Police should investigate more and arrest all accomplices, then gather them in one room and shot their balls on day 1, cut off their fingers on day 2 and finally Bath them with HCl acid
BlindAngel: Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.
This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,
she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.
But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.
I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.
I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.
AbokiWam: My Salary is a little above #100, 000 naira, My friends know I am working which brings enormous pressure on me, They think it is a high paying job because of the Corporate dressing and all.
I don't Know if it is the hardship from this era, but now 4 out of every phone calls someone receives is usually them asking you to lend them money. Currently self I am skeptical of answering phone calls. Work Colleagues also do not spare you in this regard.
My problem now is I am too soft hearted, Any small story and I am already heading to my bank app to do transfer for,
Beginning of June, money I lent to a total number of 7 different people was running into almost 60,000 naira. At the start of July, Only two people have paid me back (5000 & 4000)
Because of that I promised myself not to lend anyone money again from my salary, but Just this morning I got a call from someone I know , he was crying to me of his salary being delayed at work. He pleaded with me to lend him #10,000 which I obliged, Knowing fully well I wont get my money back (He has borrowed 8k from me before without paying back)
I think something is wrong with me, I can even go to loan app to borrow and gift a friend if I don't Have
Same borrowing habit almost ruined my Dad, it destroyed his friendship with a close pal, he borrowed his friend #800,000 back IN 2011 when money still had value, the friend refused paying and that crumbled his business for a while.
My Mom have warned me if I continue, I might experience same.
I really need to change... If every one should pay me money they have owed me, I would be able to buy honda baby boy This is a bad habit I need to stop.
Gbayii
Oga I was like you until I go broke and no one was able to lend me money, my friend that lend me money put 12% interest on top every month and that was when I knew that life is not fare
WarrenP: I’ll go straight to the point, she has been disturbing me to legalize our relationship since last year. I couldn’t take it anymore so I decided to let her know what I have I Mind.
I told her before I will wed her, we both need to have 10 million as reserve in an account for emergency. She brings 5m while I also bring Mine.
I do want a secured future for the both of us but she no dey reason with me. Always complaining age is not on her side.
She don vex leave my side since morning telling family and friends that i have been wasting her time.
I’m wondering if I did anything wrong
Baba ten million naira is nothing aswear But it depends on YOUR income
Puss360: I agree... Most states are too small and some are just too large.. no proper geographical survey... Niger state is bigger than South East states...... And Lagos is just too small as a state... Some state needs merging
My questions in creating new state are; Do we create new state based on land mass? Do we create new state based on population? Do we create new state based on IGR? Do we create new state based on man know man MKM?
Four bedroom bungalow design (architectural) Masters room 14 by 14 feet (should be in front so someone can see the compound gate from the masters room) Other rooms 13 by 12 feet with sizeable space for toilet and bathroom Features needed; 1 entrance porche 2 Ante-room 3 visitors toilet 4 Dining area 5 kitchen 6 store 7 kitchen verandah 8 lobby 9 study 10 laundry
Please include dimensions Land size in 50 by 100 feet
goodman023: It’s not uncommon to do everything right and still see your woman cheating on you with someone that doesn’t even do as much .
If you’re a man and you find yourself in such shoe, here are tips to salvage the situation and reclaim your woman’s love;
- talk to the guy she's cheating on you with. Beg him. Most times, it's the other guys that can't just let her be. Don't forget to tell him how much she mean to u
- check whether you've done anything wrong and tender ur apology to her.
- some women won't tell you what you did wrong, so they resort to cheating. Ask her what ur offence is tahr made her cheat. Fix things!
- u can also tell the guy she's cheating on you with that this is the girl u want to marry. Unless he lacks conscience, he'll definitely leave