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coogar:
all i just wanna say is samantha is a bad role model for young women. how many men has she slept with now? 3,000?

how did you even come across a movie like this? aint you supposed to be watching passion of the christ, nativity, the bible, 10 commandments & mount zion movies?

i dont watch movies to get role models, and it would be quite inadvisable for anyone to do so.


samantha's role was exaggerated somewhat [although there are women like that].

projection again.

@ topic

the assumption of course, is a 40 something person is by now somewhat familiar with most of the material featured in the movie?

coogar:
part 1 or part 2?

perhaps both, i forgot it had a sequel.

the one i had in mind was where they were in the middle east [part 2].

i thought you said you were on the thread with your church mind?

@ pennywise.

abeg dont corrupt me, chilisauce has offered to take both of you on, so face her side, thanks.

know of any? Share them here.

ew

wedding day bloopers i guess.

what is with nlers and poverty mindset.

stop hating on rich people unnecessarily, and stop attacking their kids.


if any of you sees dangote today, na so so sycophant una go be.

Chillisauce:
you said I was looking for some gigolos in my wife material thread

Chillisauce:
waiting for coogar and pennywise

folks, over to you, glad to be of assistance, take it up in dating section from here.

hmmmmm

didnt watch the video, what was there?

if God allows it, there is a reason.

Yomieluv:
Destiny can't be truncated,because any truncation means it has been destined to be truncated.

pesty100:
You are what you were meant to be, if a destiny was meant to be truncated, it will be

food for thought.

man cannot be wiser than God.

what exactly is being called "truncation of destiny" here?

besides, repeat topic:

https://www.nairaland.com/793130/change-destiny


https://www.nairaland.com/304735/choices-affect-destiny


https://www.nairaland.com/793130/change-destiny

https://www.nairaland.com/34574/escape-destiny

https://www.nairaland.com/105736/man-block-fellow-mans-destiny

https://www.nairaland.com/663151/mans-destiny-altered

Jilo83:
There is solution 4 all problems but not all problems will get d solution

i doubt every problem has a solution but i get your point.

Ploy:
Yes, every problem have solution but mostly the option would seem unacceptable to us. The greatest solution however, is death.

so is there peace in the world now?

unless of course there is this situation:



[img]http://photo2.ask.fm/172/950/398/910003029-1rpknkf-e9219q77gbdlrj5/original/file.jpg[/img]


in which case, find someone to marry first [if thats in your plan] , then ask your questions.

sex related matters for the 40s crowd:


wetin una wan talk?

una don dey do am for long nah.


anyway, that should be a separate thread in sexuality section, for those who cant focus if its not included.

phemmyjohnson:
Ayo Fayose Left office on 16th October 2006
Returns as Governor Today 16th October 2014

8 year interval, or interregnum.

sometimes not, or what do you think.

@ topic


some movies for review:

temptations: confessions of a marriage counselor

grown ups


sex and the city



**not saying the movies should be rated, just reviewed**

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interesting list.

oliver and company is also a good one.

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they have christians on their payroll no doubt.

lord have mercy.

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40 somethings meet here:


https://www.nairaland.com/1952695/thread-40s-crowd-discuss-issues

Ignore the thread derailers.

there was another town with a five year old representative i think. He was succeeded by a 16 year old.


http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/4-year-old-mayor-running-minnesota-town-article-1.1341404


http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/05/bobby-tufts-mayor-loses_n_5649286.html

they're probably preparing them for a very long political career.

Jeramey Anderson celebrated his 22 birthday by being sworn into the Mississippi House of Representatives. The millennial is now the youngest lawmaker in the state of Mississippi. Anderson’s set a national precedent for young American politicians: it’s never too early to start.

Anderson plans on finishing his degree in homeland security and public relations from Tulane University online when the House is in session (a real product of the 21st century) and is looking forward to tackling a number of issues facing Mississippi.


http://www.bustle.com/articles/10470-who-are-the-youngest-politicians-in-america-jeramey-anderson-alex-morse-and-more

my own take is this, if they are coming with capital to set up businesses that will stimulate the economy in the long run, then it is a welcome development, that will at least make up for the extra pressure on infrastructures, but if they are coming with Foreign degrees just to relegate out National universities to the back stage, for the love of God, let them remain where they are trained after all, they got the best of education and as such should be competitive over there.

now, I'm not sure why so many nlers see "business" as some kind of magical alchemy that turns every investment unfailingly into maximal returns.

i dont think it works that way.

Most of the diasporan nigerians have been in paid salary jobs throughout their career, and to suddenly expect them to turn business gurus with a midas touch when they have little or no background in business, is not realistic.

what the govt needs to do is create jobs or job quotas that can absorb the incoming diasporans and at the same time, provide housing they can afford.


and i dont think blocking them from academia is the answer either?

back to topic.

some issues faced by the 40 something crowd include:

-divorce, coping with or handling the aftermath of.

- finances/career: are you where you want to be right now or not. Debt, income, expenses, etc.

- networking: some females especially tend to slow down in this area due to general life pressures

-for the men, midlife crisis could start early. I dont know if women have midlife crisis.

-health: some have active lifestyles (gym, exercise, healthy eating, etc), others dont. Some may be coping with illness, others are at optimal health


- shifts in roles as parents age,

-for many, they are starting relationships like marriage, child bearing, etc.


etc etc