, the tenants share the bills. Disconnecting any flat here does not affect the the estimated bills sent to the compound. I have been planning to install prepaid meter but seriously financially-challenged.

The tenant's rent will expire by the end of this month and I do not have any intention to receive any renewed rent from him.

I have tried many possible means to reach him or his wife but all have been unsuccessful. I was beginning to think recently that the guy he introduced to me as his brother was a new tenant that he sublet my house to. I have not seen the so-called brother, neither does his phone number go through. I want to speak with a lawyer and also inform the police, but I do not know if this is a good decision.

Dear Nairalanders I hereby seek your wise counsel on this matter and how to prevent a future repeat.

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This is a statement you should be writing in the nearest Police station to protect yourself instead of Nairaland.

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Actually this is a good news.
The tattoos will be the gift that keeps giving for Nigerian Police. It is a "guaranteed pay" sign for extortion. They thought dreads were bad, this will be the new oil money for the police.

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Hezzyluv:
So sad to spend your money training someone else's Child thinking its yours.

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It is not about spending money to train someone's child. I wonder what he can do. I wish there is a way to mitigate the situation where he can "voluntarily" raise the child, if he so desires.

The problem is that in many parts of US, the government will force him to be financially liable for the child. Failure to do so may result in wage garnishment, arrest and incarceration. The dilemma is more legal than moral. Any man who dares approach family legal matters with emotions in US will be badly burned by the system.

In all of these, there are no repercussions nor penalty for the mother than perpetrated this fraud.

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zagorakis:
Lies; believe social media at your own peril. Firstly, not very many Nigerians owned a computer to become self-taught computer literate in 2003. Few people who were literate were very rich or children of the rich who owned a computer then or had the resources to go to a cybercafe and buy time; either way, they were still among the rich Nigerians. Secondly, in 2003, no poor man would wake up one day and walk to the government house to look for a job if he had not been referred or had someone in the government house.

Let him not sound brave or courageous; we know he was privileged.
I rest my case.

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Fear is worse than death.
Many things happen in Nigeria to those who dare.

As a young lad, I got my admission from the JAMB Registrar himself. I walked into the office and he was surprised at my audacity.
I walked home that day with my name shortlisted in ABU-Zaria Admission list. For someone who had never been to the North, it was
quite a challenge but turned out great. You got to have guts!

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Police checkpoints are so outdated that one can't help but wonder what purposes they serve in this 21st Century. What exactly are these officers learning when they embark on foreign courses? Is it just for the paper certificates with no iota of ideas of how to put the learned principles into practice?

Police work involves mobile patrol unless there is a distress call in a particular area that may warrant temporary checkpoints to arrest the situation. We need to redefine education in Nigeria.

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He informed them that the details will be in his book "Intervention Series" coming out soon.

He is only trying to sell his book. Any Police report to confirm this fiction?

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Brahamimo:
No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

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Get a life. Jeeez!

Are you for real?

This is your major concern in 2025?

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favor914:
Burna Biy & Whiz Kid have residual income for life, they are not like Fashanu or Ikpeba, whose money stopped flowing upon retirement.

Burna Boy & whizzy no get retirement portfolio.

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Everyone believed everyone has retirement portfolios until life throws a curve ball later, then celebrity starts begging for public assistance.

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At least the next government will know that the people are intolerant of nonsense. The building? Insurance will pay for it.

Playing it safe is why politicians know that they can get away with anything in Nigeria. 1000 politicians enslaved 240 million people and the slaves are happy to defend the oppressors. Nothing is in the offing but their apologists and towncriers like Seyi Law and Omokri are already out telling people the dangers. Seyi and Omokri have their families comfortable in UK. Do you?

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U.S.A couldn't care less if he goes for reinterview or not. Who is losing? He should strive for a better Nigeria if it pains him.

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