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bro, carry yourself to sexuality section, seems you missed road.

and why did you edit your post?


the initial one was more normal and better than what you just typed.

Pennywise:
I can understand my frustration. But 40s is when peeps consider taking chieftancy titles and really begin to question the rationale behind monogamy

well, some people have their midlife crisis in their 40s, i agree.

taking chieftancy titles does not predispose a person to polygamy unless they've been creeping before. Not everybody is like you who runs after everything in skirt and women no dey pass for them front.

Do u think NL is the right place for such discussions? I think not

you can go to the wedding night thread and join your friends there since you took time out from your busy romance section schedule to check out this one.


anyway, bye, wbb later.

seems you are not serious.

for those who dont know, a flat implies a modern building made of bricks and with a toilet included.

lets stop disgracing nairaland with half baked comments showcasing semi literacy, thanks.

if someone says they are looking for a two or three bedroom flat, the asumption is the reader will know what he's referring to.

Raxxye:
Bros, haven't you heard that no knowledge is a waste? If you are married, tell us what you did that night jare!

have you ever heard of personal boundaries or the term is meaningless to you?

all the photos you can waank to on the internet arent enough, you constantly need more mental imagery?

you sound like a pervert, no offence.

so how does that make them 40?

and for those who are, how does that disqualify them from this thread?

i didnt say only specific sections should post.

besides, some people are "working" in various sections, only their "work" is known by another name.



moving on- do you have any contributions to the topic? (are you in the age range sef).


abi you dey still form ayounge for some ladies?

i think people are very unrealistic because they make it seem if someone has all the qualities they list as pre-requisites in a partner, that will guarantee they will stay.

its not like that at all.


thats why you have husbands jumping on housemaids, etc while their beautiful wives who met all their requirements, did nothing to offend them besides not being in the housemaid position at that point in time.


the only thing guaranteed is the fact they (the men) are typing out their lists, nothing else is set in stone.




however, women will always fall for these tricks due to their need to be flattered, and the ones who even see through the flattery, will still say oh well I'll take it anyway so long as the man can donate his s.perm or whatever.

oko won lode.

Pennywise:
But u have not given any real queue about what u want to have on your thread

the thread is for anyone between the age of 40 and 49 to discuss issues pertaining to them.

besides wanting to know who may have been Nigeria' first post civil war baby.

nothing wrong with that, just curious, thats all.

If u rephrase properly and give a tangible example, you might be able to get the attention of two thirds of all in romance section and all in politics.

are you implying romance section is mostly populated by 40s and above?

that cant be possible- romance section is majorly preteens.

dr2010:
Pls,how much does it cost one to rent a three or two bedroom flat in Ejigbo,Osun State.thks all

probably check property section.

reread my previous post.

biological age.


no wisecracks or snide remarks plz.

its a serious thread, not for frivolities.


i see you have started already.


maybe you want to deceive, i mean impress, some supposedly female nler who may even be male or under a p.imp, be that as it may, this is not the thread you want, so keep it moving.

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jpphilips:
It is a good initiative but my greatest worry is the pressure on existing infrastructures.
I could recall vividly the era when you go to the airport and you see only govt officials, Today, there is a new mentality for people to see the reasons to fly, where did the ideology come from? diaspora, people who have traveled elsewhere and returned has sold the Idea to us and we are living their American dreams in Nigeria.

In the 60's, multi millionaires at the time made money through land and haulage transportation but that trend is no longer appealing to us, i am not insinuating flying is wrong, the negative curve is one where Nigeria has a few airlines to carter for the needs of the populace, the savvy for services of ostentation will increase the price, Today , flying in Nigeria can be termed "extortion" in the real sense other than a means of transportation.

Another attention could be drawn to real estate, when the Diasporas showed interest in owning homes in Nigeria, was when the prices of Houses climbed beyond roof tops, same is applicable to many facets of our existence.

my own take is this, if they are coming with capital to set up businesses that will stimulate the economy in the long run, then it is a welcome development, that will at least make up for the extra pressure on infrastructures, but if they are coming with Foreign degrees just to relegate out National universities to the back stage, for the love of God, let them remain where they are trained after all, they got the best of education and as such should be competitive over there.

Our job market is already saturated.

interesting post.

why is this thread here instead of politics/some other section?

Sagewood:
The premise is that the returnees will set up shop/ businesses in Nigeria to employ and empower people @ home, not compete with them for jobs or opportunities, but help create opportunities.

the govt needs to improve the employment sector since not everybody is into business.


Most Nigerians abroad are actually doing salary jobs, same as everyone else there. If you did not have a business background for the duration of your stay overseas, how would you suddenly go into business in nigeria and expect magical profits? And what about the current business owners in nigeria- you'd suddenly intrude into their market niche and expect them to be happy about that?

popularity?

dunno.

bennyrazz:
why do you want to know what married folks did on their wedding night? of what use is it to you? and how much money does it add to your bank account?

all these s.tupid questions and threads (op's style) on nl are so annoying.

do these people really have nothing in their lives they can focus on?

how could there be 2 million nigerians in IVC?

even the US hardly has that amount i think.

according to this site:

http://immigrationpolicy.org/just-facts/african-immigrants-america-demographic-overview

the total number of african born immigrants in the US in 2010 or so, was 1,606,914- thats under two million and for africans in general, not nigerians alone.

hope you wont blame your depression on others when push comes to shove.

voice synthesizer, hope the op hasnt bamboozled some hapless ladies with that.

is the thread on fp yet?

still no audio clips.

CrystalHeart22:
Those that traveled there what do you like about traveling to these places and don't like? And embarrassing moments.
And would you consider moving there for life. Also why go to these places and not France or Germany. If I was a Nigerian I would choose to go to the UK, France, Germany, because you are treated better there than in the USA, where you have to keep worrying about racism. USA is not that great anymore trust me and I live here.
Go to somewhere where there is more freedom like the Caribbean, Australia, Thailand, Morocco, South Africa, Egypt, but not America. It's okay to visit, but not to move and stay.

the visa lottery has been cancelled, so its likely you wont be seeing so many nigerians coming in anymore.

just calm down.

black247:
Haha! I am curious because I have heard this a lot, in one way or another.

1. You people sold us.
2. Recently, you guys never came for us.

And with one American, not bashing them at all but, she said where are you from - with a big smile. I said: Nigeria. Her smile vanished. She responded, I thought you were from Ghana...they are nicer.

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i thought you said all the african relatives were killed off or sold, so no need to wonder anymore i guess.

that kind of hair is common around that side (Rivers), not so?

i think many of the nlers who actually witnessed the war are not talking. Personally, I've read up on it.

what i would like to know is when did the fertility rate return to normal and when was the earliest time people started having babies?


also, seems Bianca was born at the start of the war (1967), right at the outbreak of hostilities. I'm guessing there may have been a decline in births after that period, and then a rebound when it ended.

Patience, Okonjo-Iweala and Dora were all teenagers during that time (ages 13- 16). Maryam Babangida was 19.

kettykin:
Just don't bother wait until the second civil war and you will get your answer

hmmmmm

well, its normal now.

skentelelady:
Maybe you shouldnt have said 40s crowd but 70/80s peeps

like i mentioned here:

itstpia1:
Younger than 40, the thread is not for you, and keep a civil tongue in your head as you stay off, thanks.

yes, we know its some people's dream and prayer not to reach 40, however, that does not concern others besides the individual so inclined.

riskit33:
your target population are as scarce as a NEEDLE in a HAYSACK!

how did you arrive at that conclusion?


btw, this is thread derailment but since you're so sure of yourself, feel free to explain what you mean.

cant bet on it.

Oluwa gba wa lowo awon to n sho wa ta mo

The prayer goes to u also as you monitor others also

na wa!!!!!!

computer monitor or what.

can one use the loo in private or is that also a no no?



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