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she is a horrible cook.
simple.

Seun:
There are only two classes of people I recognize.
Good people (like me) and bad people (Ass Holes).
Would I date an Ass Hole? No. Why not? I love myself.

is this the same seun we know?
bera watch ur language.

Gamine:
I didnt even know i had Class

yesterday, someone was asking if i just comot from America

i will date who i like! if thats a Class, then yea it matters!!!

i rarely agree with u,
but in these case my dear u spoke well.
how do u measure ur class?

waz the breakup that bad, that u cant even ask how she fairing and all?
old boy just try and make conver ook.

it was just a mutual driffting apart,
we dint feel anything for each other anymore.

night nurse
if u laffed sure then its funny.

but seriously no sense of humuor there.

look i dont u guys know what u r talking about intercontinental charges me 75 naira for every transaction, and more so they refused to give me my cheque book, rather they only gave me my atm saying that my cheque has not been ready for almost a yr now.
am sure they are doing it on purpose.

this guys sounds like its you,
but whoever the person involved, i dont think 27-31 is soo much age diff in marriage.
knowing whites for who they are, she will keep in shape and it wont really tell on her.

@ cold,
believe me that is a no go area.
5 and prob still counting.
men thats too much to ask from a guy.

what ever as long as ur past dont drag along into ur future,
i sure as hell do wanna know.
afterall like boys say, the tin no get meter.

its at 311 road.
in festac. and yep last price 5.1m
seriously

@ post
eya too bad,
u shud have tot about that b4 u lied for her.
u know what ur babe is up too now?

abeg anybody with an idea where i can watch this match on net?
i will be at work all tru and men i cant miss the match for even my boss.
some bori help out b4 i resign.
lol

i berra b,
nah him dey make me no dey apologise to nigerians.
ur simplewelcome don turn to u bera be.

@moyola
alright fine
sorri my bad,

since when u decided to lecture me on the various ways to get infected,
i felt u left out the most vital of them all , u.

yeah keep lieing on her behalf, and some1 else wud lie on ur fiancee's course.
afterall they are sis.

@ moyola
i realised its not just a sexual transmitted ailment,
i learnt one way to get infected is by talking to u.

spike happy tuesday,
and why is this one not so cheesy?

hiv/aids has never been one of my fav topics,
so maybe i really wud find it hard to say more than one word.

above being careful, lets be prayerful.
cos i have heard of cases where inactive sexual ppl get diagnosed and eventually died from this ailment.

at least some1 else has the guts to speak his mind.

davidylan,
sorry but u really have soo much time to break down her statements,
i saw all the crap u pointed out,
just dint have the time to tell her in detail.

somebody needs to tell her that marriage is about 2 not 1.

@ post,

u said he does not have a cert, well for 3yrs wat did u do about that?
did u encourage him to learn a trade, cos if u did  by now he wud be on his own.
did u advise him to go back to some form of school?
u have no reason whatsoever to judge the guy.
u helped him with the little u have, good but did u put that little into something positive.

u talked about preparing for marriage finacially , mentally and otherwise,
well i think u ur self arent prepared atall.

listen nwanyi,
i will not marry a lady who is not ready to assist in anyway.
am not the type that wants to depend on her, if anything i like showing myself like we say here.
but in a case where she will wait up for me to buy food pay rent, give her stipends as allowance, provide clothings for me and her and kids,
and all what then there is a problem.

moreso what can be more stable than u both knowing ur handicapps, and preparing for it.
sje wur rather face the unknown with a guy whose source of income she can not predict.
most of here above 25, majority have parents  that started from a humble background and today we are proud of them.
maybe we shud emmulate them from thier scratch rather than thier peak.

idupaul:
This story is false , what happens when the so called man goes out and locks his door.

my guy meself just dey wonder just now ooh,
which kind face me and pass through house be that.

but somehow this is lagos,
so its possible.
let her take heart ooh, cos koko must happen for sure/

nwanyi ,
i dont know if it with the oma sha,
am not saying kids should not be considered in a marriage,
am just saying it shud not be the main reason.
moreso, if they both know how much the pull together, i think they can plan a reasonable life together.
the guy doesnt have to work in chevron to make a fantastic husband.
living with thier means shud be the main thing here.

@ missy b

i no need calm my nerves,
u need see the a/c wey dey blow am here for office.
i just feel the girl is just being greedy.

@ missy b
bereaved over what, that @ post cant tell when self is talking over sense?
or that ur both attented the same school of tot that says ur clocks have stopped ticking.

am not bereaved sorry, am disgusted.

@nwanyi
simple explanation my dear,
simple greed and selfishness.
thinking of a temporal solution not a lasting one.

missy b,
wat exactly is ur point,
that a guy dont also have a biological clock,
when wud we stop making the world all about women and thier sex deprived issues?
she is  weaker,
she is biologically handicapped,
she has to make certain of her future by keeping double dates,
they are who they are becos of the awful nature of men.

has it ever occured to u ladies that u are also the problem of ur own very selves.
s@post has no issue to complain about.
ppl marry when u notice that ur man is loving and has alot of prospects, (which she attested to)
no not the ladies of  this days.
u all want ready made men.
has it ever occured to ur small pathetic brains that some other lady helped make this ready made man?
where were u when the readymade process was going on.
shallow as u all are, u want to come and reap from a someones labour,
some other girls toil.

onyinye2:
Nna david, give the girl a break. It is not that the man isn't ready, it is her. She doesn't understand what it means to be married and be a wife. She is still thinking like a single woman.

with that kinda mindset, she will remain single all her life.
thats for sure.
why on earth in this modern time and age, a lady will be waiting for the guy to come up with every marriage pre-requisite.
what is she adding then to thier supposed life together?
is she the type that believes every danm thing has to come from the hubby's pocket?
the guy is better off dispossing her.

Missy B:
I think before yhu conclude maybe it would be better if you are aware of her age.
Assuming she's 34,would you stil see her as a selfish person?

I am in no way tellin yhu(poster) to walk out.

even if she is 50 danm she is one selfish greedy self assuming b.i.t.c.h.
i wud not even date u for a day self.
truthfuly i think u are the ill luck the guy is experiencing, cos if for 3yrs he still is in the same financial state u met him,
then u sure aint adding nothing to his life.

pack and leave, i think its the guy that deserves the space not u.