GboyegaD:


Is that enough to deny her of her father? She is not been fair to the daughter. I understand her pains but she needs look past that for the sake of her daughter.

Which 'father'? The OP is a sperm donor and he no longer has any rights over that child. What he should be seeking is the 'privilege' to be a part of the child's life. After been absent for 7 years, he now wants to waltz back to continue from where he stopped. It has been less than a month and he is already talking about suing.

What was he expecting? That she'll spread her wrapper on the floor for him and wave a banner with "WELCOME BACK" boldy written on it?

His line of thought has given an insight into his character; that he is a selfish, self centered and self entitled individual.

KingEbukasBlog:





My dearrr Ishiloveee

How are you doing ?

Long time no seeeeee

Where have you been? 😀

uchesa:
It's been a while.

How is it going?

nairagenone:

Seems you love to live in denial.

Congratulations to the OP, but be aware she is married to a widower who is 20 years older than her.

OP is getting married to her 3rd husband (who is 20 years older and a widower) and all you can come up with is a way to somehow make it feel like our choices in life do not matter ?

If the OP had her way, would she be marrying a widower who is 20 years older than her ?

I am putting this here to provide guidance to younger ladies out there who might get the impression that our choices do not matter in life cos thats the message your write up is conveying...

Guy, carry your negativity out of here biko. You don't know her story so it is easy to be capping sanctimonious crap all over the place. If you cannot congratulate her then shut the fck up and fück off forever

KingEbukasBlog:

See who popped up after a century

dominique:
Why going around with that much cash when you're in an economy that is mostly cashless? Oga you're a shady fellow, blame yourself for your visa refusal not the government.

He thinks he is talking to illiterates

So where is all the money going to and why is Nigeria broke if this is the revenue generated from just one sector of the economy?

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oyaskii:
Yt people law is something else, she was only registered as a sex offender when she did it a second time, worst of all, you only got 3 months jail time, the first time around...crazy still, she was actually married" whilst chasing and abusing the young man...a really really crazy story.

I just hope spam bot doesn't nab me but check the link below

https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/mary-kay-letourneau-may-december-true-story-1234918355/

What a shameless pervert. Disgusting!

oyaskii:
lol the fans no well 😄.

Tbh The movie was just there imo, and the only notable performance were from the female leads, even the performances aren't even award "worthy".

Even the events the movie is loosely based on is even more intriguing and is one of my fave true crime docu. So get this, A 34 year old teacher falls for her 12 year pupil, she was caught with him in a car whilst they were "frolicking" 🙃, she was arrested and charged with child and se%ual abuse, as she was awaiting sentencing she found out she was pregnant, cuz apparently our Young chap is a "sharp shooter" and can even score under duress 😂. So our "TILF" serve time with the pregnancy, was giving a restraining order not to come within 10 feet of our Young Chap. After doing her Jail time, with a baby, and a restraining order, the First thing our "TILF" did was to track down our Young Chap, this time, he was older a bit older, and twice the striker he was before. TILF said "i got to get me this young D" again" 😀, so he conered young chap again for another around of "frolicking", and she was caught again, and since our young chap was still underaged, she was charged with the same crime from before but this time with stiffer penalty, she was sentenced to about 7 years in Jail, and when our "TILF" stepped into jail, and this is the kicker, she found out that she was pregnant again!😄... because apparently our Young Chap was deadlier than prime Ronaldo and Messi put together and only needed one chance to score with a conversion rate of 100% 😂😂.

A truly truly crazy story and i wished they adapted this instead.


Well all these SAG or blah blah awards that prelude the Oscars is what i tagged as the "unserious" awards, and don't really pay attention to them. I think Saltburn wasn't pushed well enough so it chances might be slim but Anatomy of a Fall will be right up there at the Oscars, and i wouldn't be surprised if the lead get best actress, an absolute gem of a performance and absolute gem of a movie!

That woman is pedophile and should be a registered sex offender. Do you have a source link?

The real Slay Queens

abduleez1:


It's basically about a star actress gearing up for a role of portraying a real life couple. So she had to do interviews and interact with the family for a while, there's also an undertone of exploitation.

The couple were very popular and on the news several years back because the woman was an older woman in her mid 30's involved in a sexual relationship with a teenage boy (13-14 I think). Na cheat she cheat on her partner with the boy sef.
'twas a serious topic in the town and she got jailed. Got pregnant in jail, gave birth and still she and the boy MARRIED when she got out and raised their kids together.

It's a slow burn tho.
And fans of the film are mad cos it was totally ignored by the Screen Actors Guild (SAG) Awards.

The subject matter is very touchy and is straddled in a morally grey area.

GloriousGbola:


and the biy grew up to be President of France

Kaycee7:
Has one really lived if one has not savoured the heaven that is well-pounded fufu with egusi or oha soup?

My dear, one has not lived at all if one has not savoured that carb ridden, starchy and delicious culinary delicacy.

We must choose our poison: ageless, youthful looks like those of Tom Cruise, or happy jowls, sags and flabs

Kaycee7:
This man is 60 years old. What is his secret? Cannot just be giving up alcohol and carbs

E no dey chop fufu

abduleez1:
Can't be mad about this at all...
A snub I understand. 😏😏

What's the movie about?

dominique:


Indirectly slut shaming the dead like we won't notice. Did it ever occur to you that she got the low figures because didn't sleep with different people?

Very disgusting individual. I wanted to say many things but I changed my mind because words are wasted on lowlives like him

Conner44:
Bank marketing work no be work at all. Only heaven knows how many people she must have slept with and yet her number one reason for taking her life was that her figures weren't adding up

So sad

Even in death you still find a way to bring sex into this to denigrate her womanhood. You are a piece of work

Danielomisco:
"my figures are low" marketing job damnnn...very depressing work , suicide is not an option tho.sorry dear rip.

The pressure of marketing job is insane

See how insecurity and wickedness is wounding the OP

2.

Flat shoes and her posture

pocohantas:


I know right.



They start an agenda and run with it.

If it can give them small joy then they should continue with it because it will be a cold day in hell the day I give a rat's unkempt ass about what they think about me. What they eat don't make me shít 🤷‍♀️

pocohantas:


I would never understand why they add this nonsense. And it is always the hateful ones having a few they regard. More like divide and conquer technique.

Ishi is flattered by a troll's regard.

That crap can only work on those who don't know their modus operandi, Poco 😁

reddingtonblack:




Its always easy to claim victim, ishi you were once a mod on NL and there is a reason you were discharged, however you are one of the very few babes i regard here maybe cos i can easily read into your plain-ness no game

Toxicity is everywhere, offline or Online in as much as you interract with people "hurt" is imminent, Men are not showing love, Women nko

Somebody tun ile se somebody da ile ru in these case who is even tunin ilé se .. don't point finger cos four might just be pointing back at you happy prosperous new year

Jornwhite sends his regards

Jornwhite can shove his greetings up his ass.

Fyi, I wasn't 'discharged' as you trouble makers like to console yourselves by believing, but if that makes y'all sleep better at night, then by all means, keep believing it

GloriousGbola:


Nairaland is toxic. I say this as a person who has been here on and off since 2006. We have had battle of the sexes and in the end it was mostly banter. What do women bring to the table vs it is men's responsiblilty to provide vs women are not true feminists.

We could accuse each other of hypocrisy or double standards and occasionally there would be a big gotcha and a poster would be thoroughly embarrassed. But there was no hatred.

Now we have a bunch of kids who have taking western incel culture, African patriarchy, lower class transactional relationships, male chauviinism and turned it all into one big mess of mysognist hatred.

It is a very big problem as I am not sure a lot of these boys can maintain offline relationships with anything other than the most weak willed and accommodating of women.

This was in an era when social media was not as paradoxical as it is now.

joseph1832:
You tracked somebody offline? OmG. Here I was thinking you ain't cut out for that sh1t. Dude must have really overstepped his boundaries. Lol.

Oh, I have my ways...

Lmao!!

Smh

cococandy:


You guys are really onto them

We know them well. Hopeless bunch

Purvan:




Nairaland is not even toxic


Wait till you visit forums like Kiwi or 8kun

I think I will just stick to Nairaland. The last thing I need is more negativity

pocohantas:


E fit be am o. E fit be!
But normally they share same characteristics.

Pathetic. It is on this forum that they can pretend their lives have some semblance of worth and meaning.

naptu2:


God, I remember those people! I went after some of those people!

They've finally brought the campaign back to Nairaland. The decision to deal with misogynists has got them panicking. They've been running a campaign on Twitter (since last month) to try and change the admin's mind.

You have always handled them with the kind of maturity that leaves them frustrated and foaming at the mouth. Me, I don't have the patience and inclination. Since they want to be unfortunate, we will all be mad together. Nigeria is stressful enough as it is and my one little escape should not be made uncomfortable by some badly brought up, hopeless bastids