is my wish dat dis time next year am a father.

I dont think dere anytin bad in crying for love.u can only hate love cos u aint experience it.

caesarsconcept:
if you still believe on that crap good luck bro. One question I always ask myself is WHEN I WAS BROKE WHO WAS THERE. NOBODY.

smile I think ur not matured.I was like u before wan my girl cause me pains.is it wen I train her to schl and she dump me or a girl av invested so much insulted my mum. I hated girls but I grow pass DAT.because life na stage. am married now to d most wonderful and beautiful girl in d world DAT make me feel loved evry second of my life. love is real love is beautiful love is life.

caesarsconcept:
There's nothing more disgusting than a man in love.
The truth is that no matter how real it looks like no woman I repeat no woman loves a man. People change when they meet new people. My guy focus on your future. Love no dey pay Bill's

I know girls are wicked wan it comes to love but dere are still good girls who will give u a true love.

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

guy I think she is cheating on u.a demon who will suck u dry and dump u.if u want to be happy seprate from her and find a new love.dats why I have issues wit girls.u will love dem but dey will never love u back but bring pains.if u get a girl who love u whether u have money or not marry her quickly

lereinter:


I don't know why people celebrate after finishing higher education in this Nigeria

It calls for sober reflection

shot ur mouth even white pple celebrate too.

Logobenz:
Where did I say it's everything?
But a good life filled with people pushes sadism away.
And you know with more money comes more friends of equal value and all,hence the good life.
Btw money is everything
Also,being marriage is now a yardstick for how comfortable a person is?are you crazy?Do you think everyone holds marriage with equal value?
Jesus christ!

hmmm am just laffing here.small boy when u take d next step to make u really a man den we talk.

Prognose:


Lol, I know coc0candy quite well. I understand your annoyance.

But in this issue she gave a balanced judgement.

hmm let see if its about a man

vizkiz:
I’ve got a large cooler to give away.

Location: Ikorodu

I’ll upload the picture later

longest time vizkiz how are u.

sinaj:
All these marriage palava sef.

Shey I no go become Reverend sister enter Coven abi convent.

dint say DAT beautiful girl.dear are guys out dere who are ready to love u truly with all thier heart. just be ready for love and it will come

Hisduchess:


This must be very heartbreaking to the yoruba's.please jiri ya nwayoo so that they wouldn't go and hug transformer . Am enjoying this thread eeeeeh.Oga Danjuma may God bless you for telling Dem afonjas the bitter truth

u want to end in a lagoon abi

Teespice:


Go back to your post and read it slowly, then come back and edit your comment.

am not editing any thing.I dont tink u know d girl u defend.if not u wont tink dis way

Prognose:


How did she attack the man? Read what she wrote again.

i dont nid to read anyting. it seem u dont know cococandy as u defend her hows shes popular in d room for hating men. if it was d man who act wicked she wont answer like DAT but will jump happily as a parrot to condem and talk evil against d man but see how shes afraid to do DAT against d wife. no need to talk rubbish as she did why not say d truth d woman is evil? she attack d man for having a maid.even wen d man said shes 16 years and a family member is 16 years too young.wat is age of marriage in naija aint it 16! in America were she is aint it 16. we have argue here before were she said she cant do house work for her family washing and all DAT DAT she has a maid.Is it hippocrasy DAT shes now condeming dis man for having a maid.is she blind to see d girl is a family member. can she see d wickedness of d woman who care for only her baby

zicoraads:
...

look at d barstard gosh. let dem cut his dick. is not good now.why rape a girl DAT is only working to survive.

Jalabase:

It's per bed space Alaye not room

read d blog oga dey said 2 in a room

but her boobs is okay like dat

chival:
MRS. PURPLE SPAGHETTI

if I tell u bad word u will hate urself

mimimile93:
U must be a cow to beliv dat a 21yr old naija gal is a virgin

may god purnish u animal

chigoizie7:
This is mean ooh.

Hostel at N300k per annum is too much

dont say DAT dear.it is very cheap cant u see is quality and beautiful. 2 pple in a rooms make it just 150k. with light water and security. go ask how some pples paid more in useless dirty hostel

Anambralstson:

On Monday next week Engr Emeka Okwuosa CEO Oilserv group will be dedicating this edifice to secondary school in his village Oraifite

is it inside d school or outside

mimimile93:
If you won't open legs for him, don't collect his gifts. If you have spent on her and she doesn't let you fvk, rape her. This nonsense frm gals must stop

is gyd to joke but not with Dis. dis is so bad.did u think dis is right? use ur brain or cover it with a cement if ur brain is leaking

victorian:
Ladies how to escape from a rapist house or room.

First, assuming you are the sales girl and Oga ushered you into his room. Then starts touching you, don't fight him, don't say ha!. Don't hit his hands away.
Let your Brain quickly start working. Smile at him and say Oga, u sef? And giggle then if he grabs u around the waist and say girl I'm hot for you since the day u came to my shop to work, I can't bear it anymore, please lemme have you.
Tap him on his shoulder and say calm down. Relax, I don't like to rush sex. I want you too but u need to calm down, so both of us can enjoy it.
Lemme remove my dress , and panty, then kiss him and withdraw and smile again. Cmon let's do this well. I will fucvk your brains out, I'm very good. Just take it easy.

The useless Oga will be so excited, he will ask are u sure u won't run?
U hit your chest and say run ke? Oga I'm in love with you! I want u too, lemme pull off. He will release his grip from you while he smiles in excitement waiting to be fuckved! Ode oshi!

Immediately he loosened his grip , step back abit, pretend u want to unzip your blouse or gown and with all your energy in your body, I say : Pick raise! Run! !! Like your life depends on it! Straight to the door! Open it and just keep running, don't stop!


Then assuming the door is locked and he kept the keys in his pocket. Run straight to the bathroom! And lock the door! Don't ever Open the door. Then climb the toilet seat, Open the small window and scream with all your voice that Oga Ken wants to kill you o! People should come o! He is about killing you! People should come o! Please help me o! He's holding a knife at the door, help o!

My dear people will rush and come to your aid. Break his doors and rescue you.


Let your brains starting working from henceforth, don't trust men easily! I repeat don't trust easily especially if u are alone with them. Guard yourself! Use your brain , legs and eyes for quick movement.

I nearly cried reading d story I now see why some women attack men.why rape a girl if not wickedness. I feel sad for d girl

Logobenz:
I be want recommend vacation but I no sure say you get the money,so I'll be realistic.
Get your ass up,go find work and be valuable to yourself or simply by better cream,bleach well well,use your last card rent better selfcon for lekki(700k),use 300k furnish am tastefully so that you go fit dey task men 100k per nyu.
When better pepper don rest,move into a tastefully finished flat,buy one better red CLA 250 with spike rims and start dey go Dubai with your cohorts for shopping and yankee for vacay.
Then you come top am plastic surgery for that nyarsh weh you no get and enjoy life with you new found clique.
Since as you don dey mistake Lagos for yankee weh you want become sadist unto empty belle.
Lol funny you....oponu ode.

keep quite u tink money is evrything.u keep shouting about money wen who get money no dey talk.u get plenty money naim u Neva marry settle down.money is not evrything bro

Mindfulness:


Yeah, and when the initial spark and excitement dies off she will be back to this state and make the relationship unbearable.

I know wat am saying ask uyi if shes in a relationship or not or if shes been wit a guy dis year.u dont understand d feeling wen u love someone and dey love u back too.u feel on top of d world. ave been like her b4, but I notice wen I start relationship I feel happy again.is okay to be sad @nd feel pains but who will share ur pains wen ur single?. money cant buy happiness.
uyi ur a very beautiful girl.get a guy u love and who love u back too if ur mood wont change.

dangotesmummy:
you need to travel out of Lagos or Nigeria for let's say 3 years,then come back,then you will understand what I am saying.the stench from sewage is so nauseating.open defecation and urine booming everywhere is repulsive

I feel sad dear DAT we keep attacking ourself like dis. we are both matured.we are close before in d rooms I dont know why all our chat now is to insult each other.we both pass dis lets stop dis please

bukatyne:


Sorry, when I saw good in mathematics, what came to me was good in bed.

Goodluck in your search

Or you can go to your village this Christmas or ask you parents for recommendations

why do u think everybody vparent is in d village

cococandy:
I can’t understand living with someone and treating them like an outsider. You did well by including the girl in your Christmas family plans. Your wife could learn a thing or two from you.

But both of you need to employ an adult. I don’t feel confident that children can stand up for themselves when one in another person’s house. I’m usually scared for them. Human beings are not nice. I don’t know why parents feel okay sending their children to go live outside their homes.

I know u will still find a way to live d woman and attack d man.u Neva dissapoint

dangotesmummy:
Mr oloriburuku.youre still wailing?


Na me do you?

I said go away I no dey fok you.your preek be like tooth pick.oloko toothpick no be your type we dey talk.money you no get,sense, zero,prick,MBA so when they are calling men,you no suppose raise hand.you are not man enough.clear out of my mention you slowpoke

u no fit even wash my wife cloth I got a wife who is more Dan u can ever be.animal

dangotesmummy:
hmnnn.the bride needs to be 100 percent sure that that friend is not offended or took offense with that statement because na where enemity and unhealthy rivalry they start from be this o

After the wedding it's safe for her to go check on her friend and explain it because na laugh her friend laugh.you Don't know whether it's a friendly laughter or she's hiding behind a friendly laughter with evil intents.people are more dangerous than this and moreso it's not usually an open enemy that kills but an enemy pretending to be a friend and has stopped being your friend long ago without you noticing or realising it

Eyan ma'nwa ore kun ore, eyan okin wa ota kun ota nio

I want to mentioned u but I see u crying all over here is like d word got to u and u dont have a boyfriend.sorry o.next year is ur year

UyaiIncomparabl:
I am never happy. For every reason I have/find, I'm just always happy and content with my sadness. I always find a reason to be downcast and burdened. I'm very skeptical about everything/everyone around me. I carry scars of everything I have seen and see; pain, sadness, disaster, sickness, death etc. I wear on the gloom and doom of a hundred persons. I can't even say if I'm a sadist.

I constantly seek the meaning of life, the reason of my existence, and as soon as I can't find the meaning, I pass aggression or get mad at myself. I don't have trouble building relationships with others, but I don't strive to build them anyway. I don't like people. I have a huge difficulty fitting into the norms of the society. Could it be that I'm not in the right society for me to be appreciated?

I strive to make friends but I cut them off before they even come close. I'm a realist but people misunderstand it as pessimism.

I'm a very good, ambitious, nice, lovable, generous and approachable person, but people scare me. There's no real love in the world. I have a fairly good life to be thankful for. I have good people around me too, thankfully, but I'm still not happy.

I have a stable job. A fairly good business by the side. I have a good shelter above my head, in school and enough food to eat, in fact, I have totally everything to make the average young adult happy. On here, people might mistake me to be an outgoing and bubbly personality, but in real life, I'm not that. I only come here to have fun, and out of here, feel miserable.

I'm not even passionate about what I even do. I have a job but I don't enjoy it. I just love to be by myself and still get angry for being by myself. In turn, I'm called non-challant.

I'm very passionate about the arts, fashion, poetry, academics, but I lack the right motivation to forge with these things. I usually am very immersed in my emotions to do anything reasonable. In totality, I'm just a sad person.


Is there a help to combat recurrent melancholic symptoms? Do other people feel this way? Am I okay?

u need a relationship. u need sex.u need true love. most pple who enjoy dis are always happy in life