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Hello famz!
Missindependence, jaygurl, j'slimz, ope, imma, fraze, legend etc I hail una oh
What wil you all be doing on the 24th of December?
I have plans of walking around VI all night

@OP you story is so fake... Guess you are just looking for attention!
In RCCG a Pastor cannot be single, except the guy is an assistant pastor.
So get your facts right, and if he's a 'rich' RCCG dude then you are on a long thing if you are not a 'rich' RCCG chic!
But I don't believe your gist gurl...
The friend you went with was 'asking' you out, yet he willingly gave you all the vital info of a supposed crush, where that one they happen?
Dude wey you call pastor wey no give you number comfortably they chat with u to the extent of eveing fixing a date!
Be real gurl, I guess we have loads of cute dudes here just beg dem you need getting laid urgently!!!

This Is For Ladies: 7 SIGNS HE'S NOT THE ONE FOR YOU AND YOU NEED TO MOVE ON.....

1. YOU FEEL JUDGED
One of the biggest signs he’s not the one is that you feel like you are being judged. If you feel like you can’t be yourself or if you feel like he’s judging you when you are being yourself, it’s a safe bet that he’s not the one. The right guy won’t ever judge you.

2. NO EMOTION
Well, this one is pretty obvious. If he isn’t showing any emotion, or any real emotion, after dating for several weeks – or even months – chances are pretty good that he isn’t the one. If the guy you are dating is actually into you, he will certainly have some sort of emotion. He may not say “I love you” right away, but he will surely let you know he has strong feelings for you with some sort of emotion.

3. YOU’RE NOT A PRIORITY
If he is always going out without checking in with you, or if he constantly makes plans with you and then breaks them to do something else, you are not his priority. If you aren’t his priority, it’s a safe bet that he isn’t the one.

4. YOU CAN’T COMMUNICATE WITH HIM
Communication is one of the basic foundations of a successful relationship. If you find it difficult to communicate with him, regarding issues, your feelings, or even just everyday events, then you can probably safely say that he isn’t the one.

5. YOU DON’T TRUST HIM
Trust is the number one essential ingredient for a successful relationship. If you don’t trust what the guy you are dating tells you, you don’t trust where he has been and you just don’t trust anything he does, then you shouldn’t be considering packing your bags; you should be doing so while you are reading this.

6. HE LIES
Have you ever caught your guy in a lie? I’m not talking about a little white lie regarding an outfit you’re wearing so that you can actually get somewhere at home either; I’m talking about a real, true hurtful and harmful lie. If your guy has lied about where he has been, where he is going and who has been hanging out with – or anything else as serious as this – you need to ditch him because he isn’t the one.

7. HE ISN’T INVESTING
You can’t be the only one making an effort in your relationship; and you can’t be giving more than he is. If you feel like it’s a 60-40, a 70-30 or a 90-10 investment (your investment being the higher number), you need to walk away. A successful relationship requires a 50-50 investment, and the right guy will want to make that kind of investment.

Dating can be tough. However, just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean that you should stick it out because you are afraid of being alone; if the guy you are seeing is showing any of these signs, it’s best to pack up and move on.

What’s your stance on this?

j-slimz:
Same thing I was asking. I want to know if the date varies across the country.

Here in lagos we were told in camp to complete our clearance btwn the first 7days of every month and not later than 7th or we won't get our monthly alawy... My PPA has given us format for monthly clearance and we have typed and printed as well, waiting to go to LGA for submission. Good luck to u all

j-slimz:
I also didn't like my ppa at first, after speeding a day there I liked it. The lodge is fair, and the place is better than neighbouring villages.

My LG said no travelling, but they should come and stop me.

I wil stay here, a friend of mine as given quarry, its to early to start having bad records with dem joor

j-slimz:
Sup Adary?

Cool thanks to God

J-slimz I sight u oh,sup?

Holla famz good to read from you all, I guess this one year service will be fruitful for us In Jesus name.
I didn't like my PPA until 3 days ago I knew God's hand was in it so I am accepting it with all pleasure n thanking God for it.
The accomodation is cool, 3meal per day, sch bus to take us to d main campus n bring us bk plus monthly pay!
My LG said no traveling so I am stuck here finking of what to do with myself until I start teaching those boiz...
Need suggestions here ohhh
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All I can say is Patience and Honesty is the key to the suCcess of this line of business/career.
And its a job I enjoy doing

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Hello David, and co... Just passing by

rudedough: How do you feel when you clean your house and someone just messes it up again? You get very mad right?

That's just the same way the Governor felt about this woman, the man is only being human and he is angry cos he is trying to clean up his state and anytime he does, people just come and messes it all over again.

He doesn't want his state to be a slum, he will do anything in his power to achieve that. We need leaders who are very strict, who have balls.

Nigerians are naturally lawless and indiscipline. Take it from me, we all are.

And you are naturally so heartless, that same woman prolly voted him in! What has he done to provide for the poor in Edo state?

When you clean the house, and don't provide a play ground for the kids, you shouldn't blame them for messing it up over again!

We all agree the woman was wrong but his action is worst than the woman's.
I had huge respect for that man, but after seeing this! HE can GO nd DIE!

Language is said to be a system of communication... In this context, love language is the expression of thoughts and feelings towards your partner- verbally or non verbally. It must be mutual i.e. well understood, appreciated, acceptable and in tune with your partner's perspective of love.Gary Chapman, a marriage expert developed five(5) powerful love languages:

1. WORDS OF AFFIRMATION
A man presented his wife a customized ...Jeep on her 40th birthday but she threw the key back at him. 'I don't need your car, I need your love'. The man keep wondering what was really wrong! She later open up and said 'you have never said I love you to me after our wedding day(12years ago)'. The man replied, 'I have made up my mind not to stop loving you'. To such a woman and for most women- the gist is 'if you love me, say it everyday'. It is powerful.
Tell each other how beautiful and handsome you are. Whenever he wears a new cut or she just make a new hairstyle... In a way you are boosting your spouse self esteem.

2. QUALITY TIME
If you have ever had a committed partner, you will understand what quality time connotes. Unfortunately; after the marriage, we tend to give attention to other things which varies from our job, social media, child care, house care...to football league and internet. There will never be a broken home, if couples are able to maintain the tempo of time we share before marriage. To be sincere, that may not be too possible but you can dedicate a weekend in a month for you and your spouse alone. Drop the children with grandma or a trusted fellow and date your wife again and again.
Assuming your spouse love language is 'give me your time', both of you will be frustrated because she won't respond to any other language.

3. GIFT
A sincere love finds it very easier to give. However; when you are to say sorry to your wife, don't buy gift.
For a woman who really appreciate gift, do not forget her birthday and other anniversary. Occasionally, exchange gift even if it's as little as a short bread. Wrap it and present it with a love letter, that reminds you of the courtship period and it increases the romance.

4. ACT OF SERVICE
I've heard a woman say this 'daddy...is wicked o, even if you are dying, he can never help you to make ordinary tea'. This same man just got her a Toyota Camry(envelope). You see, the man's language is GIFT but the wife's own is ACT OF SERVICE.

5. PHYSICAL TOUCH
A man travelled and left his wife and a baby at home. The woman was so stressed but still manage to prepare her husband his best food for dinner. On arrival the man bought lots of things including cloths and fruits for his wife. The woman could not sleep and tears kept rolling down her chick. After lots of pressing, she said 'not even a peck or pat on my back for all the stress I've been through with this boy'. To her, the gift does not matter, weldone mean nothing to her like physical touch.I want to add one more and name it:

6. HONESTY- yes! How can honesty be a love language. Let us examine this scenario together: a woman have been married for over ten(10) solid years and never enjoy sex for once! The husband never had sex before they got married but she was once a town girl before she met Christ. There is nothing like pre-intimacy, the man will just go straight to Jerusalem. She said, love making in her marriage is like a punishment. We told her what to do and today they are both happy. She said 'I always look forward for more now'You see, we have some 'know it all partners' who will never listen to your complain or change. That can be very frustrating. But then, HONESTY is a very powerful love language. If you are making love and he release when you have not come down from the climax let him know there is a need for second round! Anytime she touches you well and did not lie down like a log of wood, tell her she's wonderful. And when your hero really get to every corner during Jerusalem flight. Say 'thank you my husband, only you can do this.' It sounds like a joke, but is a powerful love language.You and I might not have PhD in marriage counselling, but we all have our love language because what appeals to you differs from mine. You can know your love language from your complain about your spouse. For instance, when your spouse is the type who doesn't know how to say thank you for anything, appreciation can be your own love language.Consequently; if your partner does not really show all the listed love language, it does not reduce their love, it only shows their level of understanding about love. You can teach one another to be the best romantic couple ever!

Posted to Kings college... And I hv a nairalander posted there as well

GoOd morning Famz

bovi is killn it here in lagos as the MC of the 13C Miss NYSC and Mr. Macho Iyanya here again as well doing what he does best and making the female otondos go cwazy tonyt, while going down low with rolling waists I love lagos camp tonight is d night if u r not here oda otondos u r wrng no beef lag camp is d best

Light out @ 2am
No more parades!!!

Here in Lagos we are 3816 or so... Its been fun these last days plus we ended all lectures today na groove till tuesday!
Doing my shout out to all nairalanders tomorrow... See camp officials asking me where I want to serve oh

Womna ma dey ask me out... God please oh na under ur wings I dey oh

cooooool nite if u r not in lagos camp u r wrng iyanya, tiwa, eva, yemi alade, ajebutter 22, tecno, n up coming killed it ........soooooooo gud to go
It was a fun night

camp blast tonight tiwa, sean tizzle, mayD, omawumi n many more \=D/ <=-P love lag camp <3<3 :*

Good morning famz

Dodging morning drilz is now a routine for me
Just talk to your hostel rep, he/she should lock you inside the room while others are going for morning drilz... If. You are caught, sha don't call my name oh

Heelloo Famz... Its been a while, netwrk in camp is so terrible.
I'm out of camp chilling on my bed at home...

The chronicles of NYSC orientation Lagos!
Boring lectures, good. Food though I don't eat dem, so they said

A gurl was giving a guy Mouth Action @ 4:55pm yestday at d parade ground, soldiers sleeping with gurls in the name of helping with ppa posting!

Constant light is making camp fun, met 6 nairalanders and they have all been nice.

Drama presentations and cultural dances hv been so boring and fake!
Make up classes was fun

Iyanyan and co coming around tomorrow... Looking forward to the concert.
Stay tuned for more updates

If you wanna hook up @ nysc Lagos orientation camp, Ipaja call me -80.........

damitalk: Any girl serving in iyaja camp can add me with 27597107

I just sent you a request oooo

ade014ril: This last statement remind me of commandant ijapa.

R u in Lagos camp?

If you r camping @iyana-ipaja and you haven't identified with us, you are WRONG!

Reporting from lagos, light out...
I hope I am not caught ohh

ATM machines working now here in camp, champions league was shown live.
This light ish stil dey make sence

The worst pple I have met are these so called doctors, I no blame dem at all!

jeok: @J3da, I see you!
how's Lagos camp in terms of population?

we hv our separate registration as Lagos corpers here and we are just forming bis bos and gehs

Lagos camp is cool, chilling after the pm drill, to go back at 4pm
The population is much and more pple r coming in.

Enjoy the formings
I love the lmost 24hours light here

dorthmaen: Na 2:30 this otondos wake up for here o.All of us con dey open eyes down for here o.Nawa for this boys o.Person just dey wait now for the beegle.
For now, here is relatively ok. Na ogbolo with Eba them carry gv yesterday afternoon with one correct jollof rice for night.The toilet dey okay too.
@Team Lagos

I tort we were the only ones that woke up at that time...
If you need. Extra food contact me
If you aren't reporting from your camp
YOU ARE WRONG!

dorthmaen: And bottled groundnut,recheargeable Lamps for Lag here.

Dorthmaen, sup? My bottles gnut, and pef were not seized
But the mosquito here to dey penetrate inside my net!
No parade today @lagos camp, completed my registration around 10am... It's been you oh Lord, thank you baba God

Lagos camp, mixed feelings *crying*

dorthmaen: Gd evening guys.Au's preparation going?Plans changed,en-route Lasgidi(to stay in shasha) now,to storm camp 2mao.

Pm me wen u get to camp, I am going tonyt

dorthmaen: UWC to d team.when u dey storm camp?nd where are u coming from?

This evening or in the morning, I am coming from lekki phase 1