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Yes...yes, character strength, dress sense, discipline and values. They can be better than i am and still hoping to be but not less. So help them Lord.

Damn! She's Too raw and blunt, i thought she's changed!

Possibly that could make them a carrier of the ebola virus.

How better is it legalizing abortion? Aside the fact that its a form of murder, demeans the value of human life + our societal values. Most abortion decision is often made by young adults (singles) as there are several other birth control methods for the married, infact abortion shouldnt be a form of birth control method. If made legal, abortion rate would increase and as such expose women to various health risk and danger of losing fertility and in some cases, death. Yes, not forgetting the psychological trauma resulting from it.

beeevan: Cheating husbands be like " my wife is extremely jealous ", once they contract STD, their song will change to " i love my wife and didn't mean to hurt her.... am not that bad yadahh yadahh blah blah blah" .

Abi ooo... With lots of STI's, viral herpatitis, genital herps, HIV and even Ebola fast growing in town now, they still reason with their brain below only to come back with pity stories. Ao i wish they enjoy its pleasure and nurse the consequential pain all alone.

May God help and see u through. Marriage no be beans @ aalll

Sorry, buh like seriously....Is this a movie

He he heeee....things are happening.... See him lying down with Confidence

Yomieluv: I will tell the seller to sell on credit,or hire purchase to his family,relatives,and friends.afterall charity they say begins at home.

Lol...Badt guy..got me laughing

shooze: I find it strange that people expect the husband to just accept it. If tables were turned I would be really hurt. I can't imagine my husband naming my child after an ex dead or not. I would take it to mean that a part of him still yearns for what would have been and he is not totally happy in the marriage
I find it very disrespectful

I concur

Yes, it'll be pretty difficult if not impossible having flings with her, thats why u have to define it, she'll appreciate n respect u even more. Let her know once more that u think Long terms. But except u want her back or u dont mind sleeping with her.

Isnt this the KANWULIA i used to know? U've changed....am luving the new youuu....

OP, listen to whatever she has to say. Forgive her like evryone said. Let her knw u're doing gud and wish her well. Biko dont welcome personal issues from her.

Lord have mercy!

Whether slim or fat, excercise and feel good about yourself. Watch ur weight kip it moderate, even after childbirth get rid of excess fat and kip fit. This also apply to d male gender

xynerise: . The men can't see their dik

LOL...they'll use mirror now. Some even get correct anticlinal and synclinal folds whilst single...gathering fat...no excercise...buh for some, its hereditary

Yes oh! Cos in the name of Jesus ebola bows n every other virus n diseases confess that Jesus is Lord. I sanctify myslf n loved ones, the water i drink, the air i breathe, wherever my soles thread upon with the blood of Jesus. Na dis one sure pass

Seriously i think if had gone about doing it the right way, it wld av been beta i.e she consenting n u both go to see her people. U'd even earn her respect. U shldnt av slept with her like dat. Nevertheless, she could be the right girl for u. Some good advice has been given e.g aisha2

I dont knw why, but i ended up laughing after reading ur story

Everyone at some point has been faced with difficult times and Somao somao we pulled out of it. Brother, take a deep breath. It will not last long. Life is Good, God is Gracious.

@Snazzylove, Nice one... May God make u two grow old 2geda, waxing stronger in all good things. Pamper him aswell ohhh....smiling... God bless moi too.

Where will one run to? Please Lord save us. Really scared.

Uhmmnn, i'v been following silently. feel so cold and weak after reading through. I'm overwhelmed n short of words

ladygogo: *Sigh*
A lot of Naija women need to start respecting themselves, but the society doesnt help matters. Even if a women tries to leave her abusive or cheating spouse, the first thing you will hear will be " Ha! where do you want to go? " "What makes you think the next man wont do the same thing?
The reason they say these things is because they are probably experiencing the same things in their homes, and we all know misery loves company.
One has to be determined, and strong-willed to leave a cheating or abusive spouse in Nigeria.
By the way, my friends lost their parents to AIDS. Full Blown. Their mum got infected by their Dad and died, and their Dad passed some years later.

Dats serious. Whether i get married or remain single, stay married or get a divorce - To hell with what the society says. Its all my choice and decision as i av deemed it fit. A time will come when the society herself sees no biggie in divorce.

Godmystrength: If the test comes out negative, then the woman should congratulate herself. But that is not the end of it o. If she finds her way out of the marriage, i won't even blame her. Good riddance to bad rubbish. If she is still keen on continuing with the marriage, they will still need to go back for the test after some months and she must insist on using condom. If the man refuses, then let him vamoose. Let him go and marry one or all of his mistresses.....
Why do women have to learn how to cope with a cheating husband. How do you intend to cope with a cheating husband and how will that now protect you from inheriting some yanmayanma disease from the nigga?
No i disagree with you completely. The question should be ''How to stop cheating'', or ''How to be/remain faithful to your spouse''.

U've spoken well. If the male folks believe cheating is a right, women should be smart n upgrade standards if married to one.. A cheating spouse should enjoy both the pleasure n consequences alone. A good life is too precious to be meddled with.

thorpido: Dem say na copy story so no advice to give.
However,I don't understand this,'don't touch your husband's phone' advice people are giving.Two people are married and they can't see what is in each other's phone?Anyway,there are odd things that work in some people's marriages so as long as it works for you,so be it.
Me wey my wife dey carry my phone dey browse,wetin i go hide.

Honestly, it sounds so absurd @not touching ur spouse phone. This OP story is really disheartening, as it could be true. I really get scared of this marriage issue.

deltateam: Hmm. Smell the coffee. He even told u not to follow him? Means he's not comfortable with u coz he's prolly seeing another lady there.

Uhmmmnn.... Am scared dis may be true. How long are u guys married? Its gud couples attend same church, dine frm same spiritual table n share same belief. U av to patiently sort things out. God give u wisdom. Meanwhile, the counsellors r on their way, they'll be here soon

E be lyk say the brother is a handsome, tongue-speaking nairaloaded brother in the Lord.
Abeg, na who no want beta tin?

OP..It takes gut for u to have tweeted dat on a social media carrying ur details wit ur phone number. If truly u r gay + ur health condition, infact i no pity u, and i'll say 'Go To Hell!'

CHAI!!!
Make una rememba say all these evils wey una dey do.. Diaris God oooooooooh!!
All hands must be on deck.

omenka: The embarrassment of having Jonathan as Nigerian president will end in 2015!

I tell u