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heather:
HE IS ME MA'S KID BROTHER {ME UNCLE} THE THING HERE NOW IS THAT HE HAD AN AFFAIR WITH MY COUSIN THOUGH SHE IS NOW MARRIED. IS IT RIGHT TO HAVE ANY RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS GUY

okay thats some serious family ties.
bera look for some nuetral dude, or better still make urpresent one work.

dont rotate the dick in the same family.

@ gestapo,
wanted to ask same, beat me to it.
well she answered already soo.

@post,
trying pounding yam and making ofe akwu.
eventually u would appreciate the nigerian babe.

@thoniaslim,
i always imagined u fair.
not like its a constant imagination ooh!!

SUGGESTION, BOTH OF U COME TOGETHER AND PAY FOR TWO YEARS.
U LIVE AND SHARE TOGETHER.

ITS A COMMON THING BACK HOME,
EXSPECIALLY IF YOU ATTENDED A LOT OF OWAMBE'S AND NEEDED TO OPEN UR MINERAL ASAP.

GUY I FEEL YOU JARE,
SHE NEEDS TO BE REWARDED.
GET HER SOMETHING TANGIBLE, LIKE OPEN AN INVESTMENT FOR HER. ( IF U INTEND TO SETTLE DOWN WITH HER).
OR BERA STILL TAKE HER SHOPPING, AND GIVE HER SOME LOOSE CHANGE ( IF NAH JUST SKELE).

BUT IF U WAN BLOW THE ROOF TOP, BUY HER A CAR, BUT REMEBER SAY U GO DEY FUEL AND MAINTAIN THE RIDE.
MORE COST AS THE CASE SEEMS.
BUT U HAVE A GUD IDEA TO SUPRISE HER FOR AL HER TRUST IN YOU.

DONT WORRY, HE JUST HAD TO PAY FOR THE SERVICES RENDERED.

COME TO THINK OF IT, UR PICS IS DAMN BOLD!
U BERA THINK TWICE, AND REMOVE THE PICS.

@phemmy,
trust me, his not looking for ways to cut down.
if he was, he wud make a list and findout things he spends on that are not necessary.
just drawing oversolicited attention to himself.

ladies in the hoouse, big money spender in town.
help him up his expense to 50k per day.

why u dey bother to have her defend herself in the first place.
u still want her back simple.
u need her to makeup any excuse so u can have her back.

ever crossed your mind tha she might be doing it to make up for hating u from inception,
maybe cos of ur dedicated efforts and all, she feels she made a mistake and is trying to encourage u?
no go jump gun ooh!

after listening to this jury,
here's my judgement.

in failing to uphold the vows you had with your wife,
cheating on her with some slot bridesmaid,
commiting adultery and contemplating leaving your wife on tha regard,
not honouring and respecting your wifes by allowing yourself getting involved with a tramp,
putting your family at risk by sleeping withsome1 else with no protection ( u dint prove otherwise),
planning to jeopardise the life of your young child,
diresp[ect forthe institution called marriage and lots more,
am granting your wife a divorce from ur sorry ass, and also giving her anything u sorry ass ever worked for.
u dont deserve the lady.

y the announcement!!
so u spend 20k nah news.
instead of thinking on how to prune down u dey loud it.
somebody's 1month salary, and u spend weekly.

well truthfuly ushud have kept the reciept,
but that doesnt give your hubby any reason to disrespect a gift u got him.
if its bad, then look for ways to fix or something. simple.

dont take the risk, love will not come into play when you start running around for an s.s child.
tell her the truth now and breakup peacefully.

listen we nigerians are always against changte, especially when this change affects a selected few in a negative way.
the idea of advanced rent has been an issue the lagos state govt has been looking into for a very long time,
and i think this is a welcome development.

maybe we dont seem to realise this fact, that alot of our youths have remained in thier family houses
simple because he cant not afford to take a place of his own due to the cost of rentint even a single room.

i can understand the fear of the landlord and about tenants running off with thier money,
but stric measures will e put in place as to how payments shud be made.
moreso u dont pay for just a single month, but rather an advance incase of sudden relocation.

i think the idea is right and timely, just shd be modified simple.

nope, they just love trying out new things.
is that being promiscous?

@posta,
go back to your pastor, tell him to pray.
maybe even conduct special vigils cos the girls is obviously not into u.

@charminme,
if u working for efcc, i have to watch what i post here. lol
aferall i might be running for governor in 2011?

my wife.

@charminme,
u went as far as digging up his past, lol.
u really need to enrol with efcc.

its just so wonderful to be true, even though its possible.

superb story, not super story ooh!
niways how wud u relate to the child when his born, nephew, son or what?
and ur kid wud be his cousin and bro at same time?
guy think and decide, but dont ever think of telling ur wife. unless u ready to loose her.

u got to talk to her.

dude dont be decieved, all women come up with such tales when blinded by gud sex.
but remeber, kaka was once world beats footballer, now ronaldo. messi at the end of the year.
ur dominace will not reign for ever. lol
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so u saying while he's trying to findout if love is enuf to sustain his marriage, he should keep her occupied.
what happens if he says no more, and he time don pass to find bera suitor?
are we justified as guys?
making her devote all her years to you and eventually breaking her heart by marrying some1 younger?
i dont suscribe sorry.

sorry but was his wife not running her own firm before they got maerried?
was the sex life boring then too?
i believe the answer is no, so the problem is not the job, its the communication.
tell your friend to talk to the wife and resolve issue.
abi nah u self. lol

twinstaiye:
This is a one side story, I am sure, a lot of people would want the other side of the story.

there is nothing onesided about the story.
she has been duped and played by some naija dude who has no sense of remorse.

@post,
just let the issue go, its something u can hardly do anything about.
i blame you for going along with his plan, although love must have had a hand in it.
just moveon and let him be, sometin i always know for sure" karma sees and hears all".

there's no qstn the biological father was wronged from inception by being denied access to even visit his son.
the foster father has no rights to keep the boy as long as his biological dad remains alive and has not or ever did reject him.
sometimes women just take things to far and dont reason ahead just cos of thier selfish wants.
see what she put the boy through,and am sure she must have told the kid soomany lies like his dad never wanted him.

dont we all think we have helped in alleviating the suffering of the masse's,
how do u expect a young chickto lay down such cashfr property that will not be hers at the ned of the day.
and when tomorrow u hear say she thief, u keep wondering why he had to?
to meet ur high taste of course.

thats some tale to sink in.
one whole year and nothing happened.
all the cold nights, and Hot periods.
men think am sha.

if u like her enuf to keep her away from other dudes,
then do the right thing and give her a secured future. simple.