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Family › Re: At 23 Years Old, I Have No Idea What I Am Doing With My Life by Itohanmiwa: 8:02pm On Aug 06, 2020*

YoungandDepress:
My story is quite a sad and long one.
I wish I could write it all out. My life has been a terrible mess.
Where did it go wrong for me, I have no idea.

I am writing with so much emotion, my heart is full and heavy.
Life is bitter.

I am a 23 years old guy.
My life all started to go in the negative direction when I gained admission at age 16.
A 16 years old boy in the university, so much freedom and exposure.
I messed up my life, I became addicted to bet9ja virtual gambling I lost focus, Gambling killed me, I started failing exams, at the end I dropped out without my parents Knowing, but the truth came out when I was supposed to graduate, I could not hide it anymore. I told them the truth, my parents forgave me like the prodigal son.

They still believed in me especially my mom, she keeps reminding me of how intelligent I used to be.

Well I'm not here to talk about my past life but here to talk about how it is still affecting me today.

Ever since I started university all over again, I have been miserable and frustrated. Nothing has been working in my favour. I'm currently now in 200level hoping to graduate before 25.
All my mates I started with have done their NYSC.

I'm still stuck in the same stage.
I have no idea what I am doing with my life. I'm young, broke and depressed. I get irritated over little things. I feel disgust at how I uselessed my youthful life. How gambling destroyed me.

By the grace of whichever god exists, I am no longer addicted to gambling. I have quit the addiction for almost a year now but nothing changed, I still feel miserable. I hate having people around me even my family members including my mom.

I have no true friends. Nobody checks on me, nobody calls me.

At this age, I can't boast of having 500 naira in my account.
I'm broke and miserable.

I have started hating God and question my belief in God. I hate Sunday's. I hate hearing about God, I don't blame God for my troubles but I'm angry at the fact that despite my parents being dedicated Christians, things are not working well in my family.
My elder ones are graduates, but no solid job yet.

Only my eldest brother who is doing quite well now and I thank God for his life but we don't talk. I can't remember the last time I called him on phone. They don't hate me, I hate myself.
I have disappointed them a lot.

I just lost the last #1000 I had in my life today and I cried. The money fell out my pocket when I went to get something.

At 23 years, I have no idea what I will do with my future.
I still live with my parents and I have never rented an apartment of my own even in school.

What is wrong with me, why am I miserable?

I have no good clothes. My clothes are all worn out.
I have nothing doing, i live off my parents.

Since schools were shut down, I have been at home doing nothing.
Completely broke, damaged and miserable.

Can my life be any better. What do I do. I am depressed.
I keep asking myself these questions but there
Seem to be no answer.

Bro

Romance › Re: Will I Ever Regain Myself Again? by Itohanmiwa: 7:22am On Aug 06, 2020

Suzyib:
it is very dark here I will send you more tomorrow and you can reach me on video

@OP. In as much as I sympathize with you, this your story don dey get "k" leg. Hope your not trying to pull the wool over our eyes?

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Politics › Re: Edo Modular Refinery In Pictures: A Product Of MOU by Itohanmiwa: 6:27pm On Aug 01, 2020*

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
Obaseki my nigggar
Have been to this place in ologbo

Romance › Re: Some Psychological Facts That People Don't Know by Itohanmiwa(op): 7:11pm On Jul 18, 2020

bosman50:
-oshomohle and his wife
-Ned Nwoke and Regina daniels

Romance › Things You Learn In Life As You Get Older by Itohanmiwa(op): 1:15pm On Jul 18, 2020

1. No one is happy with your success, except your family.

2. Love is a myth. Without reason, no one is your friend.

3. The only people that love you without any expectations are your parents.

4. Everyone has a role in your life and when their role ends, they will leave you. So be strong.

5. Money has a strong place in everyone's life, but unfortunately, it cannot buy you everything.

6. Laugh with everyone, but trust none.

7. People say speak the truth but in reality, no one wants to hear it.

8. No one gives a shit about what you think or what you do, it is only your perspective that they think about you. Enjoy your life and careless about what people think.

9. Expectation always hurts. So expect less or no expectation from others.

10. Never ever sacrifice your happiness for someone else.

11. The fewer people you chill with, the less bullshit you deal with.

12. Living a simple life gives you more time for important things.

13. The sooner you learn to live alone, the sooner you understand the meaning of life. You are your best friend.

14. Never ever reveal your secret to anyone.

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Romance › Re: African Game: The Next Step After Taking The Redpill by Itohanmiwa: 12:25pm On Jul 12, 2020

[quote author=Mandela27 post=91231385]Please what could make someone suddenly lost self-confidence?
Note-I am a born introvert but after i took the REDPILL with the MISEDUCATION,I felt different,like my life changed,and I spoke to people without fear and maintaining eye contact,but suddenly 2days ago,I noticed my confidence has dropped.I need help fam [/quote

From experience, when dealing with confidence issue relating with people, if you feel uncomfortable looking at them eyeball to eyeball try looking at the color of their pupils. This will help.
Ride on op, following and learning.

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Romance › Re: Some Psychological Facts That People Don't Know by Itohanmiwa(op): 4:24pm On Jun 23, 2020

Blackmoran:
With all this I can guess a woman wrote this.... The topic should be list of making a relationship boring.

Pick the one you can learn from and move on. And I am male by the way. grin

Romance › Some Psychological Facts That People Don't Know by Itohanmiwa(op): 1:16pm On Jun 23, 2020

1) People at the same level of attractiveness are more likely to end up together.
2) Most women are attracted to men who possess a strong sense of humor. Generally, a strong sense of humor is associated with intelligence and honesty.
3) The one who cries with you in your pain can never leave you.
4) Sweetest people are the most saddened.
5) Marrying best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by 70% and this marriage is more likely to stay lifelong.
6) Girls do not want an honest answer to the question- how am I looking?
7) Creativity is closely linked to mental illness.
Shy people are smarter and more trustworthy than extroverts.
cool

Loneliness is as harmful to your health as smoking 15 cigarettes a day.
9) Lonely people are better at perceiving other peoples' loneliness.
10) Single people are the ones who give the best relationships advice.
11) Daydreaming is good for your brain.
People with low self-esteem tend to humiliate others.
12) Cheaters tends to think everyone cheats and Liars always think everyone lies.
13) The person who makes you the happiest is usually the same person who is capable of hurting you the most.
14) When a girl tells you about her problems, it does not always mean that she is complaining. It sometimes means she trusts you.
15) People who regularly help others are significantly happier and less likely to become depressed as they get older.
16) Smart people underestimate themselves and ignorant people think they are brilliant.
17) Shopping improves your self-esteem and open your minds to other choices and points of view.
18) Majority of the people listen to music to forget their problems.
19) Women with higher IQ’s have a harder time in finding love partner.
20) Doing things that scare you will make you much happier.
21) People who swear a lot, tend to be more loyal, upfront and honest with others.
22) Introverts are highly wild during sex.
23) If your crush lasts for more than 5 months, it's true love.
24) When someone says, “ I hate you,” they really mean, “ you hurt me".
25) 90% of people between 10–29 years of age sleep with their phones.
26) Most people text faster when it’s someone they like.
27) The type of music you listen to affects the way you perceive the world.
28) The person who gives the best advice are usually the ones with most problems.
Stay out of trouble always except when it involves a direct threat to your life.

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Romance › Re: How To Make Women Obsess Over You by Itohanmiwa(op): 7:26am On May 29, 2020

You guys are just reading without commenting. Let's make this interesting and share some positive comments, we are all here to learn.

Romance › Re: How To Make Women Obsess Over You by Itohanmiwa(op): 7:03am On May 29, 2020

jeyselassie:
no link? Though there are 2 powerful books I read that helped me change my perspective. David deida- way of the superior man and

Sorry man I was still updating the thread.

Romance › How To Make Women Obsess Over You by Itohanmiwa(op): 6:56am On May 29, 2020*

Hello Everyone, I hope y'all doing good wherever you are. Please always stay out of trouble. So I was going through quora, and I found a post I think is very informative to all guys, especially to save us all the pains of reading threads created by angry male nairalanders over women hurting their feelings, blah blah blah, me too sef na so i be Sha that time.

1) Become the best version of yourself: Work on self improvement in all aspects of your life, remember everyone is always nice to a good looking person so try and workout both mentally, physically and financially.

2) Learn to embrace being alone: Always value the moments and time you spend in solitude and tranquility, for me it's priceless. Learn a skill, do something challenging, be happy with being alone that way you'd realise you don't need anybody to be happy. Remember the more desperate you get the more you chase people away

3) Don't take women too seriously, but view them as humans like you, just the same way you view your fellow guys, approach them like you would a guy nicely and always be polite, learn to be relaxed when around ladies as this will make you tend to be more natural in relating with them.

*Make money and constantly make more money as this will help you enhance your appearance

https://datingaftertheredpill.com/how-to-make-women-obsess-over-you-in-three-simple-steps/

Romance › Re: Washing Your Wife\girlfriend's Panties,is It Rigth Or Wrong??? by Itohanmiwa: 6:11am On May 10, 2020

Fool

Romance › Re: What Perfume Would You Recommend For People Traveling This Xmas?? by Itohanmiwa: 9:00am On Nov 18, 2019

Lonelypacifist6:
Why old spice is the best.

How much is it and where can I get it?

Romance › Re: What's Your Best Topic On Ubunja Mised. by Itohanmiwa: 4:21pm On Nov 07, 2019

ubunja:
you were placed on the list months ago. Check the last miseducations you got a mention everytime

Modification
You were only recently placed on the list. It's all good.

please do add my moniker to get a mention Ubunja.

Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Itohanmiwa: 10:37am On Oct 19, 2019*

Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Itohanmiwa: 12:03am On Oct 19, 2019

xxxtedyxxx:
thanks for stopping by

First i must say you your girl is good at reverse psychology. She knows how ro reverse situations to make you chase her

Sexondlt, you seem to overreact easily. Overeacting to everything a girl does will always lead to regret later. That's why you found yourself begging her to be in the relationship. Plus, i guess you are invested more than she is. That is why she is in control.

She needs trust. It starts with you letting her be. Stop questioning her every move. Give her space, but still act like a bf.

About her text, ignore it..sont reply... its a normal girl thing to get you back to chasing her.

She has stopped calling since Tuesday night, how long should I wait before I contact her or just wait to see if she'll contact me herself. Thanks for your timely response boss I really appreciate.

Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Itohanmiwa: 3:51pm On Oct 17, 2019*

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Romance › Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Itohanmiwa: 7:39am On Oct 16, 2019*

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Christianity Etc › Re: Cultism, The Spiritual Consequences And Deliverance Through Christ by Itohanmiwa: 4:19pm On Jul 13, 2019*

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Romance › Re: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by Itohanmiwa: 9:49am On May 30, 2019

NevetsIbot:
smooth!!!!! Just smooth... The teasing no reach sha o... For me niyen

Hello boss man. please I need someone to talk to.

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