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telling these days is old fashioned,
just grab what u want simple.

she is simply going for what she wants.

what has been baffling to me is that vry1 is calling her "she".
have u guys considered she might want to be a he?
she has both sexes so call her she/he.

find solace at the end of a bottle.
thats was livingstones idea not mine. lol

@phraoh,
just tell her ur feelings, abi u no be phraoh again?

my bro no give ur head too much stress.
follow the flow as it comes .

well he is a guy, he wud deff look, dont mean he wants to cheat.

its simple anxiety,
try to relax its not an uncommon problem.

guys make una they try talk true sometimes to fellow guys and dont make problems seem perculiar.
haba.
some of una get worse problems. than he does/

@post,
and what was his crime again, looking or touching.

@post
what exactly is ur problem?
if its spiritual i sense its too late to help u seeing how far u have been affected.
if its other wise, then yaba nuero-phsycatric hospital don stepup.

its best the guy exerts some kind of control,
but what really matters is the understanding btw u .
if she fails to understand u, all that control goes down the drain.

moreso when we talk of control, i hopesome guys dont see it as having thier wives act like robots?
its just saying someone has to take responsibility for the entire family, with input from his spouse.

nwokem
ibu ezigbo anumpa.

@post
first am gonna say that at 19 u r too young to handle such issues,
butfor the benefit of older ones around, i will tell u some home truths.

one i rarely want to believe that his mum is always around,
moreso its funny how girls these days dont want a mother in-law around but forget they themselves wud end up being one.
i have to go, i will explain bera 2mrw.

oge n ji fu gi,
obi m na ma jijiji.
oge a kan ji ma na nmu na gi ka nu di na wunye.

whats so diff in trying to relate with his friends and family now?
this are the same ppl u wud be sharing his time with and u find it hard to adapt to them?
what wud u request for eventually when u are married. outright ban on his mum and no visiting irghts for his friends?
women are so fucking diff.
get a life. in nigeria u wud marry both him and his family so brace up .

this reminds me of one of my fav songs,
"gallery".
guy if u really love her as much as u claim from ur post, give her sometime.
wait a while and dont rush her. just always be there for her.
things have its way of favouring us at the end.
my only fear wud be wen u eventually get her, wud u still feel same after a while?

send it to temi2002us@yahoo.com

hey sorry to hear,
but have u tried talking to him to find out why he is doing this,
3weeks and present sure means something is wrong. \was he like this when u where not heavy?
have u ever had problems concerning im cheating b4 u marriage and even during marriage but b4 pregnancy?
i suggest u talk to him.
have u totally stopped having sex with him cos of ur state?
it might also be a reason.
and hey having sex during pregnancy can also help during delivery.

dude although thats urside of the story,and we have not heard hers,
i will proffer advice based on this.
wait till that child is 2yrs old before u can take him away from her.
cos the child needs his mother more now than u can imagine.
unless say u don dey produce breast milk, u def have no choice but to wait.
so until that time, keep visiting and providing for ur kid.

bro u r topic says " my wife" seems like u aleady made up ur mind, so go ahead and finalise.

there is practically nothing that does not have a price tag on earth.
it might not be money, it cud be ur time, ur prospects in life,
sometin defi makes that girl wanna stay with u.
so whateva it happens to be i tinks its best u find out soonest and improve on it to keep her longer. ( if hes worth it)

my advise is since u know ur status, u bera just stick to one person.
even condoms aint so sure.
u have stories of broken cd's and all that kinda thing.
so take care.

@spike
easy on the guy now, he is not trying to promote unprotected sex,
i think what he is saying is that the hype around the hiv/aids issues was just too much simple.

@ post,
u self get mind sha, even if i had a strong feeling that i was positive,
i will not screw a LovePeddler unprotec ted, talkless of magotty cheesy privates.

please send me the information chichi2182@yahoo.com

why are u giving the guy such a hard time,
he is trying to give u a good time, dont be a kill fun. lol

i always say, if u wanna get over a cadillac, get a myback.
change the car and get a better ride.

what has nice and soul e got to do in this story?
follow the main issue and stop claiming aquintance with who or what.

and u understood what he was saying perfectly?
u need ask urself some qst's too.

well this wud teach him to be abit respectful.
he won the previous fight cos his determination,
not becuase he had the skill or know how of a boxer.
he met a better fighter and thats the truth.
he shud not try a rematch, that guy go kill am finish.