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tony4u035:his lyrics are better and his voice is wow..dats few reasons why he deserved the award..lil kesh appeals more to d street?yes he does but how many street pple will vote all they knw how to do is form fresh..u urself did u vote? |
malvisguy212:don't you know that wisdom came from sin..read the book of genesis abt the fall of man and why God blocked the garden..bt i dnt he means technology or anything of that sort because he himself used the early methods |
AreteWrites:he really did win d best biology student..it was in our school site then and i think he received an award from the v.c because of dat |
all dis nigerian ladies that go abroad to do liposuction only to come back and tell us that a few weeks squats gave them a nicki minaj shape una well done..anyway she looks good but i knw all dat fat in ur tummy cannot automatically move to the behind in six weeks with exercise |
Elosky20:dasuki even shares money in dollars |
princemi:happy birthday and i wish u God's blessings |
if linda and seyi were given 240 million jst to promote pdp,how much then was the inec chairman jega and how much did apc give him,how much were our royal fathers given from both parties,apc shld stop claiming holy because they too follow they share money if not a greater amount sef,dats how election is been done in dis country.btw there is no how linda would have been given 240million,na only she get blog wen bellanaija and nairaland still dey |
i thank God ihejirika or any southerner was nt the COAS wen it happened..wat happened is very wrong,whatever happened to all the human right group and even that silly amnesty international..everyone is quiet as if they do not knw that unarmed civilians were murdered,if the shittes take up arms in retaliation will u blame them?,its high time civilians shld stand together and speak against this trigger happy fellas tmrw it might be u or ur kids |
she is drop dead gorgeous and in my opinion the prettiest in the pix |
Pavore9:mine is orlu..i remember a song then that used to say "obodo niile e mepe go,o ka foro ndi orlu na okigwe,ndi orlu na okigwe a maara akwukwo"..i think its high time our generation moved to change that song |
Oma307:tanks dear |
Pavore9:thanks for the advice..i hope u will be around wen i start..i have been going thru ur threads and i think i can call u prof. pavore |
Pavore9:depends on how desperate dey want to sell..maybe they want to use it for burial or something,or if its close to a river..i know of someone who bought 5 plots at 350k..(sorry i do mix plots and acres i'm always forgetting which is bigger) |
pls wasamtech can u shade more light on how u are planting in your backyard? |
i'm an intending farmer from imo state,hoping to get some plots of land maybe in okigwe someday,i heard its quite cheap there and they soil is damn fertile,bt for now am still practicing and researching on "pomato"in my compound.. |
princemi:ask again perhaps she was in a hurry |
bennyrazz:d truth is i doubt if its a gift..even if it is it will be from an illegal business |
north is always dragging us backward..this is an avenue for them to exhibit even their traditional music and attract tourists,history has shown that during economic meltdowns lots of innovations are always been made and pple who persevere come out richer(e.g google),el rufai pls do not heed to their advice,they are nt as enlightened as u and may not see what u are seeing in the next four yrs that festival maybe the largest music festival in africa and pple will leave abuja and other parts of nigeria to go there and relax,our next fela can be from dere,dat was how calabar carnival started and pple were saying it is promoting nudity even those that watch porn and sleep with minors..Nigerians and hypocrisy smh |
i hope they are probing unn because of that 70,000 naira laptop fraud..please how many students buy 70k laptops wen jumia dey sell better lenovo and hp 45-60k,before u knw it they will give the contract to one chinko company,imprest their logo and it wont last up to 4yrs and i hope they wont probe dat cucumber gal..abeg that girl don suffer enough |
i thimk she is not interested "now"the best u can do is take her number,call her once on a while till she comes around and N.B it is not every girl that stares at u dat wants to have a relationship with u ,perhaps she jst thinks u are cute bt she got a serious boo |
i think she is not interested "now"the best u can do is take her number,call her once on a while till she comes around and N.B it is not every girl that stares at u dat wants to have a relationship with u ,perhaps she jst thinks u are cute bt she got a serious boo |
nigerians can lie oooo..i remember watching that movie where i think clem ohamaeze was the broda and his wife died,the brother who he trained dat later became a ritualist refused to assist her wen she was sick only for him to lavish on her burial..na so bloggers don turn am to *enugu based millionaire(name withheld)*i doff my hat for una |
proudlyebira:l'abijainise contains hydroquinone and other steroids hence it will worsen ur skin condition especially if u do not use a sunscreen..although i am nt an expert bt i once experienced d same tin..i used asantee soap or u can use k brothers and it dried off all the pimples in a week and lightened my marks then i did not use any soap or cream on my face for a month i only exfoliated with st ives apricot scrub three times a week then i apply vaseline radiant even skin tone and as for oil i use olive oil bt u can use any vit. c serum to make ur skin glow,u can also use retin a gel on ur face |
proudlyebira:l'abijainise contains hydroquinone and other steroids hence it will worsen ur skin condition especially if u do not use a sunscreen..although i am nt an expert bt i once experienced d same tin..i used asantee soap or u can use k brothers and it dried off all the pimples in a week and lightened my marks then i did not use any soap or cream on my face for a month i only exfoliated with st ives apricot scrub three times a week then i apply vaseline radiant even skin tone and as for oil i use olive oil bt u can use any vit. c serum to make ur skin glow |
this is the best article i have ever read on this issue BEST CAPTION: that you and i love biafra dosen't mean we hate nigeria,but we see nigeria as a mother and not as a sister,thank God i'm not the only one who love nigeria and its pple but dont mind been called a biafran,if someone this sensible was leading this movement lots of igbos will happily join instead of this one that is saying i should hate yorubas and hausas because of biafra mtchew..but nigeria has gone past the era of killing him in prison,what they will likely do is give him arab poison and set him free and he might die few days or weeks later |
this is the best article i have ever read on this issue but nigeria has gone past the era of killing him in prison,what they will likely do is give him arab poison and set him free and he might die few days or weeks later |
this is the best article i have ever read on this issue |
LMAyedun:old age |
I am making this point delicately; my concern is that we have too many Nigerian female role models who are busy trying to be like Amber Rose, Nicki Minaj, Rihanna, Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, Rita Ora, Miles Cyrus, Blac Chyna – if you know what I mean, all those foreign cultural icons whose lifestyles commodify women. Our own equivalents are all over social media: pretty girls who are perpetually showing cleavages, wearing body tights that accentuate curves, some even boast that they won’t wear bras andpants and that illicit sex is cool: that is how this self-denigration has grown all the way down, creating a sexual tension even among theuneducated wannabes. I am not victimizing thevictim, knowing fully well that there is that human rights border of freedom of choice andexpression; still, new cultural realities should command certain limits.Sugabelly may not get the sugar of contentment that she seeks, but let her be consoled that she has ignited a debate that may shed more light on the dilemma of rape, and/or sex with a minor (Penal Code or not), and the sad manner in which our society continues to produce children and adults who behave badly. Let us also hope that sooner or later, the sleeping Abubakar Audu will be allowed to lie, by his sons and the girl they allegedly raped. It is not Audu that is on trial, it is his sons: sons of big men who go overboard with their life of privilege, and of course, Sugabelly- the overtly impressionable young girl- who are all still alive to be called to account, if not in regular court, but now, in thecourt of public opinion source:www.bellanaija.com |
You probably don’t know Sugabelly. I don’t know her either. But it is the twitter handle of a Nigerian lady: @sugabelly, who in the wake of the death of former Governor Abubakar Audu of Kogi State felt the urge to go public with her story. My foregrounding her/story as opposed to his/story, is further affirmation of an earlier submission that Audu’s death is “inconclusive” (The Guardian, Nov 27).As the rest of Nigeria mourned the death of Abubakar Audu and pondered the implications of an inconclusive electoral process, Sugabelly showed up on social media and started celebrating his death. Her message was that the death of the man was good riddance to bad rubbish. “I feel so amazing”, she wrote. “Like God actually answered my prayers… That’s usually how it is. Powerful people rarely remember the people whose lives they destroy.” She alleged that Audu’s sons once gang-raped her- seven of them, when she was an impressionable 17-year old and that Governor Audu used his position as a big man to rubbish her, slammed her with a $2 million libel suit, denied her from getting justice, withhis lawyers insisting that “14 years” is the ageof consent under the Penal Code in the FCT, and so there is no case. For eight years, her life, she says, has been a nightmare including contemplations of suicide and spells of manic depression. Her frustration is well articulated in her twitter handle and an extended commentary titled “Surviving Mustapha Audu and His Rape Brigade”.I have heard people proclaim loudly that a traditional proverb says: “the witch cried last night and the child died in the morning” and they have been wondering whether there was some kind of extra-terrestial, meta-physical animus which led to Audu’s sudden death. Howbeit, Sugabelly’s allegation is that of rape.Her protestation made the rounds for a few days largely uncelebrated, but it caught fire last Friday. For days, rape was the subject of discussion on Nigerian twitter. Opinion was divided with some calling Sugabelly, “a LovePeddler” and a badly brought up child but soon, the weight tilted heavily in her favour as the reactions panned out to focus on the menace of rape and the devastating effect on persons, families, the victims and society.One of the sons of Abubakar Audu was soon fingered as the leader of the rape brigade by both Sugabelly and her staunchest supporter, @Echecrates. What happened subsequently is better experienced. A lady tweeting as Zahra – @oakleafbycg – jumped into the fray to defend him – hers was quite a spirited fight that lasted for hours, defending the integrityof her husband. She probably was defending herself too. Her father-in-law was so close to being Governor and he lost it, only for some twitter activists, and a sugabelly (what a name!, by the way) to start suggesting that her husband has a rape case to answer. She is agood woman, isn’t she? I monitored the conversations, and it is difficult to conclude that anyone was successfully convicted for there were persons who raised questions aboutsugabelly’s identity, her motives and whether she is not just a spoiler, playing a sponsored political game.The emergent consensus however focused on the menace of rape in our society. Some male commentators seeking to genderize the discussion also pointed out that they were onceraped too, but the pervasive impression was that young girls are more often the victims. I noted that there was very little talk about marital rape, which is ordinarily a major issue in the West, but which will be considered absurd by Africans. There were some suggestions about rapists being put to death inline with the still untested Violence Against Persons Act, but as is the case with twitter, 140-word interventions do not necessarily a honest thinker nor an intellectual make. It creates an illusion though, the illusion that someone whose reasoning is below 140 words is a mega-man of knowledge and insights.Nonetheless, the matter between sugabelly and the Audu sons deserves a little more probing. I am tempted to commend sugabelly for throwing up the subject, but the real problem with rape in our society lies in the inadequacy of both legal and social responses. Both the law and the society stigmatise rape, and wrong-foot the victim. The relevant sections of the law in Nigeria today more or less ridicule the victim, and usually, the victim is female. The biggest challenge for decades has been this manner in which the law humiliates the female victim: the procedure requires examination by a medical doctor and in open court, proving actual penetration up to the labia majora. That is a tough call for victims and families, and so, many cases end upunreported. Besides, the criminal justice system peopled by phallocentric officials is wont to dismiss any woman reporting rape: in Nigeria, it would be ridiculous indeed for a married woman or a girlfriend to report being raped by her husband or fiancée. From the policeman at the station to the presiding judge, if it gets to that stage, the case may die a natural death in the vortex of misogyny.Culture is a major barrier: the search for virgins at the bridal chamber by African families is a long dead custom, but few families can stand the stigma of taking as wife, a woman who has been raped, and whose indignity has been broadcast. Female victims are therefore reluctant to seek legal redress, first because of social stigma, and that is why there are very few convictions despite the regular incidence of rape. Any woman that is labeled a rape victim stands the risk of not getting a husband: families of prospective suitors will latch on to that evidence as if it a mark of leprosy, and urge their sons to steer clear, creating for the woman’s family an undeserved dilemma. Despite the wave of modernity in our land, tradition remains resilient and marriage, going to a man’s house, is still, quite sadly, considered a woman’s ultimate achievement.This is probably why, in due course, the accusedalso showed up in the conversation releasing e-mail exchanges between him and Sugabelly, and going as far as revealing her true identityand painting her as a “LovePeddler,” a liar and an opportunist. Parents, keep an eye on your sons and daughters! The family, the most important social unit, has a role to play. Both male and female children should be brought upto respect ethical values and the rights of other human beings to dignity. The inferiorization of the female gender often begins in the home, and there are too many cultural paradigms sustaining an objectionable model of parenting, which must change. Too many parents, too busy trying to make survival possible, have abdicated responsibility and it is society that is hurt as a result.The solution also lies in legal reform: the laws on rape must become more progressive and enlightened. The statutes have been in urgent need of review for long; they must provide the necessary deterrence and not ridicule the victim; even the Violence Against Persons Act (2015) does not fully correct the mischief in the Criminal and Penal Codes.There is also a trend now that must be addressed, namely the objectification of women for profit or other purposes. The most recent illustration I find is the battle being waged on twitter and instagram by @blossomnnodim, who has since changed to @blossomozurumba (good luck to the man who is responsible for this blossoming), as she takeson a TBWA power charger advert, which instead of promoting the subject focuses on a woman’s biological gifts. Blossom objects to this but she has since been accused of witch-hunting and idleness. Her critics miss the point. The objectification of women in popular culture erodes the dignity of women. But the worse of it all, is that women themselves promote this negative effect. Nigeria has been lucky in locking into global trends on all fronts, but in a global village, we have not beensuccessful in retaining local standards as a bulwark against negative, imperial cultural influences.Social media, for example, is dominated by images of sexual libertinism; even our young ladies who are now role models on the basis of concrete accomplishments help to foster this image. |
Samirana360:i wouldnt want to be part of a biafra founded on hate and violence,we will end up transferring that hate from hausa and yorubas to ourselves,take south sudan for an examp le..even after they have been declared an independent state they are still killing each other,coupled with this emperor idea he might end up being like mugabe and remember ndi igbo enweghi eze,many igbos will revolt and demand his removal overtime |
Samirana360:i wouldnt want to be part of a buafra founded on hate and violence,we will end up transferring that hate from hausa and yorubas to ourselves,take south sudan for an examp le..even after they have been declared an independent state they are still killing each other,coupled with this emperor idea he might end up being like mugabe and remember ndi igbo enweghi eze,many igbos will revolt and demand his removal overtime |
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Honestly, dis guy is ugly and how come he won the next rated award.. Headies, please explain! Am not a fan of Lil Kesh niether, but d streets recognises Lil Keshi's songs than Reekado's. Just saying, myopinion tho!
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We really need re-chart a new path to profitable agro ventures as l know the subsistence level we are currently operating on makes no economic sense applying innovative knowledge will make the difference.