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when she left to come for this programme, what plans did she make,
cos apparently her plan never involved bumping into you unexpected.

if you must help, pay for a hotel, whatever but not ur house!

not wise atall.
if you must help, arrange for a female friend of yours that can take her in.
but not you.

9ja4lyfe:
story story, once upon a time I had a friend, lets call him Joseph.
Joseph was very successful and owned his own business that took him all over the world. Joseph met this girl and fell head over heels and they got married. Unknown to Joseph, whenever he was away, someone else was taking care of his wife's "plumbing" lol. Joseph found out and was upset and asked for divorce.
First thing his lawyer asked was if they got a pre-nup before marriage. He said no, and the lawyer simply shook his head and told him "you're her slave for life". Joseph now pays about $5000 a month for alimony (even though they have no kids) and he cant even fully enjoy the fruits of his labor and hard work.

Prenup is the best thing to ever happen to men (and women). Cos people are really nice to you when they know you are rich. A poor guy who worked his ass off and no girl wanted him all of a sudden becomes successful and now he has all the girls. If shorty wont sign a pre-nup, theres other girls out there. Screw love, cos love aint gonna feed u and pay ur bills.

his lawyer did a very bad job.
u dont pay alimony to any cheating spouse.

the progression is from kokolet-mamalet- grannylet.
d'banj go give all belle soon.

i understand ur fears, but be rest assured the church has never been the problem.
th individual is who you shud watch out for.

its purely money,
be it in physical cash, or future prospect.

[color=#000099][/color] whatever the reason, u can only speculate until u talk to her.

well as much as i hate to say thiis,
she see's no biggie in sleeping with you.

to some, sex is just like a hug. no big deal!

so all this dude's here have never raisedthier hands on any lady?

even those that have practised wrestle mania 5 on thier wives!
please oohh!!, don't quote me.
a little violence is good for sex.

wat kinda question is that!

just tell her straight she shud come out clean.
and if she says no, then insist on hiv test.

@ 19, she's too young to have her say, dat age girls are stil scared to admit to thier folks about having a bf how much more challenging thier authority on choice of a hubby. Like most have said here, b rest assured that taking her back would have its issues. Like xta change, nd more interfarance from her parents. I think you should just let her be cos u are niether ready or capable to the challenges ahead.

He simply has no right disrespecting a lady. Moreso its a huge slap on his friend. I think he should leave without being told to. Otherwise the friend should give a stern warning and ignore unless a repeat occurs.

can't remember, cos i was raped and was trying so hard to free myself.
guess i did a poor jon at freeing myself.

@nethacker,
there's nothing crazy bout this talk ,
apparently his has weighed their qualities, and found it difficult to decide.
so i simply asked him to weigh the quantites.

or prospect, or just the mere fact that she wants a man to call her own.
that's my point exactly, find out why she stays around you.
and if its not for the right reason, she ain't your wife.
u just have to definethe kinda wife u want, and go outthere and find her.

that's y the bible says "he who findeth a wife" finding a wife requires and act of searching, scrutinizing,
and also eliminating until u get the right choice.

take ur time is what u are adviced.

see toasting going on live!

well ugly or no ugly, he was a boyfriend before u upgarded to husband.
so there must be something he is doing right to have earned that status.
it might be his dick, or pocket.

yes it is,
that's y one is adviced not to rush into it.
and when u make a decision base it on the fact that amongst the millions of leeches u saw out there,
she is most likely going to stay with you and work things tru.
that's what a wife is.
the most tolerable woman u ever met.

patwhizkid:
I feel . . .

goooooooooodddddddddd, i knew that wud now!

mikkyphp:
@izeek, true story,
boobs is always good,

when u are confused, its when to consider thier enhancements.
these case boobs!!!

@theseeker,
then u have agreed to the fact that hindsight came into play when choosing a wife?

@whitelexi,
am not disputing ur claims,
but in this regard, dont you feel theseekers advice comes in handy?
cos pre-nup simply means you dont trust the person you getting married to.

maybe we dont realise that pre-nup was initiated back in the days,
when rich older men decided to marry younger ladies who they were not sure,
where either after thier love or thier pocket.

now when two young couples then decide to settle and be married,
what is the pre-nup for?
incase love goes sour ( means u dint love from the onset)

@all.
sorry but what do you guys own that needs a pre-nup to secure in the event of whatever?

pre-nup for the small bungalow or the second hand honda wey u buy?

abeg make we leave pre-nups to those who should apply it.


_{prenup are for mega-stars like me!}

Iice, so wen 2 guys kiss in a bar, is 2 attract girls! Dnt knw dat.

In dis issue, i wil say what i said earlier. He shud take his chance cos u never knw how she feels in her present relatnshp. Moreso, most girls if not all, was in some form of relatnshp or anoda. Be it friends wit benefit, or otherwise, a new option or choice which u represent wil b considerd against wat she has.

I will advice that you pray against any convenant you have entered into unknowingly. The stream signifies water spirit, she a water wife, ur proposal/her acceptance, an agreed convenant. 1 thing tho, mite be her nd mite not be. Just pray is all i can say to u.

@all i beg to disagree,

@post,
abeg its called try ur luck!!