Radiant:

Nahhh! Funny enough, people like him have got the sweetest other side His ego could be romantic in reality.He just needs to meet the right chic. J, how true is this?

Don't mind those bloody feminists. . . . . They wanna eat their cake and have it.
RedHotChic has already made it clear that she would only MARRY a man who is ready to move to her house.
Tell me u won't go into 40 days fasting and praying if u were her mother.

Radiant:

I betcha!

Where have u been?
I may have to come over and pull u out of what takes your time so much.
P.S.  How was the hang-over??

RedHotChic:

Jackal is real work, it may take a whole generation of womenfolk to rehabilitate him. The damage was done during his childhood and nothing may be done now to save him.

This chic needs to get laid. . . . . . .
Lack of good sex is beginning to affect you.
Let your Love Machine take a breather for once.

jekad:

i wanted d other name to go for a medical check up,u know naw too much stress will soon be back

Interesting!!!!

~Pandora~:

are u attacking the true feminists, the hormonally challenged frauds or all of the above?

U had me in stitches there.  Hormonally-challenged frauds??

Ok. . . .I meant the frauds.

@ Radiant,

Pitbull? You are not far from the truth.

@ Jekad,

Why the change of name?

jekad:

one of who jackal ,u no well   anyways argument is allowed as long as its not a bad one, like d way you're talking about women as if they are some piece of trash we deserve our respect naw ,no matter how little it is

Forgive me manners. . . . .
Every time i have said "women"(in a negative tone) on this topic, i musta meant FEMINISTS . . . .
Of course, some women are virtuous women to the bone but some are just  

Are u jenny?

@ RedHotChic,

You are still unserious.

jekad:

arguing wt whoever wont solve d issue,a man knows what is right and does not have to announce it to d whole world or argue so much about it just to prove it,he knows what is right and should just let it be,action they say is betta dan words

Don't u think your idea will defeat the purpose of setting up this forum?
If every man kept quiet because action speaks louder than words. . . . . .What would we have?
Errrrrrrrrrrm, are u one of em too??

RedHotChic:

It's not being dumb, it's being romantic.

You are too unserious.
Wish i could open ur head and stuff some serious business in it.

jekad:

i hate it when men argue more than women,men don't argue too much,they don't argue just to proof a point,they leave d argument for d women,any man that argues too much is better off called a woman,

You reckon?? I am sure u are happy when a man is dumb.
Do this and he does without questions, huh?

P.S. This is not an argument, it's a debate.

genius33:

I'm not even going to lie I do that all the time, Jackal, you know me so well

But seriously, it's easier for women because men don't expect that kind of stuff unless it's their birthday. Doesn't mean I wouldn't do it I find more joy in giving than receiving.

Thanx for admitting.
That alone has won the debate for you.

genius33:

Not his money, my money, remember you said you'd let your wife spend her money in selfridges and all that  

And there is nothing wrong with treating your hubby/wifey as long as they don't take advantage  

Easy for u to say!!!!
Women are more prudent with their money. . . .Millionaire or not. . .
A woman will not spend unnecessarily. . . . . Same reason why u spend a whole day in the mall and u end up buying one item.
In most cases, the item would be returned because ut doesn't fit or someone told u there wld be sales in few weeks.

genius33:

Simply because if he has a large income then I'd know he's not struggling and I could pamper myself

_{But if he doesn't earn a lot then it's only right I help}

Would u be happy if the situation were reversed.
You-the millionaire and ur hubby going on a shopping spree with your money??

michelin89:

There is no point arguing with you. You have a very low opinion of women and don't think they can be as wise as men. Oh well! That's you. I have told you my mind. Good day!

I don't have a very low opinion of women but i do have for feminists!!! These are 2 different things.
Thanx for telling me ur mind but i ain't convinced.

jekad:

don't generalize

Generalise?

genius33:

I must admit I wouldn't feel comfortable going on shopping sprees knowing my partner is left with such a burden.

_{Unless he's a millionaire ofcourse}

That has already confirmed ma hypothesis.
Why must there be "UNLESS"?

michelin89:

I am not here to discuss men's position. All I am saying is that you are being very unfair in judging women. If you think all women are power hunters then fine. Get yourself a housewife. No money no power. You can't be searching for a working class woman and yet expect her to step aside while you pay all the bills. Don't you know women also have feelings? Do you think they like seeing their hard earned cash rejected just because they are women? Try and get in our shoes for once. It's not about gaining power but being useful. There is pride in being able to pay the bills and take care of the house. What the hell would I be doing in a house that has nothing acquired with my money? When a woman decides to marry, is she moving into another father's house or starting a life with her companion? Give her the chance to play her part if she can. Get her to do it if it's necessary. She has to know that whatever she gets must be earned. Na so e be!

Seems u haven't been following this topic from start. . . . .
I already said i would rather court a village girl than put up with an unfriendly feminist. . . Let feminists play with their dogs and cats + dildos.

Of course, women will rather invest in their jewelries n bags than buy PS3 console for the kids.
How many women care whether they buy stuffs for the house these days? Are women ever satisfied with their wardrobe??
What u printed above is purely theoretical. . . . . .Lets put it into practical and see how many women would pass!!!

~Pandora~:

Hmmmmmmmm . . . . . .Is this Nubian-Queen??

~Pandora~:

You r wrong there, true feminists are not sexists

feminists fight for womens rights and don't bash men. . . . .  

there are many woman today who go around being unnecessarily aggressive in the name of femism, those women may use feminism as a means of venting their frustrations.

Valid point!!!
The only problem here is how do we distinguish the fake femininsts from the ones with constant bouts of frustrations??

@ Jackal
BTW I'm your mama

Reveal yourself. . . . .Have we met b4?

michelin89:

Throwing back is not peculiar to women alone. Men also take advantage of their positions as providers. If a woman really loves you she'll know better than to hurt your ego. Why would I want to hurt my love just to prove I am in charge? if at the end of the day what's mine is yours and what is yours is mine, why do we have to argue over who makes more? Besides everything is for everyone!

Feminists don't care about hurting a man's ego.
Men take advantage of their positions? What positions?
Are u saying men boast about taking care of their wife and kids. . . . If he doesn't do it, who will do it for him??
Only a deranged goat would do such. . . . . .

RedHotChic:

For the umpteenth time, talk is cheap!!!!

U need HELP!!!

michelin89:

Jackal why so much bitterness against women? Remember na woman born you o which means they aren't so weak afterall. I know some take advantage of that weaker sex crap, but believe me it's just a way to eat their cake and have it. There is nothing wrong in being helped by your wife. Afterall she is your spouse, your best friend. What are friends for?

Bitterness against WOMEN??  I love GIRLS, GIRLS, GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!

Of course, there's nothing wrong with being helped by a wife but WOMEN have a way of throwing those things back at ya.
To eliminate such unforseen contingencies. . . .It's better one avoids such.
Whatever she wants to do. . . .Let her do it out of her own FREE WILL.

@ Pandora,

~Pandora~:

Jackal Honey. . . come talk to mama

I sense some unresolved issues and it worries me. . .

Mama? Who is Mama??

RedHotChic:

Talk is cheap!!!

I am not like the LOSERS u have once dated!

genius33:

WOW I'm impressed!

But I find it hard to believe you would be perfectly ok working your ass of to pay bllls and take care of an entire household while she's blowing her money on useless clothes and what not. Even she prefered doing her part you wouldn't let her? ^{Is it that whole male pride thing? Be honest}

U know what?? If i am expecting anything from any woman in marriage, i should be married by now.
The only thing keeping me single now is because have to stash enough in ma savings to take care of any contingencies.
If ma woman wants to floss. . . . Let her floss but i will not stoop to the level of asking ma wifey $$$ unless she is doing it out of her FREE WILL.
I was raised to be INDEPENDENT.

stillwater:


Praise the Lord!

Everything changed since u told me u are no FEMINIST.

sistawoman:

It is not like i can share it with my girlfriends because you never tell them about what you and your husband do in the bedroom or how good it is.  and it is not like any of yall going to hunt me down and find my husband.  So this provides the anonymity that i seek.

Then u should go straight to the point and ask what "You are so sweet" means?
Why tell us about how the sex was good, how he held me n reh reh reh. . . . . .
It's too much information!!!

stillwater:

I have a good head on my neck, Ok.

I agree.

stillwater:

Prevented what? An issue I already had under my thumb? Please I don't need any superman copy cat in my life.
P.S
Black girls don't blush

Prevented what? Who knows!!!
Teenage pregnancy, unprotected sex, STI/STD and what not??
A lot of women caught in the plague also felt they had the situation under the control. . . . Ya brother should be given a HERO's medal.

Black girls don't blush??  You are a white woman, no??

genius33:

Wouldn't you expect the wife to help out with the bills if she earns so much?

Never!!!!

I don't expect anything from any woman. . . .Let her spend her money in Selfridges and Harrods.

tkb417:

and the only thing uve got to tell the public is the sex with your hussy

At this rate, women would be coming here to tell us how they water their flowers, apply facials and make their coffee.

stillwater:

Oops that ought to be wasn't.

Lmao. I never mentioned I was grinning . Being wary of men does not mean I shouldn't have conversations with them.

Stilly, i don't expect u to admit u were grinning from ear to ear.
Your brother(younger) saw there was an imminent danger. . . He coulda seen u blushing or sensed butterflies were beginning to buzz in ur tummy.
The dude acted in good faith and prevented a potential disaster.
He is a HERO.

genius33:

Back in the day it didn't matter to women that they were housewives because they believed that's all a women could be. But now so many women are acheiving great things they've seen that there is more to life than domestic chores and child rearing. When women become as educated as their male counterparts they feel empowered and sometimes there is a clash of egos. When a wife earns more than her husband how does that make the husband feel?

A woman earning more than her husband shouldn't be a problem as long as what the husband earns is enough to foot the bills.
When a man is confident, he cannot be intimidated by his wife. The problem lies with the woman who begins to feel pompous overnight because she is earning 6 figures.

sistawoman:

We could not have asked for better weather on Friday and the ceremony was great. We had a great time at his friends house and I had Pepper Soup for the first time. I found a recipe on the internet and am going to give it a try tonight, but as back up i will be making his favorite black eyed peas and rice.

i have a question?

We waited until we were married to have sex and during sex he said to me you are so sweet what does that mean? Is this a good thing I hope? He repeated this over and over again as we had sex all weekend long.

I have a very high sex drive and have been known to wear my men out how will i know if i am asking for sex too much. Will he be direct with me or will he gist in a way that i should know i am asking for it too much.

Every moment away from him feels like forever. I love him and miss him and need him near me. Friday night was the best we made love and he held me in his arms all night long. The first time we slept together was perfect I am so glad we waited.

Is it really healthy to be airing your laundry in this manner?
If u are confused by anything, why not get a marriage counsellor or people who are experienced in dealing with the issue.
I just feel this is too much information. . . . . Will your husband be happy if he finds out about this??

@ Dayokanu,

You are talking out of your arse again.
Rooney did not feature in Euro 2008. . . . .Did Podolski also outshine Messi and Kaka??
In 2006 World cup, Rooney was recovering from his metatarsal injury he suffered against Chelsea.
The only game he started, he saw RED so how did Lucas outshine him??

stillwater:

Leave that to the parents.

Sorry I was brainwashed to think that way . Instead I had it already in me to be wary of men!!

Was or Wasn't?  

To be wary of men and u were caught standing with a man grinning from ear to ear??
Your brother should have gotten a catapult handy with the same 6 stones David picked on his way to fight Goliath.

No wonder no big club are after Lucas Podolski.
Imagine Podolski against Vidic or Terry or Captain Gallas??

I cannot believe Bundesliga's highest goal scorer failed to score @ Euro 2008 after 6 hrs 30 mins of football.