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Reyginus: First and most importantly, I am a christain.
There is this problem I encountered while fliping through some pages with my mind.
That is, can we be justified when we chose not to forgive someone who continously wrong us but is yet to ask for forgiveness?
If yes, wouldn't that weaken our lord's prayer?
If no, can God forgive a serial sinner who is without remorse?
If yes, wouldn't it show a mark of contradiction on the person of God?
I need answers, please.

i think that we should always forgive but this does not stop us from using our brain. if someone is continually doing something wrong - some sort of action needs to be taken (you must act righteously though but you must act against is nonetheless). e.g. if someone keeps insulting you - rebuke them and keep away from them - cut them out of your life if you have to even if they 'apologise' again (that is if they have been always apologising and going back to doing the same thing)

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cameroonpride so your at it again with your misogyny. dont let me start on you a second time little boy!

typical nairaland - any time a woman is praised, at least 12 nairalanders are there to drag them back down. oh what a backward country nigeria can be sometimes smh

Babzilla: IN NIGERIA ALL THEY EVER INVENTED WAS FOOD
STANDARD ISSUE WHUPPING TO SET THE KIDS STRAIGHT
WELCOME TO THE 21ST CENTURY WHERE THEY CANT COOK
WORK, OR SET THE KIDS STRAIGHT.....CANT DO SH**
AND THEY WANT RESPECT

i think u should speak for yourself bro. If thats what your mother, wife and sister is like, dont paint every woman with the same brush

thanks odumchi

Harjibode: dnt knw wht yu driving @ indecence dressing a YES/NO
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I neva support th molestation though.

Harjibode - i would like to apologise for my rudeness. Although we may disagree on certain things, it was not right for me to speak like that. Please accept my sincerest apologies.

Harjibode: And May GOD quadruple punish ladies that dress indecently.

And are you sinless? Why not talk about how God should punish you?

Harjibode: Ur Utterance shows yur weakness,i can do nothing but let qo...




ba kada ankali #walahi

The only weakling here is you - defending violence - im sure ur mama is very proud of u. Also, cant you speak english or were u not taught that at your local village school. Thats right you better let go

Harjibode: ANOTHER MISDIRECTED GROUPIE

The only unfortunate groupie is your mother. She is unfortunate for having you as a son

Moshood Alanamu: What is bad, has no other name than bad.
No religion encourage indecent dressing.

But they encourage attacking women and stripping them eh. Shut up jor

turl: I'm sorry that's just plain nasty.
I love my curvy women, hell even my girlfriend is bigger than that ibrahim chick up there but lets call a spade a spade.
I don't believe there are people that can't loose weight. How do you sit down and watch yourself get that big without doing anything about it? You mean to tell me if she changes her diet and hits the gym she'll remain the same? please..

Put a hungry dog on a leash behind her and set her on a treadmill abeg.

Why dont u worry about ur life instead of worrying about someone who doesnt even know u exist

Babzilla: SHE'S A PIGGY EH ?!
HERE'S ONE
ENIOLA IS SO FAT HER WAIST SIZE IS THE EQUATOR
ANOTHER
ENIOLA IS SO FAT THE NATIONAL WEATHER INSTITUTE HAS A NAME FOR EACH OF HER FARTS
ENIOLA IS SO FAT, SHE DOESNT HAVE A TAILOR, SHE HAS A CONTRACTOR

Ur a fool. That is all...

Okija juju: WHy was my post deleted na?!

Isnt Eniola a fat piggy?!

If she was a box/container, she would be 40ft container.

Eniola is so fat that when she gets in an elevator, it has to go down..

Eniola is so fat that the last time she saw 90210, it was on a scale..

Eniola so fat that I took a picture of her last Christmas and it's still printing!

Eniola is so fat that when she sat on an iphone, it turned into an ipad.

Degrading someone you don't know and has not done anything to you is very low. You wouldnt have the guts to spout all this crap in public but are brave enough to do it hiding behind a computer screen. Show your face joo.

thanks. what does [/i]ofor[i] mean - its from the film 'Ofor na ogu'?

what does [/i] siebi[i] and [/i]ajum akwam iko [i] mean?

dont be in a relationship with someone u dont trust

ur right to hesitate to marry a woman without a job. Stick to your guns

odumchi: 'okpokoro' (table) and 'ọkpọkọrọ' (empty shell/skull) are two different words.



'Hapuru' has a definition that fluctuates based on which vowels are stressed and its place in the sentence. Its general meaning has to do with leaving something [alone] or [for] someone.

Could you provide an example in a sentence?

Thanks

fruityjojo: Did u even read wat d op posted at all!? Did u readddd where he said he has done his best even taking her 2 WORK with him or u just felt lyk bashin d op 2 look gud! Mtcheeeww

I sure did sweetheart and gave my own opinion. I think u need to calm down and go and research what bashing means. mtchewww.

why do u care anyway - dont u have your own girlfriend to worry about? lol

lol i dont condone violence at all but this vid was hilaaaarious

Of course you will find someone who wont cheat. Not everyone cheats despite what you think. Get out of the relationship and take some time out for yourself. Be prayerful the next time you enter into a relationship

i think its equally difficult to find a good husband as it is for a good wife. Men and women both have faults

dfav: Why Are The Baddest Girls Finding It Easier To Marry Than The Good Ones:

Hello House;

I need you contriburtion;

Something happened in my area of recent; i asked after one notorious bad girl that Be Intimate with any thing (she even have a baby girl in SS2); she clubs like hell; and they told me
that she married.

I laughed; but to my greatest surprised; she is really married to one rich Nigerian sweet looking handsome guy; who just relocated from the UK.
the both of them are now leaving together in VGC; she is living big.

infact the day they came to pay her bride price; O boy ,    make i nor talk; come and see people from all works of life

Meanwhile her elder sister; that very good & church person; is still there un-married.

so i am surprised; whats happening these last days; alot of good single ladies in church yet christian brodas are marrying unbelievers all with the statement,

I WILL CHANGE HER,

so what will happen to those sisters in church;

contribution please,

Who are you to judge anyone as being fit to be married or loved? Marriage is for everyone not just 'good' people. Mtchew

again - everything is a womans fault right?? The women forced the man to cheat on his wife?? As someone else said, you are asking the wrong question. You just claimed that 90% of married men in Nigeria have girlfriends. The correct question is to ask why a man who made a vow before God and to a woman (and possibly has kids) he supposedly loves would defile his marriage by commiting adultery. Thats the question to ask because thats where the betrayal lies. Those other girls owe the mans wife nothing. If the man has no respect for his own marriage, how do you expect oother people to?

he never loved u in the first place sweetheart - love never fails

never go back to the past. There is a reason why you did not get together. Move on with your life and dont live in the past. Are you ready to be a step mother to another persons child? Why did he suddenly decide to appear after all this time? Why did he not back off when you said no the first time? Smells a bit fishy to me...If i were u, i would be very careful

why do you have a problem with her going out and being with friends? Theres nothing wrong with that - you cant expect her to stay at home all day by herself. Rather than posting this on nairaland, you should be communicating your concerns. Relationships dont break down because of problems rather because of lack of communication.

The funny thing about some nigerian men is that they want to lead and be lead at the same time. You cant have it both ways! If the man is supposed to be the head of the relationship, why is it that its the woman who has to put in all the work, take the initiative and be the one to act like a wife first so that the man should follow and act like a husband? Im tired of all these posts on nairaland especially by men telling women how to behave. Why dont you find out how men should behave first and work on yourselves rather than looking for faults or ways to 'improve' a woman's behaviour. Why must she wash his clothes - is he a child that doesn't know how to clean for himself? Why must she do wifely duties, if shes not a wife? Where is the guarantee that he will reciprocate it and act like a husband? Why would he want to wife her if hes already getting the benefits already?

Yomii: The timidity of Alcohol to everywoman is the genesis of longevity in Marriage. I can't marry a woman that drinks be it in public or private.

if timidity of alcohol to women is the geensis of longevity in marriage, what about men? Is it ok for them to drink?

have u met every woman in the world - how do u kno they all blame the man? Also, based on posts on nairaland and my experience so far in general, nigerian men tend to blame women for things going wrong in relationships and never look at themselves. Most of the posts on relationships on nairaland involve men asking why women are this or that. They never look at themselves - always looking to blame women for one thing or other just like you are doing now. We women must be cause of all the worlds problems ehhh. lol

this post gives me hope that there are some decent nigerian men out there