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Men are applying creativity in this there extortion craft lol.

Oraimo free pod pro is the best for me this time jor

Been ages though but I never seize to love my Oraimo free pod pro. The sound dey always off me

The star boy don dey old o lol. Happy birthday to him.

By the way get the best sounds from Oraimo freepod pro.

That's yeast infection. Why have you and your iyawo not gone to the hospital?

VictorGlory:
Like every other bright mind with positive energy and knacks for success. I stepped confidently into the new year 2022 with the right portion of optimism and motivation.


One would wonder if one Village Priest had prepared a prosperity charm for me; cause my energy was mind-blowing. I was so confident about winning in every facet of my life.


Although I sustained some gun wounds of failures that 2021 inflicted on me - lost Dad to the greedy fangs of death, got served breakfast by my girlfriend - because she wanted to serve God, got rejected by so many companies for internships, and had to separate myself from 90% of my family member and siblings cause most of them are friendly enemies, got depressed, betrayed, reject. etc. Yet I could still boldly say to myself that healing would find me in 2022 and greatness would comfort me.

Oops! Maybe a weird description is when you think this young boy has too many track records of misfortune and failures in his life. But I guess some of the best success stories are told with tons of tragic experiences in them. And I've left my life with the best scriptwriter to write the best out of me.


Fast forward to the new year, my jaw got broken by the heavy first of failure. I got into internet Marketing and my results were nothing to write about. I made some good cash though, but I couldn't hit my target.


Also, I wrote a promising book that I've been struggling to find a publisher who is willing to publish it for free and run a good publishing investment deal with me.


This time around, the thunderstorm of failure sent me running like a thief who is scared of jungle justice. I was broken beyond repair because those were my biggest plans for 2022 as regards financial stability and independence.

I was sent into a coma mentally and I knew I needed a break, to fix myself, move on and get back on my feet. That has always been how I respond to previous failures. Fortunately and pathetically, ASUU changed the game and their strike was like a blessing in disguise to me.


I would have loved to go to Lagos to spend the "never-ending ASUU holiday" but Lagos was longer home for me. Ever since I lost Dad and he was buried, I have seen no tangible reason why I should visit home again.

I couldn't stand seeing Dad's grave every day, I'll just collapse and die a coward's death. Also, I don't wanna stay with my stepmom. I've had enough of stepmom's stories growing up as a young boy. Trust me, it's a hell experience.


My mum's place could have been another good option, she lives in a 2 bedroom apartment on the mainland. But I don't think I can cope with an environment where electricity is foreign to them because most of my activities require stable electricity to power my phone and laptop especially, and that she can't supply.


Living in my half-brother's place in Lagos whom we share the same mother could have been another perfect option, I've lived with him a couple of times and I'm very productive each time I stay with him.

I get to complete every task on my to-do list that brings development in every area of my life each day, and eventually actualize both my long-term and short-term goals. Their electricity is stable couple with free Wi-fi. His place put me on my toes to work and do the needful.

But the issue is just that some part of me feels like I don't belong there. We don't get along as brothers, he's 10 years older than I am, and I dare not disrespect him but the kind of relationship we have is like that of a boss and an apprentice.


His wife and I are very cool friends, but he and I don't just get along like brothers should do. Maybe because we were not raised together (my both parents are polygamous). But I want a close friend, mentor, and confidant out of him. Not a never smiling, rigid brother and boss. I've tried talking to him severally but there are no positive changes from him.


My other half-siblings from my father's side are no-go areas. They are all friendly enemies who are jealous of every bit of my success, especially in my academics. Because they all blew up the opportunities to go to higher institutions. They have so much hatred for me because I'm the last child of the family and I used to be Dad's favourite.


So I decided to go live with my Dad's friend in Ogun state and that was when life drew its nightmares upon me. Dad's friend is a very good man, his family members are good people as well. They welcomed me like their child, I would rate them better than some of my family members.


Ogun state pose to be like paradise to me, there was stable electricity, inverter, and generator. That's 24/7 light, the environment was conducive and I was confident that I would heal fast and achieve a lot here.

I feel my productive energy coming back and I was enthused again. I drafted some core goals that I need to achieve their in Ogun state like taking a Data Analysis Course, Joining the Nigeria Institute of Public Relations (NIPR), Raising my school fees, going back fully to Internet Marketing, Completing My Final year research Project, Finding an investor and publisher for my book, etc.


A few weeks into my stay in Ogun state, I began to lose interest in almost everything, I became indifferent to achieving my goals, and I became extremely lazy - giving meaningless excuses and procrastinating till eternity.

I wasn't lazy with house chores, I did that perfectly. But when it comes to doing little things that will develop me and prepare a better future for me, I wasn't motivated to do any. I sat myself down severally and talked senses into my head but, it seems I wasn't gonna yield.

I knelt, begged myself, and cried a lot because I knew it was my life and I need to take responsibility for it. I told myself that even if I wasn't making money, I should engage in things that would develop me. Yet, I didn't change. It's two mouth now in Ogun state, and I've not been productive at all.


Now all I do is waste my precious time with the TV, playing games or on social media, eating like a foodie, sleeping like a bull, and chatting with some friends (distractions). This kind of lifestyle has become a daily routine for me.


This isn't me, this is not the way I used to be. I used to be a very intelligent, hardworking, serious, and dedicated goal-getter who used to be very serious with his life and is determined to fetch a bright future for himself. I've heard people talk about comfort zone but I never experienced one not until now.

Each day, my mind will always tell me that I'll bounce back to whom I used to be, but if school resumes without me achieving my goals here in Ogun state. l'll feel like a total failure. I know I need to act fast, cause time isn't waiting for me.


I am considering leaving Ogun state, to go and stay in my brother's place in Lagos, at least I can be confident of productivity there. but I don't want to leave a negative mindset in Dad's friend's mind about my sudden leaving. He might feel I don't like his place and I can't keep wasting my time here doing nothing.


Although I'm tempted to think this is a spiritual attack, I wanna go back to Lagos to see if I'd be productive there.


Please, good people of Nairaland, advise me on what to do. And please recommend tactics and strategy that can save me from this situation even if it means reading a life changing book.

I totally can relate with you. Like I empathize with you. I think you should speak with your Dad's friend. You know sometimes we need that push from an external factor, someone that will make us feel accountable. Do you think that will be a good idea to try?

Idrismusty97:
You don't know Lagos and where this VI is. He can't even get a decent apartment with 3 months of the salary (600k), maybe one room in the island for 700k that's turns to swimming pool during the raining season or he goes to the mainland and rent for at least 300-400k. Transmuting 3rd mainland bridge with terrible traffic everyday, wakeup 4am and get back home 10pm only to repeat the same thing the next day. Not to talk of food, he dare not buy food in VI, one plate may go for 2-5k. How much remain for the salary? When he could just have peace of mind in Ibadan, 1 month salary is enough for a decent accomodation with less cost of living.

you have a great point but they are still relative. First we don't know where Op stays yet, secondly, traffic on 3rd bridge in the morning are using moving not standstill else it's during rainy season. I'll advice op to not stay on the island, he should stay on the mainland and go to work from there.

Also ibadan now is gradually becoming like Lagos o. No go think say na Ibadan of before o lol

Baba come trade crypto with Yellow card make you sef get joy

Wow. This is so sad. But this guy is confident and I like it. Yellow card gas make me this money on crypto make me sef blow

Go and meet a dentist to help you out. If you have money, all those ones na smalls. Just start trading crypto on Yellow card and be happy

This is the way to go. Just the exact way to go with Yellow card wallet for crypto trading.

Omo what a time to witness something magical. If you use Yellow card crypto wallet then you're in luck

jackals:
I'm a beautiful woman in my 30s (33 precisely) with a good career and a budding startup in the make-up business. I'm also very humble and I'm one that appreciate the little things a man do. Recently, I got linked to a guy who just came back from the US and have the intention of settling down just like me. He's successful and very respectful the First time we met, and I was already looking forward to something meaningful with him.

Last week Sunday, he took me out. When I got back home, I noticed I've embarrassed myself too much by literally throwing myself at him. I withdrew and form busy by not responding to his texts and calls for two days. WhatsApp message read but not replied.

On Tuesday, I noticed he didn't message me for the whole day. But I became bothered. Up till now, he has not called me nor message me. I didn't want things to be like this, I just didn't want it to be like I'm desperate of his attention.

Is he that he has moved on or not really interested

just imagine this child. That's how I met one today at the brt park, we got talking while waiting for Ajah bus, spoke with her, even gave up my sit for her so she won't stay far behind. We got to Obalende and continued talking only for her to tell me she don't like talking in the bus, I said so I'm the one making you talk ba? She said yes. I said so sorry but can I know your name first before I quiet down? She said why do I wanna know her name?

That there made me turned off and surprised, isn't this lady that we were just vibing all through the journey? I locked up and never said a word till she came down at her bus stop and left.

See, men don't have time for rubbish these days, if you want something, be open to it and don't be ashamed to show it. Y'all are so silly and annoying.

I heard of this Yellow card too. Heard it's a great platform for crypto trading and they have good rates too

Hmmmm nawa o. Anyway sha na this Oraimo experience center dey my mind. Can't wait for it to launch so I can get my earpods and other Oraimo accessories with ease

The one for Advertising and marketing will offer you a great deal of career projection. Try it out.

If you are in Abuja, you should grab the chance to visit the experience center. It will be opening in 2days times

This isn't entirely true. There are areas where women may thrive more than men while there are areas where men thrive better.

Just like the way Oraimo thrive better than a lot of earpods, especially the Oraimo freepod pro

pablobellins:
I did

chai. Pele. You can buy it back if you like the device

Techmac00:
Yes. It uses Type C.

oh okay

Meister:
Which one is refurbished again ?

cloned device

This phone is nice. Just like TECNO CAMON 18 Series

This is very funny really

Dclique:
Just don't ever buy a Nokia phone. Their new X series and G series are crap.

do you use it?

Wizywiz:
Avoid xaiomi and all the Redmi rubbish...go for Samsung or iPhone and have peace of mind..don't let xaiomi fan boys confuse you

I don't even like that Xaiomi but that Samsung part is so expensive ooo

Sheamus007:
I use phone for crypto and many other things online... Though I'm not really a gamer
Someone recommend UK used of samsung note 10 plus or samsung s21 for me but I don't really know about the battery capacity...
I'm also thinking of redmi note 11 pro but I've been hearing negative reviews about this phone...I need your suggestions please on phone with that range dat I can buy

don't buy a used phone. Get a new phone abeg so you won't regret it. TECNO Camon 18 premier make sense to use.

Thonia69:
Airtel customer care are very useless. The last time I called to report an issue, I was told to wait for 8 hours. I was like on top wetin.... At the end of the day, I went to Airtel office... It didn't even take up to 30mins that I got my sim fixed and i bought a mifi there...

you can imagine? I think MTN is better

NobleEugene5:
If you considered purchasing Airtel broadband, run. Go for MTN or spectrabet or anything. Airtel is the worst. I purchased unlimited plan on my smartbox, my FUP was exhausted and I was entitled to 10gb data everyday till the end of my validity. I didn't get this data. The first day I had to call over 3 times for them to send it to me. They finally did and after that, I've not gotten it. I've called customer care multiple times and they keep asking me to wait. Airtel is very useless and I have wasted my money. Do not buy broadband from Airtel. heed my warning. Thieves. I will definitely be looking for another broadband provider

MTN is best really

Jazzman01:
Just like me, I was using an infinix device before and it was serving me well until I decided to try Xiaomi due to the way they have been hyping it. But right now I can't really see any difference between the two brands. Their major bragging rights before was that Xiaomi makes use of Snapdragon processors which are far more superior to the mediatek infinix and Tecno were using. But Xiaomi company have also embraced mediatek processors now and their stupid marketers and hypemen are silent.

hahahahahaha. The likes of Skywalker124 and SunshineHQ

pablobellins:
finally. A like mind. Am just so filled with regrets.. My infinix note 10 was doin well

did you sell the Infinix?

meshachdbuzz:
Explain better so you can recieve help..

But mind you. can't you just state your problem without involving other brands?..

Is as if they forced you to buy the phone

how can he state his problem without stating the brand he's having the problems with?