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hey vsat techies- i just got the new idirect evolution x3 router. i want to know all the tweaks i can achieve with it apart from the regular usage of browsin and surfing

i also want to knw, if its wise to configure a NAT directly with the router modem for distribution and monitoring

lastly, i want to know if dias any powerful bandwidth monitor i can use

diva

i think one thing to hold on to in dis ordeal is to now dat yu av made some serios mistakes dat yu wld neva make in any relationship again(weder dis one or anyone to come). also its a gud thing dat yu know dis and also know dat you need to heal not from dis relationship but from bad choices yu av made. understanding yurself more will help yu find peace.

i think you shld wait for a while and intrest yurself in things yu ve always wanted to do like some1 sugested(waiting time depends on you)

after which yu are satisfied with yur level of strength yu can now make yur way to him irrespective of weda he wants to see yu or not gather all yu can from him with an open mind and say yur piece(wiaeva it leads shldnt be a bother-yu re on a hunt of emancipation becos i tell yu if yu dnt do dis, yu will be tied to him for a long time to come and it will affect yur oda ones wen yu decide to allow some1 into yur life again-its a sunconscious thing).


i think i beliv dat yu ll do well really-i can feel it alredy. just take yur time. and i must commend you too at the same time for being civil, shows the level of maturity yu hav-its a virtue yu dnt find in most women(kip it)



and as for most oda women on NL with the send him off attitude- yu shld lern summin from dis gal, yu shld lern summin from dis ordeal cos most of yu are now cynical not becos of men but becos of the bad choices, the things yu took for granted with them. in the end the bulk of the fault lies with you.

neva take anytin with levity just like yu shldnt take GOD for granted neve bbe careless with yurslef in a relationship-dats was the problem of diva's relationship she was carreless toa point dat it became a problem

hmmm,

lets see, hmmmmmmmmmmnnnnnnnnn,


i like to cuddle a lot (really feminine but i cant help it)
and i love to gist withb ladies alot(also feminine and i cant help it-i like to knw more bout em)

diva

yu area at a loss of ow to go about it ba?


ok, 3yrs is not a joke if yu beliv in my option one den go look for him against all odds, physically look for him after takin a break off like olana sed for like a week(i ll suggest a week and 3 days ). cool off and hav fun with frends. den look for him apologise with dat yur eyes dat holds him to a spot(every gal has dat hold on dia guy) after wards dont mince words by immediately tellin him wat yu want(with wisdom) start from why yu did wat yu did-becos of so and so and so, let it flow from dia keepin in mind dat yu re a wonderful and biutiful woman dat must be respected. i feel yu nid dis cos i beliv dias a sweeter world ahed of yu with him or some lucky guy out dia.

you go gal
lemme knw ow it goes later hia sulebramms@yahoo.co.uk or just sulebramms on yahoo msnger. be good gal and dnt let anyone take yur faith away fffffrom yu

hmmm,

well for a while now i av seen yu brian hoppin around forums talkin about IT pips in naija jumpin to place of dia counterparts in the uk and yankee.


yu seem to forget summin, as populous as IT in all its ramifications are in naija its relativly a new genre of technology in naija. we are all certified in dis and dat becos we nid to be at a point we re employable, wia we can get mony to chop.

do you knw all the mony and efforts it takes to become an ethical hacker- a frend just got a box of books from ec-counsil dat took like months and costs around $3-4k. how many pple can afford dat.

i want to be a pen tester but wias d mony but insted i avopted for mcse and ccna prayin to get to a place i can get into ec-counsil. funny is dat most of the naija pple wu attain all dis professional stats end up outsyd d country. ow many ccie's do yu av hia and yu nid to find out ow many naijas wu are ccie.

pen testing is a biuty to lern and knw and it takes process becos of all the power dat rests in yur hand wen yu become a professional in it. if employers are willing to train dia netwrk admins on security and all we wnt be in a place wia internet junkies like cash12u can stat makin mouth with your freedom and lil proxy tunnelers to by-pass pstn netwrks.


solution

brian NL is a biutiful place lets create a forum to train ourselves on securin our netwrks from incidents from dia we wld hav done summin for ourselves and our netwrk environment. i await such a forum

hmmnnn,
oga philips -in as much as i agree with some of yur principles some i dont agree to

why do you pple think sayin sorry n apologising is beggin? you guys simply dont get it

@philips
if i get yur comments right, i will be right in sayin dat you wnt be thrilled at the stunts diva pulled and becos you cherish your respect-you wld call it quits abi?-no qualms

now hia is someone wu all sed and done has two options which are;

1. apologise to create a pleasant scenario to determine what is or wat went wrong in dis relationship- which will in turn lead to two things;
a. discover the problem,profer a solution and muv on with her life
b. discover the problem,profer a solution and make the relationship work (o boy its been three years-wia she wan start again-wen evil men plenty ousyd )

and the result would be a win win situation for her. y? she wld be able to leave with her self respect and hed well hung-like my,
with a certain peace of mind dat assures a brighter future

2.get angry, forget about dis guy, hav nothing to do with him again and beget the ffg;
a. be miserable for a long time to come-say a yr, 2yrs or even more
b. be miserable for a long while, become a man hater wu she sees notin gud in men,eventually become a pple hater becos she never wld beliv dias
any gud in anyone and i cld go on and on and on about ow miserable she will become

and the result hia will also be------ she will eventually get over the hurt but in a miserable way and she wld not have gained anytin from dis whole ordeal. she wld only come out cynical like wat most women always blamin men for dia misfortunes not knowin 80% of the fault is dias

@ adexxy
Everyone wants to be appreciated and loved. Stop struggling for love. Even if you guys would talk about what went wrong, heal yourself of this hurt and rebrand yourself. I would not even advise that you get into any other relationship if one comes along now cos you need self healing. Stop asking!!!

dis was the best piece of yur post which i think @diva must take to heart.

@ adexxy and all

one of the best words dat resolve conflicts are the words 'iam sorry' dis were the words i heard live from desmond tutu while in SA last december. like olana sed, does tellin him ow sorry she was for pullin dat stunt de-mean her?
or like i kip sermonin to my gal- dat if you say yu re sorry does anyone outside immediately sees dat on yur fore-hed and start laffing? no!
so dat yu apologise-yu will gain peace of mind and also the ability to resolve things and find answers to ailing questions dat torment you in a conflict-free atmosphere

hmmmn,
one thing i av lernt so far in my work experience with Indians then real expatriates is that wen you find out a mis norma, you must equally be willing to supply a solution to such mis-norma. madam diva, wat do you really seek?
is it people to sympatise with yur present state? or are you looking for some genuine reason to quit this so called relationship yu supposedly had?closure? or wat really.

i have read yur replies and see dat even thogh yu are in a predicament yu seem more reasonable and knowledgeable dan most commentators wu av replied yur yur thread.

yu seem like some1 wu doent av a proud persona and wu wld like to hold on to summtin tangible to call her own but you lack a basic skill which is principle its dat lack of principle dat blinded you to the fact dat yu needed a definitive answer(whether truth or lie) to his dissapearin act of 3 months ago. you hav all the virtues a guy will want in a woman but you lack the one virtue dat will help you sustain yurself in anytin you do in life not just a relationship. and dats why yur b/f treated yu d way he did and i can bet dat dis will last for anoda three months and he ll come back and beg and yu ll accept im back. yes he finds summin in yu yet he sees yu lack adat important virtue which is truely needed as a wife. if yu wer like dis as my g/f i wldnt marry you o.

dats why i still think ma, dat yu nid to get up and not move-on until you do summin about dis mess yu av created, fix it and wen yu av tried and tins still dnt go d way yu want after yu must gotten yur answers- especially the y's yu ask here then yu wld av a gud conscience and carriage to muv on as a proud and wonderfully made woman of true essence and virtue


yu can fix dis if yu really want to- which o beliv yu want to if not yu wnt be lookin for answers like dis and beliv me wen yu seek yu will truely find. i wldnt want to bring religion into dis but if yu re a xtian like topup sed, God ihis d basis of a gud relationship, wia yu do not trust in yur partner but God to hold such relationship. i hope to hia a sweet story from yu soon of either yur relationship has been fixed or dat yu av gotten the answer dat yu nid and are satisfied dat the guy is not the right person for yu and dat yu av sweet and energetic look towards life and goin to stand up strong havin lernt a lot from dis ordeal.

isu ata yanyan, God is the basis of a true relationship

hmmmn,
one thing i av lernt so far in my work experience with Indians then _{real expatriates} is that wen you find out a mis norma, you must equally be willing to supply a solution to such mis-norma. madam diva, wat do you really seek?
is it people to sympatise with yur present state? or are you looking for some genuine reason to quit this so called relationship yu supposedly had?closure? or wat really.

i have read yur replies and see dat even thogh yu are in a predicament yu seem more reasonable and knowledgeable dan most commentators wu av replied yur yur thread.

yu seem like some1 wu has a proud persona and wu wld like to hold on to summtin tangible to call her own but you lack a basic skill which is principle its dat lack of principle dat blinded you to the fact dat yu needed a definitive answer(whether truth or lie) to his dissapearin act of 3 months ago. you hav all the virtues a guy will want in a woman but you lack the one virtue dat will help you sustain yurself in anytin you do in life not just a relationship. and dats why yur b/f treated yu d way he did and i can bet dat dis will last for anoda three months and he ll come back and beg and yu ll accept im back. yes he finds summin in yu yet he sees yu lack adat important virtue which is truely needed as a wife. if yu wer like dis as my g/f i wldnt marry you o.

dats why i still think ma, dat yu nid to get up and not move-on until you do summin about dis mess yu av created, fix it and wen yu av tried and tins still dnt go d way yu want after yu must gotten yur answers- especially the y's yu ask here then yu wld av a gud conscience and carriage to muv on as a proud and wonderfully made woman of true essence and virtue


yu can fix dis if yu really want to- which o beliv yu want to if not yu wnt be lookin for answers like dis and beliv me wen yu seek yu will truely find. i wldnt want to bring religion into dis but if yu re a xtian like topup sed, God ihis d basis of a gud relationship, wia yu do not trust in yur partner but God to hold such relationship. i hope to hia a sweet story from yu soon of either yur relationship has been fixed or dat yu av gotten the answer dat yu nid and are satisfied dat the guy is not the right person for yu and dat yu av sweet and energetic look towards life and goin to stand up strong havin lernt a lot from dis ordeal.

isu ata yanyan, God is the basis of a true relationship

one thing i agree with olana is dat the best advice yu ll get will not come from most pple wu sympatise with you and those wu advice with bias.

evry oda person wu tells yu to find yur way and mouv on dont understand wat yu are going thru. they would advise you either becos they are weak and run at the first sighting of trouble or dey are lettin sentiment be-cloud dia senses.


if you run off and forget him- what you would only achieve is alot of heart-ache for a long period of time (though the hurt might eventually leave you) which will beget alot of wrong mind set towards people as at now, you feel useless and worthless-y do yu think dat is so? i will reply you by saying dat, if you had caught stack naked boning the actress lady, your outlook wld be very diffrent-infact we wnt be tellin you to liv him before you do. but you knw wat yu did is way off limits and dnt mind those wu tell yu dias nothing wrong in wat yu did-they re evil people.


my advise to you will always be dis simple- go back to dat situation you created yurself and resolve it, for all i can gather , his total lack of respect for you was not his fault but yur own fault, topup sed some biutifl tins you can hold on to in her ode up dia. you nid to understand some things about self appreciation, self worth and lern principles. i will dare say dat yu neva actually had a relationship dat was serious -though it was for 3 yrs- you nid to discover the fault in dis relationship and fix it or discover it and lern from it before yu get into anoda one

@qute, nateev and all

i've got dynamips, dynagen and even gns3 (all still zipped though) and also i ve got vmware-server dat i use for my virtual servers and machines. i know its possible to run all of em togeda-i nid detailed guide to do dis and i beliv dat will help alot of pple too (text based detailed step by step guide-no videos)

sadikhov is too scattered and i dnt hav the time to piece em togeda.

brian
becos we need to start from somewia wia we still can compete in the real world

diva
you are here really when you are supposed to be hunting your boyfrend down and demanding an explanation
do you know y you need one? without it you would feel so useless and not appreciated and it will take alot out of the next true guy to break you and for you to enjoy true love again

you guys have been dating for 3 yrs haba- its like a right to his balls if you ask me- you are playing ot like you guys just met. if anybody needs to be undignified in getting an explanation to burning questions that will affect your life-its you. iam animated about dis becos of what i had to go thru to break down all the low esteem wall in my g/f becos of things like dis. you deserve an explanation for that three months if its so damn important o you


and now ypu hav playd it soooo wrong by being jame-diva 010-lol dats y i think you need to apologise for dat to warm yur way and demand yur answers

really i still dont understand wat kind of person yu are sha! yu sed yu asked him and he just apologised and apologised
wat is the meanin of dat?
its like me askin askin for my mony and yu kip smiling widout givin it to me-wat is dat again i repeat?
he ddnt even giv yu a line of lie as to wia he was for the 3 months-he just simply apologises everytime and yu jst accepted abi?- shows the kind of person you are sha

if yu did accept, den y go and be ridiculous by being devious like dat- doesnt make too much sense
according to yu madam, everytin was even rosy sef but yet you still arranged all that james bond moves-for wat na?

antecedents? didnt you accept him back
if God based his relationship with you based on yur antecedents, i wonder wia you wld be-yet yu call God to your defence
i bow for you o!


one of my guys here says he would do same to you, Becos if you cld pull off those james-diva moves den you cld kill him-well dats his own opinion

really i  wonder what kind of relationship you guys had

i think in actual fact you should move on cos you dont seem like someone who can stand her ground to demand what is rightfully hers insted you would prefer to go splinter cell on the guy- its a scary thing you did when one comes to analyse really

hmmmn,
my guy ehn! i use to be in yur shoes and it wasnt too pleasant i must say. but the kinda person iam is one wu lies to experience tins for myself and i stuck to it and pretended it ddnt bother me, my gal craves attentention i dig like most gals and wat i did was do same-i had stopped all attention seekin becos i luvd her loadz but she ddnt realise, probably she tot i was jst boring or summin or maybe she tot i was just an abuja boi wu was weak and so i turned my OSU attention lights and as a not bad lookin guy i got over more dan wat even i expected-and it was war zone becos she cldnt handle it, gals, sugar mummies wld call me (and i luv openness in a relationship so i let her listen in on most of the conversations with d oda ladies to teach her ow a relationship shld be like) and she wld fight me and complain and all. i neva initially told her i was doin it cos she also recievd too many fone calls from guys[b]cos my gal is fine and wrks in a bank for dat matter[/b] so all i did was just laff becos it was amusin to me-really amusin to see all animated and worked up over a fone call we just listened to with me and not think of removin d spec in her own eyes first. and yet she ddnt stop recievin all those fone calls from men and guys alike. until one of the days wen she performed her outbursts i den told her to 1st take kia of her own calls first b4 she tells me anytin do yu knw wat she told me- she sed ehn its becos i ddnt hav a problem wit it dat if i did i shld hav sed so and she av tryd to adjust- i was shocked. and so my dear guy wat is the koko of dis iroyin- stand yur ground with her by tellin wat yu dnt like or dish out d same measure shes dishin out to yu=my 2 kobo

hmmmn, the reason i liked debosky's and olana's replies wewre becos they re inquisitiv and true natured men, its rare to find dis days cos ppple on NL jst type like dey speak^{dont think bf they_talktype dia replies}.

                 o gal, in as much as yu ve drawn so much sympathy, yur story lacks som substance. debo dey ask yyu sey why yu get bak insyd relationship wen yu neva clia ground of wia im disapia go for 3 months? yu seem to be some1 wu either was tryn to hide summin yu did durin dat 3 months or yu re just a mumu wit no principle-ow cld yu enter bak widout fully understandin wat went dwn gal? and yu behaved lyk a tart and did sumin dat ridiculous and som pple re hia clappin for yu. oga o! if yu cld go thru all dat widout thinkin _{yu shld be workin for police force} yu ve bin datin for 3 yrs and wen yu ask about wat went dwn he ll tell yu sorry sorry-it wnt happen again and yu go just gel like dat-yu re not givin us the full gist jare omo de yi!!! mape aja lo obo fun wa jo!_{excuse my rich lang}. dia re so many loose ends to yur story. ofcourse, if i wer the guy though i wldnt just brek up on fone like dat-i wld actually be amused and probably just hug yur hed to my chest and pat yur butt and say:ki lo n ma n se e na but we re all diffrent pple  with diffrent ways.
    yu knw the reason yu re hia rig marollin not knwing wat to do? its becos yu knew wat yu did was wrong, its becos yu knew deep down dat yu still dnt hav nothing on the guy=cos i knw if yu caught im boning the gal live!!!! yu wnt be askin for advise hia but yu re in adilemma becos yu dnt knw wats up.
    and now yu av to go bak to wat yu re supposed to av done b4- go to him and apologise or do wat yu ladies do wen yu dnt want to apologise, aftre dat find out wat went dwn gan gan and decide wat to do.

hi all
p;ls i nd to understand ow to work dynamips with my vmware to have a really full experience. anybody !!!!!!!