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some people come with some sort of aura,
cud be positive, cud eb negative. depends!

watever made us split and become ex,
i think we shud leave it at that and move on.

he shud sit and think of what he wants and focus on achieving it.
right now i dont think women shud be his problem since he already has two kids, shud put his energy on training his kids.
the right person wud come.

the biggest mistake u wud make at this point in ur life is too break this rela for this reason.
unless she has some xters thats wud make u not consider her for marrige,
i think mr u just found your wife.

being a virgin is a blessing, xpecially into marriage.

if u she is a good friends of ur sister, and ur same sister is opposing the idea,
then i think ur sister knows things about her friend she can't tell u which makes her a no wife material.
if i were u, i wud thread gently.

iice,
every girl is a potential dreamer,
and that dream includes hoping that someday her spouse wud get high up there in his career,
or if he is the bussines type, wud eventually hit it big in his dealings.
bottomline is that they hope when this happens, they will eventually get what they " sacrificed"
in the begining when they decided to date prospect.
yes it wud be said that a very few amount of this girls eventually stick to the relationship no matter the outcome of the guys financial background,
but there is a considerable amount who eventually either ends up leaving, or result to cheating when reality sets in.

love i will say is neva a sufficient medicine to the marriage illness,
thats y some girls have suddenly realised that to get that dream home,
car, vacation and life hey want, thier husbands/ bf's need assistance hence the result of couples working hard together to achieve this.

and what assures that coming back together is the right thing to do?

money and relationship goes hand in hand.
every girl, even the decent ones who date prospect,
someday hopes that her man wud make enuf money to spoil her silly.
thissimple implies there is a time frame she has at the back of her mind.

the major question iswhen wud her patience wear out.
relationship thrives when money is available.

if u dont say what u did, how do we advice?

my bro, there is nothing to advice you about.
if she says she can't continue then let her be and u move on with your life.
unless u are ready finacially to marry her, and even at that, u might not be mentally prepared for the demands of marriage.

i suggest you let her make her decisions without u tryingto influence it, or u might regret it later.

wats the issue about,
did u guys break up and swear to be enemies.
abeg hug am die,
give am kiss self. its old time sake.

cos u dont respect virginity dont mean others dont.

boy do i know how that pain feels.
u tell urself to stop feeling down, but u just cant bring urself to lighten up.

i have had to pour myself into my work just to forget the issues, but believe me ,nothing acts as a substitue for the pain.

like some1 said earlier,
let the pain, its sign u loved and almost if not got loved in return.

@biola,
somtimes superstory script starts from nairaland.

but we fit call am nairalandtales.

dude u looking for ways to score the lady right?
my six pence? give her the money. its ur future bait.

u did nothing wrong.

unfortunaely for the present igwe wife,
igw had seen her scheme long before now and asked his yoruba friend to help him lace her with the dreaded magun.
now asshe awaits igwe to kick the bucket she has started noticing signs of irregular menses,
pain whenever she has tots of another man.

finally igwe kicks the bucket and his final burial rites are performed.

madam hurriedly goes insearch of chief who presently has 3 wives.
two igbo babes and one hausa fulani.

they re-ignite old times and finally decided to meet on a fridy at showdown hotel .

d-day and chief is already at the venue, high on small odeku,
madam walks in briskly, takes a seat and orders some pepper soup and big stourt.

today nah today she says .
they finished thier meals and headed straight into hthier rooms.
one thing do two thing and gbosa,
oga no fit come out from her busy-body again.
he tries as hard as he could, bu the rest u know my people is history.
oga dies untop, mmadam has a limp biscuit inside.

did it ever occur to u that maybe u dint have a full erection?

i dont know how u  measure the lenght and breadth of the clit,
but she is lieing and so i suggest you let her go.

_{i have never been convinced u can tell the  change in size of a clit from the last time u bleeped and presently.}

FEELINGS U DEVELOP WITH SOME1 ELSE OVER A YR CAN NOT BE COMPARED WITH A COUPLE OF MONTHSWITH SOME1 ELSE.

u need time to develop feelings for this other guy and maybe u might end up loving him more than ur ex.

since u moved on, i suggest u move on for real.
ex's have away of coming back, but i can assure u the possibility of a worse breakup with u both is more now than b4.

@sexybabes,
u got the point right,
itswell said that the angel u know is better than the one u are about to meet .
but then again, think thisway, because u got robbed on a particular road, dont mean u dont ply that route again.
or lets say cos something bad is going by u close ur eyes and not notice the gudthings coming tru.
what am saying in essence is that, if ur relationship got sour, then u eveluate and see where u went wrong,
an see if they are things u cud live with and tolerate.


i will rather moveon and correct my past than be drawn back cos am not sure of the future.

@ben2001
its more diff than one can imagine.
all tru i never knew i wud feel this bad until i had to leave.
several times i stare at my fone and am tempted to call.
was soo bad that i had to hide my number and flash her.
just so i feel some sense of relief.

wish love doesn't have to hurt this bad.

@luxoire,
but like u said,
it only goes to show that my whole being was in that relationship.
that all tru the times when i asked my self if i really loved her?
this was confirmation enought that i dint just love her, but saw her as a greater part of my world.
am glad i loved. at least i know i am capable of that.

from wat to wat biola?
dark shades?

@spike,
but loving one deeply does not give u license to constanly hurt the person you love.
i know for one that if ever the one i truely loves breaks down and cry in front of me cos of what am putting them tru,
i wud have a very broken heart and never get to repeat such again.

this relationship is the only one i ever cried before a lady,
and yet that same thing was hat she constantly did.

i had soo much at stake, but i had to moveon, even though i know it might mean me loosing something very dare.
i wud rather leave when my heart can heal back and love again,
than be turned into soo much hate and suspicion when the next person comes around.

@just wise,
i dont believe in deleting and erasing memories we shared,
it wasnt all bad when it lasted, there was some part that sure makes me smile when i remember.
and def she added something to me that the other person wud benefit from.
she's my past yes, but not a regretable past.
just one dat burnt and i healed from.

i wont even entertain such persons in my life again cos if ever in future i fall flat on my ass,
itsa surety she wont be there for me.
move on and find some1 who deserves you now.

if there is an understanding between both of you,
it doesn't count who does the calling or the amount o time spent.
what matters is that you have kept in touch and dats it.

sometimes excessive calling could be dangerous because, even when u have money to spend on credit or not,
u know u are indebted to making these calls one way or another.
and if at any point the rate of call reduces, then u are assumed to be cheating on them with some1 else.

my advise: in everything you do, apply wisdom!

SO IF SHE STILL GOES BACK TO HER EX,
WHERE IS UR ASSURANCE THAT SHE LOVES YOU?

dont be confused here,
two can be loved just u have more love for the other.

when u like two ladies, and u with one and the other calls u, u find some excuse just to leave at that mo,
u knowu love that one more than who u with. respect her more i guess.