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megamank:
somebody please tell this guy to go and get married please.......he is getting old .....34years with so much fame and money nor be beans o......happy birthday to the dorobici don Jazzy

actually, it's HARD for his likes to someone who would love him without MONEY being the major reason for accepting his proposal. Not that he doesn't want to get married. The problem is would the said girl be genuine? U don't know what it feels like to have some money, honestly!

berryice:
I do sometimes

lol... saw your facebook reply

nkemma54:
lol, true talk.
reminds me of the girl i dated in sch of tech. she said she wanted a nice guy wu was dynamic, dats me, but she still cheated on me with my best friend, course mates, guys in her hostel, hostel environment...........abeg d list long

ahan. Now you see am?

berryice:
yea

okay... Orieno

steppin:
Lol. They're not stingy, they're just broke.

if u see what one did to a girl when I served. The girl na Igbo.

[ [b][/b][b][/b] :Pquote author=prettyAdaolisa post=51378229]I will love to date a Yoruba guy tho...so I can come up with my own list... [/quote]Yoruba guys are the most stingy. They are smooth talkers and stingy. Except few.

berryice:
yea

so you see and you a deltan. But it seems you no longer use that account.

berryice:
aii

you are based in warri, aren't you?

berryice:
don't tink u knw me

oh... watch your picture and name come on here soon.

UniQuegrACE:
,that z how we were wired i guess,most do not know what exactly they want.... ''illogical beings'' true to some extent,understanding a lady is actually very difficult cos it very possible she doesnt even understand herself too

ahan...thank you for admitting.

berryice:
rilly?whats your fb name

lol. Huh? Why didn't you ask me to tell your own name? Okay, I will tell you and everyone here will see it. How about that?

berryice:
Lol...I detest dem so much that's y d name STINGY is for dem,dey re so wicked

lol. I know you. You are my friend on facebook. but our last chat was back in 2011/2012

Masikay:
Nah... You guys aren't getting the point.
I'm sure the op didn't mean pay her and her sibling's school fees and buy her full family I phone 6.
Just.. Show some care Yu know? Like... Surprise her with a new dress one day. Her hair do is really old? Give her some cash to do her hair. She comes to see you? Drop her off. You don't have a car? Put her inside a taxi. Baby her. Yu no?
Its not like you being her maga or anything. You're just... Loving her. And nothing stops a girl from giving a guy cash when he's in need. Except most guys ego would be bruised so they wouldn't accept it. They would even get angry because the girl thought to "offer" (From experience).Spoil ur babe a little. Dats all.

I get your point and I am sure most guys against her post are not stingy. The OP should have at least be more detailed. I for one do give BUT a case where the person who make demand has NEVER given me one kobo, I will not honor. I had to block an idiot yesterday for demanding money from me. She has never given me anything since I knew her. NOT even boxers and that is one of the reason I never took her serious. But I noticed that the demand is becoming more than I can actually allow anymore and so, i blocked her on facebook after and unfriended her after giving her a piece of my mind.

Another issue is that the OP didn't mean as you have stated it here. Read the undertone of her message to get a through picture. The reason she is agreeing to your post is because of the attacks coming at her and so she is looking for a safe haven.

princeemmma:
and y shud you bring your sorrows and problem to your boyfriend, did not God told you to bring your problem to him, by the way dont you have your parents to cater for you. abeg stop bringing up wrong thing here oooo

Her parents are the crop of parents who tell their female daughters "don't you have a boyfriend" when she ask them for money just to run away from their responsibilities. My female daughters will always get anything from me no matter their age until they are married.

JLopez:
my own love, time , affection and maybe money too.. How about that?

You are not worth it. I detest ladies who offer NOTHING but sex. When you learn that men and not boys, can't be moved by sex, you will adjust. I for one do not EVER bond with a woman via sex. If you make demands too much and you have NEVER given me anything as much as you demand, you will only be used and dumped. Girl, get you brains out... beauty does not pay bills.

nkemma54:
something about the way she said it felt familiar (the good kind of deja vu).

You do not get my point bro. Most of them say they want a 'caring' guy but they are often wired to prefer the opposite. If most of them, at least over 70%, act like your girlfriend who cherish a guy like you, we wouldn't be having "nice" guy turning into "bad" guy, would we? Especially those who are in their 18-24 years of age.

passionate88:
boko haram

UniQuegrACE:
i guess thats how they feel about it....

And tomorrow, they will be looking for "caring" man? This is why most guys say ladies have fish brain. Most of the things ladies do does not make sense to us and it is why they are also termed illogical beings cos they act very abnormal. So you see?

Viktor1983:
I've bought them for someone I dated in school , even used to know and count her cycle better than her..
It's not a weird thing to do..

Thanks man.

Filashade:
Awwww I can see you are one of those rare Mature guys that knows how to treat a lady.

Any girl that think its weird that a guy buys Pad for her is very stupid and naive and has not grown yet.

Keep it up bro, you have a good heart and you do not just think of yourself. Well done

Please other guys, learn from this Bobo here, he knows the real deal.

A guy doesnt have to buy a car or Ferari for him to win our hearts, you just need to show us you care with things like the above. If the girl ur dating wants a car or expensive gift, you are with the wrong girl.

Why do I find it hard to believe you actually mean your words and would appreciate a guy like him?

nkemma54:
lol, respect bro. the moment i found her, i knew she was the REAL thing i've been looking for. it was a rough start, but nw bro, if i no hold am coz i dey vex, na she go hold me

You are lucky bro. No break up with that babe I tell you since you like her and she like you back. If you leave her, just jejely change your name to "mumu" "wussy" "sizzy" "weakling" before them give you so you go know say na u give yourself.

nkemma54:
u clearly dnt knw a husband material even if he slaps u in d face .
dats d extent of d love he's gt. i do dat 4 my gal. she sucks with counting her period, so i keep track of it 4 her and prepare her once its close. one of the things i do is getting the 'very hard to find wingless pad' she uses, nd making sure she dnt take too much sweet stuff (she's gt heavy, painful flow).

back to op. if the guy nd gal knw d relationship is serious, its just cute and caring of d guy to do that.

QueenSuccubus, i meant no disrespect. i guess nt all girls r d same. but my bae loves d clingy nd caring me so much she keeps sending photos like this....(dnt ask y she sent dat particular 1)

Oh oh oh oh... bro, you are forking lucky. Your babe is rare kind. Majority of the girls will call you a guy like you a wuzzy, sissy and you can see the person you quoted. She will label you a weakling for being too "nice"

I am your very kind of guy, the one that dots his lady and care about her but cos of the society we live in, I am always careful about revealing the real me cos they hardly appreciate it.

Hold that babe well bro cos If u break up with her, it's gonna HARD being you around most Nigerian girls. Yet, they say they want caring guy. Just look at the dumbo you quoted. Imagine doing all these things u mentioned for her. My brother, she wouldn't waste time to store your name with "mumu" or "weakling" and dump you for being "nice"

Splinz:
Why da heck will a man buy sanitary pad in whatever guise? Abi him anus don dey leak

lol. Anyway, tell us what you would buy.

UniQuegrACE:
good move

did you see your sister above acting like it's a taboo?

kevoh:
It is a good move. It is even a positive sign for those of you that have sex without protection, those deceiving themselves about withdrawal method and most importantly those couples not yet ready to father a child that conception did not take place in the previous cycle. When ovulation takes place and the egg isn't fertilized, the lining of the womb that has been forming will shed through the vagina. This is what comes out as menstruation. It is a natural process that only women experience. Love is not only having sex. You as a man are expected to be there for the woman you love in every situation!

People should be mature enough before entering relationships.Mature men irrespective of their age will not ask the type of question the OP asked.

Thanks that you agree it's a good gesture. I not something that is common in this part of the world, hence my reason for asking, like presenting flower to a Nigerian girl.

Hence my curiosity.

Vikkie14:
HOW DO YOU VIEW A GUY THAT BUYS DOES THIS? Tell me, does this make sense to you as well?
Oh! "it's not my mother tongue" will be the usual 'unintelligent excuse' for defense.
You'd better tell your parents to withdraw you from that school you are attending before that English teacher of yours do more harm than good.

Okay. In case you do not know, the average Chinese can hardly speak good English compare to you Mr English professor but I am sure your country is no where near China in every sense of the word. There 1Million Chinese that can feed you till you die without feeling the heat.

Nigeria is more religious than South Korea, whose dominant population are atheists, but South Korea is way ahead

I just had to give you something to ponder on when next you try this nonsense you have written up there in a rude manner.

Tiffbuxas:
is there anything wrong in dat 2? Nigerian girl and their wahalad man no buy anything u say e no care e buy u pad Wen ur period don near 2....na still case ....lawd epp us guys oo

wagbayi... funny

https://www.nairaland.com/3485007/god-save-girls-pad-now

Go through the link above bro. That thing is now sold for 500 per one and she is acting like getting her a full pack is a taboo.

I just want to know how ladies or people generally view such gesture generally.

Na wa o.

QueenSuccubus:
My point is... Why will he buy a sanitary pad?

it's a question ask out of curiosity.


Have you seen this?
https://www.nairaland.com/3485007/god-save-girls-pad-now

And you dey like say na shiit?

The way you are reacting make me laugh like it's a taboo.

Okay, you don't like the idea. good.

QueenSuccubus:



Of all things he can grab from the shop, why he chose to buy a sanitary pad?

i said among other things. Did you read that part? Okay... buying somethings and adding sanitary pad to it. Clear now?

Imagine your boyfriend or potential boyfriend buys a complete pack of sanitary pad among other little things, how would you view him?

Good move or bad move?

superbouck:
I woo a lady last year but she said no, since then she is someone I can call my best friend. I came across this thread last week and I can say the drills are actually working. what can I do to make this lady to be my own. anytime I m around we walk, talk even read togeda. pls what can I do

you have been friendzoned

HARDDON:
Glad u finally woke up from ur hibernation mode...


We got two Books..... But they r Quite Pricey if you aint registered with us nor taken any course with us.....

Yea, there goes my zero marketing skills again.

We r currently working on a concised companion.

It should be out first quater next year.

Rich Regards
Don

pricey? Bro name your price. Let's hear it and we will determine if it is pricey or not.