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Anonymous29:
Mama pls how does heartburn feel like? Still in my first trimester but have been having this peppery stuff in my chest. Like something is stuck there and wont just go down.

well come to my club
I am the king here
Heartburn is crazy here
That feeling of something in the throat is irritating
I now spit to full one big bucket daily

It’s crazy
I dm not even twelve weeks
I wonder what will happen when I sm above thirty weeks

Smh for myself

mummyjason:
Congratulations to May mamas dropping the BAs bumper to bumper,God bless you all and make it easy for the remaining mamas.
This pregnancy has been eventful, morning sickness showed me shege,I have been treated for malaria twice, been admitted and given drip twice, now fibroid degeneration pain is dealing with me seriously, please mamas who have gone through this phase should advise me ooo, I am getting really frustrated.
Cc iOmoge, Suzy, helovesme.....

. I used to take diclofenac & sadalude together
Can not remember the sleeping injection
Just talk to your doc

I can only imagine the pain you are facing
Pls don’t be frustrated
It will end in praise

mummyjason:
Congratulations to May mamas dropping the BAs bumper to bumper,God bless you all and make it easy for the remaining mamas.
This pregnancy has been eventful, morning sickness showed me shege,I have been treated for malaria twice, been admitted and given drip twice, now fibroid degeneration pain is dealing with me seriously, please mamas who have gone through this phase should advise me ooo, I am getting really frustrated.
Cc iOmoge, Suzy, helovesme.....

pele dear
You need to see a doctor

I was giving injection n tabs
For pains snd sleep
It’s really painful
But what ever pain meds they give you
Please stop st 30 weeks

dudujomi:
Congrats to all new mothers, and safe delivery to expectant mums. For anyone who is interested, I have neatly used baby bedframe with mattress and baby wardrobe for sale

Wardrobe-50k
Bed frame-35k

location please

Favy93:
please where are ds companies located so i cn submit my c.v pleaze help

. You can google them
They also advertise on nairaland

Check great jobsng on IG
Lemme get d link for you

prudentsolution:
I just read a part of your diary and noticed something. Can we talk in private? I need to give you a vital information

You can send me a pm
I didn’t see your email
Mine is
Omogekofo@yahoo.com

frankdre:
He is telling u d truth and u are there deceiving ursef...Graduates like u still believe there are jobs in Nigeria. What a myopic way of reasoning. Better go start a biz, learn a trade or else, that your shoe go file finish in d process of securing a job. Thats just the gospel truth. The labor market is saturated, the gospel truth is bitter but will save u from disaster on d long run

. Fact is there are jobs
But will he like what is been offered
Most companies use outsourced staff

Uconnect
Hr indexx
Global manpower
Etc
They employ daily but would he be willing to start small


Not everyone has a knack for business

RonKenoly:
I understand and agree with you, but you should know that context matters alot.

Your brother stay with a family member for a start right? If not, tell a little about how he was able to settle in those environment.

yes
He did stay with me
After a while he found a church
He and some friends rented a flat so he can be close to the church
That’s where the links started flowing from
The instagram
Attends seminars
Meet people
Be quick to sell his market
Attended so many interviews
Linked up old friends

You can work with what you have
If you seat down to analyze how it will be you would not make head way
Just take each day as it comes
Be open to opportunities

zaynie:
Black shoes with metal stud
Size 21-36

N3000

we need this
I also need school shoe for Zoey
Black

Mariangeles:
You did it . well done.

. Thanks much
I felt so good after the meal last night

RonKenoly:
Not settling madam, we just have to learn to start from small.

Enter juiciest part of where? With how much?

Let's be realistic please.

What I ask myself is if I want my life to be as those who were there before me
Starting small is good
But starting right is the best
You can start small in anywhere you choose
You can squat or co rent a place
It’s starting small
If u go ahead and start in ijebu what makes you think you will have the will power to leave later
Or u think if I sm sm employer of labour I will employ one man based in ijebu over someone based in Lagos
Who wants a staff with little or no real life experience

Well the ball is in your court
Play it to which ever direction you wish

My younger one had your mentality
Went to start in suleja
Until he saw the light snd came to Lagos did he measure up
In two years he has two cars working for him and he is still working
Now investing in landed property

He had better opportunities in Lagos
Had better connections in church
Sells cars
Sells lands and still has his job

Now all his let’s find one village friends have seen the light two that came to Lagos sre msking it too

I sm not saying everyone must be in Lagos. Everywhere is even over crowded
My advise is that you should be at the right place
With the right crowd
Snd start small

If you sre looking for low cost of living you will be behind o

Just take the bull by the horn

Enter Lekki in Lagos
Or the heart of Abuja
Or the juiciest part of port harcourt

Move there and find a job there n one day heaven will smile on you
People making it in those places do not have two heads.
Don’t settle for less

tstx:
That's not a limitation... I just want prospective clients to know where i am based....

then do you live in Abuja shouldn’t be your introduction

You add Abuja based st the end

With what I see now
You can only build websites for Abuja based pips

Best of luck

tstx:
Hmmmn




I build websites and I am based in Abuja, see my signature

why limit your self to Abuja

Vincent88:
Thanks i will tell my wife but im not sure when is the right time to speak with her maybe early morning or very late at night i just dont know and i hope she will not leave me after hearing this

can’t you act like you do not know the child is yours and move on
Keep showing love as you have through the father
For your wife
See one or more good doctors
She may even need her cervic tied after getting pregnant
Just find a solution with her not planning on how to destroy your brother some more

Please
It’s d childlessness that’s making you remember the girl
Your wife will bore you children
You just need a good doctor

Laeroy:
@mrAMG2, thanks for the advice my brother. THAT'S THE DILEMMA I'M IN BROTHER, DO I DO IT SOMETIMES AND NOT ALWAYS, WHAT HAPPENS TO THE TIMES I DON'T DO IT, WONT I BE PERCEIVED AS DECEPTIVE FROM INCEPTION

no
You won’t be perceived as deceptive

If it’s jollof rice you want to give your child adding a few spoons for the other child won’t hurt
If it’s snacks as you say give them both
When it finishes
They will know it’s finished

But like Zaynie said up there
What you need is a source of income
Your own income
No one says the man must have more
You can have more if you want to
I for one isn’t scared of getting my hands dirty

Women are out there making money
You are learned
You have a smart phone
There are businesses you can do with Zero capital
Drop shipping is one
You can do errands n make money
You can add housecleaning to your dry cleaning business and
Don’t be comfortable with your 30k package
Start a side hustle and with time you won’t need the package again

Let your hubby do what he knows how to do
You are smart and can do yours too

Go on instagram and follow influencers
Laura ikeji posted some business you can start with twenty thousand not to long ago
Someone else posted zero naira biz
Just find your passion

You sre not wicked as you stated
You sre just on one tight budget
Get out of your comfort zone

Zaynie has a business class coming up soon. Check her dairy she wrote about it
I advise you join in snd you will learn so much
What ever the amount for the class; I am willing to pay for you.
Just show interest
Contact her. She knows how to collect her money from me
There is so much money to be made out there


Hugs

Laeroy:
Thank u bro..... Exactly what I will... I was just thinking what if I give my child this and I give her child same with mine, a time will come I can't continue the same gestures, how will it feel... Do I start this and continue enduring given my limited income, will I keep doing everything I do for my kid to her kid too... My dear, I looked at it and told myself



PEACE DON'T DECEIVE YOURSELF U CAN'T DO IT 100%....SHE is not my child...

How did I get here
I can’t even continue reading

All I will say is that you calm down
Your last statement got me

No one knows tomorrow
I am not saying your hubby will be poorer
But what if the women or her child becomes richer tomorrow

I used to have Your thoughts but once I got married all that changed
Cos I see his blood as mine
But I know where this is steaming from
You married him thinking you didn’t marry the family and this is becos of the lies you two told yourself
You saw he was from a poverty stricken home but didn’t back out to marry from one rich home

My sister
Pls don’t take life too hard
Nothing is permanent
No one is assured tomorrow

You sre pained cos they sent the wife away but you also confirmed it’s Yoruba tradition
Pls
Calm down
Just a little kindness won’t kill you
Blood is thicker than water
When the chips are down
The man will stand with his siblings
Don’t start a fight you cannot finish

See
If I were you
I will do eye service and give my hubby the heat
Heat of helping d lady out of the house
Even if it’s one room
I will bring d little I have snd give him to add up
Just to bring sanity
But in their eyes
Do good please
I am not saying you should go over the bar to be nice
But don’t be obviously disgusted by them

horlique:
am not a woman beater will never be but if I meet a woman that talks carelessly ,we will just end it peacefully and walk away.. women too plenty

that’s much better

When u find a woman you can’t cope with. Just move on. If you really do love her then try n help her change not by beating her

Banga soup and pounded yam
Chicken
Dry fish
Stock fish
Pomo

I added little pepper soup spice for effect

jazzyjazz:
I have to ask because all the prescriptions you put there for the lady....hmmmmmm

happy Birthday team December captain

Ddkingz:
For your mind...
I laff at you.
Nor loyal to ur fiance... Na bodyslam e go dey bodyslam you...
By the time una marry and you never still learn how to loyal, hmm I pity u, na flawless victory u go dey receive anytime u misbehave..

Because you think all women are lazy
It’s the kinda of NFA girls you date you can try rubbish with

Moreover
If I choose to be with one man be sure he is worth it
Not every one who carries a pen.is is a man

horlique:
no woman deserves a slap seriously .. are u kidding.. when you misbehave in this world punishment will follow even be worse than slaps. Am sure to you a female serial killer should not be jailed why because she is a woman.. this is just one of the issues

See u
It’s better to jail than to beat

Until d day you meet that woman that will break your teeth
Then u would know how to respect yourself

StarUp:
First and foremost, what did she do? Most times people don't ask that question, they will instead start bashing the guy with words... Even a mad man won't assault you just like that... It's possible what she has been doing to him is worse than this(maybe it was compound-payback)...#justsaying

I doubt you are female
Did she kill him
Is he her father “even a father can not be so wicked “
Even if the man has paid bride price he has no right to lift his hands on her
No woman
I repeat
No woman deserves a slap no to talk of this kinda beating
There is an option of walking away from her if she really hurt him
Don’t let me pray same for you
Imagine if the woman was your daughter
So u will justify the man beating her because she did wrong
This man will kill her the very next chance he has
Only weak and useless men beat women

The useless men know who they try shit with sha

When they say make your own money n love your self
You will hear yehn yehn yehn

kerryvienne:
I am looking forward to buy some funny onesies for my children. I have tried several shops but couldn't come across any decent clothing item. Can anyone suggest me some good brands or shops, or even an online store where I can purchase good onesies for my kids?

Thank you.

. Check “inside_nanas_heart” on IG
She is also a nairaland
@zaynie

She sells all things kids n of very high quality

The ones I bought three years ago are still really new
She even has the new born sizes

Not all those fake things they sell in Balogun market

If it’s only womb affected why not go through surrogates
The ovaries can give you eggs with which to use for having kids.
Except every thing was affected


It’s heart breaking
Will the husband hold up too?

I for one would tell him to go ahead and have kids sha cos if he is my brother I will encourage him to

That’s why it’s advisable to freeze your eggs once nearing mid thirties with no kids in sight or if you are chasing other things other than family