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Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by NNAMDIII(m): 9:05am On Mar 02, 2019 |
yvelchstores:Yeah the child might just be his brothers, the thing I'm just checking is the resemblance. @OP just secretly do a DNA for the child, if she's yours then look for a way to confess but your brother won't forgive you for a very long time, he won't trust you till he dies....it the child isn't yours then keep the secret |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by NNAMDIII(m): 9:09am On Mar 02, 2019 |
mankettle:best advice so far |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Ohidata: 3:43pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
You first need to ask God for forgiveness and try to build a firm relationship with God, then you need to forgive yourself. You need to explain to your wife and ask her for her forgiveness. Your brother needs to go see a therapist for his drinking and womanising issues - he's suffering emotionally and psychologically from what his wife did to him - help him with that if you can afford it. Only after he's better should you explain the situation with his wife to him because he needs to be stable and rational enough to hear what you have to say without sinking into an even darker corner of his life. You send me a private message if you need additional assistance moving forward. God be with you. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Ohidata: 3:45pm On Mar 02, 2019 |
You also need to see a really good Gynaecologist with you wife and try to find out the reasons for her miscarriages. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
lovelygurl: What's up with the fieryy monker? |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 7:35pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
bobobooge: Got tired of not being able to post anything because my ass got banned All I could do was share posts and that pissed me off 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 7:38pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
fieryy: Been making trouble to warrant a ban? |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 7:46pm On Mar 03, 2019 |
bobobooge: I swear, I was innocent It was unfair |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 1:15pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Ohidata:Thank you nice advice , i will message you |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by PaulAris: 9:46am On Mar 30, 2019 |
Vincent88:Arggh women!! So she's given birth to 6 children for at least 4 men?!! And I'm certain the new man doesn't know anything bout' her past Damn! |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by iomoge2(f): 5:16am On May 13, 2019 |
Vincent88:can’t you act like you do not know the child is yours and move on Keep showing love as you have through the father For your wife See one or more good doctors She may even need her cervic tied after getting pregnant Just find a solution with her not planning on how to destroy your brother some more Please It’s d childlessness that’s making you remember the girl Your wife will bore you children You just need a good doctor 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:44pm On May 13, 2019 |
Update Thank you everyone for your kind advice I taught it would be a good ideas not to confess to them but Instead I have confessed my sin to God and repented for everything, but for peace of mind I took my niece for paternity test which the result came back positive that I am her father , I am very heartbroken but to me she still my brother child and she would still be forever . That was all I had to say thank you 2 Likes |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by PrincessJr(f): 8:32pm On May 13, 2019 |
Vincent88:I hope so |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by babyfaceafrica: 9:20pm On May 13, 2019 |
Vincent88:you will reap where you sow..I won't say more than that!! |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Originalsly: 10:11pm On May 13, 2019 |
Hmmm......Call her your favourite niece or whatever.....you should be seeing her as your own.... but just not saying. The day she knows you are her real father her life would be turned upside down... the older she gets..the worse the fall out. Your own family would not trust you with other female family members.... brother is a beast is how they will see you... a sexual beast. They will reason....if he can sleep with.... and impregnate his eldest...eldest brother's wife...who will he not sleep with? But..... guilt is the heaviest burden in life.... and to lighten that load you will have to confess to the one you offended...your brother.... and ask for his forgiveness. Hope for the best...but just be prepared for the worst. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by feranmi60: 9:22am On Jul 16, 2019 |
Why not secretly do a DNA test on d girl to confirm you are the father before bursting the bubbles,to avoid stories that touch later.just my opinion though. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jul 16, 2019 |
Vincent88:Ekun!!!!!! Ogbontarigi!! Kokoro gbe nkan mi shenu peem!!!!! Hahaha oya!! Gbefun 1 Like
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Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by JamiuKabir: 7:14pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
INTERESTING GUY. Trust my fellow Nigerians, we follow your previous posts here, to know about your precedent. If you agree with me, click like.... 8 Likes |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Derea(f): 7:55pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
OKOATA: Some women can't help it. I heard girls from a certain state are usually wayward. That they can bed anything at any point in time. Now the reason I responded to your comment is because I met someone of recent who ticks all the boxes that matter most to me except that he's from that state. I want to get married, he wants marriage too but I'm skeptical cos I don't want to have a daughter who can't control her urges cos it's who she is. I don't want to have a girl who would turn out a hoe cos whoring is in her DNA. I read a story on NL this morning about a foreigner who caught his wife in their bed with another man. He posted pic evidence. My point really is some women are oversexed and can't help it. The op's ex sister inlaw will cheat on her 2nd husband cos it's who she is. 1 Like |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Derea(f): 8:01pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
One thing I have learnt in life. A secret should remain so. 3 Likes |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by halima83: 8:25pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by OneManLegion(m): 11:19pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
Michelle55: Oh Michelle! What do you know? |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Michelle55: 11:41pm On Sep 22, 2019 |
OneManLegion:And why are you still awake? Please go to bed |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Mummy4life1: 5:21pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
rchilee:In which hospital please.... |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by nedekid: 12:04am On Jul 22, 2021 |
Abfinest007:Brothers will have same DNA profile. |
Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Dbrawllm0098(f): 6:52pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
Ask God for forgiveness then you open up for your brother so that you can be free indeed |
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