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culled from linda ikeji
From a female LIB reader
I got married on December 18th and I found
out just yesterday that my husband had sex
with another woman on December 20th. We
didn't go for our honeymoon until the 22nd
and I can't believe he was telling me he loved
me and laying with me when he cheated just
two days after our wedding. Just two days! He
couldn't even give me two months, two days.
How do I deal with this? I've moved out of our
room and now staying at a spare room. I
spoke to my mum about it and she said I
should forgive him. Is this what I am going to
face forever?

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Most ladies may not like this, but relationship is
all about applying wisdom, and not foolishness. If
your guy is always cheating on you,try putting all
these steps into practice then you see how far it
goes. Ladies any man who cheats on you does
not deserve you,let alone your tears.
1. Demanding to know about the other woman:-
For what reason do you want to know her? You
don’t need to know her because if he cheats on
you for her,he will cheat on her for some other
women. So why worry your brains? Young people
don dey get high blood pressure now ooooo!
2. Forcing him to choose between you and her:-
There is no competition here cos if he loves
you,he will never have cheated on you in the first
place. but i no blame you sha, u don too watch
all these useless love and romantic series
movies……
3. Scrolling through his phone:- These have
cause problem in most relationships. You don’t
need to search his phone now, asked yourself “
Will you be able to withstand what you will see?
You’ll definitely see unclad pictures of other
ladies and some annoying stuffs on your
boyfriends phone,thats certain….. tongue
4. Beating the other woman up:- Be mature in
this aspect. Love is worth fighting for BUT not
physical battle. You pray about it and if nothing
happens,please! move on with your life.abi na so
the guy dickson sweet reach or e wear gold?
cheesy cheesy
5. Threatening to leave just to scare him:- Leave
him already cheesy!!!! And stop giving false and
empty threats only!!!! Threatening him will not
help matters because if you have what it takes
to keep him and he can’t find it in the other
woman he will come back to you.
6. Insulting him:- You don’t need to insult him to
show how angry you are, doing that makes him
feel that you are afraid of losing him.all you have
to do is to behave calm and gentle, instead of
insulting him.
7. Committing Suicide:- Seriously, when you are
gone, you are gone! If you take your life because
of a man that doesn’t deserve you, you are such
a joke! abi, are you a learner? It is hell fire and
God will not be happy with you. No man is worth
dying for and it is only Christ who died for you
and . Abi are you the second jesus christ? Are
you going through a hard and tough heartbreak
right now, try and be strong. He left you because
he couldn’t handle it,and that you are too good
for him and in order to create space for the right
man to come in…
8. Embarking on a revenge mission just to give
themselves a false sense of justice:- Two
wrongs never make a right…. Just because he
cheated on you with your bestie doesn’t mean
that you should go out of your way to fucck the
living daylight out of his best friend too
embarassed ….. For your information, men aren’t
the ones who are called ‘hoes’ when they
become a public commodity…. Women are
undecided…. So don’t sacrifice your dignity on
the alter of blind vengeance… After all the Bible
says, ‘Vengeance is of the Lord’s’ grin
9. Crying and asking him what you have done to
deserve this:- Many girls do this when they are
so besotted with the dude, that they let their
common-sense fly out the window…. You don’t
have to do or not do anything for your guy to
cheat… Asking him why he cheated is like asking
him ‘why did the chicken cross the road?’
undecided …. If you think you can’t bear it,
simply dump his sorry asss and move on to
better things… grin
10. Complaining to your Pastor.:- This sounds
funny, but many girls actually go this far…
Fornication is already a sin on its own, now you
report to your pastor, who in turn brings in the
Holy Ghost to come and settle issues between
you fornicators. The thunder that would soon fire
both of you is doing press-up. angry
12. Stubbornly refusing to accept a sincere and
unreserved apology:- To err is human, to forgive
divine… If the dude is really showing remorse
and has clearly made up his mind not to go down
that path again, don’t be hard on him, else he
just might change his mind again, and tell you to
go to hell angry… Point is, if u want to dump him,
dump him fast. If you want to forgive him, please
forgive him with as little drama as possible.
undecided.

Ghanian actor just shared this great tips
-don’t marry for sex.
- Don’t marry because you are of age
- Don’t marry because you are getting old
- Don’t marry because you are lonely
- Don’t marry because you need someone to
support you financially
- Don’t marry because you mistakenly got
pregnant
- Don’t marry because you don’t want to lose the
person
- Don’t marry because of family pressures
- Don’t marry because you like the idea of
marriage and admire every wedding gown you
see
- Don’t marry because all your friends are getting
married.
He ended his post by saying, ‘But get married
because you are in love, get married cos he or
she is your best friend and when that love is no
more, he or she can still make u smile….. #
somedayiwillgetmarried’

some rich kids went holidaying on a yatch and decided to take this super real cool selfie which has sincw gone viral on the internet. is this really the coolest selfie ever? what you think guys?

babe: baby ever since you slept with me you don't call me, text me, flash me or even reply my texts return my calls, whats the problem dear?
boy: nothing o, just that have u ever seen a president still campaigning after winning elections.

I'm a young girl of 28 years. I'm married to a lovely husband that loves me so much but my problem is this. I married my hubby as a virgin but the first time we made love, he was expecting to see blood which he didn't and since then he has been accusing me of telling him lies about being a virgin.
I asked few of my friends and they told me that yes that blood is suppose to be a proof to that. I became more confused as I know deep down in me that am saying the truth. I confided in my mother and she told me the story of my life.
My mum said that when I was 4years old that our tenant called me into his room to come and take toys. The next thing she saw when I came out from the man's room was blood coming out from my vagina.
Immediately she called my father and they went to meet the man and lo and behold he had ran away. My problem now is should I explain to my hubby all this? Will he still love me? My readers please i need your honest advice.

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Omo in the u.s mostly whites wear shorts to church and just a top,
but in nigeria itz unacceptable no matter how fine unique the short is.

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Aii just saw this dark skinned chocolate girl i mean damm she was really beautiful and outter this world and for the first time in years i just wished i wasn't married already, omo i for don follow her sharply.
Share you experiences guys.

I mean have any had any of your parents flog you and your like gee are these guys really my parents?
Mine was when my mum told me kenny switch on that light for me, i switched it on and it blew omo before i know am she standa follow me panelbeat craze commot for my body, and i was like...?
Share your own experiences, memes in pictures would be cool to.

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Aii i understand the hands up, backing the police officer,don't look at me, face down, lie down flat on floor e.t.c buh i mean why still say legs apart? Whats the need?

aii i know its wrong to hit a woman but i dunno,men sometimes they just so disrespectful and annoying. I stay downstairs at a duplex in jos and i just watched this old respected decent man get his neatly sewn suit well,cut and polished like the queens diamond get soiled by his wife who threw pepper water on him from upstairs only for God knows why? I mean if he lets his anger get the better part of him far?

I mean why are ladies wicked to themselves? I once witnessed a girl in heels fall and to my surprise it was d guys that where helping her up while her fellow girls gossiped and ridiculed her,
thatz even small compared to a girl who begged my friend which was also her best friend(male) to sleep with another girl she hated and even offered him her curve4 with 7k in cash if he succeeds with evidence in pictures,
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Hmmm oya guys make us ma post our own languages and what they do really mean

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