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Greatzeus:
Guilders outrageous bonuses is causing imbalances in the system. It is either the bonuses are reduced or scrabed completely. Let there be bonuses for only direct down lines. Or else even if MMM comes back,what happened this December will still repeat itself.
This mavro freezing really messed up my plan this December, thank God I had plan B. I have added Lg home theater and 32" led TV to my cart on Jumia,just waiting for December 27th to order,with my MMM payout of course ,but now I have to wait till January to GH,All izz well

My brother, i admire you people's courage with this thing, but if you have to depend on something like this before you can buy 32 inches TV, after 30 days it means you are no different from anyone who holds on to job where he can be sacked at anytime-- you are not in control.

I was able to get 5 persons to pay me 25k each yesterday after making a post on facebook. Zero invested . That's control!!!

Noblesoul123:
That's why we shouldn't attribute all challenges we face to spiritual attacks. GOD may be shielding us from disasters without our knowledge

And the ones that died God didn't shield them? Thing is, in a situation like this, there should be no celebration whatsoever by anyone alive.

Hello,

Please I need free screen recorder for creating tutorials. I will like to create some vidoes and I need one software that can easily help me do that with cam and audio to record the screen as I teach.

Can anyone help?

9jaBloke:
I don't think there's anything left for me to see as far as this subject goes. In every profession, there are Rookies and there are Retired Generals. Take my advice and resist the lure of this one padner.
" Karma offers no menu...you get served what you deserve."

I am not one, but I have seen enough. Karma hasn't caught up with your Nigerian Thiefing politicians,why?

9jaBloke:
It transcends wisdom/stupidity.

May be when you see one with 4 house, hotel and movement of his siblings to US, you will understand that some are really business minded and know what's up. Dude is a snake!

9jaBloke:
...& lose it just as fast.
#easy come; easy go

you think all of them are stupid?

wroskian:
Hmmm...okay. I will allow this to pass because you obviously take me as one of your fellow trolls who have nothing to offer than use the F-words in every discussion.

My advice: Kindly train your warped mind to comprehend simple texts so as to know the side of an argument to take before quoting people. Though this would only be possible if your cerebral cortex hasn't been irreparably damaged which I strongly doubt.

Finally, if you still have an iota of intelligence left from your past life, you will know it'll be counter-productive to quote me again as I don't have the luxury of time to trade words with people on a faceless forum. But, I know you would prove otherwise & I'm sorry you can't have my attention again because I don't roll with unintelligent folks.

Once again, have a nice day.

Fork off dude. Wonder what you feel like from whatever device you are using to communicate. You can try those who give a fork about verbosity in your neighbourhood as you seem to feel queens English is a yardstick for measuring intelligence. Dude, you are nothing a but a paper tiger like the average Nigerian graduates churned out every year but can perform less than 18 year Chinese kid who can hardly string words in English properly.

FORK OFF I SAY AGAIN!

wroskian:
And where in my post did I advocate all what you listed?

Our opinions are clearly different and you don't have to quote me before making yours known. Have a nice day.

Fork off

johnstar:
I stil no dey understand y d bride nd groom go dey happy for der wedding day

Shebi dm don pansh since b4 d wedding

bride even get belle lol.

coolh3ad:
withdraw??..Really??...How about Pre-cum wey dey "powerful" than cum sef

it depends on your mood and libido.

He knew he was gonna have sex with her, he should have had plans before now.

wroskian:
Mr. Realistica23, sorry o... at the risk of sounding harsh, I would say you are suffering from "Brain relocation syndrome." It's a condition which compels the sufferer to reason with the genitals instead of the brain.

So it is now you know she has character flaws and not a wife material?

Thank God her mother isn't running after you with juju. If your sister or daughter had to be in Jenny's shoes, what would you have done? You better man up & go take responsibility for that pregnancy now.
Congratulations on the arrival of your twin boys in advance.

buahahahahahaah.. wikid. They know postinor is there if condom no gree. I don't even know how some guys reason when their hot, He had 3 options...

1. condom

2. postinor

3. Withdraw

But he chose non of the above. SMH

DaySpringer:
I don't know why you're projecting onto the guy.

You know what he meant by cheerful giver. A girl that bangs different guys and is not exclusive to anyone.

This thread is not meant to groom guys who want to get married but to make sure guys do not make mistakes anymore with girls and not waste their resources on girls that are not worthwhile. The girl we're talking about here is not a Wifey material and she is not a Girlfriend material either, you want him to waste his time thinking she is either? The girl forks around, he wants to fork her. Forget your STD talk.

Sure, men are the only ones who go around forking around.

Going by what you wrote above then this entire thread is wrong! Because Harddon is teaching guys how to get down with girls they want to get down with too. He isn't teaching guys to get that with one girl alone, that choice is up to the guys as long as they don't go for cheap girls, prostitutes or Runs Girls. They guy whose thread we're on stated that he once slept with 5 girls in a day. If that is not forking around then i don't know what is.

Okay bro. Your life, your choice. Thanks.

DaySpringer:
Before you start getting angry anyhow, did you read this part of his message?

Bro, leave that guy. We know his type. Forget what he says. He has no plan whatsoever for any girl. These ones sees every girls as fork tool. Is that what you would wish your own younger brother to be doing with his life ? Okay, she is a cheerful giver on code abi? Cheerful giver of AIDS, STAPH, GONO...

STOP justifying what is wrong, please. This is how you groom guys till they get married and CANT stick to their wife because their eyes is always outside chasing anything in skirts. You read about how men go out forking ladies up and down and then come back home to destroy their own family with AIDS.

Just so you know, that shiit you wrote up there clearly states that you are in support of men forking around.

liljboy:
chinekkkkkkeehhhhhh lwkmd am just looking @my phone like this:

The guy dey make me vex. We need to learn how to respect ladies, irrespective of what they do. Most the crimes they even commit against us is often due to influence of friends as bad advise. That does not mean we assume of all of them are bad and therefore, we should set out on annihilating them anyone.

He guy does not know what he is playing with until he misses a girl who is different like I once did because I assumed she is just like every other girl that has nothing to offer.

frankmoney:
HARDDON there is this girl I met .. I have been asking her out for a while .. I know that's a wrong move .. But that was before I met this beautiful thread .. Lol .. OK o actually thought she is a gf material .... But later found out she's a cheerful giver on code .. I wonna know how possible is it to straff this chick .. And the method I should use to approach the girl and get what I want because I av made a mistake of asking her out ... So baba what steps should I take . help a brother

You again. It seems you do not know the purpose of this thread. It is for those with good intentions for the ladies and not some fork and dump shiit you are seeking. Go pay at brothel and have your diick massaged properly.

Harddon has said it many times that his teachings is not for messing up ladies, don't you get it? Imagine it is your sister someone is plotting this ploys of yours for. The other day, you wanted to fork someone's girlfriend, here you are today with another demand. You think this is some circus where perverts are groomed?

Get your head out of your shoulder

frankmoney:
guys help

but if someone smash your own girl and you find out, you will say she is a bittch, a hoe right? Why don't you let the lady be?

lammy197:
recently

don't ask her out again. Play along. Be nice, be fun to be with.

lankykid:
but I already have regrets bro... I should have waited... I know wat I've lost.. how did u know my age

So u don't know how nairaland works? I don't wanna let that out bro since you do not want people to know.

Here is there thing. You can make back 10000000 fold of what you gave her financially. The best form of revenge is success.

You do not want to know my story. The worse that I even did for the bastard was allowing her to visit me on her request o. My brother, despite no food in the house cos I had just lost mumsy then, I hustled 10k to invite her, and that 10k was spent on her while I didn't get anything. There was no food in the house o. I lodged her but still she went and invite another guy to where I was ( no fear) she first sent me to get her pie and coke (intentionally) chai... that girl use me die. So as to discharge me when the guy would come in. They were at the bar when I returned. Well, I saw them and just acted like I didn't see anything. Got to the room and forgot to buy coke. So I came back down stairs to get the pie and she was nowhere to be found. The guy left with her. I was worried if anything happened, na my head. I started calling this girl (mind u this was last stunt she played that made me end the whole thing, though it was tough) she finally came back 2 hours later.

And told me not to touch her. Me wey be mumu that time sef no touch her.

But today, I can burn that that 10k I spent back then without blinking. As I type now, I know how much will hit my account in the next few hours.

Last week monday, I spent 50k within 1 hour on myself.

You will always make back that money, it is a man's world bro. so never feel too bad about it.

Today, she has lost everything... she is so desperate and even wooed me, begged me and what hasn't she done? Yours is good. You deflowered her. In my case, despite everything, I didn't see he pant. Little wonder she wants me back. I dealt with her psychologically though, such that she felt I would harm her. She wasn't far from the truth. I could have done it except for the grace of God.

Today, she would jump at me if I agree to her request but I do not want to make her life more miserable than it already is. That is life bro.

lammy197:
i get dis gal we've known each other for like 4years actually ave been friendzoned but i tried to get outta it cos i kissed her once she was into the kiss but now i con tell her say i wan date her but she said since all this years bus don full

When did you kiss her? Recently or 1-2 years ago? Don't ask her out again... it makes them form defense. Just play along.

lankykid:
I'm really young too. I don't wanna disclose my age thou

i know your age already bro. At your age, I wasn't really into dating. But it is good you started young. This will give you ample time to explore and learn really.

AstuteJay:
That's women for you!

When I got married, my father in-law sat me down and advised me like his own son never to trust a woman. I dismissed his words thinking we were in the 21st century and women deserves all the trust.

Mhen! I learnt the hard way, the thing wey my eyes see, my mouth no fit talk am.

@lankykid, for your age, it is perfectly normal to experience this kind of shiit from your babe. Someone on your previous thread stated that she has outgrown your age. And that is true. Ladies prefer dating guys far older than them. She is already probably falling for a 25 year old. My ex who lost her own to a much older guy in his 30s and I pretty young then, as in really young

dacblogger:
I ve always being very nice and kind to almost everyone. Am the kind of person that can starve just to see a stranger eat,i can give out my last card just to put a smile on som1's face...
When it comes to relationships,i am always very faithful and loyal to my bf buh yet i still get cheated on and abused..
I have always being very prayerful,i stay away from pples marriage the best i can(i dnt mingle with married men even when am tempted to) ... I am the nicest person you can come across but yet i still dnt get 2 be treated right,i practically dnt get anything i want.
So it got me thinking ,What is the use of been good when you dnt gain anything from it Is it that the good lord who i so much believe and trust in does not acknowledge my been good?
I have come to the conclusion that good things happen to bad pple and the good ones are practically left out to suffer and fend for themselves.
I might be wrong tho,so i want 2 know if am right or just being delusional.

There is nothing wrong in being good but what you do not understand is that not everybody deserve to be treated good. What if they want to be treated badly and you are offering them good? ever thought about that?

I have come across ladies, a whole lot of them actually, who do not appreciate a nice guy but one who treat them like trash. This thing happens like food/meals. If they want garri, even if you offer them pounded yam, they wont appreciate it.

That is the way I see it young lady.

lankykid:
I think I'll just stay off relationship for now... something interesting happened today. I gat calls from almost all my female friends today. the calls just kept on coming. . it was amazing

Good, use it to your advantage. Start flirting with other girls and enjoy your life, fork as much as you can and before a month, you will forget this current girl ever existed.

lankykid:
I posted this hours ago, and I was asked by someone to post her too. pls guys, what ya say

Look, ladies are illogical beings, never try to be logical when dealing with them, you lose the battle. When they are being logical, you should be illogical.

The thing is that when a girl loses her virginity, they often have the cravings to explore more dicks, there is this voice inside them that keep saying "what will it look like to fork this other guy" That is the process that your girlfriend is currently other going--she wants to explore and if you try to tie her down, you will get hurt the more.

A clear sign is displayed already in the way she told you there are guys out there. When such happens, my brother, just let her be. When such happening in her head, she will not rest until she test it. She will not rest until she has forked as many dicks as possible because right now, her curiosity is having a better part of her.

One of my friend told me some month back that his girlfriend, whom he had little misunderstanding with, had forked another guy. Why? because she has been nursing the idea and I think she even mentioned it to him before it happened. The funniest thing is that she did it and came back to tell him. My ex did same and came back to tell me and still went back to the guy who forked her to continue the forking. That one own still surprised me because after over 4 years, she keep asking why I can't forgive her. FORGIVE? can you imagine? She has done everything doable, wooed me, begged me and so on... but I am someone who does give a trust back ones you abuse it.

So my brother, to be on the safer side, let her go. If possible fork her once more and fork her real good before you let her go. Hope u sabi suck her pussy well? if not, do it, just leave memorable image that will clinch to her. Yours is even good, you forked her after spending. My own, I no smell anything. So who has much worse case here? But you see, they always come back to their senses after they have forking so many dicks.


The rule among us is that NEVER take them back. Good luck!
Bro,

Filashade:
I know its hard to believe me because most girls are like that these days. I think its because I dont really have a lot of friends so maybe thats
why am like this and plus I have brothers at home so I know how men behave all the time am the only girl child at home and I like attention a lot ( )

I love it when a man is bold enough to tell his girl he loves her, I like roses, chocolates, walk in the park, eating at Nigerian restaurants and just cuddling with my man indoors or playing around round the house.

All these girls who dont like that have not fell in love yet. If my man doesn't like to cuddle I get pretty upset quite quickly or if he doesnt compliment me every now and then or if he doesnt say I love you every now and then I dont say anything to him and I do my own too.

Men are complaining that women dont like these things but generally that is not the case. The two guys I have dated before my current relationship found it hard to say "I love you" and even to cuddle sef na big wahala. I put up with it because I wanted to see where it was leading and I wanted to tell myself in then end that at least I tried and they were not worth it.

Men also take nice ladies for granted. It goes both ways. In my case, the men do it more.

I love a man who shows his woman he cares not by buying her expensive things but by doing small things like texting her good morning without waiting for her to text first, I for one find that very childish and annoying if you can go a whole day without messaging your girl or even calling her. You cant be too busy to text your girl before leaving the house or first thing when you wake up in the morning. She wants to know you care and you are thinking of her when she is not around you and vice versa.

I feel sad that I dont see beautiful things like these in my era. All eryone wants to do is chat on FB, IG, Twitter and whatsapp and no face to face communication or better still they are on Xbox/PS4 playing Fifa/GTA.

I dont know maybe I am asking for too much from men and men are not made that way.

I am not even certain about my current relationship as I have just experienced and seen too many things expecially with Nigerian Men and Black men in general.

I just kept smiling as I read your post. It is really really amazing to find you here. WOW! Only girl and not having much female friends.. gotcha! been wondering why you are different from the packs of ladies out there, who do not value what guys who dot them so much. Now I know better.

As for the guys who do not say "I love you" do not blame them because it is what ladies have turned most of us into. They act that way cause of fear of being called a weakling. Actually, I used to be someone who love using those words until I became so heartbroken into pieces and started realising that many guys have experience same thing--be nice to a Nigerian girl and get dumped, called a wussy, sissy.

I had an experience during NYSC such that a guy treated a fellow corper so bad that you would think she would appreciate a Mr Lover boy who would give her the most needed attention and so I offered to we started something after NYSC (though something she said made me open up to her as I had always liked her). She turned me down and I could sense she would even prefer to marry that guy who treated her that way... while we were at the park, this guy was even collecting money to pay for her luggage from a girl he would be seeing for the last time and who spent the night in his room. After he left, I counted that money and gave her back. She no even reason me till today. The last that really made me angery was few months back when she replied with "k" after I told her I was thinking about her and that was why I called the previous day. I really went haywire on her azz and completely deleted her number from my phone and pictures. She also MUST never make the mistake of calling my line ever because she will really regret it that day.

This is a girl I often took pictures of without her knowing and even video some of her garden works. I didn't show her until this year. She was amazed... and happy. Not curse, but on a more serious note, she will likely have marriage filled with complaints. It is already evident in the way she make choices of men she dates, or how do you explain a homely pretty lady not being married up till now despite her age and to think she dated a guy who is even 5 years younger than her, treated her like crap? She isn't wired to like a guy who give her such attentions as ones you have mentioned but prefers the cold hard treatment kind of guy like those ones who will be sleeping around with other girls and even showing to her face while she would take it that way. Sadly, over 70% of Nigerian girls are like this girl and that is why we men have stopped showing too much attention. I still have that part of me though, but I am very careful how I reveal it.

It may sound like we dislike Nigerian girls but the truth is that it is what they want, really. Forget what they say... actually, they do not want you being nice and caring. Most Nigerian guys have experienced what I am sharing with you that is why they hardly say "I love you" or show affection. Most have been programmed to never show a lady they love her (no matter how deeply) because of these kind of girls like the one I described above.

They may tell you I want a caring and understanding man... My dear, it is a BIG FAT LIE.

The reason you are different is because you do not have much of them(girls) as friends, otherwise, they would have so corrupted your way of reasoning that you would act like the girl I mentioned above. Please, keep being you so that you will not be in queue too long before getting married.

B2Spirits:
How could u be so sure? Hmmmmm, man don suffer oo

say less words and start acting it.

B2Spirits:
She is worth about 50m naira, while I'm worth about 600k in asset. She is younger than I am.

I wooed her. She said she can't take men for what they say again. I then changed my tactics and persisted. Then she told me to fu.c.k off.

I've not been okay since that day. What should be my next move cos I can't stop thinking of her. It's affecting me. I would have simply shunned her, but her brain is priceless.

@Harddon, help a brother

Filashade:
Oga please, its ur choice if u dnt want to believe it, my bobo is just like the guy, he doesnt work but i shower him with gifts not because he is broke, but because I care and I am not one of those ladies who is big about money etc, money isnt important.

While I was growing up, my parents were financially stable but we were made to believe we werent so money has never been a burden or as important to me so I guess thats why I dont think it is important, maybe no?

There are still ladies like me out there, you just have to search and keep on looking. Even the lady that you see that doesnt smile a lot (me), we are actually kind, humble and caring, its just people just overlook this things when they see someone for the first time.

Just keep on searching, you will find her

Stay Blessed

Oh great you are not among the millions of girls wired to reject nice guys. Most girls are like that and they out number your type by a large margin. So pardon me if I say I find it hard to believe you are the kind of lady who appreciate Nice guys.

Majority don't like it when a guy calls too often

Majority don't like I when a guy give them too much attention.

Majority don't like it when a guy loves them too much and does not hide it( most will prefer he says I love you twice a year)

The list is endless so much that I have subconsciously admit I have to hide my feelings, show less concern and so on in order not to be labelled a weakling, sissy.

Hope you understand my point now? When you have the chance, encourage your female friends to appreciate the nice guys cos they are almost going into extinction.

My ex would do anything to have that nice guy right now but unfortunately, it's dead and buried. She completely abused him (nice guy) in every sense of the word. You can't eat your cake and have it, as they say

realBliss:
guy you sabi TD for school be that oh

3rd angle elevation

realBliss:
I will view him using autographic projection

Lol... student of Technical drawing here.

princeemmma:
but sometimes your boyfriend wud not be able to give u everything, am not stingy but i cant afford to buy my girlfriend everything she wants and that makes me feel bad, but she might not think of me in a good way, so relying on boyfriends sometimes might leads to getting hurt, boyfriend might not be able to do everything for you

nigerian Parents are kinda stiff with issues like this. My aunt used to tell her daughter if she has no boyfriend and can't she see her mates? She is the kind that does even care if her daughter sleeps around with different guys. The lady was just a rare breed and never took her mother's advise. She got married and now the woman is old, need help but only her child caters for her.